I love and like my girlfriend, I do. But! I feel bad about having sex with her... and well any girl that is..
I have the romantic idea of girls as innocent and fragile, and men as disgusting beast-like creatures who crave pure, innocent and pretty girls like meat and reduce them to this most little and pathetic thing, a piece of meat that is.
I know this is wrong and that most girls are thots and shit.. yeah my head knows that.. but my heart still buys into that fairy tale about the female as an innocent holy cutie whom I am defiling with my uncleanliness or something.
live life get fucked that's the gist of it if you can't learn by feedback (like a lot of people can't) then you will learn by pain you'll find someone who's "the one", someone who's "different" and who in your eyes seems like the illusion you're desiring and sooner or later that illusion will break when you realize it was never true and see humans as what they really are
Asher Ortiz
>I have the romantic idea of girls as innocent and fragile
Why?
Josiah Ramirez
This is called a madonna whore complex and is very common.
Brayden Ward
Not sure how to get rid of it though.
Eli Diaz
Sex is not unclean. You need it to have children at all. Speaking of which, you're at a decent age, have a baby! And marry the girl while you're at it.
Daniel Diaz
What you are calling your "heart" is actually just wish fulfillment. Delusion neither makes you stronger, nor happier.
Josiah Edwards
Probably because psychoanalysis is complete bullshit.
sex outside marriage is a sin so you are partially correct
Gabriel Price
no clue. maybe something about my religious upraising
Cameron Roberts
adoration and putting someone on a pedestal is a safe way to frame something/someone and allows you to never really see them, only see what you want. love by embracing reality. that's true love. and true courage.
Lucas James
A big part of being a man is putting away childish things. Your romantic ideal is one such thing, and you need to dispense with it if you want to lead your woman and not get XX'd by her down the line for being a simpering beta.
This is all on you, and you need to come to terms with it.
James Stewart
thanks. makes sense!
Lincoln Barnes
you can't. I feel the same way. I just stay fit, tall, and attractive and look at women with disdain. Sure, i hook up and fuck them like the whores they are, but I'm extremely kind and sincere about it. I make them a quick breakfast with a warm croissant and kick them out. I usually get a text later that they want to hang out but I decline.
Oliver Ward
It's all in your mind. You can see it as "defiling her with my uncleanliness" OR you can see it as "making love" and "enjoying each other". You need to fo the later, role-play into the first, and make her believe that you *are* a beast tamed by her. That'll keep her happy and interested
Jose Mitchell
way to go chad
Jonathan Martinez
If you don't want to fuck your mother and kill your father, youre not normal.
On a side note, I believe you are of a phenotype whose reproductive strategy relies on higher than average pair bonding. I don't know why you would think your attitude is a problem. Are you not interested in sex with her at all or do you just have less sex than your average couple? If it's the second, I think you might be completely fine living in a maladjusted and over sexed society. I'm no specialist though.
I don't view myself like that, but I guess that's what it is. I've been banned from tinder, bumble, Instagram, all that gay fake dopamine shit. oh, Facebook too. when I go out, I leave my phone in my car unless I took an uber and just turn it off and leave it in my pocket. the only thing I do with my phone is basically post on Jow Forums. I'm at my parents house now bored out of my mind drinking their liquor calling the stupid boomers jokingly. anyway, if you can find a roastie who is off of Jewish media, she's a keeper. I used to think it was so weird when someone said "oh, I don't have Facebook or instagram." turns out those people are cooler and much more grounded in life. Also, fuck porn. I don't mean to rant... I'm just hitting a good buzz and u faggots are awesome.
