This is going to be a little long, but I'd really like some other peoples input.
I have three sons, 8, 4, and 1 years old. They have a good life, lots of toys, trampoline, pool, every damn gaming console ever made, and two biological parents that love each other and them more than anything. Here is the problem...
There is a kid, 11 years old, that lives next door. His life fucking sucks from what i have seen. All i hear is screaming, cussing, and horrible noises coming from their house 24/7. The little guy just sits in his yard looking sad all damn day with no toys. Whenever my kids come outside he lights the fuck up, and begs to come over. I've been trying to help him. Little things, play ball or frisbee with him, give him ice cream and shit, just try to make his day a little better. But, lately I've noticed that he has been stealing toys. I didnt say anything to him, because i just figured he was doing it because he doesnt have any. So, i let it go.
Yesterday him and my two oldest sons were in the yard playing. My 8 year old went in for a minute and left the 4 year old alone with him. I was working in the yard and going in and out of my shop. I heard something behind my shop, looked out and didnt see the boys, so i went to check on them. I found him behind my shop playing with my 4 year olds dick.
You cant punch an 11 year old, no matter how much you want to, so i just sent him home. I realize he has most likely been abused by someone before, and i feel bad for him. But, i dont feel safe with my kids or myself being around him anymore.
What should i do? Tell him he isnt allowed back over, and just watch him sit in his yard all fucking sad while my sons have a great time? Should i call CPS? Ive always felt bad for the little guy and wanted to help him, but i cant do it at the detriment of my own sons.
How should i handle this? Thanks in advance.