I am a weird person. I don't keep decorations and what not. My studio apartment is setup for one person even though it's bigger than most studio apartments. For example, I sleep in a one person bed. I don't have a dining table and instead eat on my computer table or on the kitchen countertop. I don't have like a futon or anything.
I have a car but it's very basic. Toyota carolla. I have a decent job. I worry because I feel as if women want men to have so much more by my age. I am 27. Also, will I get laughed at if I bring her back to my place and she sees my one person bed? I feel inadequate.
If you're good looking you'll be fine. If you're not it's highly unlikely you'll ever get a girl to come back to your place anyway.
James Evans
>What do women expect men to have Money and big penis according to my older brother.
Brandon Garcia
man how have you made it so long with so much insecurity
Camden Hernandez
I have moderate amount of money and small penis. How fucked am I?
David Mitchell
Also looks But my older brother is too normie to realise that he pulls women because he is handsome as well.
Carson Miller
Many things fall on a spectrum, including people's expectations.
Your home would be inadequate to 'daddy's little girl' but would probably be more than fine for a somebody who genuinely believes that a middle class, simple life is fine, like a librarian, or a personal support worker.
People have different expectations. As a guy who works at a job where I could find work anywhere anytime, I would hate your house and lifestyle, I picked my job since I hate the feeling of being trapped or locked into a lifestyle that's repetitive and middle class.
There are plenty of women who are fine with what you have, who hate what you have, and who would think what you have is more than enough.
Define "made it"? I am a fucking wreck mostly. I have never had a relationship so I gotta fill in the blanks with assumptions.
Gabriel Thomas
No. I am black and that skews my attractiveness. Some women are fetishists. Some are probably sickened by blackness. So I just assume unattractive.
Ryder Gray
Bump
Nicholas Sullivan
Stop. Comparing. Yourself. To. Other. People. Being cheerful, confident, funny and nice are the things girls actually want. More than money, a pretty face, a big dick. Trust me, she might marry someone with a lot in their wallet, but she'll cheat on them with a guy that makes her feel good. The best way to be a desirable person is to stop trying to compete for the position of most impressive person on earth, and start being real.
At 27, I would expect a guy to not live like a student
Adam Mitchell
lol I'm 30 and I live like a student. My gf is sweet, intellectually stimulating, fun to adventure with, and gives me head ere' day. Fuck your expectations.
Tyler Cooper
Good for you, sorry you're so triggered. Now please point out where I claimed to speak on behalf of all women
Cameron Myers
I'm saying this for the benefit of OP, not you. My point is that he doesn't need to deal with superficial people that have "standards" which involve high-end lifestyles or owning the right apartment.
Nathan Wilson
He's going to be hard pressed to find a woman who's okay with a 27 year old who sleeps in a single bed and doesn't even have a small dining table to eat at.
Cameron Wood
>What do women expect men to have? A job, self sufficiency and to have at least one masculine pursuit, if you're sleeping with an anime body pillow, living with your parents and are afraid of physical contact and sports, you will be seen as a manchild.
Xavier Miller
Realise that white blonde women are crazy for you.
Daniel Perez
Self respect
Daniel Hernandez
>What do women expect men to have? Something better than what their previous man had.
Charles Edwards
He can't afford being a porn actor since he has a small pee pee
Nathan Rodriguez
Have more by Your age? Dude I am 26 and happy that I have my own puter
I don't like taking advice from younger people but it clearly looks like you're insecure about yourself. Well... stop. Stop thinking what others think about you, or start noticing that you're not a worthless maggot. I've read somewhere that a real man defines himself. Try to think about it. It helped me get thourgh my insecurities.
Anthony Johnson
>she might marry someone with a lot in their wallet, but she'll cheat on them with a guy that makes her feel good. The same goes the other way, women are never really satisfied with anything, because they're taught that they deserve the world, your post is just generic bullshit that nobody believes in.
Jack Richardson
How does a male define himself? I don't understand.
Aaron Carter
....I believe in it? I dunno, maybe its "generic bullshit", but like, I still wear clothes I've had since I was 12, I'll have $14 in my bank account after rent comes out and I smoke so much weed I'm barely employable. I didn't put pants on today but I still got my dick sucked by a hot girl; I must be doing something right?
Easton Gutierrez
I honestly have no idea wtf you are talking about...I've had sex with dozens of girls, and not one of them has given me any indication they give a rat's ass about the size of my bed, or asked to peruse my dining room table collection before we did the deed. If you think there's some kind of universal benchmark for 27yo success and desirability, you're fucking nuts.
William Wilson
>I still wear clothes I've had since I was 12 Are u a midget or something!? >I must be doing something right? She is the one doing something wrong, your case is a exception.
Daniel Brown
>Are u a midget or something!? Okayyy, I have like 2 shirts that I wore when I was 12 as nighshirts that went down to my ankles...now they fit me like shirts and kinda look dope cause they're full of holes and vaguely ironic and punky. >She is the one doing something wrong, your case is a exception. Lol, we agree on that. Thing is, lots of girls make this same mistake...I honestly think most people put wayyy too much effort looking impressive, and forget to not be shallow, lying, paranoid dickbags. Its wayy easier to just learn to be not a douche-canoe than running from your own emotional development with a nice car and a stressful job. But maybe that's just me.
Lucas Gonzalez
>I honestly think most people put wayyy too much effort looking impressive Because like it or not, this will always be the most effective way to pull chicks, if you happen to have a great personality, thats just more power to you.
Brayden Barnes
If its so effective, why does seeking arrangement and prostitutes exist? Why do successful people always have to pay out the nose for a fuck, while jimmy the dirtbag can pull chicks for free while he spends all his time playing guitar and smoking weed? Please show your work.
Noah Richardson
Take care of what you own, and you’re golden.
Julian Turner
This is true, women are interested until they see my car.
Gavin Richardson
Why on earth do you care about women whose interest in you is predicated on what you own? You do realize that these are just shitty people that want to use you for your stuff, right? Would you put up with this shit from your friends? Do you even realize how many women out there are so desperate for a guy to just be with her? Haven't you learned anything by watching #MeToo unfold? If you don't cheat, hit her or emotionally abuse her you're already in like the top 10% of potential bfs for any women who actually wants a partner and not a dildo-wallet.
Xavier Lee
>why does seeking arrangement and prostitutes exist? Because some people either want something in specific or just want a quick fuck without having to go through the seduction process. >Why do successful people always have to pay out the nose for a fuck. >Always You're projecting, being sucessfull alone already guarantee you a sea of pussy.
Dominic Rogers
As already stated stop worrying about how they might judge you and think of you. Be confident. That being said you should get bigger bed if your goal is to get someone on it with you. And having a nicely decorated clean place where you can hang out and watch some tv or something would be good.
Nolan Morris
>being sucessfull alone already guarantee you a sea of pussy. Does it? Cause all I see are a bunch of guys working their assess off all day in competition with each other to make more money, then complaining online about how tough it is to find/fuck/keep a halfway decent girl
