Dateing a qt Korean girl

He was mad that the qt Korean girls abandoned their men because of their asinine obsession with white men. I get where he's coming from, but no, mixed kids won't resent being mixed. If anything, it adds character to them.

>Everyone loves my hair
God I love it when random girls come up just to touch my hair

Korea as is most tiny Asian countries that were closed to foreigners (they actually would murder anyone foreign that landed on their shores; sometimes Western sailors washed ashore after going overboard). So yeah, they really turn their backs generally when a family member marries outside their culture. This loss of family of course can be very trying on the relationship.

>Okay maybe I've been on this site to much lately
Kek. Understatement of the year. Don't let it get to you dude. You just slipped a little. Don't do it again, or the /asiangf/ is mine.

>This loss of family of course can be very trying on the relationship
Yea but half Korean girls are hot
Make the word more hot chicks

Agree, best of both features.

White/black mix here. Mother was black, father was irish. And im a bastard. Adopted by an upper middle class white family. I resent my parents for their shit genes and shit life styles but it turned out great for me. I have 2 white parents and a dad that actually gives a fuck about me. People call me the whitest black person they know. The only thing i hate about beung mixed is that people initially mistake me for a city nigger until they hear me talk in proper english.

No, kids should always try to love their parents (unless they're abusive or something like that)

Being mixed race has its difficulties, but if you do have kids just get them a good education and they'll eventually meet the right people to befriend. If you have problems (cultural, racial) regarding extended family just tell them to continue on without them.

>Can any mixed people comment on this?
I'm an expat mostly living in HK but I also spend a lot of time in Japan, Taiwan, Korea and China. I'm not mixed but I know plenty of people in mixed relationships (as am I).

In times past, Asians looked up the west and aspired to be like the west. Not so much now. The money washing through Asian economies and the growth of tech industries and control of communications in each country has made most Asian countries feel they are competing with the west on equal footing and winning.

The countries I mention above are among the most racist and xenophobic in the world. In China and Korea mixed race children are treated very badly by their peers, being seen evidence of the west corrupting their culture and in particular the insincerity of the mother.

This is why there is a steep decline in East-Asian girls looking for western boyfriends. It's not like it was in 80s, 90s and 2000s.

I have no problem with mixed race relationships or kids, but best not to have them in Asia.

DIRECTION, DIRECTION, DIRECTION
Over all factors, no matter what issues you fear may develop, you have to be a LEADER. Traditional family structure lightens the load every time. That's what it's evolved for. "Daddy's got this."
That said, I'll share some ideas I've gleaned from this site.

>on confusion and depression:
-the first generation feels it the most
-the next generation looses all sense of family heritage
-you leave your parents and her parents culture behind
(any pretend "fusion culture" you have is just kind of floppy)

>on politics:
having no traditions to "conserve" means they end up being liberal sooner or later and start compensating for their lack of family values with socialist and SJW leanings.
that may or may not be a plus for you. the important thing is that you raise them to have clear-cut, positive values.

there are places like hong kong and singapore where race isn't as big a deal (seriously consider singapore where it's even in the ruling party's mantra.)

>on dating. and the gene pool:
in america, asian traits are really undesireable in men, so unless the son is tall and buff it'll be hard on him.
in asia, western traits are strongly desired and the boy will probably have it made.
mixed girls fit in pretty much wherever for their looks but can feel confused and left out. they turn into leftists to compensate.
as a white man it's best for you to move to the asian country where your genes will be appreciated rather than screw with the western country (whites are a worldwide minority)

>you can only be faithful to one tribe
the main lesson here.
in singapore the tribe is the political party.
in the us the tribe is the "cult of the constitution"
everywhere else, the tribe is the ethnicity.
and if the kids are mixed, you can't make them hate their mom's culture or their dad's or they'll feel cheated.
(do you ever hear your girlfriend talk about her race as if she's ashamed? that's a HUGE red flag btw.)

A son will look at his mother and father and know this:
"What made my dad attractive to my mother (her race fetish), I'll never have."

Life is good, I'm mixed, my friend and his gf are mixed with Asian.

Their life is good.

The only people who are bothered by this are lonely people who are jealous.

I’m half Irish and half German and I do hate myself.

Love who want, don't perpetuate racism and hate.