After attending one of those college volunteer propaganda seminars, my girlfriend wants to “travel and experience these things”. She’s been a fanatic about volunteer work but has never really done any outside her community. I don’t like the idea for obvious reasons. Any advice, Jow Forums?
After attending one of those college volunteer propaganda seminars...
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Tell her about how those programs are used to advance US imperial interests abroad and then she wont want to do it since it wont make her feel like she is a force for good or wahtever
>Spit roast
>niglets
Haha get fucked.
Your girlfriend is about to go fuck shitskins and there's nothing you can do about it. They will probably be better looking and more muscular than you.
Well, looks like you’re a cuck who can’t even control your gf.
You're dating an npc. You failed to evolve her beyond that and the system has now programmed her. Get over it and start over. Women need to be firmly guided to realizations slowly over time until she finally starts to reflect upon her actions and starts forming character.
She wants to experience brown people
Just dump her and move one
Dump her
Your girlfriend is about to go fuck shitskins and there's nothing you can do about it. They will probably be better looking and more muscular than you.
I'm not black pill or on some MGTOW shit, but for christ sake OP, your role is to be a masculine leader. How long are you two together? If for more than 3 months, you should already be in charge and have her taking the redpill from you. Either you are failing at this, or this is some masculine ass bitch that doesn't want to submit to you for any reason. These girls exist. Thing is, if she will go - she will get raped, robbed or worse, killed 95%. If not, she will come back totally bluepilled, you will grow resentful of her, without any chance of redpilling her. You will probably undergo series of break ups and get togethers where you will be inflicted with serious crippling emotional pain, while trying to redpill her or forget her, as weeks go by.
I’ve done my fair share of redpilling her, and she’s a born-and-raised Ohio redneck who hates niggers. She’s sweet and a bit anti-social, she hates partying and anything that has to do with alcohol or other substances mainly due to her family’s history with them. Her common sense can be a bit lacking at times, so there’s that. Does me taking her virginity help any?
Dump her.
She hates niggers yet she wants to go “help” them? What?
Got no advice but I could share a personal experience.
>be me
>have a gf of 2 years
>gf wants to internship in a foreign country
>be cautious of the idea, though still supportive
>she gets accepted
>internship is on an island in the Mediterranean sea
>3 months on an a degenerate island
>have to stick to supporting her
>can't tell if I trust her or not
>bug her phone anyway
>summer comes
>we say our fair wells
>have great summer, didn't even check the bug
>summer coming to an end
>she's about to return in a week
>i open my logs
>she cheated
It was a bitch of a pain since it was my first serious relationship. Really changed my perspective on women.
She's gone to college and literally every aspect of you trying to assert some authority and attempt to redpill is going to be recontextualized by all her friends and authority figures who she spends 90% of her time with now.
She will be taught that you are everything evil in the world and your attempts to help, educate, and protect her are going to be cast as abuse. She'll probably retroactively consider your sex life as an extended grooming plot.
Your relationship was fucked the second she got her college acceptance letter.
Get her pregnant so she's locked in to you. Tell her the third world is full of many harmful viruses that will make her baby disfigured and retarded if she goes there and catches a disease.
Dump that roastie
remind her the elderly and handicapped are always underfunded and in need. if she refuses, ask why these unfortunate americans are unworthy of her blessings.
anyway, she's gone. get over it. the sooner the better
Can I ask which bug? Asking for a friend.
“Niggers” being shit-tier human beings. I haven’t gotten to redpilling her about Africa and the delightful basketball players who inhabit it yet but hopefully I will sometime today. I know that if I totally forbid her from trying this there’ll be a fight but she’ll listen to me. I’ve only had to exercise that authority a few times before but she’s obedient.
Ask her why she can't simply help the people around you.
If she can't answer, find another girlfriend.
I dated a girl for 6 years through college and after. We were going to get married and all that.
She left to do Peace corps in Africa, met another peace corps guy and started dating him and left me. Only took about 4 months.
This x 1000
It happened to me years ago. My ex went from two to 40+ in her slut count in less than a year by traveling abroad.
>Does me taking her virginity help any?
she's curious about other dicks. can't stop this anymore. this is what women do. they have no feelings, it's all fake
Stop acting like a cunt and support her. Get involved. Learn where she is going. If in fact, she wants to volunteer in the fucking Pashtun region, go over the dangers with her. If she wants to go to Canada and pet baby seals and call it environmentalism for example, what are you even sperging about? Unless this is a control thing. In which case, her reactions already tell you that you've got none of that.
Very good points, that’s what I was going to tell her next, if you’re going to waste your time helping anyone help American citizens
I think more guys need to be clued about this.
If your girl keeps talking about the Machu Picchu, pyramids, geology or whatever, then maybe she actually wants to travel.
If she's talking about "experiencing" stuff, she just wants to suck some other cock. That's find, but don't stay with her.
>born-and-raised Ohio redneck
So she's naive. I don't know what to tell you user. She is a very easy target. Can't you convice her to do some volunteering with animals or something?
Droidjack
>support you girlfriend in her quest to fuck foreign men
why?
Downgrade to casual fuck buddy immediately. Seriously, abort relationship now if for no other reason than she'll be gone 6 months. Then, we can all laugh and call her a roastie in a thread five years from now. Trust me, your value as a mate is going up and hers down. Eject, abort, get the fuck outta there man! Post more screencaps of making it casual. Tell her you don't think she should be tied to you when she's there so you want to just be friends.
Do yourself a favor,cut loose of this woman now.Trust me,you will thank me down the road.
Knowledge is half the battle, and she isn’t stupid. But since this would be a college program and I don’t attend her college, I’m going to have to get all the when and where from her.
Tell her that you respect her decision. You can't just control her, she's a person too. Fucking sexist scum.
Tell her straight up if she leaves it's over, don't try reasoning with her
Both of you sound like insufferable morons. Nobody cares what you do.
She wants to get BLACKED
Cuck or roastie detected.
Tell her part of the experience is not being tied down and if you and her are meant to be it will work when she gets back. Drop that roastie!
Break up with her. You don't even need us to tell you that. You already know that's what you should do.
dont fall for ohio girls. this girl is as ohio as she gets but she went to college and turned into a major feminist who fleed the US and married a spanish man and now is in "law school" to fight the patriarchy
Id break up with her if she does it. Dont threaten to break up with her if she does, just express your dissaproval. But if she eventually does it definitely break up with her
>Any advice, Jow Forums?
tell her there's helping opportunities in every church
""'volunteers""" spend most of the time in the western golden cage of whatever shithole they're located onto, drinking, and fucking each other, with occasional tourist visits
if she still wants to go, leave her ASAP and move on
sometimes i can't believe our cuck culture and how parents could raise a 'son' to ever even consider 'dating' a woman like this
She is very naive, but I’ve spent a lot of time getting her up to speed on the real world and how it works and (((who))) controls it. I’m sure I could convince her to spend voltuneer time here instead of elsewhere, and if it came to it not to volunteer at all.
traveling without partner = whoring it up
this is the whitest thing ever, but also all females are kinda like this
If my girlfriend wanted to help Africa in any way, I'd show her this picture. If she still thought it a good idea, I'd leave her.
Fuck that. Send her on her way. If she doesn't go she'll resent you for it. If she does she may not even cheat but still, fuck that. How long would she be gone? Anything more than 3-4 weeks and it's a wrap.
This is the only solution.
Dread game, OP. If she wants to go fuck the world she can do it without you.
You don't really care about her time anyway desu, you care about yours, and that's a good thing.
Maybe brief her on charity business, and inquire why she thinks other nations can't help themselves, and whether, say, romanians or brazilians should then come here help your community, if she is going far away to help other communities.
Maybe she's just naive, but if she's bullshiting on those questions I have bad news for you.
>Ohio origins
Wew might as well write that off as a loss.
>travel and experience these things
>experience these things
consider dumping her before she gets blacked
The are plenty of people in the US that need help. People only travel abroad for volunteer work to sate their selfish desires to travel using altruism as a mask.
>Any advice, Jow Forums?
If you don't go with, it's a very bad thing. If you do, it could be okay. Overall I don't see much potential for anything positive coming from it, other than potential 'redpilling.'
That nose
When she said she had only fucked two guys she was lying to you user, she was already a whore.
send her the countless crap that happned to volunteers and is still happening to volunters of the refugee crisis in europe. show her all the rape and murder crap maybe she still has a brain who knows..
Let the bitch go dude. This is what they do. The reason she wants to do this is whats at the root of why women are responsible for destroying western civilisation. This will explain:
God damn...THIS
Also a good idea, I was going to bring that up as well. I’d be fine with it as long as she stays on this continent, but still.
Is marriage and relationships a meme? Jow Forums blackpilled me these past 4 years about them
Dump her and get a real wife material gf
Can you not simply point out the obvious, that volunteering programs are the way the system pushes its agenda at grass root level for minimal cost?
Explain that her time and life has value, and good will should always be reciprocated, ideally in Dollar notes, but volunteering for vague ideas of being a Good Samaritan, outside of ones community, is just depriving ones own community of that needed energy/ work. Charity starts at home.
Try and dig deeper into her underlying motives and goals.
Tell her its either you or some third worlders
Seriously, she WILL get some migrant dick if she goes OP
If you try to argue she'll pretend you're stopping her dream.
If you manage to convince her, she's going to bring this up every time you'll get into a discussion.
If she goes, she's going to cheat you or/and be rapekilled somewhere.
Dump her NOW.
Tell her to volunteer in America and not go to some Africunt shithole.
you sound like a fucking faggot using "pol memes" when you're a bluepilled fucking faggot cuck
A lot of these people are going to tell you to "dump that roastie" because they are alone and want you to be alone. They don't have your best interest in mind, which you might have guessed before you decided to seek advice from these anons on this board.
That being said, my advice would be to give her a chance to see things the way they really are. At this point you should be going for broke. Full red pill. Show her what she will be doing over there and how she will be programmed to be a slave to this new femmunist (feminine-communist) order. Go full out against the niggers, the jews, africa, educational institutions, etc. If you've lurked long enough you know the deal.
Don't give her any ultimatums, because if she is getting advice from any "friends" they will turn her against you anyway, saying that it is a control tactic. Just tell her you really don't want her to go because a relationship cannot sustain long distances, which EVERYONE will agree on.
Then if she still goes, you should dump her because if she still thinks it's a good idea after all you try to tell her, then you have failed and should cut your losses. No amount of extra drama, begging, cajoling or demanding will change that. You have already missed your window.
Above all, I wish you luck and happiness during this time and in your life.
Lie to her.
Find a story about a volunteer getting killed and say it was your friend's daughter (father's friend to be specific) that you vaguely knew in childhood.
Women work better with personal examples, they are simply too stupid to understand data.
>i decided to ruin my life and relationships over a flyer about brown people
Good gal you got there OP, stable life partner you can relie upon 100%.
This will not end well, either convince her not to go or dump her, I'm serious
This
OP, this seems a bit autistic. You don’t even know where she’s trying to go or what she even wants to do. These things can be very fun and help a lot with resumes.
95% of Jow Forums belongs to the following group
>Never had serious relationship
>Got cucked because of personal shortcomings
>Blindly hates women because of failures with relationships
Don’t take the advice of literal Incels online and let it shape your real in person relationships.
>TLDR
>Be supportive
>Stop being a sperg
>If the situation arises where you actually reasonably feel she would be in danger going to a country, then tell her.
Her motives are simple and pure; she loves to help people. I don’t get it, I think volunteering is a waste, but I respect her and what she likes to do. But you have a great point, I’ll be sure keep that the main talking point.
If it's Africa, he needs to dump her immediately.
OP should listen to this Roman Wisdom.
why does she want to help random bbc's in shitland and not her white brothers and sisters? that's proof that "helping people" isn't her prime motivation you retard.
>projection: the post
"a little bit, yea"
fucking kek mate. she has no idea what/where she would be going.
Because women are brainwashed to believe that these niglets need help more than white people in their own countries
No you fucking retard he needs to inform her about the risks of going to such a place.
The solution to these things isn’t to immediately give up on the girl in question, it’s to guide her and be a fucking man about it.
Let her make the final decision, if you’ve done your part, she will agree with you.
If she wants to help people, I'm sure that just in your city, if not in your block or building, there are people who could be helped. From helping old ladies to helping the homeless or what not.
If she wants to go on the other side of the world, it's obviously a bullshit excuse.
>alcohol or other substances mainly due to her family’s history
family history of substance abuse has a multiple generation epigenetic tail user.
Get out now
If she loves helping people, she is really outsourcing her maternal instincts to others. Enquire if she wants children and ask if she thinks that would be a better thing to focus on, i.e caring for your children, not other peoples children.
She craves the bbc
this.
Tell her that she will be like a monk spreading Christianity only that instead of Christ it's american capitalism
Modern colonialism and the sponge of white virtue signaling.
I’m here more for the info and politics than anything else, though reading all the roaster replies is kind of entertaining.
I don’t issue ultimatums or make demands of her unless I’ve tried everything else. And the few times I’ve done that, she’s listened. She trusts me enough to follow my direction, even if she doesn’t want to. I just hope I never steer her wrong.
You don’t think the 90% of people ITT screaming “Break up with her!” are projecting?
Jow Forums is filled with incels, there’s nothing wrong with the politics of this board but holy shit don’t ever take advice regarding females.
This. Be realistic here OP
>using incel unironically
This. Exactly this. She will either do it regardless or resent you. The only way to have her respect you is IMMEDIATELY dump and delete her. She’ll beg you to take her back because you showed don’t need her
She's doing all of this because you care about her. Stop caring and watch how she'll does a quick turn around.
Convince her to help local people or dump.
>newfag doesnt know that 440hz waves directly affect women more than it does men
>newfag doesnt know what 432hz is or 440hz is in general
You have a lot to learn.
it depends for how long it is. if it's for a couple of days, it might be salvageable. if it's for a prolonged period of time, then she obviously envisions a life of which you aren't a part and therefore doesn't respect you as her partner. in that case, sadly you will have to move on.
women have feelings, but the only feelings they have are what they feel at that moment, and nothing before or after that matters
Usually these nigger-saving expeditions last months
Dump her
Your girlfriend wants nigger dick. Dropkick her pathetic ass and then laugh at her when she comes back raped in every orifice and with two dozen STDs.
We believe in you, OP. You can do better than this libtard cunt.