What do you mean you can't get a girl dude? All you need is a bit of confidence. Come out of your shell a bit, y'know?

lol that fellow really looks like Chad

>I'll use extreme examples to totally BTFO him

>Don't be an autist and
Don't try to change me faggot.

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How fucking frail are you?

I'm a chad.

My friends look up to me for it and girls do go after me. I was always on the good looking side but it went to another level once I started working out and got some lean muscle.

I catch girls looking at me. Girls approach me and dont hit on me the way guys hit on girls, but it's very obvious. They start small talk then pretend they have the same interests I do. If I date a girl she drags me around to social events to show me off.

I won't lie, it really does feel great. And I've also become "lazy" with dating, meaning I dont put a ton of effort into wooing girls like most guys do. No expensive dinners, bragging about my job ect to show off. A date for me is I call a girl to just tag along with whatever Id be doing otherwise. Two months ago I texted a friendzoned girl just to meet me at a store so I could buy a lamp for my living room.

The downside is that I realise that most girls are fake and I can see through them like glass. The unspoken benefit to being a chad is that men are a lot more nice to you as well, and not in a gay way, they just kind of admire you.

I really came into my own in my 30s since I became well built and I still have a full head of hair. So I feel I have a clear view of before/after to speak from.

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Confidence goes a long way. Confidence is a male trait so you should be working on it anyway.

and know how to exercise the right muscles yeah

Tell that to Jow Forums

proof that if you are a manlet you might as well do HRT and become a girl so at least you get treated nice for a short while before dying to cancer from the hormones. No Reiko

Post pics.

Can confirm this is bullshit, I used to be on roids m8

I was hench as fuck but still got no pussy

I literally have nothing to be confident about and I don't deserve anyone's love and/or infatuation

How old were you when you became ripped bro?

been fitness king since teenager in 1980s. Can confirm: fit does not automatically get pussy. To think you are entitled to it because fit and money and such is Elliot Rodgers tier stupidity

It's good advice but all the incels on here feel entitled to a woman far more attractive than they are from frying their minds with anime and porn.

These twinks look like women, they have soft smooth pink skin and wavy long hair, why are female characteristics attractive to females?

stop giving a fuck and that will appear to be confidence

Confidence is sexy, but these things go hand in hand and you can't always separate them.

If you are a man and get well built, it's going to change your hormones and make you more confident. And when you are around other men, we all kind of size each other up and there is this underlying "Could I kick his ass in a fight? Does he get more girls than me?"

Consider short men with "short man syndrome" yeah they are confident, but it's all very fake and comes from a place of insecurity.

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Well fuck, no girl will ever look at me like that.

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OP is right. Just get out there and have fun and when girls see that you are comfortable and looking to enjoy yourself they will come naturally.
Good luck anons

I already have. One of the biggest things I look forward to in this life is it finally ending.

I think you might be gay. You think too much about other men.

Go the fuck back to Jow Forums already, no one gives a shit muh dick is your sole concern in life. If you weren't such a detestable brat and actually spent the time doing these ridiculous threads on not being a lard neet you might actually find a woman. Provided you stop thinking you deserve a virgin 17 year old natsoc supermodel, that is

>incels on here feel entitled to a woman far more attractive than they are
I don't think incels are the ones with the mismatched perception

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It's too bad that I detest all the normie shit and am incapable of having fun.

Unironically stop being desperate and whiny and focus on improving yourself. If you and a girl meet, then you'll be the better husband for her(and chances are you'll have reached a better place in society, so she'll be a better wife). If not, then you're still a stronger, better person for your efforts. The worst thing about incels is that they obsess over not being a relationship instead of on something that will actually improve their lives.

Scooby has a lovely personality and is relatively rich. He could have plenty of pussy, if he wasn't a bottom.

you are free

That's like all of Jow Forums. They spend all day looking at pictures of each others bodies.

Am I, though

This is unironically true.

I've been in situations when i was younger where guys I met at parties get severely butt hurt from my ability to get all the attention from the selection of choice females.

The chads never got butt hurt, but they were extremely curious + impressed.

My tact? I take them. I literally hunt them down as if they were meat for sexual gratification. In my mind they weren't anything but childlike objects.

If you truly believe woman are objects who respond in predictably to repeated stimuli, and you MUST believe it.. no telling yourself lies... you'll do just fine with girls.

Think about the last time you were self conscious in front of a child or pet dog. You need to move women into that category in your mind.

If you're already kind of attractive, working out helps. I always had good luck with qts, but once i started working out and had definition, i started seeing girls hit on me.

that arm man
that bicep

He could do alot better than her

Let's remember how there are not a lot of ugly people or beautiful people for that matter. There are a lot of average people. And average has a lengthy range. On a scale of 1 to 10 average, in my opinion, ranges from 3 to 8. There is no reason the average looking dude cannot add at least 2 points to his score. Get in shape, fix your acne problem, get a new haircut and wardrobe, find a look that works for you, stand up straight and smile. There's no reason a '5' can't become a solid 8 with a bit off effort. Just remember not to compare yourself to the Olympian ideal of masculine beauty.

Most dating sites are for loser men and regular women. This makes sense.

>Come out of your shell a bit, y'know?
what like just whip it out... yea that might work

Because he can he has the freedom to make his selection on more complex criteria

it helps no doubt but core confidence is still something from within

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle

not with that attitude

i'm a chad. AMA

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the faggot incel reveals himself

Confidence comes from competence.

Dont pick up women in places you're incompetent. If you're a great gamer, pick up a girl at a gaming event. If you're into art, go to an exhibition and strike up a conversation. If you're an autist, go where autistic girls hangout (any kind of organised social club requiring a membership fee)

Well, yeah. Females notice when a man is unashamed of who he is. I'm pretty goofy and do shit like karaoke regularly, with a lot of confidence because i legitimately don't care what other people think. I get hit on a LOT at karaoke, especially after I do something like a Carrie Underwood song or something.

Nope. I have nothing of value to offer.

I was a skinny nerd who started lifting at 24. It was casual lifting and I did not really know what I was doing, but I did get pecs which made my shirt drape, so it gave me hope.

Things went into high gear after I was single for a while and just worked out 5 days a week and started to meal prep. Diet has a MASSIVE impact because I lost fat and gained muscle and got abs. Me going from an ok body to a nice body, let's say about a year.

But it was no big sacrifice. I liked working out, got mental benefits from it, and my meal prepping was easy because I got so efficent at it that I only had to cook on Sunday for 1.5 hrs and Id have meals for the whole week. It was stupid easy and I wish I started earlier.

No one sees my abs when Im clothed, but when Im shirtless I really do get a rush out of seeing girls glance at it, and when Im shirtless it happens all the time.

It also kind of woke me up to how fucking pervy girls can be too.

I'm lean with abs. A TON of guys are bigger than I am, but girls don't find find that as sexy as you might think.

Also, I lift for aesthetics, so low body fat, pecs that stick out further than belly, shoulders are important for aesthetics even though they are small muscles, and I dont neglect legs or ass.

When I make out with girls they grab my ass. Girls never did that before I got in shape, like...ever.

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>Consider short men with "short man syndrome" yeah they are confident, but it's all very fake and comes from a place of insecurity.

so much projection in one sentence it's unbelievable

You're cute not chad (feels gay to say that).

You guys are all wrong. Height doesn't matter. looks dont matter. The only thing that matters is money and power. If you are broke you are a 2 out of 10. if you look like shit and are rich you are a 8. im 6'1 not autistic somewhat fit and it doesn't matter because I dont have a job. Look at rich people and there wives they are always slanted in attractiveness towards the female. "muh gold diggers" yeah there are gold diggers but not some simply find you attractive because of money.

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>The downside is that I realise that most girls are fake and I can see through them like glass.
You self selected for them, the good ones are long married to someone their own age.

People find attractive feminine or not features attractive.

This guy gets it.

The problem, i think, is that most men aren't confident. How would you help them?

I generally plunge in the deep end, make a ton of mistakes and when i readjust I'm better then where i started.

Getting tattoos actually is a great starting point.

Haha. Fuck off. I was asking for proof.

I envy you

>being this degenerate

if anything you're underage

Hench? Is that short for henchman or some shit?

Is that the same guy?

The joke is that chad would never fuck that ugly chink

Whats wrong with him? He looks like a lady killa desu. He probably is stringing along a couple of cuties as we speak

Power doesn't help manlets. Nothing does.

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but gurls are always looking at me
i'm in my 20s

Weird British slang. Means strong/muscular.

I'm with a girl right now lol

It means jacked

>Why the fuck are you talking to me faggot

go on without me chad, i'm done for.

No, its just a pic proving that if you don't have the genetics(Chad) you'll still look like shit even if you lift.
Basically

Did you never leave your house or something?

>getting tattoos

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>Most dating sites are for loser men and regular women. This makes sense.
It's the other way around actually, regular women don't need dating sites. The rate of entitled ugly women is much higher on dating sites.

womanlets. also kek.

Tbh they think your cute or funny looking. Same thing happened to me at your age. The thing is... girls are puppets. Anything that catches their attention is going to be interpreted as attractive.

Even if they're laughing at some faggot hxcore punk with a green mohawk, that nigga could slay her pussy with ease.

Provided you actually leave the house. If you're fit and don't get laid, it's your own fault for not actually talking to people.

>This is what ugly manlets actually believe
I am almost permanently broke and I get girls easily. Having only money to your name is a shit way tog get girls and a good way to get abused by a bitch that will turn into a gold digger just for you. What truly gets girls is self confidence and a general disrespect towards the glorification of pussy.

Let's see.
Left is several times more built, has less bodyfat, wears more stylish clothing, has styled his hair and holds a less cringy pose.
Right has more bodyfat, a terribly shit haircut, worse pants, what looks like acne on his cheek and a more unappealing pose.

Really the only genetics i'm seeing showing here is height difference and face structure.
Body might be; but there's too big of a difference between the two muscle and bodyfat-wise to really tell.

I don’t get all this incell whining how they can get laid
Why don’t just hire a fuckin escort or some GFE experience where you can actually bang some fine ass girls
>inb4 muh love

blame world war 2 for killing off the chad gene pool

once you turn 30 you pretty much become an auto chad

You look like young Chad, you're hair makes your cute though, u could easily get girls

>100 pounds overweight
>Bathes once or twice a week
>JUST level haircut
>Wears old video game t-shirts

>REEEEEEEEEE why can't I get a GF?!

I don't know man. Obviously being unashamed of being a huge anime fan with waifus and MLP shit won't get girls, but other hobbies,

idk. It just has to come from within. They have to realize that interactions are temporary and fleeting. I got picked on a lot in middle school because I was kind of weird, and I guess I just stopped caring what people thought. Everyone called me a fag and I sort of figured out the shit to do and the shit not to do. As I got older, I became a little eccentric and continued being unashamed of myself. I don't brag about what I do, I just let my talents/hobbies speak for themselves or casually mention them if it's relevant. I unironically have a Taylor Swift phone case and it usually gets positive reactions because when people ask and laugh, I'll act incredulous and say something like, "wait, you DONT like taytay? Whats wrong with you?" Girls always say how much they like my phone case. Sorry for the rambling

I do have a lot of times and situations where I am self conscious, like around my coworkers who are all much older than me. Like with my phone case, they all laughed at me but in that particular scenario, I didn't get defensive and do some shit like "yeah but like shes hot and i like looking at her!" I just went with it and was like, wait you mean you don't have a taylor case?

You're a legend in your own mind

Tattoos are degenerate, but its a sufficiently confident laden mistake to build your character upon and will serve as sufficiently solid foundation/benchmark to measure future progress.

Kind of like a scar from a skiing accident which helps to remind you to constantly mprove

if Max Headroom can get a gf then anyone can

me in the middle

>implying you look better

Listen up you self-pitying mongoloids: It helps to look good AND it helps to be confident. How is this hard? ugly+confident > ugly+unconfident.

What was your diet?