>Decent looking guy, fit, healtthy, own apartment, good amount of savings, only 26 years old >No longer interested in women. >Only focus about work and making money. >Don't even look at women anymore. >Every day is the same. >Clock in, clock out. Go to gym. Go home. >Sleep wake up. >Stopped answering friends calls, dont hang out with friends anymore. >Only go to pubs alone on weekends to drink and sundays to watch football to enjoy few pints >Any girls that start a convo with me or show any interest in me I shut down in an insant. >Used to constantly think about ex the first year, now i just dont see the point of being in a relationship ever.
What to do? When will it go away? Stuck like this for life?
>there's a very small window in men's lives when they can save a huge percentage of their income, and essentially set themselves up until they die. You're in that window now, and taking advantage of it. Save until your 29-30, then look for a wife.
Xavier Turner
Tried it but apparently its illegal in my state so i didnt want to break the law
Nathan Perry
It will only go away when you meet another woman. you need to fuck the ex out of your mind otherwise, yes, you will be stuck like this for life
Thomas Gray
It's illegal only if you fail at it, I don't think the state would be too eager to trial a corpse.
You're almost ready. You still covet wealth. Hold yourself down and destroy everything you love. Only then will you be free.
Anthony Foster
Traps aren't gay though. Try that.
Luke Gomez
You’re a girlfriend guy. There’s nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to fuck everything that moves.
I’m in a long term right now. I hate one night stands, and only had them essentially to tell my friends stories and brag. One night sex sucks - mostly because you aren’t comfortable enough with each other to have great and interesting sex.
When you meet the right girl, you’ll know.
Thomas Morris
Nice job. Took me getting a bit older than you to get to this freedom. My 6 year ex was a huge time and money sink, but it did help me figure things out to get more boldness and self mastery.
I think the thing that pisses me off the most, is not the actual breakup.
ts the lost time, investment, heartache, swear, blood and tears that was put into it.
Xavier Stewart
Okay I'm sold, when do you want to rub our dicks together?
Easton Baker
You are still young, 6 wasted years isn't that bad.
Jose Bailey
I swear to God mate her mouth is fucked up, I cringe everytime you post her
Josiah Mitchell
Study enlightenment era philosophy and 20th century radical politics. Become a natsoc and join the new age Thulean Society. Also stop being such a whiney bitch
>Gets chatted up by roasties >Whining about some roastie that dumped him Fuck off faggot, you've been in a relationship before. Clearly you're not defective or unappealing, in fact you've had it pretty good in terms of women. Otherwise yes just kys if you're going to keep being a pussy
>study enlightenment philosophy I hope you're recommending this as a "know your enemy" type deal, because the enlightenment is what set this mess in motion.
Aaron Campbell
the hormones stopped making you do illogical retarded shit now you just have to wait for the sexbots
Carter Thomas
We call this "growing up".
Most people are stuck in a perpetual state of childhood, looking for sex, adoration, worship, etc in any place they can find it. It is indicative of a very low level of development in their spiritual/mental faculties.
Suffering is a very strong catalyst for this progression of the faculties and is what you have experienced, you went through a hard bit of experience, now you come out the other side with mutations to your mind and spirit resulting in a different perception and state of being.
Its all very elementary.
Most women are not worth the time anyways, save yourself the trouble.
Asher Bennett
You're being a cunt....
Just be smart. Fuck girls, once it gets annoying move the fuck on... christ.
Leo Ward
You’re young. Don’t date women from bars. The gym would be okay. Otherwise find anther hobby something to spice up your life. Join a hiking club or rock climbing take up some outdoors hobby and you’re likely to find a decent woman there. Horse women are nuts though.
Matthew Clark
dub speak truth about women who ride horses especially southern women in my experience
Lmao I second that. I know a handful of girls who are "into" horses. They're all nuts
Jason Collins
Based schizo in the library
Mason Hernandez
Holy shit this is me except 29. Broke up 2 years ago. I spent so many years with my dick as my compass and now that I see that women are just giant babies, I'm not even interested. If I want to fuck, I have people I could hit up but meaningless sex is meaningless now.
>muh blood and tears shoulda put more jizz into it instead
Tyler Morales
based
Jordan Brooks
I just realized I've heard this about horse girls before but never bothered to ask why. Can't speak from personal experience as I haven't met many but if I had to guess is that they're the kind to be really spoilt. That's just a guess, though. Why is it?
It'll be over when you meet the right woman. You'll know.
Mason Phillips
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose, and nothing don't mean nothing if it ain't free.
Aiden Moore
>Literally every single one Hey fucker, my sister is a horse person....
Dylan Fisher
And? How crazy is she?
Levi Sullivan
faggot
Asher Barnes
You're not going to be the last guy who lays a hand on her.
And you're not going to be the last guy she burns bridges on.
That's what women's rights is: The permission to burn bridges and hop from relationship to relationship like nothing happened.
I am a romantic. I believe in mutual relationships.
And that's what romance is - a fantasy you can't have. It's a dream.
It's this ideal that you can turn relationships into a fair transaction where you have balance and honesty.
Never in my whole life have I had a friend, hell, let alone a girlfriend, that didn't turn into a heartless NPC in the end. What's the point?
I idealize friendship as much as women, too. This idea of having a pure friendship. In the end, there's always a power dynamic in play.
And that power dynamic isn't necessarily a bad thing.
We need to make sure the people who have power are virtuous and good people. Our society is about giving random segments of people power based on their skin and gender - often the type of people who'd forge a check and scam SNAP without looking the other way :P
Jason Cox
I live the same as you OP. We are out there, and we're not all neets.
Jack Parker
>having a girlfriend ever >caring DEARLY about a woman who isn't even your wife yet >25 browsing Jow Forums and not knowing any of this basic knowledge lmao how new are you? On the plus side you're not a normie anymore. You have a lot to learn user.
>Get into porn. You can fuck your problems away OP Yes, because then he can add shame and low energy to his list of problems.
Jaxon Powell
are you me be 30 have meaningless sex now to move on after a back and forth relationship from hell...questions whats the point anymore/
Jayden Sullivan
Damn are you literally me? We'll get through it bro I'm not sure how but keep eating right, hitting the gym, etc. things will fall into place soon enough
Noah Jackson
Protip: Get laid. That will get you thinking about someone else faster.
Until THEY break your heart.
Now you're trapped user. You cannot escape once you've gotten some pussy.
I think men need meaningful relationships with other men before they need a relationship with a woman. No homo.
Parker Bennett
I mean he's already a faggot for crying about a girl he broke up with almost 2 years ago, so really he's got nothing to lose.
Jaxson Sanders
Its because you still love her OP, but you really need to move on. Maybe start going to bars and just talking to people. Or make friends at the local gun shop. Please take it from me. The faster you move on the better it will be. Let her go, just like she did to you.
22 >still stuck in duality >sacrifice to succeed mentality Falling for (((their))) occult teachings lmao You create your own experience anons. You dont have to sacrifice anything, and you shouldn’t.
You are not close user. You are living a life where you have accepted unhappiness as your default. And yet you do nothing to change it except whine about the world. >this is the meme they want for you >can you not see through this low level basement dweller depressed meme? You can cry and cry and cry and at the end you are still just stuck living in fear of being rejected. Why not just be happy and do shit that makes you happy and find new shit to make you happy and just choose to be happy? Cuz you found some shit that made you unhappy? So the proper response is to submit and give up on the world? Only the weak submit.
Anons are not fucking weak.
Beat this meme anons.
Ian Ramirez
Maybe he would be willing to just try the tip for a few seconds, no commitment.
Isaiah Robinson
it fades eventually. i still dream about my ex sometimes. (its been almost 6 years since we broke up) but i hardly think about her in my day to day unless something explicitly reminds me of her. started feeling back to normal after about 2.5 years passed. began seeing other girls because i thought it would help me get over her but it made me miss her more until i met one girl i really got along with and now everything is cushty. it never fully goes away but does get better. it just takes a rather long time. meet up with your friends and try your hardest to keep her off your mind
I was in the same position as you except I never really dated. About a month and a half ago, I scored a date with a traditional Christian girl who's a 10 and my experience (or lack of) caught her attention and now we're engaged and getting married before Christmas
Colton Stewart
No it will only get worse especially in america where the youth call the proverbial shots from happenings to lifestyle quality and happiness. The older you become the more depressed you will be until you're so old and lonely and kys (1 in 6000 americans call it quits every year lol)
Evan Diaz
MASH all day errday
Kevin Young
Just be thankful you didn't marry any of the cunts.
i beg to differ you misunderstand the point its not acceptence of unhappiness but rather the detachement from the urge to be happy for that is following your bodys' urges, just like a machine follows its programming
Bentley Jenkins
HIT OR MISS
Blake Scott
100% this. Don’t lie to yourself OP. You still care, and you need to cut that shit out
Dominic Campbell
WTF are you talking about? I live near sun city and these old geezers are aggressive! They also get up really early to vote, make their AARP payment, and play golf. I wouldn't fuck with those people.
Kayden Martinez
My advice? Don't buy any rope strong enough to support your weight.
Gavin Morris
same way OP women being branch-swinging trash is a feature of female psychology, not a bug. we live in a society where we just cant do anything about it but participate in their gynocentric bullshit that robs men of either their time or resources or fuck your hand.
Look up Dr. Jordan Peterson. Listen to his Podcast/YouTube lectures.
Bentley Wright
Those are all canadian snowbirds, you can tell by the bad driving where they drive in the leftlane and never leave it.
Daniel Hill
Well I am in a very similar situation except I am now ugly( got fat after my ex left me) and I Don t have a job.
I came back honetown and friends of mine strated to call me back I Don t usually take those phone calls but today I went in at the restaurant. Found an old friend of mine, a guy I used to respect. He looks and dress as a liberal, he now have glasses and of course they are not normal ones but those with 1800's style lens. I Don t think he is a leftists, he is too much self absorbed to be one. However He watched me in the eyes and said what are you doing here You Don t belong I Don t want you and you Don t have friends in here.
I still Don t know how should I fell about it, went to a pub drunk an old fashion went home almost crashing myself in a tree in the process.
I understand that I am utterly the biggest loser ever made,my ex didn t even love me as well. But shit I believe that I deserve to eat in a ducking table without being fucking humiliated.
Wasn't that guy Klinger a cross dresser? I think this little synchronicity is the universe telling OP something.
Connor Harris
Get a dog. Dogs can fill the void and they don't nag or make you feel like shit for seemingly no reason.
Jace Cox
So so true, horsees are crazies Been stuck too, like a year >So what Carried on, stumbled upon a vry cute one >Everything fine before, as now
Ryan Flores
maybe you are bad at sex. maybe there is something driving this dysfunction. what's the root cause of your frozenness? Fear of? don't bs with fer of relationships either. if thats the case why? only the truth will set you free. as example "premature ejaculator with small penis, always insecure and nervous, too much anxiety and tension to keep up" or something like that...root cause not bs.
