WOULD NOT HAVE SEX
VG meets Khaled several times during the winter and spring 2018. This day he has chosen a cafe. Child scare, the summation of conversations and a hard-working coffee machine exaggerates Khaled. Still, he looks carefully in the room.
His otherwise big smile has been replaced with a serious look.
- What are you thinking about now?
His eyes become shiny. The voice becomes lighter, softer and lower. Khaled hugs the glass bottle with coke hard.
"I'm tired of thinking about it now. I needed physical contact after a year of escape and several months on asylum reception, he says.
But he did not want sex with the woman. Khaled had heard of those who lay with older women against money and presents, but he never thought he would be one of them.
- EMOTIONAL EXTRA
Professor of Criminal Law at the University of Bergen, Jorn Jacobsen, believes the conditions give strong associations to abuse of posture and addiction: if they regard women as friends, there may be abuse of a trust or addictive relationship. When women have also taken up a formal position as volunteers, there is talk of abuse of posture.
As Jacobsen sees, there is a further situation, in addition to the material imbalance that goes on the age, life situation and vulnerability of men.
"It's not just the sex purchase act, but just as much as regulated by the provision of rape punishment. Here, there may be emotional or emotional compulsion, "says Jacobsen.
REMEMBER
Like Khaled, Yousef, 22, came to Norway as a single asylum seeker in 2015 from Syria. Yousef also wants to be anonymous. He says it's extremely taboo to talk about the relationship he had with the woman and was ashamed a lot. About a year and a half ago, Khaled told Khaled about his relationship with a woman from Bergen.
Yousef did not understand Norwegian or had good English skills during the first months of Norway, but he wanted to see the country and learn the language. Like Khaled, he had no money and little clothes.
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