Has anyone else decided that falling in love is too much of an emotional gamble?
I've had my heart broken a couple times, which I've realized is the worst pain I've ever felt - I'd rather get shot in the arm/leg than go through that again, 100%
But, imagine going through heartbreak while going through a divorce, as you fight over kids, your house, belongings - it'd fucking kill me.
At 28, I've now realized that it's mentally healthier for me to continue with goals & ambitions while dating & hooking up with chicks, rather than risk getting spontaneously dumped again.
I know I'm not the only one who occasionally thinks like this
Don’t marry random women user, it’s hard times were living in
Asher Ross
Love is a chemical reaction in your brain trying to convince you to breed. It's little more that a biological urge to spread dna.
There is NO magic.
Jack Taylor
user what you are doing is trying to take measures to avoid being hurt. But being hurt is part of life, and it can’t be helped if sometimes when you try and love someone you get hurt in the end. Don’t throw love away by avoiding being hurt entirely Things will get better,
Jeremiah Anderson
when you catch those feelings, simply remind yourself that future heartbreak will hurt worse than the positive vibes you're currently feeling
Charles Gomez
>'ve had my heart broken a couple times, STOP SLEEPING WITH WOMEN YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO
Jordan Reed
Stop treating women like people you have a relationship with and start seeing women for their breeding and housekeeping potential. Love and romance are memes.
Parker Bennett
Embrace the suck. Take chances. Don’t end up 40 w/ no kids like me, faggot.
Almost been 10 years and nothing has gotten better except my ability to be alone. There is no one out there who is worth a damn. I cannot relate to anyone and making a connection is impossible. I feel like an alien on earth. Things don't just magically get better. People have to get better for that to happen and things are going in the other direction with almost every person being a soulless piece of shit.
Julian Fisher
Huh, you could still get spontaneously dumped by a woman's change of feelings later down the road.
Happens all the time lol. That's why I'm just like - fuck that shit
Trusting love is no doubt the biggest gamble you'll make
William Myers
>Huh, you could still get spontaneously dumped by a woman's change of feelings later down the road. Not if you get a good girl who believes marriage is a lifelong bond
Alexander Wilson
Having no kids & being single won't be an issue if I aggressively pursue my ambitious goals & projects, which would fill the void
I'd be less miserable than getting dumped & being depressed with a broken heart, too
Evan Davis
Overcoming heartbreak is transcendent. Out of the ashes will be re-born a new, better, wiser you. It's how one levels up in life. Being avoidant of pain will stagnate you.
she would think that initially, and later down the road as she grows & changes, so could her feelings for you and the type of man she wants - which indeed happens regularly.
It's a 50/50 gamble with an extreme emotional risk involved
I feel like an adult looking back at his childhood, in regards to personal growth.
That's just it - imagine being older, wiser, & more mature in your next relationship yet still gets spontaneously dumped.
Though this time you're going through divorce, plus the loss of kids & your house.
From a 'it's not you, it's me' woman
Fun, huh? It's happening all over the world, across all income brackets & demographics
Mason Gonzalez
If you have strong will power. There’s something about people relying on you that makes things satisfying. But it’s also a burden. To each is own brother. Good luck
Dominic Cox
If you are risk averse, you are smart. But the modern internet is very sensitive when it comes to young men dropping out of society so by making threads like these you are inviting yourself to become a target. So, ask yourself what you want. If you want a wife and kids, then you must take the necessary steps to stick your neck out. You may get hurt. But it's also up to you to take the necessary steps to protect yourself. Western society is evil garbage, but not all women are that way, and you better fucking hope you come across a woman that is not the way western society currently is. Jow Forums is sensitive to any criticisms of the west but this needs to be said. Be careful, if you choose to pursue women.
Aiden Allen
kys rickposter look up the Harmon + Roiland pizza compilation tl;dr they are pedos
Colton Murphy
I decided it at 17. It hit too hard. My first relationship. Lasted a year. Now im 30 going to marry and shes in a broken relationship and cucks his boyfriend all the time. So yeah dont let the hormones take the weel. You can overcome it. Focus on yourself until you dont need external validation and then build your way from there.
Brayden Hernandez
>At 28 you're still young stop focusing on pussy or family and focus on self improvement. it helped me get out of severe depression due to our state only helping refugees
Austin Martinez
I don't know what you just said but it sound pretty gay.
>partner >cheat How can you cheat on someone you are not married to?
Dylan Long
At some point you’ll have to decide to be the heartbreaker or the heartbroken.
David Long
This. I fell in love in high school and just waited it out until the feelings cooled down, because thel likelihood of a high-school relationship not ending in heartbreak is tiny. Zero regrets.
Lincoln Bell
The girl also became ugly .
Cameron Gutierrez
lol go back to twisting your fedora while watching rick and morty
Try growing up and growing a pair of balls. It could just be that you are an unlovable man baby.
Ryan Thomas
So are you saying that even if someone is not married, they can still sleep around with tons of other people? That's fucking cuckery my friend.
Carter Perez
You'd know that it's more than just chemicals if you actually had a girlfriend. It's as if we have a soul, it's an insult to say that it's only chemicals.
