Why arent people falling in love anymore?

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Hard to trust woman nowadays now that they could cheat on you with just a swipe on their phone.

Social Media ruined everythig, it's completely warped not just gender relations, but human socialization as a whole. I long for the day that this toxic fad of Social media dies out.

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they are, most normies fall in and out of love

Maybe Trump was a win for hate.

You're retarded. They are. You're just not exposed to it because you're some unlikable fuck who is on Jow Forums all day

their capacity for emotional bonding and commitment has been destroyed by degenerate casual sex

Sad state we live in now
I'm old school because I am older. Women were women. Ladies existed and were prized. The symbiotics meant something for both of us.
Kids today, in this climate and PC and globalism and radical feminism, are missing out on the importance of a true sense of bonding with our mates

I fell in love once, but she didn't...

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...and men were MEN, not the pussy beta faggots we have now

Is there anything left to love in people anymore?

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I know the feeling all too well

explain.

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men ruined things for women and in turn ruined things for themselves.

>Young women who adhere to a moral code and refuse to participate in the “hook up” culture are now considered social misfits, Crouse pointed out. And they face even more daunting odds of finding a husband than their promiscuous sisters.
>“It’s really interesting, because Mark Regnerus and Jeremy Uecker wrote their book, “Premarital Sex in America,” what, three, four years ago. And even then, they were very concerned about the fact that young women today are not as likely to get married. And their prospects, if they are not sexually promiscuous, are really low because the guys, if they can sleep around, they’re not interested in going with the girls who don’t put out.
>“The ones who are very serious get married early. And that leaves the majority of the girls, then, by the time they’re 25 and into their first jobs, the pickings are very, very slim for them. And Mark Regnerus was very, very clear that the quote ‘good girls’ are the ones who are at risk now in terms of not being able to get married.”

cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married

This. Also women in the workplace. Your woman can meet another guy in the road to or from work, or at it. (not to mention sexually pleasing her boss)
I know housewives can cheat too, but I suppose it's a lot less likely

i wish i enjoyed my job like this

Not only this. but even if she does cheat, and you were the most incredible amazing man in the world ever and it can be proven. You're also absolutely a mess- heartbroken, crying all the time, scared for your children, etc..

You still owe her the house, alimony, life insurance, your 401k and pension, your car, child support, and much more, not to mention the false accusations you have to fend off in divorce court. Not to mention you cant have a discussion without her feeling "threatened" and "uncomfortable". Not to mention she can have you arrested for domestic violence even if you can prove you werent home when she claimed you hit her.

Not really an apples to apples result there

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This might be it.
I’ve never even had a long term gf. As a troubled loser, maybe I don’t trust myself, which makes it harder to trust someone else, especially with how easy it is to be a roastie these days. I don’t know if deep love can exist without trust.

Because women run the show. They don't care about love, only what they can get out of a relationship.

Kek. Where are these "good girls"?

Decades of jewish mind reprogramming

Im in love

where do I find these virgin girls?

I don't see whats so funny about it. There are plenty of good women in churches, and no fucking men there. Churches are mostly comprised of women, with but a handful of men to choose from.

They are. You aren't.

Just because you are a repugnant individual who women avoid, doesn't mean people aren't falling in love.

Because our souls are being destroyed.

If you offer nothing of value, no girl that's actually good is going to just show up and love you. You have to work on yourself and actually go out there and look for people. This whole thread is the same argument that "today's music sucks". There's a fuckton of bad music and women out there but you have to put in effort and look and you will find what you're looking for. You have to work hard for it sometimes and love (one of the most important emotions) isn't a right. It's not given. You earn it.

this.

im from a very conservative christian family. my sister and 80% of my female cousins are 1-2 years away from 30 and are still unmarried.

are there standards too high? probably. but they also dont go out at all. christian lads are fornicating just as much as their unbelieving counterparts too, so they arent interested.

im actually mad because this shit is going to affect me. i dont have the resources or mental strength to deal with my sister going crazy cat lady.

The women at my church are hardcore manhaters though.

this.

it is quite possible that love fades after 2-3 years because if you haven't reproduced, your mind tricks you into falling out of love because you are not passing your genes and that the other person might be infertile.

It truly is painful to watch isn't it? It hurts to watch a boy grow up without a father and never learning to be a man, becoming more like his mother. It hurts to watch girls not feel safe and protected by a strong father figure that loves her more than anything and always looks out for her. The reason women got rights is because we saw our daughters, our sisters, our wives, and our mothers that we trusted and loved have so much capacity, so much intelligence and ability being stifled. When women brought it up it took a while.. but we agreed. We agreed that the daughter we raised and saw grow up was indeed intelligent, indeed capable and we couldnt bare to see her not expand upon her abilities and talents like others if she wished to. Thats why we gladly gave rights to women, and with no regrets. But we didnt agree to this. We didnt agree to this whoredom, this lack of dignity and morality. We didnt agree to watch our daughters prostituted and sexually exploited.

Sometimes i think the only future is to marry a wonderful, traditional, white South American woman. They still behave like women.

women don't need men to survive anymore and so have become parasites instead of partners

Shut the fuck up retard.
>offer nothing of value.
Fuck off, women are just spoiled and what to date rich 39 year olds in thier 20s and marry other rich 39 year olds in thier 30s.
“Improving yourself” is a fucking shame tactic, you are basically admitting women want a wallet. Becuase that is where 95% of improving yours,Ed comes from )0(better car,better clothes, better hobbies, etcetc). The other 5% is what, getting a haircut and working out? That shit is a meme. Women used to be okay with working man slug jobs, now those guys are comepltey alone. Or the women is unhappy in the relationship and always complains.
Your advice is “firm handshake and look them in the eye” tier advice. It means nothing in the modern world.

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you are about to learn why other cultures pressure their women into marrying once they hit 21.

They are too in love with themselves

i genuinely feel like i am going to be one of those crazy cat people.
find a different church? dunno. There's tons of young women at my regular church and like 6 guys, 4 married now, so 2 left. I have gone around to different churches and its the same picture, or just old grandpa tier men.

>just work harder goy
>no i know that less than 5% women are worth marrying, but you got to MAN UP BOY.
>it doesn't matter that this makes no mathematical sense. Keep playing the lottery!

You're talking about the self absorbed women with tits that all you want to do is fuck and they rejected you because you're smelly and unemployed. You don't look for real women that actually have some sort of moral compass and actually have the brainpower to think about life and other people. Just because you go after autistic tinder slags doesn't mean improving yourself is a shame tactic. Improving yourself is as simple as combing your hair or reading more books. It doesn't have to be all about money. If you don't have the social ability to see people using you just for your cash then you're a retard and the gold digger you're with should be shot for being a leech of society.

wew mgtow tumblr tier. Women are still okay with working man "slug" jobs.

It's our *new* social moral decay, where boys and girls get a warped view on what it means to be a man and a woman. K12 teaches kids that women *need* to act like men and men *need* to act like women. This not only narrows the gap between genders roles but also narrows the gap between behaviors. The hookup scene---aka tinder--for women, is what the ideal scene is for men (where men get nearly free sex), but cheapens the women's worth. The hookup scene for men, although quick and easy sex is what we crave, is detrimental to character building and the desire to pursue that one girl. He fails at courtship, interpersonal skills, along with everything a man tries to achieve in order to win her affections. Emotional satisfaction is confused with sexual satisfaction that is now on tap via hookup apps.
Men have failed to be [real] men, while women feel the need to be sexual agressor like men since they were taught/indoctrinated in school [to be more like men]. This causes good women to compete with 'tramps' to attain a man. A man who has also been conditioned (k12) to accept 'tramps' as equals: "all women are that way" thus the perceived importance of a good woman is naught, so use the app and order up any woman.
All because of leftists teachings... to destroy a moral society.

There is nothing to love
Hedonistic materialist fuck fest isn't love btw

This.
You get it. Spot on.

>Marry your daughters when you can. Marry your sons when you will.

It goes both ways. Women have to work harder too. And you're just saying 5% because you don't go out and meet new people you mouth breathing toe fungus having absolute sperg of a person. Part of being in a relationship is getting to know someone else on such a deep level and then improving on yourselves together. You motivate and help one another. I know getting to know someone else on a deep level is too much for your Asperger's since you can't feel empathy, but maybe don't look at the esluts or roasties and try to forge a connection with others. Communicate well and help other people grow with you.

spoken well. I suppose I should add that this has been trending since television became a norm in homes and movies in the 60s depicted divorce, free love, and normalized the decay of familial life. (((Hollywood))) did this to our country and its people. Blackpilled has a good video on it: youtube.com/watch?v=HwbzF9tKSd8

My ex cheated on me with some guy she met on Facebook lol fucking white woman. Of course she blame for it. I wasn't giving her attention blah blah. It's ok tho I cheated on her 3 times in the beginning of our relationship.

I see a lot of people here posting who just don't get it. They are the k12 brainwashed bunch who are now blaming women instead of blaming their brainwashers who created these conditions. Women have always sought out a mate with the ability to provide, as a man should. But you (i would say we, but I'm not brainwashed) have contributed to the ills you have forces women into. Now legal actions like child support and alimony are more prevalent because you are not fighting against how we got here but rather how inconvenient the band-aides are that have been put there to 'fix' the wounds inflicted in our amoral society

Sounds like you deserved to get cheated on retard

Thanks. Shall watch later

Yup. I grew up in the mid 60s. Saw the decline real-time, but didn't know it's impact. I knew something was off. I started to see it with All In the Family with all family members taking the liberal view and the only counter to it was Archie---a bigoted idiot, so the audience would hate him and accept the liberal narrative.

I guess that shut 'em up

Its not even that. Despite the very definition of society being about following rules and being rewarded for it you don't even get rewarded anymore
>marry a bitch to raise a family and be happy
>work a job to get money to do things you want
>don't break the law so this all isn't taken away from you

and what do we get?

>bitch you married cheats on you, she gets to take half your shit and you get diddly squat or say
>job you work at doesn't pay you so well anymore, also a big chunk of you're pay check is going towards brown people that want to kill you
>if you don't break the law we'll find something minor to throw you in jail so the prison industry keeps chugging along

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social media is just what gave you wisdom, human socialization has been ALWAYS like this, people has been always get cucked

I'm deeply in love in a great marriage. Hope you find love OP.

What kind of normie looks that shit up?

no
people love projections and masks
they dont want to know the hidden you
she says she loves me many times a day, but that's not me
it's never been me
it's the role i play
now dont assume i cultivate duplicity either
but the inner me is shy and needs handling
it needs the other person to want and try to communicate with my inner hidden self
as a guy that's what i'm doing to her
she has revealed selves to me nobody else is aware of
one of them she herself used to be in denial about
but my inner self? it's bleeding out of rage and solitude
and i can tell her to look into it
i can hint at it for her to handle
but she wants to be handled
she is a great girl
but people dont care enough to break through my shell
and why would i trust them?
she is as trustworthy as they come
she's just immature and not much of a handler

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Spoken like a woman. Confused and ready to blame everyone else.

I knew several in college. Go to bible study.

no, it hasnt. this has come about in the last 100 years due to the propaganda brainwashing the public. You can see a moral decline in every society that collapses that comes along. Just as the romans, we too shall die. What we need is a religious revival to spread in this country. It doesnt even have to be religious but a definitive awakening is needed. We need to kill television and movies. If you love your family, if you love your brothers and sisters let them know who controls it. What their agenda is. Don't let them go along with status quo.
Watch the link i posted earlier

Love was always a fucking meme. Reminder the Romans thought love was an emotion for women and made fun of men who felt it.

this is oviously a woman. This is clearly someone who has never seen dating from a mans perspective.

>definition of society being about following rules
It's not the rules/laws but the moral construct that society has set up. The rules or laws are based upon that moral construct. If you disagree with the rule/law it better be because of its applicability to the moral construct and not the Morality itself needs to change. There are cases like slavery and Jim Crow where the social morality was wrong and needed to be fixed. But the guiding principles should be on morality within the society and not trying to ever change the morality. This has caused our current situation where the leftists are trying to change societies moralities through imposing laws. Laws that have been detrimental to natural behaviors

Have you seen this world? Seriously have you?

Boomers all do this unironically so I can never tell.

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harder? Waxing your legs and putting on makeup is hard work? Do you have any idea what men do to look good? Hours lifting massive amounts of weight, brutally training and changing out an entire diet to include only proteins and weight gain shakes only to have tiny, small, insignifant chance at being noticed. You need a mans perspective if you want to see things how they r.

It's hard to fall in love when the average girl has so many partners before you. You're just one of many. There's nothing special about your relationship anymore. Women killed love with their promiscuous ways.

Women don't care about your fitness as long as you're not a 300 lb fuck. Look at most PUAs, they have completely average bodies.

this issue was pushed by men
this issue was pushed by (((men)))

Well, kiddo. You helped create it because you allowed leftists to run over you like a little bitch. (Unless you are more like me and tell leftists to fuck off Amy chance you get)
See my post earlier

Ah, that would be wrong! Men did everything and always knew how to cook and clean and everything else. What pisses my mom off today are women that can’t clean esp cook today which you find quite a bit. Our family only had boys this generation, and we all know how to do everything.
Lazy fucking stupid cunts.

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Whenever I see a girl with a nigger or spic I'm just disgusted. Its bad enough thinking about how cunty she is but to witness the degeneracy first hand sucks balls

idk about anyone else, but i fell in love.

i wish it wasn't so hard, but at least i know she feels the same way about me.

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I fell in love 2 years ago but repressed those feelings cuz i had to go abroad, right now at this moment im doing a 3h trip just to tell her how i feel

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I fell in love, she fell in love too, but I wasn't what she was looking for. In my experience the average woman wants a father figure and not a partner and that just tears my heart right out.

Based kramer

I strongly disagree but i see your point. Men were scolded for doing "womens work" such as helping out moms in the kitchen. This recent trend of "men did everything" is extremely recent, possibly only 40 years old or so. The reason women dont cook or clean anymore is because it is seen as being a traditional female role, and they want nothing to do with that.

Not sure what OP really wants but I really think we've been programmed for decades by hollywood. I've thought my whole life it's not "cool" to get married and "settle" down with one woman. Horseshit. That really is what we should aim for. Luckily I figured it out late but I am man and our "stuff" is still viable later in life.Don't waste time women.

The reptilians made the simulation

God speed. You are doing what men are supposed to do. I hope it goes well, as any man would hope when watching another man-up and go into that emotional fray.
Good luck.

Jewish men perhaps but women fully embraced it nonetheless. They see no problem with it. If you deny female responsibility for that mess then you might as well go on some Black Lives Matter protest and say when a nigger robs 7/11 it's the Whitey at fault as the Negro didn't understand that's off limits in a civilized society. We all make choices. When a woman goes on a Friday night dressed like a cheap whore and sucks cocks behind bar, she's making a choice. When she cheats on her husband she's making a choice. When she votes to make abortion legal and kills her baby she's making a choice. No one put a gun to her head. She choose herself. Niggers should be held responsible for what they do and the crimes they commit. Just because mentally they are closer to children doesn't mean they should get a carte blanche to do what they want. Same with women. When you're an adult you make choices that shape your life. You have to live with consequences of your decisions. Don't be a tradcuck that puts pussy on a pedestal.

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Seinfeld was a mossad psyop pushing nihilism on the masses.

youtube.com/watch?v=mJXdMhobCPw

Like 80% of the people in my workplace are guys in their 50s and 60s. The story is pretty much the same for all of them, got married, had kids, divorced and wife is taking them to the cleaners. Even young ones, guy got divorced after 8 months, cost him 50k and she was trying to go after his future pension when he retires in 35 years.

He chose poorly

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Full movie: thepiratebay.rocks/torrent/10487501/Divorce_Corp_-_Divorce_DOCUMENTARY_HD

>marriage is not sustainable long term
Bullshit. I think the issue is kids getting married too young today. When you're below 25, your brain isn't fully developed, and you don't know what you'll want in 20-30 years. Domestic abuse hid the problem before now, since the husband would just beat his wife at the first sign of marital strife. But, now that that isn't an option, you really should be waiting until you're at least 25 (for a male, females obviously should marry younger) to get married.