Earlier today, some user posted this thread but it died before I could read or write a response.
Have you ever dated anybody who was very much different from you, racially, ideologically or in terms of political views, etc.?
What is it like, is it healthy to pursue serious relationships/marriages with such people?
If not, just how different can one be from you and still able to form a healthy relationship with you?
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I dated a really hot spic and over the course of our relationship I slowly started becoming more and more traditionalist and white nationalist.
She was pretty much entirely normie and apolitical, she just kind of went with my beliefs as long as I kept them somewhat pent up (lol I'm obviously not going to come out and say that I thought she should have been deported which I started to think later on) and didn't sperg out completely.
Honestly it isn't worth it, you'll deal with some level of cultural incompatibility, especially in dealing with their parents, who will kind of view you as a subversive or outsider.
I'm only speaking racially though, I've never had a girlfriend who had strong ideological or political views.
I married a Chinese lady because white woman (where I’m from) are lost. I never got woke until after I was married for 10 years. But no regrets my children are great.
I used to date liberal women a lot in my 20's.
In college, I dated a Vermont farm girl from a wealthy family for a few years. She was the typical boujie Hillary-loving Democrat from the Northeast, who went to a small liberal arts college for a Theater degree, bragged about how many gay friends she had and would get into tense arguments over the pay gap. Funnily enough, she was majorly grossed out by minorities (because she never had to live with any being from such a small rural town) and would have such massive cognitive dissonance over shit like immigration and teaching ESL classes. She was a fucking nutcase and the sex wasn't even that good, but she was gorgeous arm candy and her family was really good to me. I think they knew I was doing them a service dating her. She ended up becoming an editor, married a Brit, and moved to Europe. Last I heard she just considers herself an "expat" and is "too cultured" to come back to America.
Another girl I dated in my mid-20's was the textbook Huffpost/Jezebel reader. She had giant knockers and was absolutely gorgeous on our first date. She was funny as fuck, talented, and really smart. We clashed on politics, but would just laugh it off because the sex was good and we both enjoyed each other's company an awful lot. We broke up because she started getting too into her head, though. I was in my career but she was just starting hers and still living at home. She struggled to "feel happy" and decided our relationship was a detriment to her future, and she dumped me. We met up once after that to catch up and still hit it off, but the spark wasn't there anymore. Now she's a minor actress in a nearby city and posts a lot about how lonely and sad she is in her 30's. I know she was a huge Hillary supporter/women's marcher/Nazi puncher last summer, but not sure what's happened since. I think she was just a lost soul, to be honest.
In my life I've only ever dated two girls outside of my own race. A pretty Mexican and a Korean. Both being totally pozzed minorities, so it would be pretty much impossible to redpill them. Even the Korean who was just neet garbage. I wouldn't even attempt this today because obviously race mixing is bad and shittt. I regret both relationships.
Two more.
Dated a cute dorky girl at 25 who morphed into a SJW after we dated. While we dated, she was what I thought would be my dream girl: cute, dorky, girl next door hipster who loved video games, anime, smoking weed and barhopping. She loved playing housewife and we talked about moving in together and letting me support her. We had a lot of fun together traveling, being foodies, going to parties, nights on the couch with movies... But at some point in the relationship, she started talking more about wanting to get "support from her sisters." This turned into her going to "girls night" and doing yoga the other 6 nights a week. She was kind of chubby when I met her, but lost a whopping 70lbs in our year together, getting a lot skinnier and hotter. Her whole attitude changed. Suddenly she started talking openly about her bisexuality, dying her hair bright blue, and getting upset when I did "man" things like fix her sink -- opting instead to yell at me for assuming she couldn't do it, then doing it herself (and terribly). She decided not to move in with me and instead moved in with a lesbian couple and a tranny. The new apartment was "man free" and she had to get permission for me to come visit. That was kind of it for me. She bragged about how open minded she was and how close minded I wasn't (even though I wasn't allowed in her apartment). Her roommates were complete assholes to me for no reason (other than me being a man). Our relationship splintered after that and I basically told her to fuck off. She was crying on my doorstep a day or two later, wanted to get back together and apologized for her changing so much. Had make up sex, and then told her off again. She ended up dating all sorts of strange characters after that before moving out west to Hollywood, living out of her van. She changed her name, got a lot of tattoos and piercings, and started using social media to post about the patriarchy, BLM, and all that other shit.
At 27 I met a good Irish Catholic girl who worked in my field. Honestly, she wasn't that attractive, but I was so down on myself at the time and we clicked on so many things I figured I'd give it a shot. She was modest and honestly a little controlling, but I didn't care because I didn't live with her. We dated for about a year and a half doing mundane relationship things. She was the typical liberal Catholic that you find in New England -- fiscally liberal, very supportive of civil rights, liked Bernie more than Hillary, and spent a lot of time trying to show you how open minded she was. I had to suffer through a lot of parties and dinners with her lesbian friends, her Middleeastern friends, her black friends... I was always told how "special" it was that I was the only straight white male at the bar/party/house that night. Many times. It was so obnoxious and on the nose that they didn't really want me there that I ended up telling one of her gay friends off at a party and was blacklisted for it. She had some cool friends, like this one black chick who was real af, but for the most part they were all very "holier than thou" liberals who came from money and just didn't feel comfortable with her bringing me around. Her family was weird around me too, because they were the opposite -- staunch Irish Catholic conservatives. They just did not like me dating their daughter at all because I didn't come from money. Eventually she went abroad for some work-related trip and dumped me on her return flight. I found out a year later she met a woman (!!) on her trip and came out of the closet. We haven't spoken since, but last I heard she got married to this woman and they now are working on getting the wife a visa to come to America.
How do you come across a Mexican in Australia?
Are you originally from America?
>Scarlet Jewhansen
I dated a chinese girl from Shanghai. She was totally to pols description. Her fsther died and she didnt even care. She was materialistic as fuck. Cheap. Selfish. Constantly nagging me and had one toe nail covered in foot fungus she did nothing about.
Also dated a negress. Same deal, pol was right. Lied about her profession to sound intelligent. Smacked her lips when she ate. Told me Martha's Vineyard belonged to Martha Stewart. When we were reminiscing about childhood stuff she told me how her and her family of brothers and sisters jumped and bloodied a girl. Her eyes were sparkling with glee telling it.
The reality is pol is always right, because it deals in averages, not exeptions.
Oh I left out, took shells home from the ocean. She made me leave them at the beach. Told me in total seriousness they would turn into people if I brought them home who would torment me. She was from some African country, not a home grown nig.
Anyways, after her, I went with pols advice and found a trad christian girl. She worships the ground I walk on. Its great. Will probably put some kids in her womb.
The only thing this bitch has going for her are her milkies. Everything else is garbage.
Did you ever hate yourself for being a jew nigger spic muz?
Yeah, I dated a kike, she broke my heart, and it brought me here for eternal pain and suffering.
I was strongly in love with a kike for a few years. Fucked a negress. Fucked a Greek. Fucked a spic. Stayed away from Asians and indians. Ended up falling in love with a Norwgian Cam girl. Basically I am a genital wart.
>. Fucked a Greek
Get out
No to all. The way things are here, I don't think it would be possible for me to go out with a leftist.
>is it healthy to pursue serious relationships/marriages with such people
Depends on what the differences are. Don't think for a second that a girl who's even just sympathetic to feminism can make a good partner, it's a sign of severe dysfunction and/or mental illness.
I have, and don't generally recommend it. It did teach me just how wicked the extreme left can be, so I guess that's something. She was crazy in the sack too, but it's still not worth it.
I can't believe mods just warned me for starting a thread about the new NEET Aristocracy and yet your dating bullshit is not 404ing.
Focus on the guy below. He is a more consequential thinker that whatever roastie you are dating ever will be.
> Women are for anything other than their appearance, having sex with, and children
My buddy lives in the DC area and married a South Korean woman because it really is his only fetish. He says it's great through gritted teeth. Going to their house, you can tell who really runs the show and has control of the finances. Even her parents moved into their house and there was nothing he could say about it. He has to ask permission to have friends over at 32 years old and she monitors everything he eats, drinks, smokes, or spends. He also has to support her entirely. She owns a "business" but really he just loans her money to keep it afloat every couple of months.
I can't imagine what life with an Asian woman would be like.
Dated a hippie chick once. She would fuck my dick to the moon, but man she was bat shit crazy and I couldn't take it any longer.
She stalked my ass for a bit after we were done too. Crazy shit. Pussy was A+ tho.
everyone on pol has seen that video at least 20 times dipshit
Wew lad.
The only ideology women pursue is post-modern leftist bullshit, they don't care about economy, preservation of the culture, geopolitic, national defense or anything relevant;
They only cares about minorities and abortion, they vote with their emotion and not with their reason.
So there's pretty much 3 types of woman:
1. apolitical (the best one to have a relationship with it)
2. leftist
3. those who support right-wing policies only for the attention of the goys, doesn't really believes on it or can change to leftist in a blink (a extremely small part of them actually are based, but you're probably won't find them)
That shit brought me almost to tears bro. Not as bad as DWS's kankles, but pretty fucking close. Roasties, man.
1.Yes, racially and all the above.
2. Yes, people do change and make compromises.
3. Subjective answer, everyone and every moment for every person has infinite possibilities. Can work, can fail.
I married an Catholic Amerindian from southern Chile. I'm a 'good ol'boy' from Northwestern Washington. We have two kids and live in an off grid cabin in the middle of nowhere.
People change. Shit can go any direction.
>no regrets
If you didn't have any, you wouldn't have to say it
Good ole' Boys are from the South. You're just an "almost Maple Syrup Nigger."
THIS
I am black my girlfriend is white.
We are both racist.
I am liberal she is conservative.
I have 5 kids with 4 different women, she has none.
She has no hobbies, I play basketball down at the park.
We making it work.
I stand absolutely corrected.
Holy shit the degeneracy in this thread
I was strongly in love with a beautiful Jewish girl in high school. Red hair, giant tits, smart as a whip, and just every fucking meme about the forbidden Jewish girls that drive men wild you see here on Jow Forums. Seriously.
We hung out a lot in high school, and I was able to successfully ask her out my junior year. We hung out a few times, it was good, but when she was my date to junior prom she was a bitch to me the whole night. I told her off and she spent the better part of the next year trying to make it up to me. She changed her style to something more sexy (before that she was kind of girl next door), started showing up more at parties, expanded her friend circle, etc.
Eventually we became good friends again, but I didn't ask her to senior prom and it broke her heart. I felt validated when she showed up to the prom drunk and bragging about how she fucked a quarterback, though.
We were back and forth a lot through the rest of our senior year and the summer before college. We made up over the prom stuff. I remember taking her out on dates, but she would be snotty, and then her friends would tell me she cried about how much she loved me. We had a weird thing going. We even hung out alone in a room together on our senior field trip, but ended up just having a gay ass pillow fight and cuddling. I may have gotten a feel of her boob, but that was it.
She eventually came to my house like the week before college and we could have fucked then and there. My parents weren't around and she was physically in my bed, clothed, but spread eagle and pawing at me. I decided not to do it in the last moment and that was kind of it for us. I saw her again during my second year at college, but she pretty much told me she was done with the games.
I was angry with myself for years after that. Really held that grudge for a long while.
Now I could care less, married and a new baby. But funny how I could have been a Jewish girl's husband. I really wanted it.
Holy shit people date outside their larpy internet ideals.
Dayum.
oy vey those milkers
I dated a black girl from Africa. She was a world renowned doctor, and extremely liberal. It was tough to talk about anything I believed in as she'd dismiss me as a silly country boy. Ended up dumping her, and honestly dated her for too long. I guess it's tough to dump a girl who is crazy about you and insanely rich.
Also dated a black girl from the US, also very liberal. She was sweet but stupid, but would fight about everything.
In both cases race was a bit of a divider, as was political misalignment. Overall they were both just not right for me, although I don't think it was for racial or political reasons.
Current gf is liberal but leans libertarian as well. She's cool, but insane.
lol
I went on a date once, if that counts.
I’m white, somewhere between conservative and neoliberal.
My girlfriend is Hispanic, a half native looking mestiza. She votes democrat, but only because all her race does.
I like politics, she doesn’t. Probs why I’m right and she’s left. I’m intelligent, she’s dumb as hell.
I tend to steer away from political conversation as she hates politics, but she does ask questions sometimes ei what is socialism, and remains open minded.
Politically, we’re pretty opposite, I’d say she’s more racist than me as she favours Hispanics first and believes the system is against her.
Still, we love eachother’s humour, we enjoy hanging out and sitting in, we want a future together so... time will tell.
Yes, and it lasted for six days
I never fully revealed my power level; she most likely broke up with me because I kept talking about obscure historical topics that no one gives a shit about
It was probably for the best though because she was half Palestinian
If she favours Spics then why is she dating a white man? Time will tell indeed my sir, but it sounds like she’s gonna go for one of her own eventually...
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did you ever play Far Cry 3? the alternative ending scene where you decide to stay in the island, that's your future mate
She’s attracted to tall white men more than anything. She’s dated both spics and whites and I’m by far her longest partner. Politically she thinks like a stereotypical spic, but I think she knows she won’t get far without a whitey. She was rock bottom when I met her, didn’t even finish high school. I’ve helped her, she’s getting through college and has a job now. Needless to say she assured me I’m her man and she wants my kids.
I’m sick of white women, and I like brown nipples. She’s gorgeous and very funny. How can I say no?
Haha I did play far cry 3, although a few years ago. The alternate ending on staying on the island, is that where I kill my white gf and family for a crazy brown boobed tribal lass?
No you degenerate fuck. Haven’t u learned anything
Btw those tits could feed a lot of white babies
lol exactly but only after she get acess to your man seeds, fucking semen diggers
and then proceeds to kill you
Interesting. She can have my seed all she want though. Brown nips bruh. Dat ass.
>Even her parents moved into their house and there was nothing he could say about it.
The absolute state of yellow feverfags
>kind of chubby
>lost 70 lbs
thats not chubby you fuckin tard. she was a fucking refrigerator
Eh, not from 180lbs to 110lbs. She definitely had a bigger frame, but that shit was a night and day transformation. And I didn't say she was a 10/10 when she had the weight, but she did carry it pretty well.
Dude honestly you learned the number 1 rule of women. As soon as circumstances change and they believe they can do better, they are out the door. Pretty universal tbqh.
Hey leftwing scum. Do you think you can explain why diversity is a strength? Maybe you can explain why there isn’t a single nigger country you’d want to live in yet make excuses for niggers all the time