Well?

At the very second you look or think of someone else lustfully.

underdogged post.

I guess "micro aggressions" didn't stick, so they had to come up with a new "word" ?

Ayyy poland. Good post fren

No such thing as micro cheating.

these people truly are ill in the head

>microcheating
Is that like when women cheat but it's with a chink?

Idk, when microaggressions became actual aggressions?

What the fudge is micro cheating?

The word micro(meaning 'small') + cheating( meaning 'sexual infidelity)

so a more minor form of cheating.

Literally what?

Naah, you can't control your thoughts, only your actions

huffpo explains it pretty well here.

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Not sure why you guys are all triggered and acting oblivious and retarded. They're obviously referring to things like a girlfriend talking to other guys without letting her boyfriend know, or getting too physically comfortable with other people or just meeting someone of the opposite sex for an outing.

That's what I thought too but it's not rght to just assume things like that. Logically or intuitively that's what it's supposed to mean, but who knows really when a buzzword is thrown around anything goes.

>how do you know if you're doing it?
How wouldn't you know if you're cheating?

Im going to assume sexting a side guy, sending nude pictures, maybe going out for 'not-dates'. Basically everything short of actually fucking another guy.

People have a great amount of skill in hiding their own sins from themselves, or so Carnegie states in How to win friends and influence people.

That just cheating man, why not leave the first guy if the other one is such an adonis?

Yeah, my bad, im trying to use logic with women, but still.

Decadent commodification of sexuality

>micro cheating
Fuck off

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>That just cheating man
99% of people would not refer to it as cheating. Cheating involves physically kissing or screwing someone else. That's why they said "micro cheating" because they're actions that display a willingness for betrayal without technically crossing the line according to what most people would consider cheating.

Can someone explain why we're not barreling full steam ahead for their replacements yet.

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>(((Schilling)))

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It is more like you can consent or not to your thoughts. You can notice a cute woman in the street but as soon as you realize you are getting lustful towards her you have the option to consent to this lust (by keeping going) or to reject it (normally by directing your attention to something else).

wtf is this bullshit

Bro, normalfag scum is pretty damn wicked and degenerated desu.
if im dating a girl and she is sending nude pictures of her to another guy and hangs out with him she is already cheating on me.
The sexual act would just be the icing of the cake.

And people wonder why no one wants to have kids.

>cheating is on a spectrum goyfriend
>if fucks me in the ass or I stick a finger up his ass while you watch him fuck me
>it doesn't count
>also it's cheating plus a penis
>so really she can't cheat at all
>checkmate bigot

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33 reasons, 31 of them nonsense

FPBP
saged, OP is a faggot

sage

Texting someone without your partners knowledge is only a problem if you have worked out that you expect that not to happen.

Hiding their name and number in your phone or lying to them about your relationship is straight dirty shit. Its not cheating but you are headed that way and should not lie to yourself about what you are doing.

imagine being this fucking gay that you read this type of shit and take it seriously

Sending nudes would be considered cheating by most. I'm talking about just being texty and flirty with another person, or gazing at guys they find hot or something. Most people wouldn't consider those full on cheating.

>not following you ex one night flings on instagram

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>cheating is on a spectrum goyfriend
Well, it is and always has been. Are you going to lose your shit and break up with your girlfriend if she stares at another guy or gets visibly aroused by one? Is it cheating if you jerk off to porn when your girlfriend is sexually available?

There are gray areas and different definitions. Not sure why you guys are acting like sarcastic soccer moms over this.

>Hiding their name and number in your phone or lying to them about your relationship is straight dirty shit.

In mexico there is this common joke that men hide the number of their "side hoes" under the nickname of the mechanic that fixes your car.

I honestly feel like throwing my stomach whenever I hear this.

When she takes off her burka or shows her ankles

That's like saying you're still a virgin because you haven't had vaginal intercourse even though you've been fucked in the ass a dozen times. No surprise at all a woman probably thought this "micro-cheating" shit up, they're famous for these kinds of technicalities.

It's not just about sex. If you're no longer interested in your partner and instead are trying to build a romantic relationship (NOT platonic or just plain friendship, that's different) with someone else, that's cheating. Doesn't matter than the relationship may not have got physical yet when that's obviously the end goal.

The bible says if you think of another woman with lust, rip your right eye out. So technically "mind cheating" is a thing

migrobenis
XXXXDDDD

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>That's like saying you're still a virgin because you haven't had vaginal intercourse even though you've been fucked in the ass a dozen times.
No, it's like saying you're a virgin because you haven't had sex at all and only been aroused by thoughts. Which still means you're a virgin. Learn2anology retard.

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In other words emotional infidelity.
In other words infidelitous intentions that just haven't been realized yet.
In other words cheating.

underrated as hell

>Schilling said

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>let me just muddy the water here so they can slip their buzzwords and bullshit idea into the mainstream kekeke
if you take them seriously you win -Just Trudon't

That thing is bigger than a polaroid, wtf kinda picture is that lady holding?

>In mexico there is this common joke that men hide the number of their "side hoes" under the nickname of the mechanic that fixes your car.
lol that's pretty good

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Absolutely, how can youvtruly love someone if you have feelings for another?

That's called an emotional affair/affair of the heart, not "micro-cheating". Why the fuck are these retards trying to redefine shit that already has a term?

>That's like saying you're still a virgin because you haven't had vaginal intercourse even though you've been fucked in the ass a dozen times.
Well, no, it's nothing like that. There are minor betrayals that people don't view as cheating. Are you seriously going to have the same reaction to your girlfriend, say, shlicking to porn as you would her getting fucked by a stranger? There are degrees. Acting this dense about it is ridiculous.

>No surprise at all a woman probably thought this "micro-cheating" shit up, they're famous for these kinds of technicalities.
These technicalities have existed for fucking ever, user. People just didn't make up a name for it.

>It's not just about sex. If you're no longer interested in your partner and instead are trying to build a romantic relationship (NOT platonic or just plain friendship, that's different) with someone else, that's cheating.
>Everything is cheating if it isn't strictly focused on me
It's fine if you want to define it that way, but that is not the way most people define cheating.

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Yeah that's the thing. You have to be a pretty shallow twat to develop feelings for somebody without going down some path of emotional infidelity to get there in the first place.

>tinder isn't cheating goyfriend

I'm not muddying any water. You guys are just being stubborn and retarded for no reason.

That is true, but even still.
I don't see any problems in my girlfriend having thoughts or even looking at other guys, as long as she doesn't do it in front of me.
I trust her and she trusts me.

Besides it would only be another thing that could drive me jealoux to think about if I had the need to reject her those thoughts and actions, seeing as a would never know or be able to control whether or not it was happening anyway.

We do however have an agreement that I cherish very much, which I know is uncommon with a lot of couples.
We do not have friends of the opposite sex.

see
and fuck off

>gf is available to fuck
>choose to masturbate instead
>pic related

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Those things are straight up cheating, not micro-cheating
>we're gearing up to fuck on the side, but haven't fucked yet so its not cheating

>never had a girlfriend before
Thanks for letting us know.

Jow Forums showing its contrarian nature by disagreeing with a concept just because huffpo says it.

You can absolutely be unfaithful without outright sleeping with someone. Huffpo just chose to give it a retarded name "micro-cheating", instead of calling it flirting or emotional cheating.

Picture this:
>You're a chump
>Have a wife
>Wife constantly talks about some guy at work
>Constantly wants to go over to their house
>Constantly talks with them on the phone or email
>You tell her that she's being way too friendly
>"Ugh, jealousy is a turnoff"
>You catch her flirting with them
>etc.

Don't tell me you won't kick her ass to the curb.

Yeah, sometimes you just need a good fap without having to give anything.

>Are you going to lose your shit and break up with your girlfriend if she stares at another guy or gets visibly aroused by one?
Absolutely dude. Tell her that you don't want her looking at other guys. Tell her this once, second time, kick her out. I would absolutely not be with a woman if she was visibly aroused by another guy.

>get called out on your faggotry
>decide to double down

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Matthew 5:27-28

27 “You have heard that it was said [a]to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Wanking off is better than sex sometimes, just accept it.

I would give exactly zero shits about my hypothetical girlfriend masturbating to porn, and would care equally about her dating another man as fucking another man. Both would indicate she is no longer into our relationship and is emotionally invested in another man. Both are cheating in my opinion. Whether they're having sex or not is irrelevant.

Cheating is cheating. I don't know why some people try to put it in different categories. It doesn't make it any less wrong than it is.

>Wife constantly talks about some guy at work
Dont make me remember that woman actually have this concept of "workplace husband" man, thats wicked.

>contrarian tells everyone else they are contrarian

jesus christ is awesome. Everything He said was just amazing and true.

Sending nude pics to someone else its cheating and I'm pretty sure everybody agrees on that

It's really not.
Besides, are you telling me your wife/gf is available 24/7? You'll get plenty of opportunities to fap, don't be faggot fuck your wife

No I don't

>We do not have friends of the opposite sex
Nothing wrong with this. It's the best approach in order to avoid drama, actually.

>instead of calling it flirting or emotional cheating
Calling it emotional cheating is just as stupid, desu.

Would you guys let your girl go get drinks with her (platonic) male friend that she has known longer than you?

>We do not have friends of the opposite sex
A lot of """"modern"""" women have programmed it into the female zeitgeist, that this is a red flag of an abusive guy
Obviously it's not in your case (and probably most others) since it's reciprocal.

Cheating is Infidelity + Power you can't cheat on somebody that is higher up on the ladder than you because any cheating done on your part is in protest to an unfair hierarchy that you did not consent to.

When Don Draper cheated on his wife it was a form of exploitation of their trust and marriage but when Betty cheated on Don it was fully justified.

Women unironically need to be told this is unacceptable behavior. Let that sink in.

You'd figure more women would support it to keep their man in line. I'd say women are far more capable of having truly platonic relationships. Whereas with guys, 9 times out of 10 if they're hanging out with a woman, it's because they want to get in their pants.

I never understood this, why even bother having a girlfriend that has male friends that she knows for several years?

Thanks huffpo enthusiast
10/10 would discard again

The age of cuckoldry is upon us: thecut.com/2018/06/my-boyfriend-moved-in-with-my-husband-and-our-kids.html

I'm guessing that this postmodernist bullshit is just some shitty bait, so here's a (You) for your trouble.

In the modern era where men and women go to school together and work together it's kind of hard to avoid isn't it?

It was a spoof of the often repeated leftist mantra of "prejudice plus institutional power" = Racism