ive never understood the appeal of casual sex. it seems so pointless to me. western society likes to shame virgins because "they cant get laid" but whats the point of sterile casual sex with promiscuous people? there isnt one. how does it benefit anyone? it doesnt. statistically speaking, people who engage in casual sex have harder time staying married and are more likely to contract STDs. knowing this as someone who wants to raise a family, why would i engage in meaningless casual sex or marry anyone who does? for a board that loves to constantly moralize about "muh traditional values" you guys sure love to venerate philandering and fornication.
it's wasteful and useless it is a million times less enjoyable than sex with someone you know well and have a bond with it is an empty thing. it is like cooking something but leaving out the main ingredient
Ethan Adams
I agree someone I know had sex and told me it's overrated that its basically glorified masterbation.
Jeremiah Mitchell
Why do normalfags call it "losing" your virginity? You wouldn't say you lost lint in your pocket, or a tumor. You would say you lost something precious, such as a wallet or watch or something.
Can't normalfags see the very language they employ suggests virginity is something precious?
Im on the same boat as you op. I get shit for turning down women who wish to have sex. But most of them have shit lives & wouldnt make a strong wife/mother so i tell'em to go fuck off and leave me alone
Aiden Scott
t. virgin
Angel Collins
niggas gotta nut
Camden Peterson
Well the way I see it there are no 'rules' when it comes to this sort of thing. You will have promiscuous people that are harming themselves and you will have celibate/monogomous people that are also harming themselves.
Life is fleeting, keep your mind well, walk the path lightly. Have the occasional promiscuous sex like you might a fine whisky, enjoy the connection with a girl you find attractive, it doesn't even have to be full sex, just prancing around making body contact, kissing, drinking, having a good time.. Or live balanced with a girl you like the company of, being balanced and intimate, inhale the peace and the scent of your companion.
Again there are no rules, there are just as many miserable people in relationships as there are on the proverbial 'meat market'.
Once you're tainted the only way up is to drag people down. You have to hold up the virtues you believe in for them to be true. But trying to stay pure during Kali Yuga leads to suffering. Where's that edge and how do you ride the wave. I dont know, i just want a qt and my secret radiation-proof bunker.
Angel Brown
My gf
Caleb Roberts
can you stop posting this fucking cancer so i can stop being reminded how all the cutest girls i ever knew fucked brainless sociopath retards you fucking nigger kike piece of trash AIDS ridden faggot
you do it to empty your balls, mainly virginity, in males at least, is nothing, after the first fuck i didn't lose anything, neither did it changed me whatsoever
Jackson Evans
Because it feels good and a lot of people are good looking enough to have sex with them that's all
Brody Johnson
I only have casual sex with high school girls that way the only std they have are the ones I give them T. The 20 something Chad that was fucking the girl that friend zoned you >What a loser he can't get a girl his own age Lol why the fuck would I want to do that when they got used up by the Chad before me Stay mad virgins and roasties
Gabriel Watson
I dont know user. I tried to listen to my dad about being young and getting laid and what not (although every fibre of my body hated the idea) Within a week I managed to autistcally chat up a blonde haired blue eyed girl with big tits and great body who was christian but the thing is. I lost interest. she was boring and weird and in the end I couldn't see the point in putting up for her longer than a week even if it meant I could have sex. same thing again since getting to uni. a 5ft 11 blonde haired girl very nice face and amitted to her friends she could see herself having sex with me but again I lost interest after getting to know her. Like I find women very attractive but as soon as they start showing their personality I find them repulsive.
yeah people nowadays fuck each other before they even start the relationship and use that as a compatibility check instead of personality, then they curse themselves for breaking up violently
Adam Torres
when /ourguys/ are finally fully in power we'll use the NSA database to hunt down all the pieces of shit like you to skin you alive
Easton Ross
over think much? It can be fun and interesting and maybe its not so casual because it turns into something deep and meaningful, but 99.999999% of the time its "wake up, feel like complete shit, ugh gotta shower and run for hours to get over it and never ever give in again" kinda things.
How do you "autistically chat up"? I think I know what you mean but if you could elaborate that would be interesting.
Xavier Foster
It's fun, you gain experience in pleasing yourself and someone else, as well as passing it in to others, it releives stress. There's a million reasons, you sound like a coping incel.
Luis Reyes
are you asking us to stop reminding you of a painful truth? look at yourself, posting an gore webm to so your anger at a truth about the world you would wish to live oblivious too you are a fucking child you will be playing video games, ignoring how fucked the world is when (they) kick in you door and take you to the fema deathcamps
because you fucking stupid kike after a certain point its just fucking unhealthy
i cant lift all day every fucking day without injuring myself, i cant eat any better, to cope, its literally impossible, the stress is killing me, fuck off with your kike trash EVERY FUCKING DAY NON STOP trying to make us go fucking insane you disgusting fucking faggots
Hudson Scott
im a faggot because i reject dumb whores who fuck everything that moves because i dont want my dick to fall off or fuck a shitty ass condom just to bond with a chick who would hate me for the things i really know
I haven't either. Sex without love is so meh. Maybe it's because of how much my brain has been bombarded with sex that it isn't even that appealing any more. I can watch porn and get nothing, but if the chick I am seen whispers "I love you" my dick could cut through a 10 inch bank vault.
Dominic Baker
Nobody is forcing you. You're a faggot for caring what other people think.
Evan Parker
I admitted to be a nazi and believed that all races wern't equal. And also said that hitler was a great leader. then making edgy racist-esc jokes to see how far I could push it which somehow gained her attention because she was racist and believed that people should be able to say what they want. I spent a few times with her by the lake alone just chatting about shit getting to know her. A few weeks went by and it turned out she was a heavy drinker which she admitted when drunk that she wanted me to fuck her. also got a lot of messages from her on facebook but after I got bored she dated a few guys and I told her she was a thot and I had lost a lot of respect for her which made her mad enough to block me on social media but then a few weeks later un-block and re-add me lol.
Gavin Lopez
you're a fucking loser who has nothing better to do than go on the internet and try to make fun of other people
Adrian Reyes
You're a faggot for caring what i think.
Nolan Ross
it is precious, you only get one virginity
Nathaniel Wright
Very interesting. Would you say she was not broken goods or unsalvageable before she went out with a few guys?
Eli Morgan
you're a fucking loser for thinking anyone cares what your dumbass thinks
Dylan Brooks
>giving a shit about mundane affairs >wasting his seed instead of channeling it Lmao
It's hard to understand the appeal of any kind of sex when you're never going to have it
Asher Gomez
I think you make a very good point. People will engage in sex regardless, but it used to be primarily within the bound or marriage life. Then, we become "liberated", and now western society is inundated with sexual imagery everywhere, and people have been made junkies to the sexual act. I don't think it's a good thing, but it's very hard for most people not to be affected by the constant bombardment.
Lincoln Sullivan
100% agree. I've only had one girlfriend, who lost her virginity with me as well. We are still together. I don't feel like I've missed on anything.
Landon Murphy
what is she? khazak? she cute
also fuck off incel
Owen Hernandez
It was the classic case of girl goes from school to university. alone in a new place with noone to judge. She is a really nice girl but I have to stick to my values of no alcohol no thottery and family orientated. maybe in a few year's she''ll evolve but we shall see.
Jack Lee
Good post
Christopher Ortiz
Once you start having sex, OP, you'll understand that it's not something people particularly care about any more than you do. No one is encouraging you to have casual sex. No one cares that you don't have casual sex. Most people, including those who do have casual sex with large numbers of partners, think of it as kinda a sleazy thing to pursue.
Evan Bennett
legit question. why are northeastern cities so fucking ugly?
Leo Jenkins
The bound of marriage life.
Dylan Roberts
congratulations, you're not an animal
Sebastian Ross
>no alcohol Not trying to lower your standards unreasonably, but it is possible to get drunk without doing bad things. It's not good overall admittedly.
Cameron Reed
sex is pointless. I've lots all sexual desire myself. It's very easy to describe the feeling: Most people have never taken heroin, so think of it that way - I don't desire heroin, and I don't desire sex. It's almost the same thing.
Kayden Sullivan
Sex feels great, and there’s no greater rush then the thrill and passion of meeting someone, having that primal instinct take over and spend an entire night fucking their brains out.
I’ve done both, been monogamous for years, then spent the last few getting my dick wet. It’s really amazing, don’t have to deal with relationship bullshit, and I get to do whatever I want, whenever I want without having to run it past another person.
If you're unironically a Muslim I commend you despite your differences with the average Jow Forums user, but if you're not looking for a Muslim (and they're more often thots than not), you aren't going to find one that doesn't touch alcohol.
The funny is, virgin isn’t really an insult nowadays because people are choosing mgtow or to stay celibate in some cases these days.
Heck I’d say a chunk of people, myself included, could have sex whenever they wanted or have had chances to lose their virginity but not everyone is obsessed with that shit like these degenerate normies want them to be
Nolan Brown
I am not a muslim I just come from a life where alcohol has destroyed so much. my family and friends. and then how thottery destroyed my father who tried to make hopeless relationships work. If I end up alone so be it. I will keep hope that I will be able to purchase a black market artifical womb 20 years from now. no u another man of the spectrum I see. *tips hat*
I understand. Good luck to you. Never compromise, only play savvy.
Elijah Mitchell
If it is casual sex with someone you know, like, and are turned on by then it can be good . If it is with someone you just met like ta a club or bar then yeah it is cold and not worth a shit. I know I have had both. Have had GFs yielding best sex FWB yielding 2nd best sex. Girl i just picked up yielding 3rd best and not memorable at all. Hooker yielding 4th best and totally not worth it.
Aiden Gray
>faggot virgin >what is pleasure Why do you do it, pol?
Henry Adams
I am good looking and tall guy who's had women approach him but I never hooked up. Unironically a virgin Chad. I never understood the appeal of casual sex either in the age of porn, I'm saving myself for a qt virgin girl that I see myself getting married thot. Hooking up as well as frequent relationship changes are degenerate, why he fuck would you invest time, money and effort into something you know will probably end. I think white people are naturally monogamous and this whole dating around thing we have right now is a Jewish attack on the institution of marriage.
Most people are slaves to their impulses, which includes the urge to mate to procreate. We're a species that copulate for recreation.
Carter Fisher
>IVchan is no longer incels you are now chads fucking stacies all day. Man, how the times have changed, and quickly!
Lincoln Torres
>i cant lift all day every fucking day without injuring myself your are limiting your potential so you don't have to take the responsibility of failure
Holy fuck bro, you sound like me from two years ago. Life gets so much better when you stop killing yourself over this shit and manage your hormones in a different way.
Here's what worked for me: >sold biz, went quantum neet >stopped going outside, vidya erryday >deleted social media >jerk it before sleep DAILY >and the usual, lift weights in the garage everyday, sports twice a week and eat well
Being a virgin is important but it means nothing if females have more rights than you in family court or divorce.
Colton Foster
I had this problem for awhile, girls would try to pick me up but get way too nervous. They want you as a boyfriend so they immediately slam on the brakes in terms of romance so they don't look like a thot, and you never get laid. The trick is to be more undesirable. Be that jackass vagabond who can't hold a job and is a lovable asshole. Never put others down only bring them up while lowering yourself with self deprecating humor. Make moves quick so she doesn't have the chance to put you on the slow track after she finds out how much she likes you, hooks up with a chad who moves much quicker than you, and then goes with him
Landon Rivera
>another man on the spectrum You’re not half wrong to be honest user
Mason Ortiz
I got to ejaculate lmao
Kevin Bennett
being on tops of buildings in the city gives me the feels. i miss the old days
Aaron Wilson
>I lost 100 lbs!
Jeremiah Clark
>while lowering yourself with self deprecating humor Don't do this kids.
Robert Anderson
if you're not a chad then don't do that, correct. you need all the help you can get and all the confidence you can fake.
Julian Clark
t. virgin
James Ortiz
Western society has been promiscuous since the 60s, even before that but not on such a large scale.
Oliver Sanders
Chads don't lower themselves or make themselves the punchline to a joke.
Adam Taylor
The types of women associated with Jow Forums are beta female promiscuous autistic types, and it wouldn't surprise me if anons went after those women IRL. They are not Stacies.
Juan Sanders
you need to when girls are consistently too nervous to be around you, I promise you that.
Daniel Bennett
t. jamal
Michael Rivera
>put you on the slow track after she finds out how much she likes you, hooks up with a chad who moves much quicker than you, and then goes with him
Jesus does this shit really happen? Aren't those girls thots to begin with? I can't think of a respectable woman blueballing you with courtship only to sleep with some fag at a club and dropping you like a bad habit.
Dylan Green
>you need to No the fuck you don't.
Justin Gomez
>laughable, pathetic, humiliating failure at the sexual competition >attempts to devalue the competition itself by appealing to “muh morality”
A story as old as time
Wyatt Anderson
>Aren't those girls thots to begin with? all women are easy for the right guy, and the more partners they have had the more likely they are to cheat on you. the faster you have sex with a chick the more manly she sees you and the stronger emotions you invoke in her. she sees the quicker lay as the more manly guy, because she's not a slut he's just a man! how could any girl resist? there's more than one way to skin a cat, user.
Leo Nelson
that movie made me nervous every time I sing in the car now
>you need to when girls are consistently too nervous to be around you >there's more than one way to skin a cat Guess how I can tell you're larping
Joshua Gray
>Guess how I can tell you're larping Guess how much I care if you think I'm larping on a mongolian vocal singing forum
Christian Adams
>that flag
Jacob Hernandez
i don't know the appeal of it either
Zachary Gonzalez
Lol loser. Stop replying to him if you don't care. Not him btw
Isaac Thomas
I never understood it with and I consider all who do it filth.
Charles Harris
just turned wizard here.
dont really care that i havent had pussy. its quite nice knowing i am still "pure". i could probably get a gf if i put in the effort but what are the odds she is just as pure as me? i am the kind of personality where people drain me. i dont think i could deal with a woman.
