Why do we get upset if a girl sleeps around and does drugs. I've slept around, I have done a few drugs. But I instantly get turned off when girls tell me about their exes or if she tells me she has done drugs before especially the harder stuff.
Why are we such hypocrites. How many of us guys are out there saying no hymen no diamond knowing damn well were not even "pure"
This is a double standard and it's not ok
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If you're a degenerate, you deserve to live amongst your own kind. Don't lie to yourself and believe everyone else has your vices, fucking manlet.
Fuck I just want a pure traditional woman, but I sound exactly like those roasties that I hate. Fuck this shit
men produce trillions of sperm through out their life, women have like 80 eggs in a lifetime. Its a natural response to be disgusted at a woman who sleeps around.
>we
I couldn't care less about those things. I care about nigger smell and kegels. I also think bruises are especially ugly on women and no "tee hee clumsy" excuse cuts it with me. So you work in a kitchen I don't care stop looking like a bashed up whore and we might have a chance together. rinse and repeat
pls tell me more
Cause I can handle my shit and my god tier immune system presents disease.
Scum and dirt rolls right off me leaving me pure.
But women collect the dirt inside their souls becoming tainted and befouled. They can't hang. They will piss themselves and get pregnant with herpes.
Shill thread, try harder OP
Nah senpai I'm talking about my own personal life. Met a lil cutie, she just got out of a 7 year relationship. We were drinking with friends and telling stories and she told one about her ex. Learned shes done coke and near instantly didnt find her as attractive anymore. Then I thought about my own experiences and realized I'm being a hypocrite
because we always know who the mother is.
but require test that have only existed a few years to determine who the father is.
im grossed out by guys that sleep around and have done drugs so i dont care about the double standard bc i wouldnt date a male degenerate anyway
Roastie detected. No one is falling for it turbo skank.
Not being pure is having had one to three partners you were honestly in Love with.
Being a raging, STD-riddled whore is having more sexual partners you can count on two hands, nine of which you loved, and possibly one or more abortion.
Not the same thing at all.
that's because you are a faggot. no surprise there, given your flag. get of your fucking high horse and understand women are people, you imbecile
Sage
get some self respect and stop bothering with women
You are one person that deserves to get prostate cancer and die.
I'm pure. I want a pure girl. There aren't any unless I start aiming young. I'm just going to program my own girl honestly, it'll be easier than sifting through 3 billion women.
Wouldn't it be more like ~500, assuming they're fertile for at least 40 years? I know there was an African girl who gave birth at age 5. I don't even know how a girl can get pregnant before menstruation, but whatever. I'm a stickler for fairly accurate numbers and estimations.
having your body penetrated is a bigger deal that putting your dick in something.
>overwhelming majority of this board watches porn, has premarital sex, is degenerate as fuck
Ironically they are just like the women they hate. Blame the other sex for all their own problems.
OP, my thing is that I don't think women are capable of forming proper love bonds once they've been "worn out". I could tolerate three exes from my partner, if she were wife material. Only one of my exes was a virgin before me, the rest have had 12+ partners. Of those, only one was capable of actual love or commitment.
Women with too many partners are finnicky and unreliable. Plus they have a weird gross stink that I've noticed virgins don't have.
>why are we
who is this "we" shlomo?
Why do you talk like a jew?
Because women are supposed to raise kids and druggy whores dont give off a very appealing image. Sluts are cool for quick sex but its mans nature to view them as low value. Sluts are the female version of betas, they arent emotionally developed enough for healthy relationships.
Id hit it
this
these digits do not lie
men and women have different standards for each other. that is natural and ok
>b-but muh equality
look at men and women's dating profiles and compare them
how many men's profiles require woman to be over X height or make over Y amount per year?
it's almost like we look for different things in a partner
>women are people
So? What is your point?
If you want to find one maybe you should start by not being a degenerate
It’s actually a couple mil but a lot of them fail to attach and the reality is somewhere between 6 and 5 digits
Anyone who uses the term “no hymen no diamond” is 99.999% certain to be an incel
Faggot, i have never done drugs only got drunk and fucked 4-5 girls many times each. 28 here. Most woman today take drugs and fuck 10+ guys from 24+
I know I'm on my high horse, I'm asking how do I get off it.
That's true, I've also noticed that just never put it into words
>out of a 7 year relationship.
>We were drinking
huge red flags
No double standard for me. I apply the same standards to everyone.
Sleep around ? You are a degenerate.
Do drugs ? Did or do ? and which ones ? If you still do and use hard ones, then you are also a degenerate.
See ? Simple.
Women initiate divorce 4-to-1. That is why the double standard is justified
Cuck
>why do I get upset when girl has a big moustache
>I have a moustache and noe one calls me out on that
>wow such hypocrisy because I wouldn't date a girl who has a moustache
Women are not men.
Men are not women.
Double standards are perfectly normal you fucking retard.
The difference is because its much harder for a man to get laid than a woman (unless youre very wealthy or a celebrity). Almost any woman who isn't hideous could jump on tinder right now and get laid, the same can't be said for a guy. A master key unlocks many locks, a lock that is opened by many keys is a shit lock
Explain how those are flags, I thought being able to commit for 7 years is a good thing
>much harder for a man to get laid than a woman
That does not make it ok
Why did the 7 year relationship end?
>commit for 7 years
shacking up without being married is very lower class behavior
>being a manwhore is based and redpilled
>w-women are whores
what are "hard" drugs? I'd go for a girl that takes molly and psychedelics a couple times a year than some thot who goes out getting shitfaced every friday. alcohol ruins your body.
She mentioned hes in Florida and she now lives in michigan
Apart from the handful of perma-virgins on here, mostly everyone has slept around and done a cheeky bit of weed & coke. It's just a tremendous faux pas to talk about it and girls who bang on about their exes should be given the boot posthaste. Shows a lack of class & judgement.
I'm not saying its any better, rather that the double standard has some merit given the differences in difficulty to getting laid depending on your sex
you want to fuck a women who will get pregnant with your sperm and then not procede to damage the kid with drugs and intoxicants.
this is perfectly natural.
To me hard drugs are coke heroin and meth
Yeah idk it's very unattractive when girls harp on their exes
For those activities, I know I am vile, she won't know what's wrong, she did everything everyone told her to do
Men and women are not equal starting from a purely biological standpoint. Even moreso as you factor in evolutionary psychology and the logistics of childbirth.
>alcohol
>LE DRUG FREE
People like you are retards. All drugs are degenerate, including alcohol and cigs. Alcohol is actually on par with most hard drugs. To me, all of you using substances are junkie scum and your substance abuse isn't ok just because the jews in charge told you so. Fuck off
>Why do we
Not everyone is a degenerate like you, user. I want a good woman because I am a good man. Hypocrites like you only drag us all down. You belong with the unloyal low impulse control roasties that you simultaneously hate and relate to.
I don't feel sad about personal freedom. Not even the slightest
Know what bothers me? When people aren't sure about their choices. Why, hippie? Because this insecurity is what lead people to act as if their way of life is the cure all of everybody's problems. It's when they become the door to door salesman that knocks my door on a sunday morning, or the jehovah witness, or whoever sends me a text to ask me to vote.
That's what really bothers me. People insecure about their choices and feel like what justify them being in the right position is the quantity of followers they convert.
>it's not ok
found the reddit faggot
bye faggot
You truly believe most anons here get laid every week? No way, no one is that dishonest with themselves
Different rules for men and women. There's a reason unaccompanied women used to not be allowed into bars, for example, or that is was far more acceptable for a man to casually fuck a hooker than for a woman to cuck her husband with a gigolo.
Tits or GTFO!
oh yeah fuck that don't get in a relationship with a junkie
maybe if you're talking about casual sex with models. there's nothing stopping most average men from hooking up with obese or very unattractive women. so this isn't as simple as THIS gender can have sex easier. it's about how a lot of men try to get women out of their league and get rejected.
You pointed out a key difference which is the crux of my opinion, a man can only get a very unattractive or obese woman with the similar type of effort that a woman can get a good looking man. I guess you kind of said that at the end of your post so we are somewhat agree
You're the hypocrite, don't assume we all live the same lives you do.
To answer your question, it's because it's crass.
Even if a man or woman has a shady past, telling you about it isn't something anyone wants to hear.
I mean we all shit but that doesn't mean we like to hear about it whenever someone else lays down a steamy log in the toilet.
How do I stop being a hypocrite tho?
You have a few options.
1. Stop caring about being a hypocrite.
Literally just say you're better than everyone else and the rules than apply to others don't apply to you because it's only natural that you serve your own self-interest.
Few people will admit to this, but it's surprisingly effective if you can commit to the mantra.
2. Stop hating women for doing what you do. It's not hard, just be a little empathetic and realize they could be thinking the same thing about dudes that you're thinking about them. Then just be happy that you're part of a hedonistic community of degenerates that do drugs and sleep around.
3. Clean up. You don't need to find god or anything but just realize that because it disgusts you it's probably wrong and you can't erase the past but you can move forward. Normal people won't see you as being as good as them, but it's still better than nothing.
take your pick.
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A lock and a key are complementary. A key that opens many locks is a skeleton key...but a lock that any key opens is just shitty lock lol. Men and women arent the same and when you realise that you'll stop being a faggot.
Stop being a degenerate
Ok I like this and will follow it thanks user
I'm not a degenerate so I can shame whores with no shame. Be sure to shame fags who behave like women too.
"Out of their league" is not a fair sentiment. A 6 guy who goes for a 6 girl who only dates 8+ guys, is definitely searching within his league. Why should staying in league apply to men but not women, anyway? The problem isn't league. It's failed adults. Men need to quit being sissies about what they can't have and just go for it; live and learn until they get it. Women, on the other hand, need to learn restraint. EVERYONE needs to learn discipline and morality.
I'm not saying I hate slutty women, I'm just saying they're totally fucking disgusting and are extremely poor choices as mates. If mating and family aren't on your mind, then none of that matters. But it matters to me, and presumably many Anons here.
Also I'm a socially awkward pretty boy, I've always had to beat women away and reject them, even hot ones. I've had my fill of pussy, so you can't say I'm coming from a place of desperation or spite.
Because sexual selection gives all of the power to women. Men have to vie for opportunity to mate, and females choose. A male that has a lengthy sexual history very likely has desirable characteristics: attractive, athletic, money, power, fame.
But because there are essentially no biological downsides to a male copulating, he will with almost any female.
Pair bonding (like marriage) is totally different obviously.
its just an innate instinct to be repelled by a woman who sleeps around. ive tried to find a logical explanation for it but i cant.
women dont care if a man does in fact id say it makes a man more attractive to them (within limits) because he is seen as desirable. i feel like women would prefer a man with a lot of sexual partners to a man who is a virgin. whereas for men its the opposite.
perhaps it has something to do with reprodctive instics that we have retained from when we were cavemen or whatever. either way i cant explain it. it's extremely hypocritical but all i know is thats the way i and the majority of men feel and nothing is going to change it
Found out my current girlfriend has done some serious slutting about before she met me.
Been together over a year.
Says she's in love with me.
Talks about having kids.
She's got no chance.
We're living together, but I'm planning my exit.
>A male that has a lengthy sexual history very likely has desirable characteristics:
not really it is not as easy for man to get laid as for a woman but it is still pretty easy
>We're living together, but I'm planning my exit.
So you are just as bad a her
Faggot you can count every month eggs, since if you use a egg to have a baby you ain t have more eggs in the follow years.
So women have 40 fertil years, 9 months of pregnancy and the 3 months aftter neither ovulation so 1 egg per year
40 years/1 egg per year = 40 useful eggs
Promiscuity is bad for both genders, but at least for men it's actually challenging to be able to sleep with multitudes of women. Plus it doesn't affect our pairbonding capabilities nearly as much as it does women.
well if you cant bring yourself to look past it then youre better off not wasting each other's time. advise her to keep that information to herself in future if she wants to keep her next man
Why's that then? Because I take finances and logistics in to consideration before breaking up with someone?
>Why's that then?
Why are you living with a woman you are not married to?
>me me me
>we
keep me out of your faggot lifestyle
I don't see why I should look past it.
You can't be a slut then try to transition in to wife material.
Economic realities are greater than
>MUH PRINCIPLES
>Economic realities are greater than
live with your parents
Every man she slept with bareback or sucked off and swallowed, she retained his genetic seed in her body and it will contribute to any child she has by you, it will simply not be purely yours. Also, a mans spunk rewrites a womans mind over time as she ingests it, for every gram she takes into her own code she becomes more masculine and suffers personality disorder.
Virginity has always been highly prized for good reason.
Stop larping as a man. “We” Also men don’t want whores that are cool carrying any mans seed.
>Don't try to change who you are
Sociopaths are people too
How about this for a metaphor.
Your intestines are full of personal bacteria, viruses and parasites.
They help digest your food, boost your immune system, so on.
In fact they are the neurons of your second brain, the limbic brain.
Now when this ecosystem is invaded by foreign parasites, you get sick.
You can get all sorts of infections and ailments from it.
You wouldn't want someone else's parasite, would you?
Because of different societal expectations of women and how men view women.
Women are the gate keepers while men try to access the gate. We expect them to be chaste, innocent, and faithful. When we hear of them using drugs and having slept around we understand on an instinctual level they are not mother material and thus we are turned off.
>Drugs
Drugs indicates bad decision making or coping skills. It also implies they've at least once sold their bodies for drugs. If it's past use then it's often overlooked as youthful indignation but if it's ongoing then it's seen as wholly negative. Women also exclusively do drugs in co-ed situations and often will engage in lewd activities while high.
>Sex
We know that each time a women has sex with a different man it lowers their ability to better last in a following relationship. If they've slept around then we know they're either unfaithful or now incapable of being in a long-term relationship.
>Why are we such hypocrites
We're not. we're expected to play games and spend large amounts of money before we're rewarded with sex. A women simply has to just inform any guy that she wants to sleep with him and they won't even need to make it to the car before he'll begin fucking them. We fundamentally understand this difference in existence and thus see it as a conquest to bed a woman.
Guys are also, unless your dealer is gay, incapable of selling their bodies for drugs. While doing drugs is seen as a negative we know that a man with drugs is a man whose paid for them. Men who do drugs often do them alone or with a friend in a controlled environment.
SAUCE
NEVERMIND
Fuck you are dumb. Do you think men and women are the same?
>It's not ok.
And that's a good thing!
Here's what it means.
And it's powerful.
Because it's much easier for women to get laid so when they are sluts their number of sexual partners can balloon into the 50+ range quite easily.
Because you were there and saw how horrible most girls really are.
Fake as fuck, emotional, confused (although they are over confident egoists who deny this), and psychotic when it comes to chad..
They are fickle and spiteful.
It's fine if they do it, you just need to understand who and what they are... Whores should be treated as such and shouldn't be allowed to walk around fantasizing that they are special.