I'm an 18 year old white male who just started college. Although I'm redpilled, I'm a well adjusted, social member of my community, who is rather easily capable of getting girls. I've always approached dating with the "date to marry" mindset, which has led me to having very high standards. I'm looking for a girl who is attractive, ideally a virgin, and a deep thinker (oh, and big plus if she's blonde) I've met multiple girls who fulfill these criteria (even the blonde part) and who are into me. The problem is, I just don't feel the "spark."
Is my highly systemized approach to dating autistic and inadequate for an endeavor that involves so much emotion, or am I being a complete dumbass by not taking advantage of these opportunities that I've been given, that so many others in my position would take without a second thought?
just fuck a hooker or an escort. Paid for one for a buddy of mine and a month later he had a GF. The stigma is worse than the actual virginity and sex is, tho a lot of fun, overrated
Isaiah Collins
DO NOT DO THIS
They have no idea what the fuck they are talking about and a lot of them just want to suffer together rather than improve.
Angel Davis
Just dont worry for 10 years about it you little fucking faggot
Landon Collins
I'm a 27 year-old social autist, and I recently got myself a Christian virgin girlfriend.
So don't lose hope, my man.
Camden Rivera
you're right to have strict standards and court to marry rather than just date to fuck around.
Focus on building your character and personality traits through overcoming and challenging yourself. As a male you will mature a great deal between 21-30.
The chemistry and connection will happen if she's innocent.
you sound like you are in denial ahout how prententious and antisocial you are. you are painting yourself as superior so you can feel better about the fact you cant get women. grow the fuck up and shut up about some dumb spark you dumb ugly pussy virgin
Hunter Hughes
That's the thing, I'm finding that at the Christian uni I'm attending, I feel wrong for not feeling the spark even though I'm finding aspects of women such as that that I value so much.
Brayden Hall
What is he's really superior, and you're just being jelly as fuck?
Sebastian Watson
There is still hope
Julian Wilson
Yes, because if I'm going to brag, I'll brag to strangers on the internet. You sound bitter
Joseph Harris
people like that dont come to roleplay in a political board so that they feel good about themselves, only sad cunts like op do
Gavin Cruz
Sike, I'm not a degenerate
Blake Diaz
I think the “spark” is fictional
Christopher Baker
Thank you, I've been trying to do this through working out and becoming more educated, but of course it's a long process that really never ends. I appreciate the genuine advice.
Kevin Lewis
I disagree. People who are superior are generlly disliked by inferior NPC shits, so naturally, most of normie-tier social media outlets are unavailable for them. Where else are they supposed to go? To Jow Forums, of course. Where other jaded underachievers gather.
Cameron Powell
very bitter, absolutely bitter, tired of cunts blaming women for the fact that they cant get any pussy. the amount of fucking times i have to deal with these kind of assholes because of my sister is amazing. grow the fuck up and stop being such an uppity piece of shit or shoot yourself.
Keep going brother. I had to do a lot of work on myself before I started having options. Don't lose hope.
David Clark
>jywYFDSN another sad cunt i see. you are not superior. specially if you are in here. face it, stop trying to sound smart so you can feel good about yourself. if you wan to improve believe or accept the shit you are ,then go uphill
Angel Sullivan
you also have to understand what is required of you as a man (if you want to be a husband/father). >financially stable >psychologically/emotionally strong and reassuring >ability to charm/surprise her while still creating stability and routine. >ideally find a way to have her be a homemaker/mother early on There's no way you can meet these requirements at your age. Don't get side tracked with dead end relationships that waste your time, finances and capacity to develop genuine feelings later on.
thank you for reminding op how much of a faggot he is
Camden Taylor
I need a redpilled perspective on this. One that goes beyond "Fuck bitches dude!!!" and understands the value of feminity, purity, etc.
Levi Gray
Get out, kike. Jow Forums is pro-white, and pro-wite means forming traditional families with conservative women. You shun holes, you shun the white future. So stop with this bullshit, you anti-white cunt.
But I am unironically smart. Not even bragging here, just stating a fact. And you can't really claim otherwise, as your assumptions are baseless.
Lincoln Stewart
you changed your flag from belgium to us. your high standards are an excuse for lack of a normal life.
Anthony Gomez
One time at an art show i saw an autistic spastic kid hit on a hot 10/10 telling her that he was a sociopath and all about sociopathy. It was fantastic, I'm sure they are married now.
Gavin Hernandez
Date for training on how to be around a GF/wife until you are above 25, then date to marry, and marry a woman 6-8 years younger than you. And remember that in this day and age, a virgin is hard to find, settle for low numbers count from a stable home with an intact family. If you are able to find “an ugly duckling” one who didn’t understand she was pretty until late, that is the best.
Don’t have too high standards while you are this young, men are meant to practice, go out and train.
holy shit you infuriate me. smart people dont talk like a 17th century aristocrat to sound smart on the internet in order to protect or feed their fragile self esteem you dumb moody teen cunt. say your fucking mind and thats it, stop trying to feel superior or i fucking promise you will die alone
Justin Powell
Most lads meet the girl they’ll marry by sleeping with her, a lot. And it’s normal to have a romantic idealised expectation at 18. It’s normal to start your sex life proper between 17-21 whatever any statistics say, I don’t care what people self report for studies. People claim to see ufo’s for no reason so I’m not taking their word over my objective observations for THE most emotive subject. You are not going to marry the first chick you sleep with though some do, but that’s very rare. If you do the chances are that you’re forcing it. Most of the love sung about in pop songs and drooled over in media is infatuation and lasts for 18 months tops before it wears off and you start making each other miserable. There you go son, now you know some things. Don’t say kindly uncle /pol doesn’t have a nice side.
Thank you. I'm committed to not racemixing and to having lots of kids, so yes, my relationship(s) will play a role, however small, in a pro white future.
Jaxson Hall
all right, il be honest with you, the whole spark thing is bullshit, try dating a girl you like, give the relationship a chance, see if it works, thats all there is to it. try lose your virgnity, be happy. thats really it
god dangit, just fucking relax. go out, try talking to women, you will find someone, theres nothing special about it. you are the result of millenia of people rabidly fucking. if you are ugly or fat do something about it. dont make it complicated
Logan Sanchez
Since your "autism" isn't the clinical definition of autism, you'd have to explain what you mean by it for anyone outside of your in group to have a clue what you're talking about.
Henry Mitchell
The drug cyproheptadine reduces autistic symptoms
Ayden Lee
>The problem is, I just don't feel the "spark." The "spark" is a Hollywood meme for the most part, forget about it. Start dating girls, get to know them, see what you actually like and dislike in a woman, don't just deal in abstractions. I'm not saying fuck all of them, if that's against your religious or ethical convictions, but as a man you should have a solid grasp on female nature and that will only come through experience (through dealing with them in a man-to-woman, "romantic" context). Don't be some naive brainiac, who marries the first "perfect" girl he meets, just to be destroyed by her years later, when it turns out she wasn't the innocent little angel she pretended to be.
You don't need "practice" and there is no such thing as "gaining relationship experience". I've been in 10 monogamous relationships and each one was unique because each woman you'll meet is an individual with different circumstances and life experience (your life situation will also be different for each relationship).
of the 10 relationships I've been 4 got married to the next guy they dated after me. I only had sexual relations with one of them who was a virgin.
If you decide to get into a relationship then be an example for how she should be treated by her future husband. Even if it doesn't work out she will have a baseline of what she expects from the next guy she meets. Be the high standard in the life of everyone you decide to get involved with.
I can say with all honesty that there is such a thing as a "spark" and instant chemistry. If you approach your life and marriage like it's a business contract then expect the same in return.
In conclusion, don't let others make decisions for you (specifically people no longer in your life ie if things don't work out in a relationship) .. every decision is already made specifically, by your end goal in life. You just have to follow each choice to it's logically end and see if it matches up with your original desire.
Go to a third world country and smash everything that moves, lie to chicks about getting them into the USA. Use protection and have fun. In about 3 years you will have a new appreciation for women. On your current state of you are putting pussy on a pedestal and you have no value to trade when you get on a relationship. If you think this is degenerate, you are not a man. A man bangs cause it can, at the moment u looking like the guy that brings flowers to the strippers. Snap out of it, if a chick holds up the pussy move to the one that wants to F you. You need at least 20 chicks under your wing to see things differently.
Ryder Martin
Go fuck a sheep while your wife gets fucked by a maori you kiwi scum
Kevin Parker
start by getting friends, talk to your cousins/brothers see if they can get you some people to at least be around
Charles Barnes
>date to marry That's beta. Date to fuck and depending on how the things go change the mindset. You have to assume first all women are sluts
Jaxson Richardson
watch the old videos of rsdtyler on youtube. he is basically an ugly short red haired aspi getting laid like Genghis Khan with white golddigging sluts without spending a cent and explaining how.
Anthony Jackson
also you seem like a provider type of guy, who doesn't sleep around that much. Get a woman pregnant as soon as you have a job. It will not evolutionally help you to have random makeouts.
Leo Sullivan
>just don't feel
who said you're supposed to feel?
Jonathan Hall
You are just like a stock animal, only about sex. Is that all you are, you dumb pile of flesh?
Justin Campbell
>Hey bro, can you introduce me to some people? That would be an interesting conversation.
Justin Ramirez
I was in pretty much the same exact shoes as you a couple years ago, user. And truth be told, after a couple tries I just ended up giving up on them. I don't go out looking for them and instead decided to kill the desire. Learning to love myself and making peace with being alone changed a great deal in me, and now I am happy. In any case, que será, será. Best of luck.
Robert Bailey
Stop trying. I wasn’t trying to meet my wife when i did. She was cool, took a risk, and now 16 years and two kids later we’re more in love today than ever before. Although, that’s just what worked for me, I’ve never dated as an adult so what do i know, really, ya know?
Asher Morris
sex literally doesn't matter if you aren't having children with your spouse. if you base your life around getting tingly feelings then you are the definition of an npc. at this point, i (being in the same situation as you) am assuming that i will remain celibate for my whole life simply because of the declining quality of the available wife material. i will not have sex for pleasure and i will only marry a virgin. if i manage to be fortunate enough to find someone perfect, so be it, but i'm not gonna worry about it
Leo Sanders
dont wait to feel an emotion; love is a choice
Michael Morgan
There is always desire to be something more within human. Usually it manifest itself through materialistic ways, sexual ways, through drugs or parenthood example. It is endless chasing, rat-race that leads nowhere but keeps you busy through own creation that people calls as life.
We can't remember our time as toddlers because we didn't exist in that time. We had no identity. Only when years has gone while we gathered data from our environment we created identity. When we have our identity, we decide what matters to us. Then we experience impulsive feelings when things didn't go as we wanted.
We are piece of life that creates own image and plays it (Genesis 1:27 So God created man in His own image). We get so tangled to our own creation that it can kill us and bring us into hell. We think that something or someone causes our misery even when we alone create everything within.
We have all this mysterious desire to do something, be something more. It usually manifest itself through sexual ways, materialistic ways, through parenthood, dating, drugs, games, food, alcohol.. you name it. Through that it leads nowhere, it keeps us happy for a moment and then we need more. So where we are now? We are piece of life that want to experience bigger part of it. Through physical ways it finds not that part and when that need to expand finds no expression we create this pain within. So what to do? This is what meditation is all about. We don't want to identify to our thoughts or to our outward senses. That is just the data we gathered from the physical and created self from it. When we learn to be still, just be as piece of life, something start to happen that seems to expand you into everywhere. It seems to that consciousness, awareness is the basic that exist and everything else is manifest of it.
What (((they))) wan't is to bind us more and more into physical, sins, into that rat-race i wrote about above, so that we wouldn't learn or even think about this.
GOD is figurative word. GOD is energy, source, awareness, infinity ever expanding into new possibilities. God includes everything so you are also part of it. All the religions are teaching about this truth, hidden within words to those who are ready to see. Are you ready?
I cannot recommend the movie "Cold Blooded" starring Jason Priestley and produced by Aaron Spelling enough, watch it, it is truly an insight into weaponised autism
