Why are my sexual preferences so different from when i was younger. Sex isn’t even that pleasurable anymore. I feel numb. What the fuck is this industry selling us?
What is porn selling us?
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quit porn (and preferably masturbation) for 3+ months and see what happens.
It's selling us short term free pleasure, in exchange for a life of slavery
It's time to quit. You're not even going to be able to have sex with a woman at this point of your porn addiction.
The disgusting porn gif adverts on Jow Forums make me fucking sick.
Porn really is the most degenerate and grotesque thing. It has infected my brain the same as everyone else. The only way is to quit cold turkey. Easier said than done
Do you have experience with this sort of stuff? Does it help cure the degeneracy? I’m tryna have a solid marriage eventually
Seriously, stop.
Read this or at least skim a couple chapters
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i watch porn and have a healthy sex life.. dunno what's wrong with you but it's not porn's fault it's your own. fuck off to reddit leaf
Burger Leaf masterrace you nigger. Address me as such. Also how do your partners react when they find out you use porn?
Yeah, over indulging in pleasure causes this.
You end up needing more of it to get your "satisfaction" and the pleasure you get from it is not that great.
Classical Philosophers know this.
>I’m tryna have a solid marriage eventually
i would stop the porn now then. the best sex of my life was with a meth addicted butterfaced 70iq worthless whore. i cared so little about her i would just do whatever. you cant do this to someone you love/respect. but now im married, the sex is just ok but my life in itself is off the charts. get right bro
Drop porn it is frying off all sense. I was once into bestiality, torture and stuff like that. Then stopped watching porn for a while and it got to normal in a few weeks.
Porn like any other fiction is selling you a fantasy. Jow Forums does the same
It's just destroying your brain cells, nothing else.
Literally this.
Shit, try it for two weeks and you'll see the difference.
Does your wife ask about your sexual past
I'm starting to think I'm just attracted to milf porn because I want to start a family and like motherly women
>i shoot up black tar heroin and have a healthy life.. dunno what's wrong with you but it's not black tar heroin's fault it's your own. fuck off to reddit leaf
The eternal libertarian
That’s an incredibly short amount of time. Do you have PTSD from all the degen shit you watched? Or is your mind pretty much emptied out and filled with new sexual thoughts
sure she's asked me my "number".(75)
hers is 25 and she counts blowjobs and other woman. im really good looking and my dick works so whats to complain about?
I feel numb too.
Recent things that constantly pop up now are "Brother and sister" titled videos... so that's the new thing that the Jews will push on the west, incest rights (and get the support of their imported Muslim shitskins who fuck their cousins already).
>and get the support of their imported Muslim shitskins who
you do relize the tranz movement is the same thing. turning tranz is highly encouraged in muslim countries if gay
>sure she's asked me my "number".(75)
enjoy hell
Things are pretty fucked.
Yes, Iran has more tranny operations than even Thailand.
Apparently it's not gay if it's an inverted penis.
We’re being sold something by some really malevolent people. I can’t believe pedophelia and transgender kids’ rights are actually mainstream topics of discussion.
Dont watch porn you retard.
I realize that I get dumber the moment I open /b/ and see the adds.
>I realize that I get dumber the moment I open /b/
You should have stopped there
The funny thing, is that porn has limited your ability to comprehend what porn itself is doing to you.
Ultimately, the problem is lust.
E. Michael Jones:
>The traditional manuals of moral theology have always claimed that one of the results of lust was a “darkening of the mind”.
Noooooooooooooo
Shame it doesn't restore foreskin else you kikelets would be sorted
Every person that I've met with a double digit sexual partner count is always super fucked up.
>Substance abuse
>Financial problems
>Bad parents
pick 3
no one normal wants a woman to sit on their face. no one normal wants to "eat ass" or have a GF with an ass the size of a fat nigger that works at mcdonalds. this shit was all intentional and pushed through porn, just like you're seeing interracial and incest pushed now.
and the sexless fags?
Old Fag here and I may be able to give you the articulation you need.
I would not consider all porn bad. I think most men are too cheap to view anything other than "free porn" so as to get their money's worth. That is where you are bombarded with interracial; cuck; incest; tranny granny shit every second.
The Jews want you erect and stroking and then......"click" some fucking granny appears on the screen and that it programmed into your brain.
If you actually spend $30 a month on "quality nudes", you're porn experience will be a lot more beautiful. I use sites like Zishy or Tokyo Doll where it's mostly teenage white women nude. Sometimes they use a vibrator, but there are no other dudes.
It's goes back to celebrating the absolute beauty of a woman. Most of these photos are women 18-24 with no piercings and tattoos.
TL: DR; You don't have to quit porn. Just quit "free porn" and gear down to nudes of young white women.
>sure she's asked me my "number".(75)
>hers is 25 and she counts blowjobs and other woman.
ffs...do any one of you have any std?
Sexual abuse :(
That's good advice, but the sex dreams will expose your true sexual preferences. Not everyone is ready for that.
got the clap 3 times. some rando virus that also just took a pill. got warts on my dick long time ago but i got this fancy cream instead of freezing them off. never came back or transmitted to other hoes. pretty lucky
>Every person that I've met with a double digit sexual partner count is always super fucked up.
>>Substance abuse
>>Financial problems
>>Bad parents
sometimes they get a free pass, but almost always their children end up as degenerates.
>got warts on my dick long time ago but i got this fancy cream instead of freezing them off. never came back or transmitted to other hoes.
that is HPV, you still have it. you transmitted that to your wife and can pass to your children at birth.
>meth addicted butterfaced 70iq worthless whore. i cared so little about her i would just do whatever.
This is kind of sad mate. We need to look out for people who won’t or can’t look out for themselves. Or at least do no harm
how many kids you got user? you gotta swing the bat to hit a home run
>how many kids you got user? you gotta swing the bat to hit a home run
subhuman amerimutt.
" I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments."
You sir just made me realize I will probably be okay. My sex dreams are things like missionary sex with Kendal Jenner. Always wake up feeling happy. But my porn tastes are quite the opposite. Sigh.
licking an anus is so dirty and depraved, that's what makes it hot.
so none?.
Pacification.
Its like legalizing heroin.
>but the sex dreams will expose your true sexual preferences.
My sex dreams are pretty vanilla so Im ok, but I doubt its so straightforward with dreams.
Stop watching porn. Stop jerking your dick. I know it sounds hard but that's ruining sex for you.
To Porn or Not Porn.
You also have to realize the Ulterior Motives to both sides of this argument.
(((They))) might be telling you to "Not Porn" so that you get so full of cum that you go out and "Cuck" women in 3D. That is about the only way to get 3D women because their market value is inflated.
If you Cuck 3D women, you become part of the (((System))) and become financially enslaved as you try to keep your THOT happy. That means "Gift Days" 20 times a year; mortgages; "travel"; "dinner". And the Clever Jew benefits from all this as he owns the banking system. He knows you will live beyond your means and he'll benefit from Usury and Compounding Interest (Jews Tricks).
If you decide to Porn, then the Clever Jew has that avenue covered. Plenty of Nigger; Cuck; Incest; Faggot; Granny; Trap shit is on the "Free Porn" sites, which will "Help you Cum" but at the same time, poison your mind with self doubt; sexual confusion and despair.
The trick here is to become a porn connoisseur. Only pay for porn that is 18-25 year old WHITE women, with no piercings; tattoos or degenerate features. I'm talking about "Solo" porn without any other man present. No Cuck Shit. Masturbation to these images can be blissful as it fits a young man's need to procreate to a gorgeous woman.
The truth is that a man needs to cum. I used to believe in No Fap, but soon realized it's just a Jew Trick designed to make you (((Participate))) in the (((System))). All it does is make you hungry.
By Fapping reasonably, you tame your desire and keep your self from being taken advantage of by a Sinister THOT. And by fapping to CHOICE porn, you are programming yourself to only react to top quality in real life. Don't fall for THOT Tricks.
It's unreleastic to tell people they should give up porn. They will try and be overcome with sexual frustration and feelings of loneliness, then fail at their goal and feel depressed about it.
Use porn in a responsible way by limiting yourself to short sessions and masturbating in a way that simulates intercourse. Avoid porn which is powered on novelty or depravity, favoring instead material that glorifies the human body and shows people giving each other pleasure. Ideally they should seem to care for each other in some measure. SexArt and X-Art are good examples of websites that focus entirely on beauty and pleasure, and where the models seem to have favorite pairings and to enjoy each other's company.
DO NOT EDGE. Stimulate your mind, stimulate your body, take a reasonable amount of time, and then get it over with. When you reach the point where porn isn't necessary for further arousal, put it aside and finish while thinking about a real experience you have had. If you haven't ever had sex, or if it was traumatic, think about a specific person you want to be with. Focus on what they would feel, taste, and smell like. A major problem with porn is that it packages a complex multi-sensory experience into a simple and distant product comprised only of sight and sound, the LEAST important senses during intercourse. If you must maintain visual stimulation, finish with images of someone's face, so that the fantasy is closer to one of quality sex and away from the sort of visual-only stimulation for which porn slowly refashions the mind.
Above all else, don't masturbate if it's likely you could have sex in the next 24 hours; or if, in the next 12 hours, you will be around anyone you might be interested in. Pent up sexual energy is very important to everyday encounters with possible partners, even and especially in a setting where flirting isn't appropriate.
>my innermost sexual desires are being with a slut who has been blacked repeatedly and having their leftovers.
Wew, lad.
>tfw constantly thinking about impregnating girls
>It's unreleastic to tell people they should give up porn. They will try and be overcome with sexual frustration and feelings of loneliness, then fail at their goal and feel depressed about it.
piss of with that roastie with experience wisdom.
porn quitting is easy if you find another outlet for dopamine.
I did 3 months nopom (no porn, orgasm, masturbation or edging). The only thing that changed is that I had many more wet dreams than before.
God what’s wrong with us, Brazilbro?
Do prostitutes count? I've never had a gf but have had sex with about 10 prostitutes.
>implying i have sex
Instant gratification. It's the same deal as sugar, take something people naturally crave and refine it down to the purest form that can easily be sold. Doesn't take a genius to see that giving someone access to instant gratification might make them develop behaviors related to seeking it out, and that this might come at the cost of other behaviors that previously satisfied the same need (finding a fulfilling relation / eating nutritious food), but people just naively wait for science to find concrete proof of harm before they consider that it might be kinda risky to just accept it into their lives.
People really should have learned from tobacco, as it demonstrates just how long it takes before enough evidence piles up that corporate shills can no longer claim that there's no substantial evidence of harm, and it's a good example of why you can't take no evidence of harm as evidence of no harm.
>don't masturbate if it's likely you could have sex in the next 24 hours; or if, in the next 12 hours, you will be around anyone you might be interested in
Good advice from this user.
I will also say that the above is an exponential figure as you age. It's true what he says about the lack of "touch" and "smell" during masturbation to porn.
If you are jerking off from your youth all the way to your mid to late 40s, you are doing a LOT of reprogramming on your brain. That is why you have to view top quality porn and use it a bit sparingly. Think of it like a fine whiskey you drink only on special occasion.
A lot of dudes like myself eventually get ED when with 3D women. I think a lot of it is psychological. I've jerked off to PRIME SMV 10/10 women online for over 20 years. That has "raised the bar" is a way to the point where I'm with a 40-something Thot that is 5/10 at best, I simply can't get it up. I'm beyond disgusted.
A feminist would tell you that you need to "Stop Viewing Porn" so that the modern day 5/10 Thot is stimulating enough to give you an erection. But there are all kinds of modern issues of lowering yourself to that level.
The way things are "supposed to work" is that you marry young and a woman gives her high sexual value in return for you lifelong support. In that way, you have a "bond" with your wife and even though she becomes uglier with each passing day, you find your bond with her sexually appealing.
But that is becoming more and more rare. Now we have men reaching 30s and 40s without a wife and an ocean of THOTS to choose from. As such, you are going to get "locked in" to porn at that point. It's a sort of point of no return.
I can honestly tell you that I get way more out of masturbating to an endless wave of new young hot women than having real life 3D sex with a Goblina Gravy Face Thot Slut Bag. Yes, "touch" and "smell" are missing, but Peak SMV and my 20 years of masturbation skills make up for that.
my partner is more degenerate than me. she unironically watches hentai lmao
Porn is a psyop meant to fuck you up and prevent guy from forming relationships and families. Why do you think it's free and everywhere?
>roastie
>protitute
implying its not the same
>muh gains
If it were easy we would be done with these threads by now.
Your image is also pointless, as there are countless videos available that don't show the male performer's body or only show his dick, along with female-only tease and masturbation videos and lesbian porn. Most of these are set up for the viewer to imagine himself in the scene. Never mind that men with cuckold fetishes watch cuckold porn. Straight porn is for people who on some level want sex with both men and women.
Bingo.
the only difference i've noticed is ultra horniness to the point of physical pain in the balls
I had to fap or i'd have ended up fucking a goddamn 1/10 and regret everything
It's just a phase man, and It's at the beginning phases of becoming taboo again. Stop worrying about it so much!
>videos available that don't show the male performer's body or only show his dick
It's interesting that more and more VR porn will show other dudes or the (You) dude in your field of vision at the videos start to create the Cuck Experience.
I thought the (This is my Dick) VR was a pretty positive experience because I never saw the guys face and was able to transpose his dick as my own. You know from the start, the girl is 95% of the field of vision.
I think the Jews probably hate VR as it could lock out the Cuck Programming they are so instant on.
>muh gains
gains? I was talking about general ambition etc. if you get a dop rush from it you can counter porn addiction
>All it does is make you hungry
It won't make you a desperate beta. The first milestone is impulse control. Drop that "moderation" bs.
I agree with this user 100%. If you are learning to despise what you enjoy, you are learning to despise yourself, which NEVER ends well. And if you think what you enjoy defines everything about you and that it can't change over time, you are mistaken about what you are, need to think less, go outside, and live life more.
This is an important point, which I frankly overlooked because I'm lucky to either have a very pretty wife, or to be deeply attuned to her so that I at least imagine she's pretty. Were I single again I think I might be in real trouble, because never mind the bodies, the real world just doesn't have the sort of faces you see at the adult modeling and art porn sites. People will pin this on makeup and photography, but that doesn't hold water anymore as everyone we know is now done up in quality photos on Instagram and so forth, and most of them just cannot compare. I'm afraid I have no answer to this except masturbate to less attractive models. I can't do it.
>What the fuck is this industry selling us?
Well the industry is run by Jews, what do you think?
Radical idea but how about stop watching porn and use your IMAGINATION. My imagination beats out any of that porn garbage any day.
Probably gonna have to layoff the masturbation for a while but when you restart do not use anything but your minds eye.
>If you are learning to despise what you enjoy, you are learning to despise yourself, which NEVER ends well.
I disagree.
pick porn or pick thots, pick your poison.
i'm 5 days in and have noticed absolutely nothing, except a desire to fap
what "difference" exactly?
>use your IMAGINATION
This can work, perhaps if you are on a college campus with some high SMV females in your line of vision. I used to be able to do that. You see a chick in 3D. You absorb her vision and then go home to jerk off to that vision later on.
Shit, I used to see a hot chick on the street and go to the nearest bathroom to jerk to to essence right that minute.
But in the modern day, we are experiencing a THOT EPIDEMIC. I mean.....every fucking place you go is filling with Purple Haired; Gravy Faced; Ham Beast Goblina Commies.
And I must say...., just seeing that on your day to day, fucks you up. It fucks up the whole "Imagination" thing as you get so fucking depressed seeing it all. It's hard to remove it from your mind.
For me, I have to view choice porn just to get those horrible images out of my head.
It has become Incredibly Rare that I see a woman on the street that I would actually fuck. I am pretty much disgusted with every bitch I see in Normie Land.
The truth is that about 3 Billion men are jerking off to about .0001% of the CHOICE 10/10 women online. Isn't that crazy?
I watched porn every night from the age of 12 and stopped in my twenties and my preferences never escalated, I was cracking off to the same vids that I did when I started
From what I gather people who watch scat and you-know-what are non-lucid, low-awareness people who are often fat or dopey and have low adrenaline levels and they are basically drunk at a baseline level which is why they seek out harder stimuli.
I definitely felt my anxiety decrease after quitting porn but watching disgusting/illegal shit is because you're an NPC acting autonomously and cannot think manually
>art porn
>I have such nuanced, sophisticated tastes
>posts a completely average girl as an image
There are two approaches to changing yourself:
1. You see what you've been doing and you realize that it isn't helping you towards your goals, so you decide to change what you're doing. This approach comes out of love for something more, and is healthy.
2. You learn that what you're doing is "wrong" and you start to despise it, so you decide to remove it from your life. This approach comes out of fear of being lesser than others and will not make you more goal-driven, only more irritable.
How does porn even work? Is it empathy? Why do we get aroused at other people having sex? Isnt this like against natural selection?
You are also a massive LARPing faggot
Older women are pretty fucking hot desu.
>Isnt this like against natural selection?
If it is, then so is watching a movie or seeing a painting or reading a book and feeling something in response. It's just empathy, but more importantly immersion via the senses.
It’s because we stopped hanging people user
>I feel numb
Seen three times in last five years, I couldn’t even nut. I’ve given up.
you guys sound so cringey and incel it's pathetic. even if he did fuck 75 girls (highly unlikely for somebody who posts on Jow Forums to of had sex) he previously admitted to fucking a meth head.
he's most likely not somebody to be envious and insecure over.
These threads just make me want to watch porn.
MILF porn is a meme started by the Jews to create Beta Providers for used up Thots who rode the Cock Carousel for their younger years.
MILF porn is targeted towards young men who don't realize how absolutely WRUNG OUT a MILF pussy really is. It's like a fucking an empty room made of hay. Dry, no feeling, draping curtains of roast beef and a chemical smell of Mt Dew and Cheetos.
It's the nastiest fucking thing you will ever experience.
Source: Guy in his 40s who is actually forced to fuck MILFs...
Pretty much exactly this. Escalating sexual fantasies are not a result of masturbating too much, they are a sign of deeper psychological issues with intimacy. Try to reform yourself instead of playing the blame game or throwing the pity party.
>he's most likely not somebody to be envious and insecure over.
lol, im retired at 36
t. stay at home dad
>because you're an NPC acting autonomously and cannot think manually
LOL
Very true.
I actually believe that most of societies problems stem from the outlawing of public hanging and the banning of duels to the death.
>deeper psychological issues with intimacy
Found the Roastie.
This is how women talk. Whenever you hear "Issues" or "Intimacy", you are speaking about "Female Intellect" better known as "Female Manipulation."
This is how a female reels you in and takes control. Google things like Shit Test and Love Bombing. The modern female uses "intimacy" as a control mechanism (eg: You do love me don't you user?). She has to do this as she knows, she is reliant on male provisions (either through marriage or government handouts). She needs her man "addicted" which translates to her as "a resource".
Women do not experience Love; Bonds; Loyalty or Honor with other men (other than their own kids). They are pretty much Robotic in every way. Female Hypergamy is very real. You must study our human species to understand exactly how women evolved to manipulate men.
>lol why didn't you just tell the doctors no when you were an infant
>pretending he doesn't care for intimacy
lying to yourself isn't going to get anyone anywhere
It's horseshit. The people pushing this will also tell you to abstain from intercourse while you are at it. They call it a reboot and want you to stop fucking your girlfriend for months at a time, because heaven forbid you be in bed with someone who loves you, eat her pussy until she screams, and then not last very long during intercourse. Oh the humiliation and suffering.
These people are either idiots or trying to piggyback on the nofap movement with stuff that can only create strife between couples or fuck things up for a man who is with a woman for the first time in some months or ever. Sex after a long dry spell feels like shit and your dick is so sensitive you won't last three minutes. Opt out of porn, NOT masturbation, but do abstain from masturbation if sex is an option or might be.
>only women talk about psychology
no wonder you're a fucking wreck. You have a brain that does things. Some of those things are bad and should be fixed. Fucking retard.