What does pol think of prenuptial agreements?

Don't do a prenup. It might anger your wife and it won't matter anyway because Judges can throw them out. I don't even know if they mean shit anymore. Just keep separate bank accounts. Hide money in crypto and don't let her have the private keys.

Yes if u think she won't dump for iy.

When a kid is involved u will always owe her in the eyes of the law

Maybe delicately explain to her that you don't know her well enough yet and that you would like a strict time period between when you get married and when she is entitled to your stuff... But that's not something I would do. I would make sure I know her fully and have a plan for when we start to hate each other.

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You both might be making 95k now, but what in 7 years, 15 years? If anything, get the prenup now to set the parameters of how things will be divided if you get divorced, while you are both in a jovial, celebratory and non combative mood.

My father got custody of me when my parents divorced.
Judge was based

This. If you're lucky, it will be just an old piece of paper in a chest. But if things go bad, at least you will have some guarantee.

I don't want to crash on my bike, or get sick and die. But, that doesn't mean I shouldn't use a helmet, or pay life insurance and health care. Shit happens, specially in a marriage. It doesn't depend only in your will to work.

If you don't do a prenup, everything you got between the marriage and the divorce must be shared.

>I don't think alimony is an issue because same income.
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Even if you had a prenup, most states require it to be "fair and reasonable" at the time of execution and time of divorce. More significant would be waiving alimony in the divorce decree. Don't be fooled into taking something where "she doesn't want it now, but may change her mind later". A full up waiving is what you want. Also, depending on the state the fact that you make the same means... absolutely fucking nothing. Then there's the whole issue of "what if, in 10 years, she's making $0/year and you're making $125k/year?" - she became a "stay at home mom" or some shit. Don't pretend to be psychic, OP. All psychics are frauds.

The simple fact is, regardless of what is put in a prenup or SHE makes at the end of a marriage, YOU might have to pay alimony. She will never have to pay you a dime of alimony if the situation is reversed. You have a dick. You are fucked. Period.

Marriage is something you should _really_ only consider if you already have children.

She WILL mention it to her friends and family. Be careful that it doesn't give her moral power over you when the fighting starts imo.

is 95k a lot of money these days? I was making that at 24 (32 now)

prenups have no real legal value, the judge can overrule it

If you are willing to pay for health insurance...car insurance...why not "insure" YOUR ASSETS?

Prenup. Do it. Seriously. Do it.

Not really the point was that we make the same. I always understood that person making less gets paid alimony

No, it's about standard of living in most places and most judges expect you to continue funding the same standard for a couple of years even if that means your life doesn't meet the same standard. It's a fucked system and your trust in it doesn't make it a good one. The prenup isn't really to stop your future ex. It's to stop the courts and lawyers from raping you. Most women I've seen go through this didn't want to fuck the man over as much as the man eventually got fucked but when lawyers and arbitrators and fucked judges get involved, all taking pieces from you to appease her, you'll wind up with nothing.

A prenup, at least, defends against lawyers to some extent, arbitrators to a larger extent, and judges to a smaller extent.

You wouldn't be in a boxing event with wearing a cup, don't marry without a prenup.

So sayeth the user who has learned the hard way twice. Both times i thought "nah, this woman wouldn't do that" and twice got fucked hard. First time i thought it was just a vindictive woman. After the second time i learned it's a vindictive system. You're a man who makes an okay living. You're also white, straight, and most likely come from a more or less Christian family.

My suggestion is to back out and try to red pill your woman into why government shouldn't be involved. What benefit does a legal marriage serve if she has a job equal to yours? File taxes as single head of household, have her file single, don't represent her as a wife to your insurance or anything really. Call her your best friend, call her your monogamous lover, just don't represent her as your wife in America. American courts and the system as a whole hates you. Just remember that.

Just prepare yourself for the eventual nutshot even if you believe the ballsack won't ever be a target. You're going into a game where it might not happen but it probably will, even if by accident. Wear the cup. Sign a prenup.

It doesn’t sound like you need one. It will only protect the assets you had before marriage.