Making white babies

I was out drinking with my boss last night. He's got a great wife and two good kids.

After he got drunk he said "don't ever have get married or have kids". I doesn't make sense, according to "tradlife" enthusiasts here he's living the dream (high income job, stay at home wife, two white children etc).

And he's not the only one to tell me this, most older guys who I've met or know who are married with kids advise against it.

I do really want to get a wife and have white children and all that, but why do 80% of the guys I know who've done it tell me to run in the opposite direction and never look back?

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They don't realize the alternative that is upon us in 20 yrs.

because they're good goys who've been jew-washed into thinking marriage isn't beneficial and being an independent bachelor will bring you happiness.

They are degenerates and also the grass is greener. My uncle is a childless 50+ year old guy and he looks basically suicidal even though he has so much money and has had dozens of gfs. He just sits alone in his house

Encourage him to kill himself and then you can have his wife and kids
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The problem with wives, is when things go wrong, they really, really go wrong. Its like a nuke that fucks your whole world up, children included.
But when they go right, they really go right.
The key here is making sure you make the best wife choice you can make. Settling for whatever reason is what will fuck you.

Grass is always greener on the other side. How old are his kids? I always hear guys saying don’t get married, but he should be damn proud of his kids.

Ask them why they hate their children. Say it like that. "Why do you hate your children?" The only reason a man has to hate his own children is due to his own failings to support or educate them.

I'm guessing he didn't marry a good wife and she uses her kids as pawns in emotional warfare against her husband

He's rich so you know he spends all day paying for and consuming Jew media.

Getting married and having kids is fantastic, as long as neither of you fuck it up and nothing bad happens to you.

i say have tradwife and have kids. Kids are a JOY when they are your blood kids.

What did he even state as reason for his advice?

fpbp

They both under 10, but old enough to be in school.

That nice age for kids when they're not old enough to be rebellious cunts, but old enough to be reasoned with (for the most part).

White is overrated.

Have intelligent kids, and yes I know about a third of whites are consistently more intelligent than anyone else including east Asians. Europeans are a mix of what appears to be 2 or 3 distinct races pretending to be one, one of those races was extremely intelligent.

>why do 80% of the guys I know who've done it tell me to run in the opposite direction and never look back?
Because you're a shill?

Real white men have large, happy families.

>hes drunk
>out at a bar
>women around

Hes full of shit. Every guys misses being single. But being single leaves an empty hole inside

She's actually really good, great mother material. I think he's ignorant of what he's actually got.

Yeah exactly what I was going to say. Ever see childless old people? It's not what you want to aspire to.

No, we were just talking about how I was single and he was all "stay single, don't get married or have kids"

no you stupid fuck that isnt it at all

you know that feeling of being trapped? no ability to truly control your own life and do what you like, worried constantly about an ever growing list of bills and obligations?
that gets worse when you find real love and create beautiful babies. every stress is magnified because you are responsible for multiple lives now. you can't just throw up your hands and say "fuck you" ever again or you will be forced to see disappointment in the eyes of those you love and be vilified by anyone else for being a deadbeat. kids are a blessing, when you consider just the kids, but goddamn is it a fucking nightmare when you consider the world you brought them into and your obligation to guide them through it, even if you yourself are totally lost and afraid

it's not all terrible and a curse but you forever abandon the last remaining agency you might have had on this world, that is, unless you actually are a deadbeat

its all so fucking hard. i had thia bullshit checklist paraded in front of me my whole life; get an education, get married, get a house, have kids. once you do that the people who pushed you into it say 'good luck' and that's that. nothing falls together or makes sense once you cross a line, no matter what you're told. people tell me my family is the reward but i can't seem to find anywhere that will give me food and shelter for having fallen in love and fucking a few times

>Posting ugly chick.

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My uncle never had kids and seems quite happy. He is in his 70s

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They all fucking say this but forget that being single all the time gets fucking old. Grass is always greener but it is easier when you aren't alone.

How old is he? Maybe he's just a bit bitter of not having had enough pussy when he was younger and "settling too early", seeing how the world is today and what kind of women he could get in his economic situation.

Why? She will just hit the wall.

the answer always comes back to the woman, an insufferable woman can make any situation worse. You can have great kids, be rich and successful and feel proud of what you do and what you've accomplished and still have it all fucked up by a woman either emotionally or literally through a divorce.

Thanks for the nightmares tonight

Fuck

I already have mega baby fever. I want one really bad despite knowing it would be a bad fucking idea, especially given I am not in a relationship. Many people look back on those days with regret. It's a body vs mind thing for men and women.

You dumbasses. Having kids is not supposed to be nice or fun. It's either hard work, or a disaster. You know why? Because energy isn't free and anything worth doing is tough and taxing.

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>telling someone not to have kids means you hate your kids

i don't know why i expected anything else from this board. god forbid something take on a few layers of complexity and not just be a Side A or Side B situation

You have kids to take care of you when you get older.

You changed their diapers, only to have them change your.

He's probably just joking around. All married guys say that, but they wouldn't trade it.

Good goy, keep hating marriage!

>post a question about a life experience
>Jow Forums talks about said question in almost every thread
>I must be shill

kys spastic

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Mid thirties.

He's friends with my older brother, so I've heard the stories, he had his fair share of poon back in the day.

Ppl idealize what they dont have and give for granted what they do. Probably they would be whining id they were single.

i dont get it. what alternative?

my dad constantly jokingly talks about cheating when he travels, but then when my mom is the one gone for even just a few days he drinks heavily and constantly calls me drunk saying he wishes she was back. not even kidding, if she's not at the house for more than 2 days every single time. just how men are, even a gangster nigger gets emotional when his bitch is gone

>most older guys who I've met or know who are married with kids advise against it.
it's probably because they're pathetic alcoholic degenerates like yourself. the only solution is suicide.

First off most men are so indoctrinated into the female primary social order that even though they clearly know that something is wrong, they can't comprehend it and most times just avoid such a conflicting thought and desperately try to hang on thinking things will not be too bad. That's why many of these tradcucks and male feminists can only be honest with themselves and others when they are drunk or feeling very safe. You should not dismiss their concerns because especially in these countries like Australia where going against female concerns is unthinkable for married men, the men speaking to you are so disenchanted that they spoke up on issues and concerns they would very gladly rather not face.

He's just saying what he thinks he should say to avoid sounding like your aging boss.

>reddit spacing
>personal blog
>massive faggot
Doing things you don’t want to do is called responsibility, let us know when our balls drop and you get some in your life faggot

Most people think the grass is greener on the other side.Ii think the alternative to getting married, so his advice, is way worse. Being a cool wine aunt leads to a suicide at 40, and cool wine uncle at 50.

For me personally I don't know what would I even spend money on if I don't have a family in the future. I already don't like spending money on stupid shit that npcs do, like clothes or vacations abroad. I imagine spending it on kids is a much better idea, but maybe now I'm the "grass is greener on the other side" retard.

because they're piece of shit normies that would rather throw dollar bills at strippers. They also married whores and don't appreciate family in the first place. Most of them are "accidents".

woah give me a few mins to consider all your points and respond to them, that was quite the eloquent rebuttal and i am taken aback.

also did you know in shithole leafistan that living with someone for a year means you're basically married as far as poppa trudeau is concerned? marriage must be awesome and all positive if the government wants people to experience it so badly

see:
op is alcoholic degenerate: confirmed.

Your boss is pretty much right. /pol loves to rant about muh Chad life and how you can make any woman follow you and an out of control wife is a mark on you blah blah blah. I can't imagine any of them have truly been in long term committed relationships. You pretty much have to lock a woman in a cage closed off from the world to keep them insulated from the Jew propaganda out there indoctrinating them. If your spouse works, owns a phone, has access to television and internet, than you are fucked. And good luck telling a woman in 2018 she can't have those things. Try telling her "sorry honey, you can't habz dat cuz muh trad life mkay". Lol Jesus Christ. Basically women all know that the family courts and government give them ultimate leverage in a marriage with kids. She can decide to implode your family on a fucking whim with the push of a button and still live a comfy asa life. So pretty much the moment your spouse feels the slightest bit of dissatisfaction in your marriage, which is bound to happen periodically over the years in a marriage, as a man, you have to live in constant fear that she is going to take your children and leave you living in squallor.

Cheers!

T. Married w/children, successful in career oldfag.

My uncle didn't have kids cause he was gay as fuck.

Because dealing with women and kids is a fucking nightmare. 90% of the time your wife and kids will be pains in your ass.

The alternative, however, is the existential dread of dying without children.

Because they are weak men. Most men of the old days would have all that and still be hungry for power and responsibility. Your boss on the other hand has such an inflated ego he thinks he should have power with no responsibility. Purge the weak men

Grass is always greener on the other side, man.

>Europeans are a mix of what appears to be 2 or 3 distinct races pretending to be one, one of those races was extremely intelligent
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