Married waifu wants kids but I think I hate her

I just got married a year and a half ago. I just turned 30. I already feel like I want a divorce.

My whole family loves my wife, all my friends love my wife, I tell my wife I love her. But really I’m just empty inside. Since we’ve been married I’ve lost all motivation for everything, I’ve put on a ton of weight, and my only solace is Friday’s an Saturday’s when I drink a million beers with the boys.

She’s always unhappy cause I have a million excuses to have kids. She’s prettier than I am but I can’t help but just focus on her flaws. I always want someone else. I’m running out of excuses to tell her why I can’t have kids.

I have videos of my ex hookups, I watch them all the time and miss those gals.

How do I be happy? Does anyone else feel like this?

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im 27 and ive never had a relationship over 2 weeks. youre asking the wrong forum for relationship advice dumbass

your mind is deteriorating
seek help or realize you have a problem
and try to fix it.
dont ruin a good marriage because of your insecurities

Have you tried a sharpie in the pooper? Worked wonders for my relationship.

You are the definition of a degenerate. Stop being such a lazy hedonistic selfish faggot. If you can’t, kill yourself.

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> have videos of my ex hookups, I watch them all the time and miss those gals.

delete them and get your wife some flowers and tell her she's beautiful, or divorce her.

If you're at this point pre-kids, GET OUT NOW. If you and the wife alone aren't working, once you have kids you'll be cast aside and just become the paycheck. Goooooo nowww..

Force yourself to have a few kids and remain married to your wife. Raise your kids with good values and morals.

Find Jesus.

your future self is trying to communicate with you, she will divorce you and make you a paycheck slave

though if you are both white you should prolly d it anyway

Your problem is your a worthless faggot. Stop being a worthless faggot.

If real post pics

for the love of god DONT HAVE KIDS Divorce and find a better woman. Your seed doesnt go bad.

Breed her and hit up ashleymadison.com?

You need to get divorced. You're not who your wife wants, and your wife isn't who you want. Quit the charade, you're wasting each other's lives. Don't even think about bringing kids into the picture.

If this is even real....
You sound like a totally horrible jerk. I'd say divorce her because she deserves someone far better than you.

Delete the videos and appreciate what you got. Otherwise you'll always finding yourself missing the "good times" because that's all you remember from them. There was some awful times and flaws with them. But those videos make you remember only the good times.

get married and have kids, and youll regret it
dont get married and dont have kids, and youll regret it

Change what you can.
Do you think drinking too often is a problem? Try to do it only once a month or once every 3 weeks
Feeling fat? Get fit and eat better.

Why exactly don't you want kids? What do you think is what stops you from liking your wife? Is it something she does? Or perhaps it is something you can just let go or learn to love?

Divorce her now before more of her time is wasted with you. It's unfair to stay married to such a lovely woman when you don't love her.

You're fucking pathetic. Man the fuck up and either stop wasting this poor girl's time or impregnate her.

just found out that op is a big faggot
stop being a cunt!

you sound like a degenerate
if you're both white and you dont want to have white babies the problem is you and you sure as fuck dont deserve her
grow up man child

You chose the worst place for advice you tard. This place is trash. It seems you are depressed so you are subconciously escaping to anything that isn't painful to you. I did that with shitty vidya. Getting married was your first mistake. Watch 7 ways to maximize misery on the youtube and try and take care of yourself. If you act like a slob all the time you'll just put yourself into a feedback loop. If it's an actual desire for other or past women then maybe there is something wrong with the relationship you haven't found a way to articulate yet or you weren't meant to be. I don't know, I can't find your answers for you, its your head mate. Why do you think the things you do? Can you trace a thread in your history? Maybe there was an event or a big event but maybe it didn't actually matter and instead you followed a small seemingly inconsequential idea you had. Why do you think the way you do? How did you end up here?

Also probably this
These are square peg in round hole retarded
Anyone who unironically uses the word degenerate also unironically has brain damage or makes no attempt to refine their thoughts or be intelligent

quit being a fat fucking loser and get yourself together man

Well you took the easy route and let someone who cared more about you show you just how much more you mean to her. You went far enough to get married and now that you've finally pieced together this you want to take the other easy way out.

TLDR: you're taking the path of least resistance and fuck you for wasting this poor girls time being unable to tell her no

>pabst

everybody knows he's a coors guy

If she's motherly, stay with her and have kids.

I'm married, with one kid.

My wife is horrible, She has had mental health issues since the birth of our child.

I will stay with her and have 2 more children.

Stay strong. I am very think skinned (its made me admitted over self confident, which she hates, but its the only way to survive) she still sometimes can hurt me.

Stay strong.

I didn't think I needed male friends, but I am changing my mind.

Fuck the internet, fuck feminism for making modern women how they are.

Why torture yourself with videos of your ex's? Also, your mind is tricking you into thinking you were happier, then. Your mind is tricking you into thinking you'll be happy with other women. Your problem is internal, not external.

/pol - Marriage Counseling

This

Don't be degenerate. Be pious. Delete those videos and talk to your wife. Stop watching pornography even if it means you blueball yourself.

Goto the gym, eat right and don't be ddgenerate

this is a anti-family demotivational slide/shill thread

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stop being a selfish baby
you got married and you knew it was for life. Don't be a weak little faggot and invent reasons to get out of your commitment.

Love is an act of the WILL. WILL yourself to love your wife. Every day. Do something nice for her. Say nice things to her. WILL yourself to do what you must. Be a man. Do what you SWORE to do. Every day.

If you do this, your love will come easier and it won't take as much WILL. It will become second nature.

And when you love your wife, she will become more beautiful, inside and out. She will bloom like a flower. Don't do what she wants. Do the things that you think will make her happy. Let her know what you want, and what things will please you. She will do them. She will do anything to please you.

Have lots of kids. WILL yourself to love them. REPEAT over and over until you die.

Anyone who uses the word “ironic” in place “sarcastic” ( which is what they actually mean) is actually retarded and shouldn’t :
A. Give advice.
B. Breath air.
Die.

We just got married and this is so depressing.
Instead of escaping intobyoyr exes why not fix your marriage? You got married for a reason, user.

Degenerate nigger.

I see no indicators his wife is a bad woman. He says shes better looking but focuses on her flaws?

He kept videos of his ex hook ups and jerks off to them behind her back?
Seems like he's the piece of shit who needs therapy. He's gonna be on suicide watch if he divorces for these riddiculous reasons.
Seems like he's emulating those roasties with a hot, good man and divorces/ breaks up to " find themselves" after wondering if " he's really the best she could get".

Disgusting.

Stop fapping and you'll fill find beauty in your wife again.

You pos you are failing as head of your family. You should be the leader but you are acting like a birch , expect to get divorced raped for being weak.

are you me?

You didn't get fat because of her, by the way. You got fat because you thiught you had to stop improving yourself cause you " won" by catching pussy. Now that you've "won" you feel board and let yoyrself get disgusting, thinking she never needed better.

She's still with you nit because she's beneath you, but because she's better than you. She's a loyal woman who sees you as a person. Not some thot who just wants to get pump and dumped.

You should be thankful instead of resentful. Improve yourself and try and try to get your head straight.

Nice tripfag
Are you wanting to be roasted or something. Unironically, being an attention whore is roastie territory.

Even though this is just giving you what you want, for the above reason, you need to grow up.

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Love the one you're with, user. Life is short. Don't romanticize the past. Futures that you envision may slip away, but you have the chance right now to change your circumstances with the resources at hand.

Also fucking get in shape. You'll feel better and your wife will reward it with more and better sex.

your beta ass deserves to lose half desu
why the fuck did you marry her?

You have something a lot of anons would kill for and you're bitching about it?

to be quite honest with you you don't deserve her.
delete those videos of your ex hookups.
Have kids with your wife
>my motivation
kids will motivate you
also they will make you love your wife more.
You sound like a tremendous soicuck who had things go his way and became complacent.
>t. degenerate

I dunno. I'm 35, almost two years out from my divorce, and feel worse than you seem to. I'm past the "drinks with friends" stage and onto the "get high and browse Jow Forums stage. Basically just waiting for the civil war to come and the grand reset - I'm done investing in this godforsaken system.

Hello me, minus the divorce.

Only masturbate to porn with women who are very similar to your wife, or not at all, 30yo divorcees don't get quality pussy user.

Dude, some people can't find a decent woman for years (some MGTOWs here have never as much as kissed a girl) and you're complaining about your beautiful young wife who wants to have your babies?

Man up and have kids ffs.

Your not supose to hate woman stupid.

your suppose to give her kids , man up and go full dad mode

t. An user dad of 34

lol what a faggot.

Your wife will eventually cheat on you unless you redpill yourself, you sound like you turned into a fucking sissy, plus you said she's better looking than you. When you eventually do have kids brace for the fact that they're not yours if you keep this shit up. "I feel empty" "I want someone else" "excuses" Since when do men talk about their gay ass feelings? You got soft and she gon leave you nigga.

You are a degenerate man boy.
Grow up.
Stop being the beta cuck you have been for too long.

To be safe for all eternity:
A: Admit that you are a sinner, who violates the Will of God, and that you need a Saviour.
B: Believe that Jesus Christ, Son of God & Messiah, died for you sins and rose again, as prophesied and recorded in the Word of God.
C: Call on His name, ask Him to save you, and confess that He is Lord.

Some resources that may help:
TTB.org has a verse by verse Bible Study for download or daily listening.
Chuck Missler’s Learn the Bible in 24 Hours (youtu.be/PZ3hESj__M8)
Robert Breaker’s Bible Study and Topical Sermons (youtu.be/H124iZiyGUs)
J.D. Farag’s Bible Study and Prophecy Updates ( youtu.be/U4AMM93cXz8 )

Clearlywrittendotnet YouTube channel (youtu.be/zRrkUymeST4)

BlueLetterBible.org has a free online bible & apps with cross references.

OneForIsrael.org is a group of Israeli Jews who know Jesus is their messiah.

Unsealed.org tracks information that points to Jesus’s soon return.

Watchfortheday.org shows how many world events are prophetically and numerically linked.

The End is nigh. Tomorrow may be too late.

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Amen user

>entering a lifelong commitment
>But I dunwanna! It's getting slightly uncomfortable!
This is why marriage is a joke. You even admitted yourself that she isn't the problem.

If she can't make your dick hard anymore, then its over and she doesn't care about you.

What do you dislike about her? Not a good sign you already feel this way, but you didn't really go into detail about your problems with her.

typically case of grass being greener on the other side. as soon as you leave, you'll want her back

This 100%. Fuck this guy.

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You sound like you have depression. Consider taking St John's Wort. Start exercising more. And stop fucking eating so much, fatty.

Stop being a cunt to your wife. Spend time with her doing shit. Go to the movies. Go for a meal. Exercise with her.

And most importantly, grow the fuck up and move on from your past. You're 30, not 20.

t. 31, married 11 years

Sounds like you have a shit personality .

Nothing about that can be fixed.

You deserve a bullet you filthy hedonist.

Yeah she is clearly the issue in this set up.
>Beautiful wife
>Wants kids with you
>Fap all day and hate her

Fucking women am I right, don't even know what they want except dolla dolla bills y'all :DDd

Married for 9 years and have played with fire here and there.

This is ultimately right. Delete the vids OP, stop being such a fucking pussy. You're scared because you actually commited. Fuck your wife's brains out in anger if you want. Get her pregnant a few times and things will work out.

Milk loaded wife tits are the best.

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>How do I be happy?

You dump her ass and go MGTOW. The fact that you feel uneasy even though your Senpai loves her, only proves her manipulation is working. But she still hasn’t corrupted the part of you that senses danger. Heed that Inner warning, it’s not wrong. Don’t knock her up and get the fuck out, now.

>Divorce is good goy, don't make a family, stay broken and keep watching porn!!

Kill yourself chang.

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> I've put on a ton of weight
> I'm an alcoholic
> I have a million excuses

> My wife is prettier than me
> My family loves her
> I'm the problem

Dude.

Have vaginal intercourse with her and ejaculate inside her vagina. Then do it again 9 months later. Wtf is your problem?

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If you are both blue eyed you better get fucking. If you are 56%ers just kys

I'm sorry sir. Diagnosis is in. You're a degenerate.

Your problem is simple: You want to fuck around and you are not willing to settle for life.

Obvious symptoms:
>Having a good wife but only focusing on her flaws.
>Missing ex slags who are without a doubt worse human beings, worse to be around, worse to spend time with and you'd get bored of after a few fucks

I have no solution. You're set for a life of bad choices.

You better make up your mind soon
Or else shes going to get knocked up by someone else while youre out drinking and then youll be the cuck raising someone elses kid

Everyone in this thread is antagonizing OP but you're all terribly naive. 99% of women will ONLY date you if you're a drug addicted, impulsive loser.

99% of women will totally ignore any guy who has his shit together and wants kids and would make a good dad.

Not married yet, but fiancee and I have 2 kids now and been together for 6 years. She can go from 'pleasant' to 'holy shit wtf end this all now god i want to die why have you led me to this hell please end my suffering jesus christ' so the decision feels weighted. she has no family or really any friends. as in zero family, orphaned ran away from foster home. would it really be so bad to have family happiness and mommy just be the crazy one that tortures dad?

You sound like a woman.

ITT: r-selected trailer trash problems

this is the only true post

You sound like an ungrateful faggot OP

This, I feel sorry for her, you're selfish and immature

Must be awful to live life as such a bitter piece of human garbage user.

Who hurt you?

You're profoundly unhappy, almost a crazy person.

You need to either decide to learn to love her or gtfo because you cannot have kids with that lady. Theyll end up bastards and might come in my house and get shot in the face

Cool ad hominem lmk if you actually feel like making an argument any time

>34
>been married for 8 years
>own my home and have a well paying job
>love my wife and would die for her
>1 year trying for kids with no luck

A part of me feels like we waited too long and its too late but I was selfish and wanted to travel more before parent responsibilities.

If you say you love your wife op and your words have any meaning left in them then dont wait to long to start a family. Its the most fulfilling thing we have in life.

>ridiculous claim with no evidence
>an argument