I'm obsessed with this guy and I have this idea that for my life to be perfect I HAVE to be with him. It drives me CRAZY knowing that I won't be able to fulfil this. I've made him to be absolutely perfect in my head and he could literally do anything and I would still want him. I've even wished that he would gain weight and become unattractive so I would be able to have a shot with him. I feel like any other person or relationship will only be second best to him.
I just wish I was born prettier, then I could have him, if only I was a beautiful girl he would be mine.
How do I get over someone like this? Has anyone else felt this way about someone and overcome this feeling? I feel so crushed whenever I think about how it will never work out between us I end up sobbing for hours.
There's 3 billion other men in the world; odds are that there's one who's better than this guy in every way and will actually like you.
Cameron Bailey
have you asked him if hes into you?
Dominic Bell
He is not aware of how crazy I am over him. I don't want to be vulnerable and share all this afraid he will just ignore me forever.
This doesn't help, 3billion men aren't all an option. There are a lot of humans but people are still single. There are more factors than sheer quantity.
He was into me a while back, but now he hardly responds. I know he's completely over it and maybe seeing someone else.
Aaron Brown
why not just ask him if he would be into dating you? nice dubs btw
Jaxson Jones
This reminds me of a situation I got myself into somehow, but on the other end of the deal. I'm the guy who doesn't care. I've been hanging out with her for years, we're friends and everything. She wants to be more than that, but I don't. I don't really want to be friends with anybody, to be honest. She looks alright and all, but it's just not for me. I can imagine she feels terrible, but there's really nothing that can convince me to do otherwise. Every time I saw her, she ended up crying and running away. She just closed herself up in her room for the past week now, and all of her friends are worried. If this is in any way relates to you, like you feel very similar to her, hear my advice. Give up on him. Find somebody else who does care, and that would be fine with a relationship. If he really doesn't care, there's no hope. You can't make him. I'm not sugarcoating this because sugarcoating it would make you do the other opposite of what you need to do. Carry on with your life. You'll find someone better, and that cares.
Ian Martinez
I can tell he wouldn't be interested. I know when a guy is interested and he isn't.
Do you think you could still keep her as a friend if you were in a relationship with another girl? Also did you tell her straight out that you don't want to be more than friends?
Matthew Bell
I don't really know how to answer that, because I don't really want to get into any sort of relationship. But assuming I did, I would probably be able to do that, yes. I also did tell her how I feel about it after she confessed to me.
Easton Williams
I'm in a situation like that rn, but I'm the guy. This girl likes me but I already have a gf.
I'd give this other girl a chance if I wasn't dating but you can't expect someone to throw away a relationship for you, i mean what kind of foundation would that be for your relationship?
My advice is to just move on. If anything, you know what to look for now.
