Dating is nothing more than a LARP marriage, even when "trad" people do it with "trad contraceptives" and "trad premarital sex". Its an entirely postmodern method of courtship so dont be fooled.
Dating isnt trad, but a jewish trick to destroy society.
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stop spamming this shit bait, faggot
Traditional method of pairing was:
1. courtship/engagement - youll meet each other at the presence of the family, so hands dont become too sticky and for PARENTS to judge you and your family (because bride become a part of husbands family). Also, PARENTS of the bride questioned you about your own family in order to test the geneology, your material status etc. Parents of bride test everything, you also test about your brides history, that is why old marriages were so successful.
NO SEX happened here. BUT WE LOOOOVE EACH OTHER. Okay, and what happens if you stop loving her or engagement fails? Girl looses virginity and is on its way to work at the whorehouse or marry down.
2. marriage - you are OFFICIALY a family. Have wild christian sex and create plenty of white babies. Congrats!
So where does dating fit here?
NOWHERE.
Dating isnt even courting, you basically LARP as a marriage. You LOOOOVE each other and then you LARP as marriage with another, then another and then you wonder how everyone has a mileage when getting married and how so many marriages fail.
Dating isnt a christian custom (is there a place in Bible that even mentions that kind of male-female interaction?) but a jewish trick to destroy society.
So Selner and other coolredpolledtrad people should do that kind of shit. Either engage a girl who you think is suitable for marriage, dont do this postmodern marriage LARP.
postmodern courting methods are directly connected to the (((lack of hymen))) on the wedding night which causes other problems leading to failing marriages and muh 14 words
>stop spamming this shit bait, faggot
why? the problem of marriages failing is a serious issue.
stop attacking right wingers then you imbecile retard
>stop attacking right wingers then
da faq are you on about?
>always existed
>postmodern
hmmm
you are using the image of euro right wingers making these stupid threads you mentally challenged retard
dont attack ring wingers you homo faggots holy shit
Did he critiise your waifu?
Fucking hell back to patreon you redditor
>always existed
it literally didnt, that much of judgement free male with female (sexual) interaction was never here prior to postmodernism.
authentic system is courtship, described here>the image of euro right wingers making these stupid threads you mentally challenged retard
>dont attack ring wingers you homo faggots holy shit
Im sorry that your dragon dildo hurts you that much - with pic of selner and petibone I tried to demonstrate to what degree have we been collectivly skemed and how low the bar is set.
Its like a neoconservativism of traditionalism.
>that much
So it always existed?
>christlarping
cringe
>So it always existed?
just how autistically german are you? dating never existed while societal structures were functioning
Read pic related. Dating culture is pushed by school to atomize families and aggregate brainwashed plebs into various economic units of convenience. School pseudo-steralises normies with said dating culture. Now they can't pair bond, are over stressed and will have unstable families that have to really on government services and school for upbringing. Then they get brain washed all over again.
It's a slavish corporate perversion of traditional human pairing and produces dyseginc mutt goyim.
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Sellner is a cuck who goes to events with trannies and liberalists to support CO like Tommy Robinson.
>School pseudo-steralises normies with said dating culture.
I don think that is started from there - schools with gender mixed situations push it but it started from (((courtesan))) culture of france (word comes from courting, note that) and the sodomite culture...after sex revolution it got adapted by heterosexuals
what triggered you
>Sellner is a cuck
he isnt a cuck. seens like an ok dude actually.
What would you advocate people do in the current year?
>knock knock
>good day sire I wish to ask for your daughters hand in matrimony
>end up on sex offenders register & charged with human trafficking and sexual slavery.
Of course it did you retard.
>dating never existed
Uh sweetie
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IT DIDNT EXIST AS A CUSTOM YOU TOTAL TITS
>Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in humans whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship or marriage. It is a form of courtship, consisting of social activities done by the couple, either alone or with others.
NEVER HAPPENED
>NEVER HAPPENED
*as a socially acceptable custom.
dating always existed within prostitues and other non impressive casts of society
in a sense this is right as a long time ago people married out of fear of dying a short miserable life due to lack of lifespan
now people have longer lifespans which gives them the ability to shop around and see how much better a partner they can have
yet a lot of feminist women have taken things to far for themselves by dating around and expecting a partner beyond their means eventually ending up as dried out miserable lonely suicidal dykes
And how exactly do you know this?
arranged marriages should probably come back in the form of arrange to dating, if anything
So what you are saying is that women belong in the kitchen or the bedroom, should be barefoot and pregnant, that we should lower the age of consent, and engage in domestic discipline when required?
>And how exactly do you know this?
read some older novels, dostoyevski and such, think about my post here. Historically homos invented dating.
this thread is more about how to achieve that.
all these tradthots continue to not be married
the minute a nba or nfl black athlete steps their way they will drop their traditional stance
That would be wonderful
I think christian groups call that courtship
Based now THIS is romanticism.
I agree OP, but now it's even worse with trad hookup culture on trad tinder
Hypergamy disguised as casual dating / serial monogamy. Leave before things get serious. Fuck the next dude 2 days later guilt free because "we're dating". Rinse and repeat until you're 34 working at a shitty cafe wondering where all the good men went.
>it literally didnt, that much of judgement free male with female (sexual) interaction was never here prior to postmodernism.
It always existed in bigger civilizations
The moment individuals and their genetical tribes give up their power to a ruler, the options are totalitarian or degeneration
>Based now THIS is romanticism.
God, do I wish for that to still exist. Notice that in that process women were unironically respected - not in a white knight way, but genuinly.
>I think christian groups call that courtship
Menonites still have it, its not aranged marriage, women have a say, as they should.
>Hypergamy disguised as casual dating / serial monogamy.
THIS NIBBA GETS IT
Sellner and Pettibone are technically courting, not dating.
I think he's genuinely obsessed though. Probably some mental health outpatient who just can't stop obsessing about this topic.
10/10 trap.
>Probably some mental health outpatient who just can't stop obsessing about this topic.
you dont think that this issue is important?
>Sellner and Pettibone are technically courting
only if you split straws you can call it courting.
Based trad Croat.
This place always feels like nobody understands what they are actually talking about
The idea behind marxism has always been detribalisation and depersonalification for a more appropriate reeducation by the ruling class - "degeneration". Our genetical abilities are different, but through limitation and demotivation you stop the "gifted" ones from reaching their potential for the benefit of the lesser people.
The statistics of "mental disorders" in the west is very telling in this regard..
Guess who benefits? Surprisingly, the ruling class. Jews pushing marxism is an eternal meme because of their religious tribalism and nepotism - they arent educated by the culture, but by their religion and support each other work-wise. While marxism makes the goyim equal, the jew profits, as observable at the 1% in america
>Hypergamy disguised as casual dating / serial monogamy.
question is - when did that shit start? how can it fly under the radar for so long and not being called up as what it is - whoredom?
It’s the way love is perceived. Love grows from marriage, not the other way around.
8th paragraph up from the bottom in pic related,
By 1900, through the agency of the radical new Denver/Chicago "Children’s Court," one
important machine to perform this transfer function was in place. Children need not be
wasted building blocks for the State’s purpose just because their natural parents had been.
The lesson the new machine-economy was teaching reinforced the spiritual vision of
utopians: perfect interchangeability, perfect subordination. People could learn to emulate
machines; and by progressive approximations they might ultimately become as reliable as
machinery. In a similar vein, men and women were encouraged through easy divorce
laws and ever-increasing accessibility to sexually explicit imagery, to delay choosing
marriage mates. With the mystery removed, the pressure to mate went with it, it was
supposed. The new system encouraged "trials," trying on different people until a good fit
was found.
Muslims say it well:
"Couples are supposed to fall in love *AFTER* they've gotten married. Not before.*
Actually an great post. Have a bump.
Cool story uncle. Did mommy burn your tenders today?
Havent seen such a detailed one, but yes, marx was the first one to fully describe this "utopian vision" - its the reason many accuse communism and todays capitalism to have the same endgame
thanks neighbour.
trad LARPing is all around.
TradTM hypocrisy no1
pic rel - father leads his daughter to get married...what does that simbolise?
THAT SHE FORNICATED FOR YEARS AND LIVED ON HER OWN?? No, that is what is happening, but that should symbolise that she was under fathers authority UNTIL getting married.
well what do you expect us to do? outside of the muslim world, arranged marriages are neither fashionable nor legal
TradTM hypocrisy no2
husband carrying the bride over to the house...youll figure out on your own the LARP part
>well what do you expect us to do?
I speak the truth Ive discovered, I cant give an exact solution, but only give you a guidance to what we should strive for.
>marriage is good
it's like you don't even realize how superior it is for people to have no stability in life. everything is way smoother and productive when people suffer from either constantly doubting their partner who might leave them for any reason or are suffering from being alone.
yeah I agree with what you're sayiny but I don't see a solution either outside of rebuilding society the way we want it after a total collapse
>rebuilding society the way we want it after a total collapse
this is a meme. collapse promises nothing - in fact things will get worse after a collapse.
watch: alex kurtagic - masters of the universe (amren speech)
>The idea behind marxism has always been detribalisation and depersonalification for a more appropriate reeducation by the ruling class - "degeneration". Our genetical abilities are different, but through limitation and demotivation you stop the "gifted" ones from reaching their potential for the benefit of the lesser people.
>The statistics of "mental disorders" in the west is very telling in this regard..
Agreed, the system is designed to enslave your mind using the idiot education. Normies go along with it for an easy welfare gibs life, low IQ normies even enforce it.
t. incel
>Dating is nothing more than a LARP marriage
Literally this, well said Croat
>marx was the first one to fully describe this "utopian vision"
No he got that idea from being educated by you autistic krauts.
Based and true. This will make the Jews mad
>meme flag
>shut it down post
(((Classic)))
tbqh the only people I know who date are JUSTed losers, everyone with a good relationship I know already knew each other and just gradually got closer and closer until they were moving in with each other, the idea of having a like job interview for a relationship is weird
Show your flag, cunt
>everything you can do is a Jewish trick or a meme
>no, I don't have a constructive alternative in mind
Thanks, OP. Let's forego having children until imported Sharia brings courtship comes back into fashion.
brings courtship back into fashion*