Anyone here remember the exact moment, Senior Year, you realized "I'm never going to see any of these guys and gals, who I have been spending every moment of life with at this school, once we graduate? The moment where you realize that you truly will never see 90-95% of the people who have been in your life, who you had crushes on, were BFFs, were mortal enemies to, or dated and such again once you leave school?
I had it when I was about a month away from graduating. It was the annual "awards day" that the school had every year in April. Everyone herded into the gym while Seniors set in the middle of the gym in seats and watched as the brains and jocks got awards and shit for academics/sports achievements.
Afterwords, everyone else had to go class but us seniors get to go to an "after party" in the home ec classroom and we get to have cake and punch and hang out for the rest of the school day.
Anyone else have a moment like that in their senior year?
I was there, surrounded by a bunch of people, and realized I was never going to see them again after graduation. I realized that we were all going to scatter like the wind after graduation and this was probably going to be the last "special day" we get to hang out together as a group.
Yeah, although I've seen a couple people here and there since on one off occasions, the vast majority I haven't seen again. Some people I've gone to school with since I was a child, close friends, girls I liked, just faded. We still have facebook and shit but people just use it to talk to a select few close friends and post inane bullshit. Trippy stuff.
Lincoln Martinez
no cuz i dropped out my 2nd junior year
Juan Lopez
most people suck ass. I kept in touch my closest friends, don't really care about the others
Henry Phillips
No because I graduated way more than a month ago.
Carson Morales
I dropped out but I had zero friends long before that, so no.
Joseph Fisher
No because school sucked balls, was happy never to go to that shithole again. My life became instantly better after high school
Blake Stewart
Nah man, still best mates with four of the lads from HS. We go to the kinoplex together every couple weeks, or just grab a bite. Chill bro stuff. It's the best.
Josiah Wood
also, young fag, life is a series of meetings and departings. This is the way of things. No need to fight it or get freaked out
this is an extremely gay thread but i was very close with my roommate in college and my girlfriend was close with his and she's now my wife and i believe he married his chick too. we spent unbelievable amounts of time together for four years. many adventures, even during summer didn't speak to either of them ONCE after graduating. not a word i've kept three friends from high school and zero from college. i dont use social media, though. but those aren't real friends
James Perry
Is this your fucking blog or what faggot?
Brayden Cook
This is the best thing to learn
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How could you ever fucking care that you wouldn't see those people again?
Nathaniel Long
it is an odd realization the first time it happens
Connor Richardson
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Leo Carter
No, because I moved half way across the country in hs summerfag. I pretty much hated everyone I graduated with. Also, I started my first job and went to Europe a month after I graduated so no I never had "moment" to care about the low stakes shitty group of people that I spent 2 years with.
You spend 12-14 years with people, cycling though various group formations per grade level. You grow close to some, some you are close to then they fall away, crushes come and go along with friends and acquaintences, frienemies and enemies who you feel you will never escape from.
Then one day you realize all of them will be gone, scattered to the wind and you'll never see them again, in the enforced setting of school.
It's a heavy moment when you realize that your entire social order is about to fade away once you graduate
Aaron Bell
I went on independent study in 11th grade and never missed anybody from High School. Don't think I ever saw any of them again either.
Bentley Bennett
Friends are over rated and fade away fast.
Only family matters.
Grayson Lewis
Man I've been abandoned by so many friends in my life. I now have 5-6 good friends left and I'm scared they will leave too. I guess it's a part of progressing through your 20's but it's hard.
If you couldn't call someone 3 hours away and ask them to drop everything and drive out to pick you up in an emergency, they aren't a friend to you
Jackson Fisher
>It's a heavy moment when you realize that your entire social order is about to fade away once you graduate its also honestly quite liberating, you get a fresh start. use it wisely
Carter Howard
this is great advice
Ryan Parker
glad you guys agree, i've found it to be quite true, too true sometimes. Full disclosure though, i ripped it off of The Muppet Christmas Carol.
Mason Wood
35yo here. Eventually they will leave too. Be ready for this. You have to get good at and practice making new friends all the time because as you get older you will need to.
If you don't you're in for a really rough time.
Lucas Taylor
>You have to get good at and practice making new friends all the time because as you get older you will need to. a non trivial task for introverts to be sure
Jose Reyes
user, I realized that in 9th or 10th grade. That almost every one of those people would be irrelevant to my life in a few years. That was when I stopped giving a fuck about any of them, but my best friend. 25 years later, he's still my best friend, and all those other people are, as I predicted, irrelevant to my life. It's High School. Nothing in it means anything. And, never did.
Evan Young
Graduating high school is what made me realize that I didn't have any friends. After I graduated, all of my "friends" in high school couldn't give less of a shit about me. They were only willing to be friends with me because it was convenient and, the moment they realized it would take effort to maintain a friendship after high school, they fucked off and never spoke to me again.
It pissed me off at first, but then I developed other friendships with people who actually care about me. Graduating high school broke the illusion. It was a painful break, but a necessary one.
Jaxon Cox
What you don't think I struggle with this too?
Suck it the fuck up. It's your life and you only get one. If you want it to be miserable that's on you.
Michael Long
This is true, it took me to long to learn this. The harder you try to hold on to someone you care about, the greater pain you inflict upon yourself when they are inevitably ripped away by the insurmountable current of time.
