I don't want to have a half and half kid because I am half Jew and half Irish and that really fucked with my understanding of myself culturally and etc.
However, the only women I can attract are Asians pretty much. I'm not *especially* racist and I've dated Asians before but its never ended well. I feel like having a happa kid would be way worse than what I experienced as well. All I can think about is Elliott Rodgers. Seeing as I'm an autistic fuck something like that certainly wouldn't be out of the question. They could easily just be bitter and ostracized and blame me for having yellow fever or something. And that wouldn't be far off the mark.
What do you think Jow Forums?
Pic semi-related, some girl who reminded me of the half Jewish half Asian amateur pornstar Mayli who was all sorts of fucked up as well.
Stop being a spazz and reading stupid racist shit on Jow Forums. You're a 100% white kid, and probably American. There's nothing special, unique, or culturally confused about that. And when you fuck some Asian, your kid will be totally American. There's a good chance that kid will hate you for having such weird, stupid ideas about race, though.
Zachary Wright
Judaism is a weird as fuck religion let me tell you. I was baptized as a kid but made fun of for celebrating Passover and all that as well.
When your relatives donate heavily to the state of Israel, yet your own father couldn't be more self-hating, that shit fuck you up. I identify much more with my Irish side.
I don't want my kid to have to go through that.
James Howard
Sounds like the main thing that fucked you up was your self-hating father. You've just demonstrated that you're self-hating too. Continuing the cycle.
Lucas Evans
then stop looking at people, including yourself, through racial or cultural perspectives. realize that it's lazy. social interaction has little to do with who you think you are. i'm not that other guy, btw.
Gabriel Morgan
Yah exactly. I want to preclude it from happening again.
I've veered far away from Jewish girls because of all that as well. I'm Agnostic/Atheist in a major way which also means I don't empathize with strongly religious people full stop.
Ayden Sanders
I'm literally an anthropologist. That's the main way I look at people.
do more drugs and/or read more poststructuralist/postmodern philosophy.
and stop watching porn. i'm certain you've reinforced a lot of associations between race and sex. screenshotting some random because she looked like mayli? dealbreaker, imo.
Sebastian Ortiz
Just because a kid is of mixed race doesn't automatically mean he will have issues if you raise him properly.
If you think you can't properly raise a child don't have one. Also going with an asian girl thinking that "she is the only one that finds me attractive because she is asian" is pathethic. You are not nearly enough mature to have a relationship, much less a baby.
Nathan Anderson
I despise postmodernism and think its one of the greatest ills of the modern era.
That's not what I said stop putting words in my mouth. I said I tend to attract Asians more.
I've also worked with children a lot hence my thinking very far ahead here. I don't think I'm ready to have a kid but some day I will be.
Kevin Phillips
Woah there faggot you think you have it bad? You’re just an average American mutt nothing special about you. I’m half afghan half white and fucking hate myself. I’m never white enough I’m always seen as an ‘exotic’ looking white person and when I try being afghan I’m too fucking white. No being born mixed race is a fucking curse. You don’t belong here or there you’re stuck in between, isolated and nobody can relate to you except people of relatively similar mix.
Julian Garcia
I don't listen to him. Postmodernism is responsible for so many perfectly reasonable professors getting forced out it's ridiculous. Can't even have a free speech debate because postmodernism doesn't care about debate.
Look at what happened to Heather Heying and Bret Weinstein and tell me I'm wrong. I live near UC Berkeley so I've seen how this goes down.
Sebastian Powell
You and the OP should date. You both seem really neurotic. You deserve each other.
Hudson Taylor
Exactly why I don't want anyone else to go through that, which is what I said. Word for word said a half Asian would be worse.
Nathan Lopez
This is where following that charlatan Peterson gets you. Whining about the same boring issues on Jow Forums for months.
Luke Phillips
I got a cock n balls so nah
Brayden Lopez
Yep bro nope just stick to cacasians
Brody Reed
>caucasians gotta watch out for them russians bruh
Ryan Butler
>This is where following that charlatan Peterson gets you. Whining about the same boring issues on Jow Forums for months. Literally said I don't listen to him. He is a rambling retard with a stick up his ass.
It's still a fucking issue and your insistence to the contrary is bogus.
Lucas Edwards
Right, it's just a coincidence that the Heather Heyer incident is your big concern.
Levi Hernandez
Bret almost came to speak at the Free Speech talk/debate I went to at Berkeley a week ago. He's also Jewish so i've followed him a bit.
George Thomas had a great survey presentation about how 50% of current students self-censor out of fear at his university. That's a fucking problem. My sister is in the enviromnental studies program at a UC here in california and she talks to me all the time about how cutthroat these people are.
And this post-modernist fueled witch hunt climate we are living in is to fucking blame.
Jordan Peterson talks about post-modernism but again, he's a retard. Telling people to clean your room and examining the metaphorical truths of religion and how it can be applied to modern day problems is preposterous. I've never been into psychology though much of it is pseudoscience in my estimation.
Jacob Walker
That's not how dna work. You are not half anything. You americans are so obsessed with race that you have come up with this mythology of how dna goes in equal parts to the child of mixed race couples. Then you claim to be of different ethnicities. It's simple, if you were born in the us, you are 100% american.
Andrew Johnson
I am a Hapa and I have turned out ok. It is important to teach your child about their roots, even if they are mixed. I believe it's easier to be one ethnicity, but no matter what you do, OP, you will be 'mixing.' Don't be a shitty parent who never teaches the kid anything about your side of the family, because they are 'only' whatever brand of Asian. Most Southeast and East Asians (in my experience) will not completely accept them (I don't think they should be forced to). Above all, help your get into a hobby, so they have something to strive for.
Elijah Walker
i hate popular things ! peterson is so normie amirite guise ?
Zachary Lewis
Is this an American phenomenon because they're so obsessed with muh heritage? Would be interested in input from people from other countries - people don't seem so obsessed with this kinda shit shit here
Jaxon Thomas
you sound kike an idiot.
Michael Smith
Pretty much. American is constantly being more pussified. More and more people are finding creative ways to be a victim.
Juan Ward
Elliott Rodger is obviously an extreme case, but mixed race kids, particular half-Asian kids, are massively more likely to be mentally ill according to studies
Jason Smith
Nobody considers Peterson "normie."
John Bell
It's a thing everywhere, don't get it wrong. But it's definitely really strong in America. One theory is that people are realizing how insignificant they are, so they have to find meaning in things like "their" race and "their" culture. Call me crazy but I think it's weird to be so proud of a history/culture you didn't partake in, especially if you were born on completely different soil and have hardly - if ever - stepped foot into the countries you're supposedly tied to. i.e. I have family in Germany but I haven't visited there (yet) and I don't tell people I'm German or act like German heritage is a huge part of me. I was born in the fucking US and raised in Florida, and that speaks a lot more to my upbringing than a distant relative on another continent.
Christopher Torres
citation needed
Christian Gomez
what kind of asian is that
Carson King
You can't be "half Jew and half Irish" because neither of those is a race. It's as meaningless as "half Christian and half American"
Kayden Kelly
Got em.
Dominic White
Ur problem is that u relate to shit that dont matter.
Jeremiah Ortiz
What is a race then?
You can identify an irishman from a jew on a DNA test. You could also line up a row of five random irishmem and a row five random jews and everyone, even normies who have never been on Jow Forums, would be able point out which group as irish and which was jewish. How is that not a race?
Jayden Wright
Is social construct, race not real, sex not real ids social construg
Jackson Martin
I agree with OP. Having a single history to ground yourself in shelters you from modern consumerist culture. If you have nothing to identify with you end up identifying with kim kardashian, veganism, or the alt-right.
OP should find a jew or an irish woman and make babies with her. That or become super engrossed in traditional american culture and make that the base for his children's foundation.
Colton Reed
My parents are the first born in America on both sides. By Jew I mean Ashkenazi. And the Irish certainly have genetic markers. Race is not a social construct.
This is all I'm saying.
Luke Smith
Absolutely, scientifically not true. At the absolute best, DNA tests would identify some of the Irishmen as northern European and some of the Jews as eastern european - though we are all such total mutts that everyone has unexpected genes in their past.
And what does a Jew look like? Leonard Nimoy? Wiliam Shatner? Sammy Davis Jr?
Christopher Hall
What you're saying isn't true. The irish absolutely have seperate markers from say, the english.
Besides how can you say "Northern European" is a race but "Irish" is not. That's not even logically consistent
