Chad here. Ive never really had trouble getting laid, but recently I have lost all urge to even pursue sexual relations with women regardless of if they initiate it.
During high school and college, I went after pussy 24/7 and my success gave me a validation of sorts. Now that I’m settling into my career (aero engineer), I’m beginning to really want to raise a family. Consequently, I stopped hooking up at bars, hitting up old booty calls, etc. and started trying to find relationship worthy women at church, socially helpful volunteer events, community runs, libraries, coffee shops, etc. i thought that I would find a different class of women but I’m starting to learn that literally every western woman is ready to ride the cock carousel. The only difference between the bar sluts and the closet whores is that the latter still somehow view themselves as wifely material despite hopping on any dick they find attractive within the first date.
I’m not really sure why i’m posting this here, but I’m just extremely frustrated with finding a girl worth settling down with. I understand the bachelor life of sex and independence is fun and all, but I feel an innate urge to find a wife, raise children, and provide for them like my father did for my family. I’m starting to think that times are just different and I would have to settle for a fucking whore as a wife, which makes me want to be a bachelor for life instead. The only problem with that is there is literally nothing to work toward. I’ve already slept around enough to satisfy myself, and the game of hooking up has become laughably easy if they find you attractive to the point that its not even a challenge worth overcoming.
the femin virus is rapidly accelerating. just hold on for awhile Chad.
Gavin Carter
Snag an 18 year old, pump her with a kid and tell her to drop out and that she can live as a housewife. Fucking chad brainlet
Julian Peterson
Do you feel hollow and empty yet? My Chad friend told me he no longer feels romantic interest in girls after he hit the 50+ mark
Mason James
You really think men are exempt of pair bonding ability?
Blake Reyes
>I have been a degenerate for the most of my youth, but now I want to settle with a nice girl but struggle find one How are man whores any different than roasties again?
Angel Martin
>chad >pursuing girls at any point instead of letting them pursue you through your holy aura
I started feeling depressed about a year ago so I went soul searching for a while. I determined that I feel a sense of guilt for not making the world a better place. In other words, like almost everyone else, I only took from my community, family, etc during my youth. Now that i am an adult, I feel as though I need to give back and make my net impact on the world as positive as possible. Without viewing the world like that, I begin to think hedonistically, which leads to nihilism.
In short, I think raising a family and rearing youth to be good natured, hardworking, and thoughtful would be the best thing I can do for the world
Kevin Anderson
Any woman (1 through 10) can be a roastie. It usually takes a 6 or 7 with charisma or 8-10 man to sleep around, which leads to a lot more social validation etc
Luis Wood
Volcel here.
You got what you deserve. Good luck trying to go back now (you can't)
Easton King
this u are autist u are virgin
Cooper Harris
Lmfao that image was fantastic.
I’m not a george clooney by any means, so I dont attract 9s and 10s with my aura alone. I would have to play the game.
Usually, the women in my area never really get above a 7, sometimes maybe an 8, so its a lot easier
Hunter Roberts
Youve had to much onions, your turning gay it wont be long now before you start fapping to guy on guy porn and cut your dick off. Sorry friend.
Oliver Cruz
Not really. I think sleeping around is innately natural for men. I regret not being on the lookout for wife material and going for the hottest/easiest chicks I could find
Angel Davis
soÿ brother not onions
Jonathan Williams
I'm having the same problem chadanon. I found the perfect girl for me (she agrees with me on redpill stuff like jews, doesnt browse Jow Forums but does lurk reddit tier redpill info threads) but after dating her 3 months found out she actually never left her ex, still had sex with him like 3 times a month maybe, etc all so he would keep paying her car payment and insurance bill so she could drive over to my house every night. This guy messages me like a complete cuck, saying we should have a threesome with her and make her choose, and that he didn't understand why she fucked me every day and barely ever fucked him. People don't realize how real it is out here being Chad, they think it's all fun and games.
Mason Baker
You sound resentful. I wonder why
Carter Morris
I’ll kill myself first lol
Jace James
I am virgin but also depressed
Tyler James
It's not him that can't go back, it's women. Had he chosen not to play the game, his choice of mating partners would have been the same. >it's hardwork finding a woman to wife that isn't a dried up cumrag
Ethan Sanchez
Are you me? I am in the same boat. I even bought a house and got a good job so that I have a place for my future family to live. Once you can tell a virgin from a non-virgin by the look in her eyes, you realize that all of the girls around you are whores. It is depressing.
Blake Reed
Damn bro I’m sorry to hear that. Its honestly a weird thing that you can never be prepared for. Women will have sex with you at any chance they can, but its as if they realize you dont have a reason to put up with their bullshit so they’ll still keep their orbiters and walking atms
Nathaniel Diaz
this op is a ***
Gavin Powell
don't kill yourself You could ruin the lives of many people You have not used all your power to aim destructivness Best is to cause a financial crisis or starvition in your country This is god tier
Nathan Sullivan
Thanks leaf, you understand. I realize that my sleeping around didn’t help anything, but at the same time my celibacy wouldn’t have made a difference either. Thats why I think raising non-retarded children would be the best way to impact the world in a beneficial way
Nathan Bell
If you don't lift, start, and you will start attracting them with your aura my man
Anthony Myers
That is exactly what happened. She only prefers sex with me because I have my shit together but if she needs something from a cuck orbiter she still might fuck them once every once in a while to keep them chasing the dragon
Matthew Kelly
fuck off ahmed Chads are bro tier
Logan Phillips
You're a retard. Virgin women want virgin men, not some manwhore. If women are attracted to you because of you (I. E. A person who has a lot of experience) then you've already lost.
married a girl i met in college, shes conservative and intelligent, but was by no means a virgin. i wasnt either so i didnt give a shit. worked for me. going through life alone isnt worth it but yeah i feel you, good luck finding someone special when you get past college age
Jacob Taylor
I don’t think thats the case at all. I’ve fucked virgins before, and they did not seem to be upset about my earlier conquests.
I’m not necessarily looking for a virgin either since I realize how unrealistic that is. Im just looking for at least somewhat attractive non degenerate with a decent head on her shoulders
Ryder Allen
This. Find a sheltered 17 yo desperate cutie online. Woo her, fly her out on her 18th bday and make her yours forever. Only correct answer if you're truly a chad in the situation you claim, OP.
I go out on dates with women, try my hardest to hook up with them the same night, and if they go for it, I make up some excuse to end the night. I don't want to give them the validation, I don't want another meaningless hookup, I just want to find a girl who respects herself enough not to fuck some random smooth talker on the first night out.
Been maybe 2 years since I started, around 40 dates. Only girl that wasn't down to fug ok the first night was this hippy chick, who seemed very turned off by my advances. She's the only one I wanted to go on a second date with, but she never replied to my texts after that.
Ayden Diaz
Most of the younger chicks (18 im not a pedo) I was with were already degenerates by then
> but at the same time my celibacy wouldn’t have made a difference either well you don't have principles then. If more males would reject thots there would be less thots.
Gabriel Powell
Its a harsh world leafbro, but I respect your self control in those situations. The ones that dont give themselves up are attractive because they are actually a challenge and bring out the sexual hunter in you. Best of luck
Grayson Roberts
I wouldn't know, my virgin man turned out to be a Chad. But he also won't let me get away with shit.
For instance, the first time I tried to steal food off his plate, he called me out on it. The rest of our marriage has been exactly like that and now I'm crazy over him.
Noah Hill
Man I understand your logic but you have to keep in mind that my individual actions would not make a difference. The only way to make differences in populations is to make differences in the things that influence the entire population.
Why do you think feminism and other cancerous ideals were able to spread degeneracy like wildfire?
Chase Barnes
That's why you find one online. Maybe she lives in some bumfuck nowhere town or has protective parents. The shy/bullied/shut in type. There are some real hotties.
Parker Sanders
Haha glad to hear that. Hopefully all is well between you two.
But this is a prime example of how not to be a cuck and to attract women. Literally call them out on stuff. Dont be afraid to say things. Be ready to “offend” her since shes another human being. If you walk on eggshells around women, then it shows you think of yourself as drastically below them
Carter Bennett
>For instance, the first time I tried to steal food off his plate, he called me out on it. The rest of our marriage has been exactly like that and now I'm crazy over him. What with the food plates? Does it make someone a Chad or a Virgin when someone steals your food from plates?
Anthony Sullivan
Yea well gl finding a good wife so validated as you are
Owen Cox
I think its just an example you tend to run into while on dates since you are normally out to eat.
Calling her out on stealing food is a way of showing you’re not afraid to speak genuinely with her
Wyatt Barnes
This is bait right? We literally excoriate women for this behavior. You have encouraged the type of society you live in, which is one built on hedonism. You don't get access to pure virgins after a decade of turning women into whores. You just get to marry a whore some other chad has plowed instead.
Chase Myers
These are simple facts. If you disagree, then I would wager you havent spent much time around women
Matthew Fisher
It's common for women to steal food. It's a way to assert dominance and entitlement early in the relationship.
Charles Watson
>Being a part of the problem during HS and college >"Guys, I'm disgusted by women"
Not bait, but I understand where you are coming from. But in all honesty, would you live a life of celibacy if you had immediate access to pussy? Imo its unnatural for men to do that.
Pretty much, if we want to fix society then we have to make female promiscuity looked down upon for the effects it has on society. Blaming the guys wont really make a difference
Leo Turner
I also understand where you're coming from but you need to realize that when peoples morality is relative and contextual it will without a doubt lead to social changes in the wrong direction.
Noah Taylor
I'd steal food too from plates, but I am too autistic to get any relationship I just waste my time posting on Jow Forums 8/7 All woman I know are either too young for me or already have parterns Virgin woman don't like me because I am too aggressive while Stacies don't like me because I am too boring/autistic Being centrist in terms of dating means you will remain a permavirgin
Caleb Perry
I didn't disagree, I wished you luck finding a good woman being so validated as you are.
You are correct in that. That is why I feel as though I only took from the world during my youth, and I want to give back and make the place around me better as a sense of purpose.
I may be biased, but I still think the majority of the blame lies in the openness of modern women rather than the sexual nature of men (which has been a thing for all of civilization)
Tyler Cruz
Real alpha here, my libido increases as I age. OP is a baytah mail.
Yup I surely believe you since you came in here bragging while ignoring any sort of discussion of genuine issues
Joseph Cox
>Ive never really had trouble getting laid, but recently I have lost all urge to even pursue sexual relations with women come out of the closet gay man
Eli Gonzalez
no it is not it can't be so
Parker Walker
Critical readings important. Try it sometime
Anthony Ross
If you are going to use the 'it's natural for guys' argument, then it is also natural for women to fuck around and branch swing to better males whenever possible. So if you think the biological argument for what you did is reasonable, for you to say that we need to 'fix' society after you have benefited from its former state is laughable mate.
Robert Edwards
Men are better lovers anyways.
Jack Powell
It's the natural order of animals. Are you a dog, perhaps?
Wyatt Ross
So am I supposed to just keep sleeping around rather than try to make a postive impact?
Jordan Stewart
Men like you are the reason why women are able to act like sluts. You validate them acting like sluts and make them think they deserve a guy like you while being sluts. If you wouldn’t have chased them, they wouldn’t be encouraged to be slurs. Maybe you should neck yourself to atone for your sins.
Chase Ortiz
It's not about the natural order when it comes to monogamous relationships.
Leo Davis
>openness of modern women rather than the sexual nature of men >chads are just following their sexual drive >women are being whores because of society do you even see the mistake you are making here?
Nathaniel Gray
I'm 27 and I see the true nature of women, its not that im no longer attracted but just that my fantasies have become much more realistic, women are like dogs, they have a nature about them and they themselves cannot see this. If they don't have security and they feel like you are perfect to give it to them they will pursue you. When I was younger I believed in "love", a girl "loving" me but I now know this doesn't exist, women do not love men, they only love you in as much as you can fulfil their biological needs.
This has made me cooler to them I see them for what they are and a loss of respect goes hand in hand with that, I will still get a wife and have kids with her but I'm under no illusions of some "perfect union" its a partnership, to make kids and live together so that life becomes more practical, to have someone you can tolerate and on the same level so as to make living together bearable. Thats is boys, no rainbows and unicorns, its a partnership.
I think its possible to be happy with a woman but you need to be really good at picking them out, I know what I want its very clear in my mind, its just that im not yet ready for a steady life yet, I will be in a few years.
You didn't include how old you are but I'm guessing around 30?
Regardless you're going to have to look for 18-20 year old girls that haven't really started hopping on the cock carousel yet. Anything over 25 is either damaged goods or not wife material.
Jack Myers
>I’ve already slept around enough to satisfy myself >Complains about whores
Why do you believe you deserve a good wife after engaging in degeneracy? You can't have your cake an eat it.
Sebastian Baker
Once again, my argument goes back to the individual basis of the issue. If it wasn’t me fucking them, then it would have been someone else
Liam Nelson
What does natural order have to do with society? It’s the natural order to murder and steal and take what you want. It’s the natural order to not wear clothes. You’re just a dumbass.
Landon Green
>the majority of the blame lies in the openness of modern women rather than the sexual nature of men (which has been a thing for all of civilization) don't pump and dumb virgins girls if you want men to marry virgins.
Asher Hill
This is why contraception was banned by the Church. Thanks, Anglicans!
Caleb Richardson
A positive impact lmao you mean a 'change that would benefit me now my terminal values have changed'. At least be honest about it for fucks sake.
Elijah Evans
dump*
Christopher Cruz
The counter argument being for this line of thought. Yes it is. Don't over simplify the scenario if you're an abrasive 1-4 then you're a creep. If your an abrasive 8-10 then you're assertive. 5-7 usually falls into jerk territory.
So you’re argument is everyone is doing bad so therefore I should too? And you then question why society is fucked up lol
Cameron Thomas
You're a whoremongerer and no better than a roastie. You did this to yourself, faggot.
Landon Clark
dude, are you me??? you're even an aero engineer like me (still a student tho)
Lucas Sanders
No I don’t because almost all societies have been centered around men chasing to be with women. Its what drives civilization and encourages people to work and better themselves. Consequently, women hold the role as gatekeeper to sex. Giving it out to anyone and everyone destroys the “game” for guys and makes people into neets
Gavin Diaz
>I’ve already slept around enough to satisfy myself
YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS
YOU DESERVE NOTHING BUT AN ETERNITY IN HELL
Hudson Butler
>If it wasn’t me fucking them, then it would have been someone else Maybe, but you could at least have a moral high ground. This way you don't. You don't deserve a good woman, it's a simple as that, just as a roastie doesn't deserve a 'good man'
Ian Young
>People who have had sex are posting on Jow Forums
