Ive never understood the appeal of casual sex. it seems so pointless to me...

Obviously casual sex is degenerate and we should have enforced monogamy

This

>ive never understood the appeal of casual sex
It feels good and it grants social status. Not saying it's worth it, but the appeal to normies shouldn't be hard to understand.

You're right op, (((casual sex))) is a weapon against our civilization

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chastity has been seen as a virtue throughout human history by numerous different societies. in the grand scheme of things, "casual sex" has only ceased to be seen as immoral very, very recently.
in other words, you are right and they are wrong. never let them convince you that you're some kind of loser for not sleeping around. don't fall for their (((tricks))).

In all fields.

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>ive never understood the appeal of casual sex.
That's because you didn't study gender studies, my fellow white male.

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Cause having your dick instantly pitch a tent every time you see a short skirt is awesome

There's no way that she looks like that, so you shut up. Don't make me come up there.

the true redpill on casual sex is that people who talk about how much they love sex or call others betas/tell them to go get laid are often the most desperate guys around. Often virgins.
I'm pretty attractive but more so I'm just good at talking to girls. After having lots of hookups, you naturally take girls of the pedestal because you know their tricks and what they like. You also learn that casual sex/masturbation is a huge waste of time and energy. You could do so much more with your youth than waste it on thots.
Don't fap, do not go out of your way to get laid. Spend your energy wisely.
Around age 22-24 the importance of your health slaps you in the face. If you smoke cigarettes, pop pills, fap way too much, your life is going to be affect in a much more visible way than in the past. Your potential will be lost substantially.

OP, I think you're actual a fag but haven't come to terms with it yet. You obviously don't understand attraction to women. Casual sex is exciting and different every time. There's always the possibility it might turn into something else and there's always intense flirtation and flattery. But you don't understand such things at all.

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wtf is that thing some kinda goblin monster from beyond the stars???

>ive never understood the appeal of casual sex. it seems so pointless to me. society loves to shame virgins for "not being able to get laid" but why would i even want to "get laid"? how does sterile casual sex with promiscuous people benefit me? statistically speaking nothing is more damaging to marriages and families than casual sex. as someone who wants to get married and raise a family why wouldnt i choose to remain pure? for a board that loves to moralize about "traditional values" there is no shortage of degenerate fornicators here.
WHAT THE FUCK AM I READING? YOU NEED TO SMASH A COUPLE OF BROADS BEFORE GETTING MARRIED... YOU ARE A FUCKING BETA FAG. GROW A COUPLE THEN COME TALK TO THE ADULTS

>he doesn't realize the power of makeup.
just taking off a girls eyeliner makes her 30% less attractive. Some girls depend on that shit.

I stayed pure, until i got married at 24. It's great OP. I love my wife, i get to sleep with her whenever i want and do whatever i want to her/with her. Sleeping with random chicks before that would have only lessened this perfect faith and appreciation i have for her body. I'm not forced to compare her body with anyone else's. Also, just by saying "i don't need any other woman other than you" i can see her loyalty skyrocket. I can see it in her eyes that she is truly happy for that. It's not enough to make a relationship work, but it damn sure is a good fucking start.

what's her name

It ruins society but honestly if you cannot even fantasize about the flirting, the tension, the excitement and the potential of that steamy pleasurable joined venture, you have brain issues. No offense user, many of us here do.
But if sensual touch or the idea of it brings you NO joy, you have actual autism of some form.

>condoning
You know what I love a good pizza, but it is pure poison for the gut lining (of anyone) as is all modern gluten. This means I can fantasize about the (momentary) pleasure of eating a pizza, while simultaneously knowing that I would 100% ban modern processed dwarf-wheat had I that power.

Based. Was your wife a virgin too? I'm actually tall and good looking but 23 and still haven't met a qt and I feel like 24 is the male equivalent of the roastie wall.

>Some girls depend on that shit.
True, but I can tell that the chick in OP's post isn't even wearing that much makeup. Not tons. She's got some on her eyes, some on her cheeks, and some lip gloss/lipstick, but it's subtle. I'd have babies with her any lifetime.

>I stayed pure, until i got married at 24. It's great OP. I love my wife, i get to sleep with her whenever i want and do whatever i want to her/with her. Sleeping with random chicks before that would have only lessened this perfect faith and appreciation i have for her body. I'm not forced to compare her body with anyone else's. Also, just by saying "i don't need any other woman other than you" i can see her loyalty skyrocket. I can see it in her eyes that she is truly happy for that. It's not enough to make a relationship work, but it damn sure is a good fucking start.
Really?
>I stayed pure, until i got married at 24. It's great OP. I love my wife, i get to sleep with her whenever i want and do whatever i want to her/with her. Sleeping with random chicks before that would have only lessened this perfect faith and appreciation i have for her body. I'm not forced to compare her body with anyone else's. Also, just by saying "i don't need any other woman other than you" i can see her loyalty skyrocket. I can see it in her eyes that she is truly happy for that. It's not enough to make a relationship work, but it damn sure is a good fucking start.
AKA what normal people think of the chan... basement dweller.

Moar

>if you don´t like spiders hehe
>you secretly wish you were a spider

This is your argument user. It holds NO water, men have always told / guided other men to this solution for such extremely autistic thoughts. Best via marriage yes, but folks here are just being realistic.

>t. ugly virgin

haha, stay salty, fag! I get to touch my wife's thick ass, her thin waist and perfect tits whenever i want! She tells all her friends i'm her perfect prince and that she would rather die than leave me wanting anything she can provide me for a day! 6 years of marriage and counting. That's what you get when you stay pure and strong.

The redpill is that you don't need to have sex to be happy with yourself and you shouldn't get your validation from women.

This is inspirational. But surely you felt attraction / had flirting fantasies before? Therein lies the difference between you and OP.

Also gross... you waited your whole life for that??? Must be a fucking weirdo/ugly

OH shit. I think I know where that chick works! lol I knew she looked familiar. No way...I gotta check this out soon..

Virgin detected

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Look at the sad virgin living his sad virgin life! I laugh at the sad virgin!

I agree but I don't think the two points contradict each other

I've only ever had casual sex with people. I have wicked attachment and trust issues. All I want is to be intimate with someone I love and care about, but I doubt I'll ever be able to let myself feel those things towards someone.

Spoken like a true fag... have fun with one pussy beta fag

It feels good user, like eating cake.

Just go slow. You sound like a part of me. Just take things really slow with the right kind of woman who likes that kind of thing.

Clean your god damn mirror!

Obviously, it's common male instinct to want a virgin. Marry anything less and you're unsatisfied forever. Even the bible says so and i'm not very religious.

I dated, traded porn with friends and all that stuff, but i didn't sleep with anyone. I always dated thinking i was going to marry the girl and sleeping with her = marriage. "Either she's mine forever or never" was my mentality. I was tired and worn out by 21, but i did it with crazy online chatting and hijinks until i found the one. She was 14 though. All the older ones were always whores or broken someway.

I wish I had a wife and a family.

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Who is that chick that looks like this chick that I sort of know? She looks like the best combination of some kind of Southeast Asian and white.

You are cattle. Literally you have no actual traits besides meaningless pleasure.

It's sex, it releases monstrous amounts of hormones and overstimulates your brain and body, the casual part are your instincs trying to increase the genetic pool. What is in there to not understand about appeal of casual sex?

It's very easy to comprehend the appeal of casual sex on a biological basis. But for long-term relationships and raising a family is a whole different matter.

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Casual sex is good for men, but not for women.
Women gain nothing from fucking a bunch of men. Instead they hurt themselves because no one wants to date a slut who will likely cuckold them.
This is biology 101 but it's still too complex for strong women to understand.

not everyone is like that OP

People are going to call me a liar but I've been offered sex with girls a few times, and I've turned them down because I don't want to stick my dick in crazy slut

And I'm not the only guy I know who is like that.

There are still some of us around with standards and decency, don't lose heart OP and don't believe the Joos when they try and make you believe that everyone is as degenerate as they want you to be

I agree with you user

Manhood isnt being desperate and selfish just for meaningless pleasure. Manhood is getting what you want, and if i want to have a good wife who loves me and waiting until marriage until sex, who are you to call me less of a man? Most men who have casual sex have it with people they hate through social pressure, and men who cave to social pressure like that are below nigger-tier

Based spaghetti 10/10

Sounds reasonable, but is there any scientific evidence to support this?

Dunno. Prolly cuz it feelz good on muh dick

And yeah, you're right. I've maybe not have had as much sex with as many women as the next, but I have zero STDs and 100% self-respect sexually. Sex with people without love is degenerate destructive shit.

based voluntary celibate poster

kek

You are full of bullshit, having sex is fun, having more is better. Go be a uppity faggot somewhere else

It's a repeated meme in the media as an indoctrination into degenerate behavior. The slow and steady deterioration of our morals and values is ((their)) goal.

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This is why MGTOW exists, at a certain point you can´t really continue in modern society if you are too old to bag one with functioning bonding capacity. Sad desu
Good on you though Italybro.

lol It's not even celibacy, it's common sense and decency. As a divorced guy I also know how crazy women can be, so I'm careful.

Yeah whatever dude. Bedding attractive women is good social capital with other men, besides the fact that it's just enjoyable.

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Agreed, the plan should always be a real relationship, long term, emotionally invested etc. This doesn´t always work out however.

The hyper-sexualization is by design. See picture attached.

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Yeah, it's fun, but only if it's with a woman I love. Hey, I tried being an immoral fuckwad once, I didn't get far and I didn't like how it felt anyway.

>This doesn´t always work out however.

Technically nothing does as we all have a shelf life, right?

fuck I misread sorry, long day at the hospital

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So'k, fren.

Like you have a choice, ugmo

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Guys who think pulling women shows how manly they are secretly think about touching dicks and try to suppress it.
>proof is you have another dudes bod saved on your hard drive faggot

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There is, but I can't be bothered to link it because I'm a wageslaving right now. Aydin paladin did a video series about porn that covers it in relation to other things. Sex with partners before marriage for women increased likelihood of affairs and unhappiness after marriage related to the number of premarital sexual partners. It seems to effect men differently but still has an effect.

I guess sex is "fun" and physically relieving because of the endorphins it makes you release but you have ask yourself? Is getting dopamine hits (in whichever way you get them) a worthy pursuit in life?

Now if you must be an addict to hits of dopamine, why not get them in a way that also teaches you something or lets you learn new things? Getting "good" at casual sex only matters at getting even more casual sex. Getting "good" at reading the classics and playing vidya also provides you a steady dose of dopamine with some nice peaks but you also get good at skills that will aid you in other tasks in life and learn useful things.

Why make the edification of your skills be hampered by catering to thots and indulge in the most basal forms of pleasure when our species is capable of so much more?

Permanent celibacy is the choice of the truly sophisticated man.

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That's me dude, stop projecting.

Online you have access to hundred of millions of women. Thousands of young virgin girls just wanting to escape their parents/social circles. The only skill you need is making friends with them. Being interesting, caring for them. Getting out of your shell (at least online!) and just face ridicule if necessary. Fuck fear. You'll find one who cares for your interests and hobbies if you're not a fat, shit man. I didn't even have much social capital or money to my name. Just strong convictions and beliefs. That's all it takes. Not being a fucking nobody, at least in your mind.

>inb4 pedo
Don't have to fuck her until she's 18. If she loves you, she'll wait until necessary. The more you wait, the better it feels. Not just the first time, but forever. (Or at least for a long time.)

lol
look at this gay user

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100% of women on the planet would laugh at literally anyone for saying this

I'm just not keen on the nustyle casual sex. Tinder hookups are literally:

>"hi"
>"hi"
>::bitch bends over::
>::dude doggys her::
>"okay cool, see ya"
>"yeah you too"

No foreplay, no afterplay. What the literal fuck?

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>The more casual sex you have the weaker the bond with your future partner
Bullshit. I've had plenty of "casual sex" before marrying.
Been married for 28 years now.
You have to get it out of your system.

I‘d like to lose my virginity but how? every girl out there has Herpes or some STD by now.

Sex is for me the same as the idea of jumping out of a plane, why bother risking fucking up my body if I could simply chose not to?

Wasn´t trying to demoralize, more excuse my own degenerate past.

No, just about half, but who cares about those loose disease-pockets.

Philosophically sound post but dopamine is a huge part of why you do anything. Granted you are not a rat, you have a forebrain, but anyway:
Putting an electrode-thing into a rats brain to block dopamine, would cause them to not even get up to eat the food that was next to them.
This gives a hint of how VITAL dopamine is for motivation in life, from doing dishes to your career.

I didn't quite take it that way, but I hear you now. We both know what's good.

boomers like you are half of whats wrong with society

the other half are the jews who led you to be what you are

Use a condom?

Based post but I do believe this flies easier in Italy / southern countries than it would up here, even if you would save it until fully legal.
In short: If only you knew how bad things really are.

“sterile casual sex”

Words you don’t see together

Flirting and dating is all but gone. Add to this the internet and the loss of IRL socializing for young people, and you have an endless stream of purpose-less Beautiful Ones, ready to go ham because they can´t function.

I laugh how tards mock short term to long term relationship sex.
Socially retarded people cant hold down a relationship for more than a one night stand never experience it so have no idea what its like.

I'm gonna post a less trolly response this time.

You shouldn't be afraid to go out there and play the field. If you aren't willing to give it up after a few dates, you may miss your chance with a good girl. Have fun and use protection. That doesn't mean fuck everything that walks, but get it out of your system.

When you meet a girl that seems worth going to the next level with, don't be afraid to settle down.

I lost my v-card when I was 16. Slept around a bit, met my current girlfriend at 17 and now I'm 25. If I wasn't looking around and having casual sex, I wouldn't have met her. Also, if I did meet her anyway, I would have always wondered if I really wanted to have sex with the same girl forever. In reality, my brief experience let me realize its all pretty much the same and settling down when you meet someone trustworthy is the right move

how? I strap it on my Lips in my face or what?

Thing is, user, no woman, no matter how pure, will ever love a sperg like you. Given your sad, sorry fate, you may as well commission the sloppiest, most disgusting whore in your area to at least see what the fuss is all about. Godspeed.

yeah maybe we cant help but seek dopamine, but we can at least chose the best way to do so, or at least ways that aren't actively harmful to you

I mean flirting/dating is one set of things, but I'm talking about when it's time to fuck, it's nice for things to build up, and then when it's done it's nice to have some aftertime/chilltime. With like 8 out of every 10 Tinder hookups it's like how I described. Like your dick isn't even dry yet and the bitch who's name you don't even remember is out the door. There's nothing fucking sexy about that, unless you're so fucking new at fucking that it's enough for you.

Kek