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Want to QUIT PORN?
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Thanks Jesus.
I haven't gone to a porn site it a couple months now, but sometimes I still go to /gif/ to get a quick "fix" if I'm bored, horny, & lazy. I've got a gf who I've been with for years now & get regular release through her, but sometimes it's not enough & I must fap. And sometimes out of those times, I feel like I need to watch porn to "help" it along.
...I've gone as long as 6 days with no release at all, & I don't like it; it doesn't feel good, I get no benefit from it, I get cranky, & I consider fucking around on her, which I really don't want to do, but FUCK do I need to nut.
Not all sexual desire is lust. God made sexual desire. It has its good place and it can, in fact, become an act of worship in the temple of marriage. But lust is sexual desire gone wrong. Here’s my definition:
Lust is a sexual desire that dishonors its object and disregards God. Disregards the promises and the warnings of having or losing the beauties of Christ.
The lusted-after woman or man in your head, or on the screen, or on the street, is dishonored — not treated as a sacred, precious, eternal person made in the image of God, whose eternal destiny is always paramount, and whose holiness we either long for or ignore. And the only way this dishonor can be so daringly carried out is by disregarding God while we are in the sway of our lust — disregarding the promises and warnings of having or losing the beauties of Christ. So lust is a sexual desire that dishonors its object and disregards God. Ponder with me for a few minutes the natural and the spiritual role of self-control in relation to lust.
that's funny, i didn't need an abrahamic enslavement ideology, i just stopped
Help
dios mio...
Perhaps this will change your minds.
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I'm pretty sure porn and p much all degeneracy is a consequence of capitalism. Capitalism presupposes capital is a good thing. It isn't. Everything we've made we've made to make ourselves more efficient at sinning. The inbred amish have it right.
Unfortunately any good messaging that christianity might have is completely undermined by its belief that the world is 6000 years old and their homoerotic attachment to a hebraic wizard. I don't know what white people are going to do about our religion problem. Just look at south korea - they got christianized after the korean war, and the first thing they did after that was start letting in the jews and copying jewish behavior.
i dont need help I quit already, i wish you luck tho
Where in the OP does it say this thread is for butthurt atheists to whine about religion, you unthinking swine.
BE KILLING SIN OR SIN WILL BE KILLING YOU!
First, do not treat this because "muh religion told me not to" that is bullshit and will lead to failure.
Deep down, if you are intelligent, there will always be some part of you doubting it, making it totally useless.
TO DEFEAT PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION
You need to approach this rationally.
What does pornography give you? Temporary pleasure and that's it....
And at what cost?
A great deal. You trade the 23 other hours in a day for negative side effects.
With pornography, masturbation or any other sex act, you will lose vital nutrients, alter hormones and neuro-chemicals, and damn your brain into a state of "muh dick" where the subconscious is polluted with sexual thoughts.
You will lose ALL motivation for 16 hours after any sexual activity because of the ANTI-DOPAMINE compound, "prolactin" which remains elevated after orgasm. Your greater ambitions will die.
You need to treat this MORE seriously than you would a HARDCORE heroin addiction. The desire to take heroin comes from the regions of the brain implicating premeditation and planning.
HOWEVER, the desire to procreate comes from primitive region of brain. You are reinforcing a literal instinctual drive. You don't have much control over an instinct! This is why people cannot quit, because they are stuck. I have used opiates and sexual act is more psychologically addictive. This should scare anyone.
Because of this, you need to avoid all pornographic pictures. AVOID ALL SEXUAL STIMULI. Do not even think sexual thoughts!
Here is some motivation.
PRINT THIS PICTURE OUT. Frame it. Put it on your wall.
Do you want to lead a productive life where you have real interest and more importantly the ability to focus and get things done without being distracted by frequent frivolous sexual urges OR do you want to be a slave to your sex drive?
"NO MAN IS FREE WHO CANNOT CONTROL HIMSELF" —Pythagoras
Incoming redpills for showing the benefits of semen conservation.
The bottom part is most pertinent.
Now please quote me their views on lobotomies!
Wanna not go to Hell antichrist?
>look over left shoulder
>post picture of your father where eyes fall
Guaranteed results
I'm fine thx.
>post boy in training bra
>fine thanks
what
>le current year argument
It may surprise you to know that all evidence to the contrary, stating that masturbation is harmless or even good for you, has yet to be backed up by any hard modern science.
Arguments stating this all boil down to Freudian reasoning which is not rooted in medicine or science.
They dismiss old claims and evidence on the matter with "that's from the dark ages", like you have done. You failed to address any of the claims.
In fact, modern hard science experiments have vindicated the old research on the matter--------the discovery of this prolactin mentioned ago, the understanding that orgasm causes a neurochemical reaction in the brain, the fact that sexual arousal decreases frontal cortex activity.
They didn't know this stuff back then but we do now and it serves as a real mechanism basis vindicating, rather than not disproving, their claims.
What am I supposed to do if I have a massive sex drive and I'm repulsive looking? Never did anything with a girl.
important note
It's like trying to extinguish a fire with gasoline.
The more you think about sexual thoughts, and the more you indulge in pornography, masturbation, and sex————the stronger the urge to do these things will become. Reinforcement 101.
The solution to a massive and distracting sex drive, is abstinence and deliberately avoiding sexual material and thoughts and actions for weeks.
I mean I've tried and I'll keep trying but I see good looking women every day, sometimes they were stocking and mini skirts. Longest I lasted was about a week and my performance in just about anything plummeted drastically from not being able to concentrate. Maybe if I last long enough I'll lose the urge.
You Can Say No to Porn
A Pleasure Greater Than Lust
Not all sexual desire is lust. God made sexual desire. It has its good place and it can, in fact, become an act of worship in the temple of marriage. But lust is sexual desire gone wrong. Here’s my definition:
Lust is a sexual desire that dishonors its object and disregards God. Disregards the promises and the warnings of having or losing the beauties of Christ.
The lusted-after woman or man in your head, or on the screen, or on the street, is dishonored — not treated as a sacred, precious, eternal person made in the image of God, whose eternal destiny is always paramount, and whose holiness we either long for or ignore. And the only way this dishonor can be so daringly carried out is by disregarding God while we are in the sway of our lust — disregarding the promises and warnings of having or losing the beauties of Christ. So lust is a sexual desire that dishonors its object and disregards God. Ponder with me for a few minutes the natural and the spiritual role of self-control in relation to lust. . .
Faith in Christ Conquers ‘Addiction’
Addiction is a relative term. I would stake my life on the assumption that no one in this room is absolutely addicted to pornography or any sexual sin. What I mean is this: If the stakes are high enough and sure enough, you will have all the self-control you need to resist any sexual temptation.
For example, if tonight you are feeling totally in the sway of sexual desire — more blazing, more powerful than you have ever felt it in your life — and you believe that you cannot resist the temptation to look at some nudity online, and suddenly a black-hooded ISIS member drags your best friend or your spouse into the room with a knife at his or her throat, and says, “If you look at that website, I will slit their throat,” you will have the self-control you thought you didn’t have. You won’t click.
Or if a man walks into the room and says, “If you do not look at that nudity, I will give you one million dollars cash, tax-free, tonight,” you will suddenly have the self-control you thought you did not have.
Addiction is a relative term. The fact is, 99% of those who give way to lust in pornography or fornication or adultery, are not decisively controlled by sexual desire. They are decisively controlled by what they believe — what they believe will happen if they act on their lust or don’t.
The Spirit of God Controls Us
The decisive issue is whether they believe the stakes are high enough and sure enough. If we are sure a friend will die a gruesome death, we will have self-control. If we are sure we’ll get the $1,000,000, we will have self-control.
Now there is nothing distinctly Christian about that analysis of motivation. That is simply the way human beings are wired. Self-control was a Stoic virtue before it was Christian, and there is nothing distinctly Christian about it.
And yet Paul lists self-control (engkrateia) as a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:23). So for those who believe the gospel of Christ, and are justified by faith alone (Romans 3:28), the Holy Spirit becomes the decisive cause of “self-control.” That’s what I take “fruit” to mean in Galatians 5. The Spirit produces self-control in the believer. The action of the self is vital and essential, but not decisive. The Spirit is decisive.
Work out your salvation for God is at work in you, Paul says in Philippians 2:12–13. That means “Control your lusts because the Spirit is controlling them through you.” Exert self-control, because the Spirit is working it in you. The blood of Christ, the blood of the new covenant, secures for us the working of the Holy Spirit. And when he works, we act. His working appears in our acting. He creates the miracle of self-control, and we act the miracle of self-control.
But the Holy Spirit doesn’t produce the same self-control that the Stoics had. The Stoics did not depend on Christ, or live for Christ. But the Holy Spirit is in the believer because of the death of Christ, and for the glory of Christ (John 14:16). The blood of Christ was his price. And the beauty of Christ is his mission.
The Beauty of Christ Is Better
Therefore, the way the Spirit produces self-control in the believer is by revealing the beauties of Christ to our souls as supremely beautiful and supremely satisfying. He removes the hardness of heart and the blindness of our souls, so that we see and savor the beauties of Christ for what they really are.
And what he shows us through the word of Christ is that the all-satisfying beauties of Christ can be lost forever, if in the bondage of lust we prove to be a hypocrite and really love sex more than we love Christ. And he shows us that the day is coming, and now is here in measure, when we will enjoy Christ with a fullness of joy that outweighs every possible pleasure of lust.
Which brings us back now to the ISIS member ready to slit the throat of our best friend, and the man with a million dollars. The Holy Spirit shows us that the stakes are much higher than either of those situations when we face the temptations of lust. These beauties of Christ that the Holy Spirit reveals can be lost forever, or they can satisfy your soul forever.
He opens our ears to hear Jesus say, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell” (Matthew 5:29) — the final and ultimate ISIS attack. And he opens our ears to hear Jesus say, “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God” (Matthew 5:8) — a reward infinitely superior to a mere million dollars.
Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit. He creates the miracle. We act the miracle. He creates it by opening our eyes to see the beauties of Christ — that they can be lost forever in bondage to lust, or enjoyed forever by the pure in heart.
“Lust disregards the promises and warnings of having or losing the beauties of Christ.”
John Piper contributed a chapter on lust to the new book from Desiring God, Killjoys: The Seven Deadly Sins. All electronic versions of the book are free of charge at desiringGod.org. Print copies are available through Amazon.
Killjoys was written to lead you deeper in love with our God and further into war against your sin. Pride, envy, anger, sloth, greed, gluttony, and lust are woefully inadequate substitutes for the wonder, beauty, and affection of God.
>being a christcuck in 2018
kek
there are legitimate, scientific reasons to not watch porn. if you have to not watch porn because the fairytale in the sky told you not to, then you lack self-control.
ANTHEM: Strategies for Fighting Lust
These are six tested and proven strategies for fighting lust. I have in mind men and women. For men it’s obvious. The need for warfare against the bombardment of visual temptation to fixate on sexual images is urgent. For women it is less obvious, but just as great if we broaden the scope of temptation to food or figure or relational fantasies. When I say “lust” I mean the realm of thought, imagination, and desire that leads to sexual misconduct. So here is one set of strategies in the war against wrong desires. I put it in the form of an acronym, A N T H E M.
A – Avoid as much as is possible and reasonable the sights and situations that arouse unfitting desire.
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I say “possible and reasonable” because some exposure to temptation is inevitable. And I say “unfitting desire” because not all desires for sex, food, and family are bad. We know when they are unfitting and unhelpful and on their way to becoming enslaving. We know our weaknesses and what triggers them. “Avoiding” is a biblical strategy. “Flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness” (2 Timothy 2:22). “Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires” (Romans 13:14).
N – Say “No” to every lustful thought within five seconds.
And say it with the authority of Jesus Christ. “In the name of Jesus, NO!” You don’t have much more than five seconds. Give it more unopposed time than that, and it will lodge itself with such force as to be almost immovable. Say it out loud if you dare. Be tough and warlike. As John Owen said, “Be killing sin or it will be killing you.” Strike fast and strike hard. “Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” (James 4:7).
T – Turn the mind forcefully toward Christ as a superior satisfaction.
Saying “no” will not suffice. You must move from defense to offense. Fight fire with fire. Attack the promises of sin with the promises of Christ. The Bible calls lusts “deceitful desires” (Ephesians 4:22). They lie. They promise more than they can deliver. The Bible calls them “passions of your former ignorance” (1 Peter 1:14). Only fools yield. “All at once he follows her, as an ox goes to the slaughter” (Proverbs 7:22). Deceit is defeated by truth. Ignorance is defeated by knowledge. It must be glorious truth and beautiful knowledge. This is why I wrote Seeing and Savoring Jesus Christ. We must stock our minds with the superior promises and pleasures of Jesus. Then we must turn to them immediately after saying, “NO!”
H – Hold the promise and the pleasure of Christ firmly in your mind until it pushes the other images out.
Fix your eyes on Jesus (see Hebrews 12:2). Here is where many fail. They give in too soon. They say, “I tried to push it out, and it didn’t work.” I ask, “How long did you try? How hard did you exert your mind?” The mind is a muscle. You can flex it with vehemence. Take the kingdom violently (Matthew 11:12). Be brutal. Hold the promise of Christ before your eyes. Hold it. Hold it! Don’t let it go! Keep holding it! How long? As long as it takes. Fight! For Christ’s sake, fight till you win! If an electric garage door were about to crush your child, you would hold it up with all your might and holler for help, and hold it and hold it and hold it and hold it.
E – Enjoy a superior satisfaction.
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Cultivate the capacities for pleasure in Christ. One reason lust reigns in so many is that Christ has so little appeal. We default to deceit because we have little delight in Christ. Don’t say, “That’s just not me.” What steps have you taken to waken affection for Jesus? Have you fought for joy? Don’t be fatalistic. You were created to treasure Christ with all your heart — more than you treasure sex or sugar. If you have little taste for Jesus, competing pleasures will triumph. Plead with God for the satisfaction you don’t have: “Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love, that we may rejoice and be glad all our days” (Psalm 90:14). Then look, look, and look at the most magnificent Person in the universe until you see him the way he is.
M – Move into a useful activity away from idleness and other vulnerable behaviors.
Lust grows fast in the garden of leisure. Find a good work to do, and do it with all your might. “Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord” (Romans 12:11). “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord” (1 Corinthians 15:58). Abound in work. Get up and do something. Sweep a room. Hammer a nail. Write a letter. Fix a faucet. And do it for Jesus’s sake. You were made to manage and create. Christ died to make you “zealous for good works” (Titus 2:14). Displace deceitful lusts with a passion for good deeds.
>I see good looking women every day, sometimes they were stocking and mini skirts.
Avert your glaze, and look away from them or look them in the eyes.
You are classically conditioned to be aroused at the sight of a woman. The more you look at porn, the worse it will get.
>sometimes they were stocking and mini skirts.
Do not look at them or think sexually at all, the moment you think arousal might even potentially happen, do something else.
>Longest I lasted was about a week and my performance in just about anything plummeted drastically from not being able to concentrate
This is because you allowed yourself to become horny, by allowing your thoughts to drift to sex and arousal occurred, and you were fighting the state of arousal, which does not work. Go back to the first picture I posted.
If you still cannot control it, you need to seclude yourself. Go live in the wilderness for a few weeks, bring a few books. This will help immensely.
>Maybe if I last long enough I'll lose the urge.
You need to start out whenever you are not fighting an urge. If you wake up one morning and do not feel like doing it, that is the day you start and from there, you need to make a solid resolve to go at least 5 weeks, which is when tangible repair starts happening to the habit center of the brain.
>reformed
Shit tier theology.
Sounds like you lack discipline.
>Your mom has Shit tier theology.
Isnt the United Kingdom is an Islamic nation now?
Or if a man walks into the room and says, “If you do not look at that nudity, I will give you one million dollars cash, tax-free, tonight,” you will suddenly have the self-control you thought you did not have.
Addiction is a relative term. The fact is, 99% of those who give way to lust in pornography or fornication or adultery, are not decisively controlled by sexual desire. They are decisively controlled by what they believe — what they believe will happen if they act on their lust or don’t.
>UK: 87% white
>US: 63% white
Bump, not for OP, who has the wrong approach (muh religion) but for other posts and material here, which shows there are real tangible beneficial reasons in the here and now for abstaining.
Not talking color
British Muslims
Regions with significant populations
London, West Midlands, North West England
Languages
English, Urdu, Sylheti, Bengali, Arabic, Punjabi, Somali, Turkish, Persian, Kurdish, Gujarati, Pashto[1]
Religion
Majority Sunni, minority Shi'a and Ahmadiyyah
Islam is the second largest religion in the United Kingdom, with results from the United Kingdom Census 2011 giving the UK Muslim population in 2011 as 2,786,635, 4.4% of the total population.[2] The vast majority of Muslims in the United Kingdom live in England: 2,660,116 (5.02% of the population). 76,737 Muslims live in Scotland (1.45%), 45,950 in Wales (1.50%), and 3,832 in Northern Ireland (0.21%). London has the greatest population of Muslims in the country.[3][4][5]
In 2011 it was reported that the United Kingdom could have as many as 100,000 converts to Islam,[6] of which 66% were women. Islam is the fastest growing religious confession in the UK and its adherents have the lowest average age out of all the major religious groups.[7] Between 2001 and 2009 the Muslim population increased almost 10 times faster than the non-Muslim population.[8] The majority of Muslims in United Kingdom belong to the Sunni denomination,[9] while smaller numbers are Shia and Ahmadi. In terms of national heritage, the largest groups of British Muslims are Pakistanis and Bangladeshis.[10][11] Smaller groups are Indians, Arabs, Kurds, Turks and Africans.
Islam is the third largest religion in the United States after Christianity and Judaism.[1] According to a 2010 study, it is followed by 0.9% of the population, compared with 70.6% who follow Christianity, 22.8% unaffiliated, 1.9% Judaism, 0.7% Buddhism, and 0.7% Hinduism.[1][2] According to a newer estimate done in 2016, there were 3.3 million Muslims living in the United States, about 1% of the total U.S. population.[3]
American Muslims come from various backgrounds and, according to a 2009 Gallup poll, are one of the most racially diverse religious groups in the United States.[4] Native-born American Muslims are mainly African Americans who make up about a quarter of the total Muslim population. Many of these have converted to Islam during the last seventy years. Conversion to Islam in large urban areas[5] has also contributed to its growth over the years as well as its influence on black culture and hip-hop music.
While an estimated 10 to 30 percent[6][7] of the slaves brought to colonial America from Africa arrived as Muslims,[8][9] Islam was stringently suppressed on plantations.[6] Prior to the late 19th century, most documented non-enslaved Muslims in North America were merchants, travelers, and sailors.[8]
Maybe get ready for:
Jizya or jizyah (Arabic: جزية ǧizya IPA: [dʒizja]; Ottoman Turkish: جزيه cizye) is a per capita yearly tax historically levied by Islamic states on certain non-Muslim subjects—dhimmis—permanently residing in Muslim lands under Islamic law.
How do I stop looking at porn if my gf keeps sending me nudes?
Britain forcing people to verify their age to use porn sites is the best hit to degeneracy in a long time.
You will never completely get rid of porn, prostitution, etc. so the best thing you can do is bring it back to a time when it was less perverted and degenerate than it is now.
The original porn magazines (Playboy, Penthouse, Modern Man) were created by non-jews and softcore and "tasteful". They were real magazines filled with high quality articles and writers.
The jews were the ones who created the more gross hardcore stuff. They brought it to video. Online porn videos is their crown jewel of degeneracy.
When Britain hits back at online porn, men will be forced to return to the days of buying magazines and softcore porn. It's easy to anonymously go online and search for "BBC cuckold rape beastiality part 6". But try facing a cashier in a store and buying such a magazine. Men will flock back to the days of vanilla softcore porn to maintain their dignity.
Ideally porn would be completely banned and we would all start going to church. But this is a step in the right direction.
Maybe make as much as is possible pay to view....
Post her nudes nao!!!
Jow Forums Knowledge Bomb. Porn
If you consider how much human sexual nature has influenced society, Porn gives a way to shape & manipulate it, while being a big business with connections to places such as Hollywood.
Porn uses a combination of Social Engineering/Psy-Op's(Promotion of certain Fetishes) & Subliminal messages(Voices, Messages,images,etc) to manipulate Men & Women.
Fetishes that are promoted & why they are:
1) Cuckold & Interracial(Demographic Replacement & devaluing of native males, while making the Men being turned on(rather then angry) by foreign men being with there tribes Women & making women turned on by foreign looking males)
2) Incest(This also heavily promotes Pedo stuff & promotes gene line destruction)
3) Trans,Gay & Anal (Messes with Attraction between Men & Women and there gender identity/role,while messing with reproduction)
4) Older Women.MILF/GILF,BBW (Promotes Male Attraction to less fertile & less healthy women(Since Feminism is making Women have kids later in life(and tend to be less fertile), Be single mothers & gets/promotes being fat)) & telling Women "You can still get fucked no matter what")
Porn is also loaded with Subliminal Messages(Voices,Messages, images, etc) & its designed in such a way that overtime the only way people can "get turned on" is if they look into more fucked up fetishes(Such as Bestiality, etc).
funny how jews like this piece of shit automatically become the golem and repeat the same shit over and over expecting it to be true.
what fucking retards
El goblino sure has some nice fake beanbags
What are you on about m8? You should realize your vocal butthut about a topic completely irrelevant to the thread is indicative that you're afraid of something.
I want to quit rap
Reformed theology is best theology
Unfortunately for you pal, they've pushed that shit back to 2019.
have you tried not being a nigger loving faggot?
no
Well said
I usually just say:
>Lust = Desire - Love
I love all races equally :)
I just find the tunes catchy.
It also helps that there is some innovation every now and then, while many "white" genres are stagnant. See: youtube.com
WHY IS NOONE TALKING ABOUT THE SEX CULT!!!!!
>hollywood/government sex cult
Exposed by catching second in command and recruit
>ALLISON MACK
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There's the QUICK RUNDOWN
also BONUS HAPPENING!!!!
>Broward county deputies being murdered
Numerous cops are dieing and being murdered in FL
>what do they know!?
One was definitely OURGUY , with his Facebook being purged but pixs mocking HOGG in nazi outfits
>what did he know in Clinton controlled JEWWARD county FL
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The elite worship satan
My sperm isn't white. It's usually clear with some color. does edging make sperm look different?
nofap reverses balding.
also porn is gay
>56%
What if I'm fapping to hentai ? What about the people who created that piece of work.