It's nothing new here that I'm a virgin and everything. I was able to recover from all this lately, gotten lighter and so on. But yesterday a video made me very shaken a channel for a skateboarding kid, he's at the age of about 13 and he's very ugly, by the way. In one of the videos he randomly arrives in two girls (in different spaces), two beautiful girls, and kisses them, ardently. The detail is that the girls are older than him, around 16 and 17 years. Beautiful girls skaters. Wow, I almost felt bad the moment I saw it. I swear to you that few times I felt so bad.
I wanted to understand why, and I wanted you to help me ... sometimes, I think it's because I'm nineteen and I've never achieved anything like it, I feel like a loser. Damn, it's amazing, it must have been the happiest day of his life. And I never allowed myself to feel anything like it. Not by trial, in fact, I just failed. Every hour, absolutely every day I remember the moment when he arrives, though ugly and hideous, and kisses two beautiful girl
I know if one day I can get a girl like that, it's just because I have muscles or something. What he did was true and a great achievement ... unsurpassed. I will never do anything like it
maybe the kid is rich maybe the kid has lots of subscribers maybe the kid is the son of someone famous
you're so hopped up on being a virgin that you might be ignoring things that are right there in front of you
William Davis
oh my god dude you're feeling bad about this??? dude the kid has like 650k subscribers girls do anything to get famous ofc theyre gonna kiss him if it makes them look even remotely famous
chances are he even paid them
do yourself a favor man, get off of youtube
i hate this advice but seriously man, work on yourself. improve yourself. take up other hobbies. god damn man you're better than this.
Camden Wilson
Dude, who cares if he has a lot of subscribers, he's so fucking ugly. Younger and younger than the girl This is impressive and I feel bad whenever I remember it.
Benjamin Edwards
man, and something else, I dont accept the fact that I'm nineteen and I'm never going to get what he got with that age
Obsessing on those kind of thoughts will never take you somewhere and will only make you suffer.
Here's my advice: Keep your mind busy. Learn something new everyday, no matter how insignificant it may seem. Find a passion. Always become the best version of yourself.
Women feel naturally attracted to self confident guys who are passionate about something. The only way is to adapt yourself to the reality you live in, not to force your reality to adapt to you.
Here are two options for you:
1) Sit down, cry and blame life for all the shit that it has given to you.
2) Man up, face your reality, get out of your confort zone and work hard to get what you want for yourself.
Of course, one option is easier than the other.
Do not sabotage yourself, dude.
Sorry for my crappy redaction and english, I tried to fit a lot of ideas and english is not my first language.
Caleb Taylor
thank u guys but I cant devalue what I saw. How to give less value to the ugly boy who kissed a beautiful girl?
i want a advice to feel good about these feeling man, about what i saw in thread.
Samuel Lee
guys I just wanted you to tell me a way to deal better with seeing what I saw in the video, that's it
Thomas Cooper
Alright, thats a good base. Don't stop.
Do you like your looks, your body and your fashion?
Jaxson Diaz
>being this retarded holy shit my dude, you dont need enemies when you have yourself
Gavin Johnson
yeah i like man.
Tyler Evans
thanks for the laugh
Noah Price
Weird. You should be fine then.
Gavin Myers
son, you're ugly but unlike that kid you're a loser. you said it yourself. girls don't kiss nor fuck losers. you won't stop feeling bad about yourself until you cease to be a loser
Adam Green
But I can get in touch with girls, only they always say I'm not attractive, you know? I do not create sexual tension with anyone, and in fact they think me cool, but never a guy to kiss or date or something like that
Bentley Gomez
What's the difference between me and the video boy? we're both ugly because he succeeds and I do not? do not tell me face confidence because I've always been confident and never understood because never with me
Logan Powell
>Brazilian boys are fuckboys and girls are sluts well what the fuck else would you expect
Ian Walker
the video's girl seems to be slippery
Jordan Gonzalez
Because in that country you're ready for sex by the time you're like 10 Honestly, it's kinda silly to be comparing yourself to people from there unless you live there too If so, pobrezinho
Cooper Rivera
man, no matter the country. We are not better to anyone. What he did was incredible.
Cooper Carter
last bump searching answers and a real advice
Noah Reyes
Your brain and your body aren't quite finished maturing. When you're younger, little things seem like they go on forever. If one person rejects you or dumps you, it seems like everyone ever will. Nobody bothers explaining that to children and teenagers, and I think it's very damaging. I didn't have any sexual or romantic success as a teenager either, I wasn't over it at 19 but I was over it a few years later. You're also forgetting that you're seeing a FRACTION of this kid's life, the fraction that he wants you to see. You're comparing your entire life to a sliver of his. This is how social media poisons you. For all you know he struggles with school, or learned to talk to girls after dozens of failures, or is actually a faggot in the closet. It's not fair or healthy to compare yourself like that.
Adam Taylor
What you said was impressive and very clever. Helped me a lot. But, man, the point is that I think like this: it doesnt really matter what he has gone through, the very heights he lived at that moment already surpasses any peak that I have lived, understand? everything was worth it there at that time, it was something unforgettable and that raised his self-esteem forever
Matthew Wright
Change your view of life. Forget it. It is something that cant change, has passed, just accept things as they are.
Adrian Taylor
This is the only kind of thinking that makes me sick.
Ryan Phillips
bump
Angel Wilson
This is to all things with the limp genitals that hang off your bodies:
INTIMACY IS MORE THAN PHYSICAL. INTIMACY GOES BEYOND KISSING, PENIS IN VAGINA, BLOWJOBS. IT IS CREEPY TO WANT WOMEN/ANYONE TO KISS YOU BECAUSE IT "feels good". LIFE IS MORE THAN FEELING. ONLY CREEPS MAKE IT THEIR LIFE GOAL TO HAVE SEX/PHYSICAL ATTENTION.
Leo Sanchez
prove me, what you said makes no sense at all.
Gavin Lee
>projecting your own opinion of romantic/physical involvement onto all men Typing in all caps should be punishable by death, no joke. You're too stupid for the Internet; please leave.
Jeremiah Rodriguez
hahaha so man what u think about the topic
Jeremiah Jones
Men are visual creatures When we long for affection we see it often comes with unspoken desire for the emotional intimacy.
Austin Harris
You're a clever guy. Could you tell me how to ignore what I saw? How do I stop caring about this? It pains me a lot to think about these videos. I'm jealous of this boy
Brayden Robinson
seems like elliot rodger
Owen Young
bump
Adam Gray
An obvious lie that won't help OP. Most people arrive at normal sexual milestones just by living. No exceptional effort is required. It takes far more than just time for the people this does not describe -- they are fundamentally inadequate and must rearrange themselves accordingly.
You are the reason you are a failure OP. Either continue as you have and wallow in this miserable fact or start doing things your idea of "you" wouldn't normally do.