I know this isn't a correct board but I've tried everything
imgur.com/a/f4g7DkV I apologize for grammar and spelling. I am on my phone and have had a bit of prescribed medication (klonopin and temazepam)
My wife uses divorce as a weapon. Ahebsaod ahe was going to 15 times, I counted, in the month of March. Now she seems serious.
We just bought a house together and I am unemployed. Have been for awhile. I am currently in the process to receive disability due ro PTSD and a string of other psychiatric issues. She pays the bills, I do the housework.
She is extremely secret with her phone, like it has nuclear launch codes hidden inside it, and any attempt to see it results in a fight, even though mine is completely open. I do countless things for her. Fix her PC I built for her, etc. This time after asking for her phone she bit me, said she's had enough. And is threatening to divorce me. We had a discussion before that the next time she days it she better mean it because I am tired of her using it as a weapon. This is my second marriage and I have a two year old son I love dearly. She has nothing to divorce rape me with besides my son who loves his daddy. I love her to death and can't picture life without her. the best course of action.coukd I please get some advice? I know I seem a bit blue pulled but I love her so much. It's hard to develop that res pulled attitude but I am trying.
I am currently sleeping on a cot of blankets in the guest bedroom. Thank you for the advice bros .
For those of you generous enough die to anoninymity my crypto addresses are
dont fucking kill yourself pussy, get a fucking job and start working out and eating healthy. Life is too good to lose faggot
Sebastian Walker
Paternity test asap and beat her to court with the divorce papers.
Levi Collins
If you decide to kill yourself send me your crypto first.
Tyler Nguyen
>Thanks for the advice guys Lock your phone like it has nuke codes on it too, but don't advertise that you have done this.
If she is serious, Get your own bank account...perhaps with a trusted family member (brother/sister/mother) etc & GET A FUCKING ATTORNEY. DO NOT ALLOW HER UNFETTERED ACCESS TO YOUR DISABILITY PAYMENTS.
Get an Attorney. Get an attorney. Get an attorney.
Does that seem clear enough to understand?
If she wants a divorce, consider your marriage 100% over. Do not consider working it out, or caving in. It is already done. DO WHAT YOUR ATTORNEY ADVISES.
I think you need legal advice & very few of us fucktards can give that in a good way.
Jaxon Long
What is stopping you from getting a commercial driver's licence?
Nolan Sanders
Don't kill yourself over a woman. She sounds like a manipulative bitch and she will get what's coming to her. The minute she got defensive over hiding her phone is the minute you should have started making plans to move on. She obviously can't be trusted.
Women aren't worth killing yourself over, my man. You have your son who needs you in your life. Fuck that bitch and do what you can to be in your son's life.
Owen Davis
Also if you are not working and she is guess who gets alimony you do just throw that shit in her face next time she says it
Noah Williams
>PTSD Are you a vet man? Either way, see if you can find a lawyer who will do some pro-bono work or at least a free consultation.
As far as killing yourself goes, don't you dare. It's the most selfish thing you can do and itll scar your son for life
Hudson Walker
go live your parents. there's more to life than roasties. get on some meds. hang out with old friends.
Wow this is very convenient. Right after the Toronto thing this shot pops up.
Really makes me think. Pls put me in the screencap buzzfeed
Hunter Miller
Suck it up, ride out the divorce, enjoy the rest of your life doing whatever the fuck you want whenever the fuck you want to do it. She can't touch your disability money. That is for you and your disability.
Tyler Cooper
Listen to this man
Zachary Harris
you don't want to work, i know, been through the same shit with other reasons. can't help you if you don't want to help yourself. and you should cut communication with her immediately, but i know you won't
hang in there user. Divorce isnt the end of life. You should get some hobbies. work out. find a job. make other changes that improve your mind and body. Your life will change for the better.
>Also if you are not working and she is guess who gets alimony you do just throw that shit in her face next time she says it Don't advertise this to her. This is bad advice.
TELL HER NOTHING other then EVERYTHING IS FINE. Do nothing until an attorney advises you.
Perhaps the attorney would help "manage" your disability checks.
there are more important things in life than your current situation. dont you want to see the koreas as one? dont you want to know if there are alien races in space? dont you want to be able to play virtual reality games? you'll never get to see that shit or be their for your son when he grows up. you'll ruin his life by you taking yours.
Christian Ortiz
HE HAS BEEN POSTING THIS ON /B/ FOR THE PAST TWO WEEKS.
Liam Nguyen
Do as he says
Christopher Hernandez
just move on loser
Hunter Howard
I have a DO with DUO in my record
Brody Wilson
Fuck high level escorts. Go on sexual tourism vacations. Get shredded with roids. Drink and smoke a lot.
Own your death, if you are willing to kys, than you are willing to live life doing whatever the fuck you want as well.
Tyler Hall
You have to divorce the bitch and please do NOT marry for a third time. Get a lawyer asap.
Bentley Williams
Start a new life with a latina, white woman are evil
David Lopez
>Do what this guy says I work in a field with high rates of divorce. (skilled construction). I see how these crafty motherfuckers put the screws to the bitches. Crazy bitches too. It is IMPERATIVE that you say or do nothing out of the ordinary. Do not act angry and do not lash out. The first thing a woman will do is directly or indirectly try to get you to freak out. Since OP admits to being on medication, she can have you committed the instant you act slightly agressive.
Get an attorney, and play the long game. Rest assured that she will be trying to "keep it together" also, BUT if you are playing the long game, she will freak out first. You will catch her cheating etc. A patient man always wins these things, and since OP has no job, and is in a poor spot mentally, she has the most to lose.
She will break first, but get an attorney you can trust. A man attorney....not a woman.
Bentley Gray
You seem alright. So here's my advice. Separate yourself from her. Don't hero yourself you'll fuck up your son for life. She may win custody of the child which is most likely but don't give up on your kid. You need to get out that abusive relationship. Go to your parents or a friend or something and divorce her. If she has nothing to take from you it'll be easy. Plus how can she get alimony if she has been the working one. She's pulling you along because she knows the position you're in. Don't let her win she is abusing you. You need to learn to live for yourself.
Benjamin Lopez
>She is extremely secret with her phone, like it has nuclear launch codes hidden inside it, and any attempt to see it results in a fight, even though mine is completely open. She cheats on you with Chad, and has been cheating on your for months (maybe even years) now. She's probably his girlfriend. As soon as she divorces you she's going to move in with him. t. Story of my life
Nathan Foster
I can't afford a pack of cigs let alone an attorney. This is why I'm begging for advice and money
Ryan Hughes
Work on improving yourself. She's making the money and you... have mental problems and sometimes do chores? Ok.
Adam Cooper
>blackmails you with divorce day in and day out >"I love her to death and can't picture life without her"
pull the trigger you worthless faggot
Thomas Robinson
this dude has been spamming these threads for a while, just begging for crypto. you are all so gullible
Gavin Johnson
OP you are pointing that gun at the wrong faggot in your house
Oliver Stewart
don't kill yourself it's the most selfish act, move on get a job go to bars to find another woman, use a dating app, you'll burn in hell forever if you kill yourself, it's not worth ending your life over some not loyal female, if you do she gets what she wants and your life insurance money, please don't do it, move on and get your life together step by step, it's better than killing yourself and burning forever because of some female
Brandon Evans
you were posting this same thread with the exact same pics last night faggot
Don’t listen to this man OP, he is a sexual deviant and is giving you ill advice. Oh must remain faithful no matter the cost. The moment be family unit is destroyed everyone suffers irreparable damage. You must not only respect our vows but also respect the lord. Do the right thing OP, G-d bless your heart.
Carter Powell
Every state has free attorneys who work pro bono for people in your exact situation.
Samuel Ortiz
Not a blog, not politics, we don't care Go back to imgur nobody gives a shit about you
White nigger and his white nigger wife who’s fucking multiple niggers. I feel sorry for the two year old Niglet that this sorry faggot will be pimping out to feed his pill addiction. Get off this board nigger.
I don't know if this is fake or not but holy shit don't off yourself mate. Don't give the bitch the fucking satisfaction. Live on, do it for your son and for yourself
William Foster
>suicide threat for attention fuck you faggot you are a woman in a mans body
Juan Ward
In line with the others. You need to face this man. Just accept it. Your marriage is over.
You need to, as others have said, be good and normal. But you need to prepare for divorce. Line up a place to stay. Start reading divorce blogs. Find out the things you should be doing now, and start doing them.
I know it sucks. I know this isn't what you want. But it is what it is. The only thing you can do is to do the things you can to make it better.
>phone Yeah, she is doing shady shit and you already figured that out. Don't bother with it. Just deal with it.
Regardless, do not let her know you have accepted this fact. You need to act first. And that means you need some time.
Time to be a man. Being a man is all about planning and preparation. Reach down and get ahold of that.
Anthony Clark
>Second marriage >Does not work >Has psychiatric issues
You might love your son, but your wife is just some emotional anchor. You have problems and should resolve them away from her and your son. Heal yourself up, find a job, find stability, so that you can at least be a good father for the long-run.
Gavin Cox
Dude, serious here, how is this political? Get a lawyer, consider it over. Don't leave your house and relocate. Be the thorn in her side. Dont go crazy, be cunning. Lawyer up and file first. Ive been through custody before and this is essential. She will lie lie lie and do anything to get the kid and child support. File first file first file first. Grow a pair. Do this for you and your kid. Be a man not a pussy willing to end it over this. You think about another dude raising your kid? You like that idea? He'll no. Man the fuck up.
Sounds like she cant take half your shit cause it sounds like you dont have shit. Divorce her first and take half of her shit instead
Matthew Clark
She's cheating on you with niggers. The situation is obvious. Never let a woman provide for you, while you do her chores at home. The stuff is reversed and she sees you as nothing but a sore loser and a cuck. If you want to confirm, just force it out of her hand while she's using the damn device. I doubt she'll let you near her though.
Ryder Butler
I believe you, my grandfather used to say: Women are like monkeys, they never let go of a rope if there isn't another one to grab on right after. Women may go sleep at their parents' at first night after breakup but on secondshe's in some other guy's bed fir sure
I want to ask, if you're unemployed, what do you have to lose? You have to revenue so they cannot take much, right?
>(OP) Son of lawyers here. Do what the man says, lawyer the fuck up. And put down the gun, hasn't it occurred to you that posting pictures of yourself pointing a fucking gun at your head ONLINE is EXACTLY the kind of shit that's going to be used against you in a custody battle?
ALSO, MAHDS
Camden Wood
Attorneys don't work for free
Luis Robinson
She is most likely duckingnwomeone else
Get out now before her behavior permanently scars your son and he only dates crazy bitches for the rest of his life
>Divorce >Give you part on the house to the attorney problem solved, I think
Justin Gomez
it is over. there is no fixing it. I have been there. she has lost all attraction and respect for you, for whatever bullshit reasons, and is almost 100% banging another guy, or talking to one.
Pretend she is an alien, an alien that wants to kill you and destroy you, because that is what she is now.
You won't listen to any advice or protect yourself or do anything that anyone tells you. No man does. It is the same thing over and over. You don't want to believe it.
You were not put here on this Earth to be her emotional pinata, to be the scapegoat for her misery, so fuck her.
I attempted suicide but was found, and was fucked for years, but now laugh at myself for being dumb enough to let a cunt like that have ANY power over my self-esteem or my life in any way.
Kevin Thomas
I don't have any money for a lawyer I will have to walk 5 miles to work if I get my job
Zachary Sullivan
You made some very explicit life choices. This isn't something you need to spill on Jow Forums, truly we don't have a solution for you.
Kayden Martinez
if you do it use the meds Don't add to gun deaths t. Jow Forums
>anyone can fall prey to a fucking thot if he's allowed himself to become nothing more than a dog at the beck & call of his wife then he's already failed in every conceivable capacity as a man
Zachary Jones
Are you a defeatist? Get a job, get a pro bono lawyer. Are you a veteran?
Juan Bennett
this u fuckin retard
Camden Hernandez
I'm sure the VA has some options. Talk to people that can really help, not some Mongolian basket weaving forum.
Noah Young
Mate, she's cheating on you. You love her, but she doesn't care about your love in the slightest at this point. Been there myself. The divorce will happen one way or another, I'm sorry, but that's just how it is in cases like this. So best start preparing for it before she does, I mean it. Go to a lawyer, don't tell her, first meeting is usually free and if they feel there's a chance of winning your case, they'll settle for a portion of whatever it is that you managed to get from her, probably within the 20-30% range. If you're out of work, she'll have to provide for you financially btw. Get in touch with your relatives or old friends, even if you haven't talked in ages. You'll need to crash somewhere. And yeah you will feel like dying, but you'll get over it. It will take you longer than her, I'm guessing two to three years at the very least. But you've been divorced once already, so you should know this by now anyway. Fucking women, eh? The good news is, you have a kid. Fuck the bitch, focus on your son next time you're having suicidal thoughts. A deadbeat father (not saying you're one, but you probably feel like one at the moment) is better than no father.
>they never let go of a rope if there isn't another one to grab on right after. >Women may go sleep at their parents' at first night after breakup but on secondshe's in some other guy's bed fir sure
Great wisdom about the thots
Zachary Rivera
>I can't afford a pack of cigs let alone an attorney. Then move out with mom/dad or whoever. Let her sort it out. IF her phone is locked out from you and causes issues I would say that there is a great chance she has a "side job" with a co-worker. I would bet last weeks paycheck on it actually. You may never prove it, but I would guarantee it.
I had a friend go through what you are doing. He was not mentally fit. He moved in with mom and dad, and REFUSED to sign the divorce papers no matter how often they were mailed. She eventually gave him a whole bunch of shit like the cars and his possessions to sign the papers....he took the cars and still never signed. She was legally married to him for 5 years after separation before a judge was allowed to force it without him.
Identical situation, and she certainly was cheating on him...with a co-worker.
Does your wife work in an office or restaurant? If so I would say 100% that she is getting dicked by one of her beta-orbiters. When was the last time you had sex with her. IF it has been greater then a few weeks, you are no longer part of the equation. Women are like this. Realize it and move on with your life as best you can. She apparently already has. IF she can afford to treat you like shit, she can afford to live without you & you will do better mentally to move on.
Focus on yourself and your happiness. Work out even if it only involves walking a few miles a day. Lift weights if you can. be the best person YOU can be, and don't do it for any other reason. She does not matter, the marriage does not matter, and NONE of your "stuff" matters. If your brain is not in a right place, you should start by working on your body. You have success written all over you. How you act right now shows that. It is ONLY you however. Not you and her.
Ryder Hall
Yea, liens, attorneys love those
If you're going to kill yourself though, you have to take her with you, don't leave her with your kid
That said, don't kill yourself
Gabriel Hall
HE LITERALLY POSTED THIS ON /B/ YESTERDAY AND THE DAY BEFORE THAT AND THE DAY BEFORE THAT AND SO ON
Grayson Bailey
>i fix her pc for her Topkek
Austin Wright
Sorry for your situation OP but if she wont help you back on your feet ahe is not the one you want. A spouse is supposed to support you no matter ehat not downplay. Lawyer up file first and don't cave, the only other alternative is suicide. And if she wont let you touch your phone she is probably fucking her co worker. Dont like what i have to say i dont care, when someone threatens divorce the line between them is drawn. Stop being a bitch and pick yourself up you sad pile of shit GL.
Nathan Phillips
Dont kill yourself over a women. Stop being a cuck.
Alexander Brown
>klonopin and temazepam These drugs can contribute to suicidal thinking, user. You should talk to your doctor ASAP and let them know what's going on in your head. Your meds are a tool, they're supposed to help you, but sometimes a once useful tool is no longer appropriate and it's time to try something else. If you're thinking of using that gun, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
As for legal advice, get a lawyer. This might be your second divorce, but a lawyer has seen hundreds, they know more than you and they will look out for you.
Wyatt Sanders
>she has lost all attraction and respect for you, for whatever bullshit reasons, and is almost 100% banging another guy, or talking to one.
More great wisdom
Liam Nelson
If she works and you don't, she has to pay YOU spousal support if she loses the house and give you part. You're the NEET, she's just as fucked. So get a computer (build one), live in the guest room and deal with your kid until she kicks you out. I've been divorced, it's horrible but the worst fucking thing you can do is to sperg out like this, esp publicly.
Wyatt Jackson
it gets better, OP; no matter how this turns out. Whether you save the marriage or not, it does get better. You may very well find that you have more money when she isn't involved in your life; but you can bet that your mental state will be healthier without being in a situation where you're constantly reminded of things you shouldn't be wasting energy on. >it is unfortunate but true, that statistically, you are but one of millions of men facing the same set of issues. They survived, they changed, they don't need validation from a woman when all of the validation they need is that child; their progeny. >If you see that there is no reconciliation, RUN don't walk OEF/OIF?
Liam Cook
>She pays the bills Recipe for failure in any relationship. You're a man and men work. >She is extremely secret with her phone You already know what this means. Don't pretend otherwise. >I have a two year old son I love dearly. Good. Get a job for his sake. You'll probably have a better chance of custody that way. >I love her to death and can't picture life without her. You'll get over it. You don't still feel that way about your first wife, right? And you once did, right? >coukd I please get some advice? Get a job at all costs. Seek legal advice for the inevitable divorce. Cherish your son. >I love her to death and can't picture life without her. Start trying, every day. Dependency isn't healthy and loneliness isn't forever, there's millions more fish in the sea.
Also reminder that if you kill yourself your son will grow up without a Father figure which means he's 90% more likely to become a government statistic, career criminal or early death. Sounds likely to be an abusive mom as well going by her cheating, escalating verbal fights into biting and threats of divorce.
Get a job and get your life in order for him if you can't do it for just yourself.
Jordan Walker
Fuck off you little faggot, no one chooses to be a weakling, man played his hand wrong, if he survive this, he will see thots as the natural demonic jews beasts they are, and will not make the same mistakes again.
Hudson James
kek. I bet you thought MGTOW was just a meme for incels, or something.
Pussy is now a luxury only safely accessed by the 1%, gang leaders and warlords. If you're the average beta chump good goy citizen of a developed country you'd better stay away from women unless you want them to metoo you, divorce rape you or both.
Christopher Walker
Snaggletooth pansies couldn't even hold on to their colonies.
Jayden Cruz
Thank you so much for the advice guys. Helpful and hurtful. May I please have some money for food and more advice?
Chase Ramirez
You are not tricking me out of my bags of shitcoins shlomo.
