Noko

Hey Jow Forums what are your realistic thoughts on this? I have a 23 year old, attentive, attractive and successful girlfriend. I am happy with her, but am a little uneasy about her past. She says throughout college and highschool she has been with about 17-20 other guys, most were only 1-3 times and fizzled out. Is this just a reality I have to deal with when finding a woman these days? Its kind of hard to stomach.

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Don't worry, you absolutely do not deserve her and when she realizes how pitifully empty your brain is and how pathetic your opinions are, she will leave you for a real man.

Beyond whoring for fun, does she have any other Jow Forums relevant values? Perhaps she is a pro choice activist? Or antifa?

if you dont feel like increasing your SMV (getting Jow Forums, getting a better job, becoming more confident) you’ll have to deal with a) her shitty sexual past, b) the fact that her shitty sexual past will pretty much guarantee future infidelity, and c) the infidelity itself when it comes
for me, LTR’s are dumb, but do what you want

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t toasty roastie

That's right, there's no chance at all that I'm not a scornful women that hates beautiful, intelligent, strong-willed men like OP. lol

She gets bored with guys and also sees them as a commodity to be binned. I don't give your relationship long unless she's changed (hint she doesn't think she has a problem)

>between 17-20
Does she not know the exact number? Holy shit, I could understand maybe misremembering 1, but that’s too big of a gap.
Either way, you have to answer the question for yourself. Have you already had sex? Is she STD free? How long have you been together? If you answered yes to the first two and the two of you are committed to staying in a relationship, you might as well stay. Chances are you aren’t going to find a girl around that age who hasn’t slept with at least 5 guys and is also desirable. You could look for 18 year olds, but most of them are retarded.

This isn't Dear Abby, faggot. Fuck off to /b/ or Jow Forums

Don't listen to these incels, ive been with plenty of women and I can say that the girls that have been with a few men are way more fun and enjoyable to be around than girls that have been with like one dude. Ymmv of course but these days girls with low sexual partners all seem to be weird as fuck. Sexual partners are part of a healthy development (17-20 is bordering thrashed out slut territory but if she's genuinely fun then fuck it)

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I said 17-20 because I think she is leaving out a couple 1 nighters, but she counted and says 18 tentatively. I was leaving room for error.

Seems like you are larping.

Serious answer: if you are uncomfortable then dump her. Lots of girls have counts of less than 10 (or even 0), it just takes some effort to find them.

Definitely not larping, why the fuck would I lie about something so shitty? You think I enjoy the thought that my otherwise "perfect" girlfriend has had 17 other cocks in her?

Statistically she has destroyed her ability to pair bond.

I married a woman with many previous partners who claimed to have become Christian, a believer in God and against divorce.

It didn't stop her from leaving me, taking our daughter and suing me.

The only saving grace in the situation is that she broke a Hague convention treaty by suing me in Canada even though our residency was all in the USA at the time so she is going to federal prison and I am getting my daughter back when the US state department processes my application.

>Mfw shes perfect
>Mfw you think she'd be the same person if she never had previous sexual partners
You probably wouldn't be a insecure beta if you had more sex with other people

she'll be gone on cheating on you before you've been together a year

you think you're any different than the other 18 guys she's dumped?

>s this just a reality I have to deal with when finding a woman these days?
Why are you retards shocked that the women you are fonicating with are not pure?

Not taking into account that she probably lied, it is still a lot of mileage.

>I married a woman with many previous partners who claimed to have become Christian, a believer in God and against divorce.
did you sleep with her before you were married?

a fucking roastie lmaoooooooooo

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>you haven't dated this much and you're 23
You're fucking pathetic
Kill yourself incel

I have been with roughly 30 people and I am 27. I still think its disgusting that I could potentially spend the rest of my life with someone who has slept with so many people. My previous girlfriends started dating me at 18 and 20 and only had N- counts of 3-5. It is not something I am used to in a serious relationship, just wondering if its the norm now.

>I still think its disgusting that I could potentially spend the rest of my life with someone who has slept with so many people.
well you should not have been a degenerate then

I am a man though I think the rules are just fundamentally/biologically different.

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Just trust your instincts OP.

If it were me I'd never even consider a 23 year old that's ridden the cock caroussel that hard.

op is she Asian??

>double-digit sexual partners
She's a divorce waiting to happen.

No.

>CY+3
>Still using noko

multiply those 20 by 3 as a rule of thumb. She has been with 60 guys before you. Pump, dump and move on.

also, check yourself for ALL stds as possible asap.

she's probably lying and it's really way more. some have probably been bbc. she's enjoying the cock carousel for sure

>girl is 23
>admitted to fucking 20 guys
That's too much senpai. Way too much.

Ask her if that's full intercourse or any sexual contact with a guy.
Do it now.
I bet you'll feel as sick as a fucking pig when she tells you lol.

Don't do it. Sure fuck her but suppress your feelings for her
Do not breed to make little people for niggers to fuck.
You will pay her no matter how she treats you for life.
Walk away. Think of the things you could do at your own pace. Read books, own a boat, go to a pub and read or hang out with whoever you want. Have a sports car. All these things will make you interesting to the opposite sex and so fucks will come a plenty anyway.
Stay single
Stay free

total, absolute cuck...lol

If she claims 18, then it's really 28+, you are probably #30. Is she still friends with any of these other cocks?

im in my 40s (female)and i can count mine with one hand.

find a nice girl not in the party scene. theres many out there

If she's great, you can keep her, but statistically speaking she's unlikely to stay with you.
The more partners you have, the more likely a marriage is going to fail (if you intend to get married, that is).

I don't want to be a dick, but realistically, your relationship has a 80% chance of failing.
If you think you can't do better, stick with her, but if you can, may as well move forward.

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Also...she probably sucked those 60 guys dicks and had their semen not only inside her mouth but all over her face, the face you kiss every time.

60 guys juice in her face. Remember that.

I thought America was Christian. As long as she is reformed, her past doesn't matter.

Enjoy your whore you degenerate manwhore.

>im in my 40s
>find a nice girl not in the party scene. theres many out there
At least your second statement corroborates with your first one. Things are not like it was 20 years, even 10 years ago.

You know the drill

>17-20 other guys
That's a really shitty lock.

It seems like some people feel like a persons personality changes as they have more sexual partners.

If so, how does it change?

For context, my wife and I were virgins when we married. We're 21.

Lol gj user
Enjoy her company but don't plan a serious long relationship with her, it won't last

If you are stupid always pre-nup.
But saying that she will still clean you out with child support.

To clarify
*It only matters how many partners a woman has had prior to marriage as the amount of partners a man has had is of little statistical significance whether a marriage is stable or not.
This could be because men with high partner counts are more often than not successful, intelligent, and not someone a woman would willingly leave. Or there's simply something about women's partner counts that has a disproportionate impact upon the stability of a marriage.

Me?
I'd say it's simply that women with high partner counts are unwell. Anything above 5 casts doubt on their mental well being to me and they display many warning signs beforehand.

>(or even 0
yeah nah

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No she stopped communicating with any guys once we started dating

Double that number and then you’ll find the truth

She says.
OP, if you want someone to just tell you that's not normal:
It's not normal for women to have over, say, 10 partners.
Also
>17-20
She didn't give you an exact number?

She's damaged, combination of low self esteem and either an inability to form long term relationships OR no desire to form them.

History informs us of the future in such instances and people are creatures of habit.

Find someone else.

>Is this just a reality I have to deal with when finding a woman these days?

Yes. Women are whores that love sex. Hopefully she learned how to suck dick from at least one of those other guys. But I have bad news. You have to multiply 20 other guys by a factor of 3 to 6. Is she really good at sucking dick? Does she really enjoy sex, and is she fun and kinky? If so, she most likely actually fucked 120 guys.

She’s cucking you

> 17-20

means around 170-200

you are american
killyoyrself

all it means is that if you have a much lower count (which most men do) then you have a license to beat her ass and she is more susceptible of cheating. So never feel guilty of beating her ass to discipline her.

Sorry Vlad, we certainly don't have a license to slap a hoe in the US. They send us to prison for that shit here. Prison with re-education programs.