Let’s talk about single motherhood. I have seen a few memes and posts floating around here showing how damaging single mothers can be to not only their children, but society in general.
What is the solution to this problem, especially in the black community (3/4 of black children are born without a father involved in their life). I think one solution could be more social shaming of single mothers, as well as promotion of more careful selection of the men they let Have sex with them (ideally not till marriage)
Also, how do we fix this in a society that is continually promoting further degeneracy and casualness in their attitude toward hookup culture (ruins women’s ability to pair bond) and the idea that wymyn don’t need no man.
Why are single mothers at fault when 99% of time it's the father that bails on his family?
Nicholas Lopez
They either bail out like a mother can with adoption/abortion and/or the father is not known like from a ONS.
Juan Thomas
Lel >be literal roastie >let every every man from here to China run train on you with literally no commitment >eventually get pregnant because forgot birth control while black drunk >is surprised when Tyrone turns out to not be a stable individual for raising a family with
Women were a mistake
Joshua Barnes
citation needed
Cooper Ramirez
If we're talking about blacks, the only thing to do is to let them get abortions. Degeneracy aside, are you honestly telling me that you believe that poor choices in mates is the problem, and not the fact that black men skipping out on their kids is the norm? Even racemixing white women have the same problem. So maybe ask how to fix black men if you're not willing to discuss birth control and abortion for the women.
Logan Robinson
I would strongly recommend selectively funding planned parenthood’s in inner cities as a compromise with the left. Say well liners big cities obviously support abortion and as such let’s let them have them. Will help to keep down the number of libs as well.
Daniel Garcia
Women are the gatekeepers of sex. They choose who they lay with. This is the way the world works.
As such they are responsible if they fuck some loser who bails on them. They choose some fuckwit and let him fuck her and put a baby in her then are surprised when the trashy guy leaves.
Most likely then they lament on facebook "WHERE HAVE ALL DA GUD GUYS GONE!" while ignoring every message they've been sent by actually decent guys (but they aren't bad boy chad so fuck em).
And then hordes of beta faggots come out of the woodwork to give them a pass.
Aiden Nguyen
Black men are literal sub 80 iq retards most of the time so I’m not really sure we’re in a position to fix them. The solution is promotion of traditional Christian values so that women don’t let every man with a pulse fuck them. Also, in regards to the black community, are black women not aware that birth control exists? I mean white womenswear are huge whores too but they don’t seem to get pregnant as much. I’m not an expert on birth control but I’m pretty sure it’s fairly cheap even without insurance. Plus condoms are always an option.
You can't fix an animal incapable of self-awareness.
Genocide was and is the only way. Unless we can conjure up some ethical methodology for this, we're pretty much going to be overwhelmed with subhumans.
Josiah King
Black women don't give a shit if they get pregnant because they don't care weather their child has a future or not, it's just an extra number added onto their welfare check. But really, if you remove the black community and racemixing white women out of the equation, single mothers aren't really all that relevant. Most of them end up being older women who hit the wall and are desperate for a child even if they couldn't find a husband, the rest are divorced. In that case those are different issues altogether.
Kayden Stewart
Single parent homes are an issue. The solution is not only to shame the moms, because let’s be honest she is likely raising a kid on her own, that really is a self actualizing punishment. But shame the fathers. Shame them so much it takes their sexual desirability down in the world. If men have a harder time getting laid because they’re pumping kids into women who they have no desire to sire offspring with then they will be more careful about potential pregnancies and even more selective with whom they mate.
Hunter Ortiz
Based analysis
Women are the gatekeepers of sex, while men are the gatekeepers off commitment. If women were smart they would leverage this power in their youth in order to secure a decent man with a healthy mixture of both alpha and beta qualities (not a total $.0yboy but not chad either. Instead they waste their youth fucking around and attention whoring only to settle down with a total beta who leaves them unhappy and unfulfilled.
Women lack the ability to think forward and fail realize that what makes you feel good now, doesn’t always materialize into a good long term solution.
Jayden Long
Bring back 1950s style Christian values
Justin Stewart
Yes but you know, and indeed we all know, about iq gaps between men and woman. Women are submissive by nature and it seems extremely unfair to say our lower iq and emotionally impulsive counterparts are entirely to blame when we don’t lead them. For every single mother out there, there is a deadbeat guy. If they’re ostricized you will likely get more results in this climate. Because men want to get laid, and they want female attention. If laying with women they have no intention to have a commitment with gets their sexual marketplace value messed with then they’re less likely to keep up with this behavior.
Kayden Brown
Optics with that would be hard given today’s realities.
Levi Lopez
But what about biology? Men have higher sex drives than women, and if a man has a chance to have sex without commitment he is going to take it. However, if a man knows that a woman will not sleep with him unless they are married, he will commit to the best woman he can get and thus only have sex within the confines of the marriage. Women allow themselves to be taken advantage of by giving away their most powerful bargaining chip to any guy who can game her into fucking him. And men pursue this because they know it is an option and want to take advantage of it. Their biology demands it. Once sex before marriage is removed as even an option then the problem takes care of itself
Jace Cooper
Help people come to the realization that taking the property and labor of others through government is both shameful and evil.
Single mothers can only exist when they siphon off resources from single, unmarried working men. Even though over half of men will never pass on their genes, they will be taxed to pay for the children of others until they die.
Easton Miller
British cuck
Liam Nguyen
I have a very simple solution to the single motherhood problem.
-End child support -End mommy oriented court systems -End food stamps -End section 8 -End hud housing -End any other entitlements -Allow for limited abortion in urban areas
This would force all single mothers to close their legs and deal with their actions. But it would only work if ALL support mechanisms are pulled and women are given a way out. Also I would coordinate out a two week shut down of government to deal with cunt riots, and follow up with re-ed.
Eh, what if it's a man they've been married to ten years that was educated, worked, but decided after 5 kids, he want some young fresh virgin? Is the woman entirely at fault still? I agree 99% of single moms are roasties that were roasties probably asking for it, but some men are just shit too.
Ayden King
Above solution would also cure the black liberal problem. But caution is needed when using the above solution because it WOULD Kickstart an urban civil war.
Just a little caviat I would add is that I would allow the cunts to adopt or abort.
I agree but this option works perfectly by forcing those parings of shit men and women back together, because the virginal possible is no longer incentivised to deal with the man anymore thus forcing him to pair with a cunt that is either worth his time or go back to back to baby mama to support.
A- Yes, because the woman has the mechanisms of the fed to support her and her bad choices. Whereas the man has no mechanisms to support him but for what the female gets from the federal government. If anything the man is deincentivised from working or contributing through his taxation. This forces the man into a situation where he deals with a cunt for money and has a bitch on the side for pleasure and as a backup if he gets tired of the cunt.
Agreed but rights to property isn't the same as giving them the house for free with no rent and then giving them free healthcare and food and spending money and childcare. Take it all away and that right to property that we gave them actually becomes worth something to them.
I simply ignore them. I've had women lie to me about their motherhood and I dump them on the spot.
I had one girl put her child through hell, pretending the kid doesn't exist, just to date me and probably would have killed her own child. That's how fucked up women are.
You'd be surprised how many single mothers are out there.
Unless I was a single father, single mothers are a no go to me. They have proven they are bad at decision making and still make incredibly bad mistakes.
I was raised by a single mother. My experience was probably the best possible outcome, and I still turned out barely okay.
If anyone cares I can elaborate
Christian Hill
> I think one solution could be more social shaming of single mothers You can shame them for not disciplining the children, but the fathers need far greater public shaming
Nathaniel Harris
i was also raised by a single mother but i had to dig myself out of the faggotry. When i was 16-18 i noticed how weak minded i was. People my age were way more mature than me. They would be able to confront certain topics and things on their own, while i always felt insecure if i could handle myself. I had to reject my mother and tell her to stop treating me like a child. I hurt her alot and she cried alot of times how "cold" i was to her. It was necessary. I think thats the biggest problem with single mothers. Sons grow up weak, not fit for the world. Not strong enough to go through life alone. Cant say how that would affect daughters.
Jaxson Morris
I had a single mother and she was completely enept at life. She has Cerbral palsy so she had to rely on men for everything. It was a fucking disaster.
Camden Brooks
Since you seem to care, fellow kraut, I guess I'll elaborate. My mom and dad split before I was born because she wanted to move to a small city and he didn't. I was raised by my mom (who worked, she was not a degenerate) and her parents. My grandfather was the "man of the house" who brought in most of the money, so I wasn't poor either - I went to a private school for 10 years. But even still, the lack of an actual father (even as a kid, I knew that someone was missing) to teach me how to be a man made me what you said: weak-minded, overly sensitive and insecure. Plus, since my mom worked, I was alone most of the time and had very few friends and next to no social skills.
I began growing out of my faggotry when my grandpa died when I was 14, and I became the "man of the house", but it still took around 3 years for me to become more or less adjusted to the normie world. The social and emotional development most kids had during elementary I had during middle/high school. Nowadays I sorta overcompensate on the other way - many people have described me as cold and silent.
And a friend of mine had a seriously toxic relationship with a girl without a father. She was extremely unstable.
Jacob Mitchell
This is a trope but in reality it's always the woman leaving the man.
Ayden Sullivan
Take away child support and they can't tokenize their kids. No amount of public shame will solve how deep this problem goes. The only way out is to take away the gov funds and the redistribution of wealth from the male. You want men to be responsible, you have to let them be responsible.
Tyler Morris
>, how do we fix this in a society Revoke any and all welfare that's currently in effect for single mothers. If you can't do that reduce the welfare by 75%
Colton Fisher
get rid of abortion as an option abortion, quite literally, makes having a baby the choice of the mother ONLY it isn't chance or an accident that she's having a baby, because she chooses to keep it men have no say in the matter and are thus relieved of responsibility if women didn't have a choice to kill the unborn, men would be seen as equally responsible for the pregnancy/child
Ayden Scott
>what if it's a man they've been married to ten years that was educated, worked, but decided after 5 kids, he want some young fresh virgin? Is the woman entirely at fault still? You chose to bring up an extreme case that less than 3% of the average to upper class male is capable of doing.
Isaac Phillips
>My mom and dad split before I was born because she wanted to move to a small city and he didn't Isnt that....weird and sorry to say that, stupid? How can you decide the fate of an unborn child just because you couldnt come to an agreement over something so trivial?
>weak-minded, overly sensitive and insecure Yeah man that describes it perfectly. I was a good person, but to the extent that it would have a negative effect on me. I was good to people, who didnt deserve my kindness. I was too sensitive to stand my man and protect myself. I was being nice to garbage people, and they would see it as a weakness and use it against me.
And just like you, it took me around 3-4 years to finally become a man. I had to improve so many things about myself. Lifting and getting big was probably the best thing for me. Its easier to feel like man, when you look in the mirror and you actually see a grown man, and not a child.
I dont know about you, but this whole thing had a positive aspect at last. Im a very kind person. I attract very kind people, and i have relationships with very kind and cute girls, not with whores. All my friends are like me, happy and kind. And it feels good to be a good person. Im proud of not being a piece of shit, and i know i do more good for this world than other human trash.
