I just got married a year and a half ago. I just turned 30. I already feel like I want a divorce.
My whole family loves my wife, all my friends love my wife, I tell my wife I love her. But really I’m just empty inside. Since we’ve been married I’ve lost all motivation for everything, I’ve put on a ton of weight, and my only solace is Friday’s an Saturday’s when I drink a million beers with the boys.
She’s always unhappy cause I have a million excuses to have kids. She’s prettier than I am but I can’t help but just focus on her flaws. I always want someone else. I’m running out of excuses to tell her why I can’t have kids.
I have videos of my ex hookups, I watch them all the time and miss those gals.
How do I be happy? Does anyone else feel like this?
> have videos of my ex hookups, I watch them all the time and miss those gals.
delete them and get your wife some flowers and tell her she's beautiful, or divorce her.
Jeremiah Reed
If you're at this point pre-kids, GET OUT NOW. If you and the wife alone aren't working, once you have kids you'll be cast aside and just become the paycheck. Goooooo nowww..
Kevin Johnson
Force yourself to have a few kids and remain married to your wife. Raise your kids with good values and morals.
Sebastian Torres
Find Jesus.
Luke Parker
your future self is trying to communicate with you, she will divorce you and make you a paycheck slave
though if you are both white you should prolly d it anyway
Landon Torres
Your problem is your a worthless faggot. Stop being a worthless faggot.
Jaxson Allen
If real post pics
Noah Hall
for the love of god DONT HAVE KIDS Divorce and find a better woman. Your seed doesnt go bad.
Justin Mitchell
Breed her and hit up ashleymadison.com?
Henry Campbell
You need to get divorced. You're not who your wife wants, and your wife isn't who you want. Quit the charade, you're wasting each other's lives. Don't even think about bringing kids into the picture.
William Bell
If this is even real.... You sound like a totally horrible jerk. I'd say divorce her because she deserves someone far better than you.
Alexander King
Delete the videos and appreciate what you got. Otherwise you'll always finding yourself missing the "good times" because that's all you remember from them. There was some awful times and flaws with them. But those videos make you remember only the good times.
Cooper Rodriguez
get married and have kids, and youll regret it dont get married and dont have kids, and youll regret it
Robert Hill
Change what you can. Do you think drinking too often is a problem? Try to do it only once a month or once every 3 weeks Feeling fat? Get fit and eat better.
Why exactly don't you want kids? What do you think is what stops you from liking your wife? Is it something she does? Or perhaps it is something you can just let go or learn to love?
Lucas Allen
Divorce her now before more of her time is wasted with you. It's unfair to stay married to such a lovely woman when you don't love her.
Noah Rodriguez
You're fucking pathetic. Man the fuck up and either stop wasting this poor girl's time or impregnate her.
Henry Morris
just found out that op is a big faggot stop being a cunt!
Christopher Butler
you sound like a degenerate if you're both white and you dont want to have white babies the problem is you and you sure as fuck dont deserve her grow up man child
William Gonzalez
You chose the worst place for advice you tard. This place is trash. It seems you are depressed so you are subconciously escaping to anything that isn't painful to you. I did that with shitty vidya. Getting married was your first mistake. Watch 7 ways to maximize misery on the youtube and try and take care of yourself. If you act like a slob all the time you'll just put yourself into a feedback loop. If it's an actual desire for other or past women then maybe there is something wrong with the relationship you haven't found a way to articulate yet or you weren't meant to be. I don't know, I can't find your answers for you, its your head mate. Why do you think the things you do? Can you trace a thread in your history? Maybe there was an event or a big event but maybe it didn't actually matter and instead you followed a small seemingly inconsequential idea you had. Why do you think the way you do? How did you end up here?
Also probably this These are square peg in round hole retarded Anyone who unironically uses the word degenerate also unironically has brain damage or makes no attempt to refine their thoughts or be intelligent
Ryder Anderson
quit being a fat fucking loser and get yourself together man
Luis Rivera
Well you took the easy route and let someone who cared more about you show you just how much more you mean to her. You went far enough to get married and now that you've finally pieced together this you want to take the other easy way out.
TLDR: you're taking the path of least resistance and fuck you for wasting this poor girls time being unable to tell her no
Kevin Moore
>pabst
everybody knows he's a coors guy
Joshua Hall
If she's motherly, stay with her and have kids.
I'm married, with one kid.
My wife is horrible, She has had mental health issues since the birth of our child.
I will stay with her and have 2 more children.
Stay strong. I am very think skinned (its made me admitted over self confident, which she hates, but its the only way to survive) she still sometimes can hurt me.
Stay strong.
I didn't think I needed male friends, but I am changing my mind.
Fuck the internet, fuck feminism for making modern women how they are.
Jayden Allen
Why torture yourself with videos of your ex's? Also, your mind is tricking you into thinking you were happier, then. Your mind is tricking you into thinking you'll be happy with other women. Your problem is internal, not external.
Logan Collins
/pol - Marriage Counseling
Mason Cruz
This
Brandon Collins
Don't be degenerate. Be pious. Delete those videos and talk to your wife. Stop watching pornography even if it means you blueball yourself.
Goto the gym, eat right and don't be ddgenerate
Brayden Ramirez
this is a anti-family demotivational slide/shill thread
stop being a selfish baby you got married and you knew it was for life. Don't be a weak little faggot and invent reasons to get out of your commitment.
Love is an act of the WILL. WILL yourself to love your wife. Every day. Do something nice for her. Say nice things to her. WILL yourself to do what you must. Be a man. Do what you SWORE to do. Every day.
If you do this, your love will come easier and it won't take as much WILL. It will become second nature.
And when you love your wife, she will become more beautiful, inside and out. She will bloom like a flower. Don't do what she wants. Do the things that you think will make her happy. Let her know what you want, and what things will please you. She will do them. She will do anything to please you.
Have lots of kids. WILL yourself to love them. REPEAT over and over until you die.
Ryder Diaz
Anyone who uses the word “ironic” in place “sarcastic” ( which is what they actually mean) is actually retarded and shouldn’t : A. Give advice. B. Breath air. Die.
Chase Campbell
We just got married and this is so depressing. Instead of escaping intobyoyr exes why not fix your marriage? You got married for a reason, user.
Logan Howard
Degenerate nigger.
Josiah Baker
I see no indicators his wife is a bad woman. He says shes better looking but focuses on her flaws?
He kept videos of his ex hook ups and jerks off to them behind her back? Seems like he's the piece of shit who needs therapy. He's gonna be on suicide watch if he divorces for these riddiculous reasons. Seems like he's emulating those roasties with a hot, good man and divorces/ breaks up to " find themselves" after wondering if " he's really the best she could get".
Disgusting.
Landon Bell
Stop fapping and you'll fill find beauty in your wife again.
Zachary Baker
You pos you are failing as head of your family. You should be the leader but you are acting like a birch , expect to get divorced raped for being weak.
Juan Brooks
are you me?
Mason Turner
You didn't get fat because of her, by the way. You got fat because you thiught you had to stop improving yourself cause you " won" by catching pussy. Now that you've "won" you feel board and let yoyrself get disgusting, thinking she never needed better.
She's still with you nit because she's beneath you, but because she's better than you. She's a loyal woman who sees you as a person. Not some thot who just wants to get pump and dumped.
You should be thankful instead of resentful. Improve yourself and try and try to get your head straight.
Oliver Reyes
Nice tripfag Are you wanting to be roasted or something. Unironically, being an attention whore is roastie territory.
Even though this is just giving you what you want, for the above reason, you need to grow up.
Love the one you're with, user. Life is short. Don't romanticize the past. Futures that you envision may slip away, but you have the chance right now to change your circumstances with the resources at hand.
Also fucking get in shape. You'll feel better and your wife will reward it with more and better sex.
Aiden King
your beta ass deserves to lose half desu why the fuck did you marry her?
Tyler Stewart
You have something a lot of anons would kill for and you're bitching about it?
Brody Hernandez
to be quite honest with you you don't deserve her. delete those videos of your ex hookups. Have kids with your wife >my motivation kids will motivate you also they will make you love your wife more. You sound like a tremendous soicuck who had things go his way and became complacent. >t. degenerate
Juan Cox
I dunno. I'm 35, almost two years out from my divorce, and feel worse than you seem to. I'm past the "drinks with friends" stage and onto the "get high and browse Jow Forums stage. Basically just waiting for the civil war to come and the grand reset - I'm done investing in this godforsaken system.
Jackson Sanchez
Hello me, minus the divorce.
Jordan Gonzalez
Only masturbate to porn with women who are very similar to your wife, or not at all, 30yo divorcees don't get quality pussy user.
Jackson Ward
Dude, some people can't find a decent woman for years (some MGTOWs here have never as much as kissed a girl) and you're complaining about your beautiful young wife who wants to have your babies?
Man up and have kids ffs.
Gabriel Anderson
Your not supose to hate woman stupid.
your suppose to give her kids , man up and go full dad mode
t. An user dad of 34
Hunter Bailey
lol what a faggot.
Your wife will eventually cheat on you unless you redpill yourself, you sound like you turned into a fucking sissy, plus you said she's better looking than you. When you eventually do have kids brace for the fact that they're not yours if you keep this shit up. "I feel empty" "I want someone else" "excuses" Since when do men talk about their gay ass feelings? You got soft and she gon leave you nigga.
Nathaniel Morris
You are a degenerate man boy. Grow up. Stop being the beta cuck you have been for too long.
To be safe for all eternity: A: Admit that you are a sinner, who violates the Will of God, and that you need a Saviour. B: Believe that Jesus Christ, Son of God & Messiah, died for you sins and rose again, as prophesied and recorded in the Word of God. C: Call on His name, ask Him to save you, and confess that He is Lord.
Some resources that may help: TTB.org has a verse by verse Bible Study for download or daily listening. Chuck Missler’s Learn the Bible in 24 Hours (youtu.be/PZ3hESj__M8) Robert Breaker’s Bible Study and Topical Sermons (youtu.be/H124iZiyGUs) J.D. Farag’s Bible Study and Prophecy Updates ( youtu.be/U4AMM93cXz8 )
>entering a lifelong commitment >But I dunwanna! It's getting slightly uncomfortable! This is why marriage is a joke. You even admitted yourself that she isn't the problem.
Jonathan Cook
If she can't make your dick hard anymore, then its over and she doesn't care about you.
Matthew Richardson
What do you dislike about her? Not a good sign you already feel this way, but you didn't really go into detail about your problems with her.
Julian Campbell
typically case of grass being greener on the other side. as soon as you leave, you'll want her back
You sound like you have depression. Consider taking St John's Wort. Start exercising more. And stop fucking eating so much, fatty.
Stop being a cunt to your wife. Spend time with her doing shit. Go to the movies. Go for a meal. Exercise with her.
And most importantly, grow the fuck up and move on from your past. You're 30, not 20.
t. 31, married 11 years
Noah Davis
Sounds like you have a shit personality .
Nothing about that can be fixed.
Brody Cox
You deserve a bullet you filthy hedonist.
Connor Stewart
Yeah she is clearly the issue in this set up. >Beautiful wife >Wants kids with you >Fap all day and hate her
Fucking women am I right, don't even know what they want except dolla dolla bills y'all :DDd
Lucas Ward
Married for 9 years and have played with fire here and there.
This is ultimately right. Delete the vids OP, stop being such a fucking pussy. You're scared because you actually commited. Fuck your wife's brains out in anger if you want. Get her pregnant a few times and things will work out.
You dump her ass and go MGTOW. The fact that you feel uneasy even though your Senpai loves her, only proves her manipulation is working. But she still hasn’t corrupted the part of you that senses danger. Heed that Inner warning, it’s not wrong. Don’t knock her up and get the fuck out, now.
Daniel Sullivan
>Divorce is good goy, don't make a family, stay broken and keep watching porn!!
If you are both blue eyed you better get fucking. If you are 56%ers just kys
Brandon King
I'm sorry sir. Diagnosis is in. You're a degenerate.
Your problem is simple: You want to fuck around and you are not willing to settle for life.
Obvious symptoms: >Having a good wife but only focusing on her flaws. >Missing ex slags who are without a doubt worse human beings, worse to be around, worse to spend time with and you'd get bored of after a few fucks
I have no solution. You're set for a life of bad choices.
Brayden Gomez
You better make up your mind soon Or else shes going to get knocked up by someone else while youre out drinking and then youll be the cuck raising someone elses kid
Wyatt Sullivan
Everyone in this thread is antagonizing OP but you're all terribly naive. 99% of women will ONLY date you if you're a drug addicted, impulsive loser.
99% of women will totally ignore any guy who has his shit together and wants kids and would make a good dad.
Parker Parker
Not married yet, but fiancee and I have 2 kids now and been together for 6 years. She can go from 'pleasant' to 'holy shit wtf end this all now god i want to die why have you led me to this hell please end my suffering jesus christ' so the decision feels weighted. she has no family or really any friends. as in zero family, orphaned ran away from foster home. would it really be so bad to have family happiness and mommy just be the crazy one that tortures dad?
Jayden Nelson
You sound like a woman.
Joshua Wilson
ITT: r-selected trailer trash problems
Xavier Thompson
this is the only true post
Logan Thompson
You sound like an ungrateful faggot OP
Nicholas Sanchez
This, I feel sorry for her, you're selfish and immature
Tyler Morgan
Must be awful to live life as such a bitter piece of human garbage user.
Who hurt you?
Jaxson Jones
You're profoundly unhappy, almost a crazy person.
You need to either decide to learn to love her or gtfo because you cannot have kids with that lady. Theyll end up bastards and might come in my house and get shot in the face
Isaac Fisher
Cool ad hominem lmk if you actually feel like making an argument any time
Jaxon Evans
>34 >been married for 8 years >own my home and have a well paying job >love my wife and would die for her >1 year trying for kids with no luck
A part of me feels like we waited too long and its too late but I was selfish and wanted to travel more before parent responsibilities.
If you say you love your wife op and your words have any meaning left in them then dont wait to long to start a family. Its the most fulfilling thing we have in life.