Before you think im some 2ton whale who cant get their boyfriend off then lemme stop you there boy..
He was single for 7 years before i met him, so he got used to 'beating' his meat with such unimaginable force that is nowhere near the same as natural sex. He also said his 'sessions' lasted 2 hours. I've tried to use my hand but only being a 5ft and 7 stone girl so I haven't got that muscle to replicate his wanks... He's made me orgasm way to many times and i want to desperately return the favor as it makes me feel very guilty.
This has been said a million fucking times before so lurk more. Tell him to stop masturbating like he’s trying to choke a gook to death. Not jerking it for two weeksi-ish should most likely reset his pee pee and make it more sensitive but really depending on the intensity which his dick has beaten it might take more. If he wants to beat his meat after that point tell him it’s gotta be a real time investment working up slowly with loose grip and not just hard beating and edging himself
Isaiah Garcia
this is my first ever post mate But he hasn't beaten his meat for a month before lad and that still didn't work. i've tried to make it exciting and different by buying BDSM sets and shit but it doesn't work. It's starting to affect our sex life ;-;
This. Being unable to get your boy off is a very common problem now. The conventional wisdom is that it's due to excessive masturbation. I think there's some other factors as well, but you could try /nofap/ for a couple weeks.
Adrian Phillips
>But he hasn't beaten his meat for a month before lad and that still didn't work. Well that sucks.
Luis Baker
Can relate my bf went through this because he got too used to beating his meat and watching porn (we were both virgins before we started dating)
I'm 100% sure he's still beating off to porn and lying about it. Using porn is ok but it's obviously causing him intimacy issues. Make sure he participates in no fap and doesn't touch him self for at least a week (and tell him to be honest with you cuz it's really impacting this relationship)
After my boyfriend quick porn he would literally start cumming in 30 seconds. Obviously this is an issue too and we fixed it and he still watches porn but it's only when we're apart
He could also just be insecure or thinking too hard. When you have sex you have to really empty your mind and enjoy the moment
Blake Lopez
Yea I think a lot of guys are a lot harder to please nowadays to be honest.
Plus my boyfriend hates his balls being touched, so I cant try the 'tickle his balls' trick. Sad Times Lads
There’s a very high likelihood he’s just lying about not choking the chicken and unless you have a camera on his every second of the day you’ll never know for sure but encourage no porn and no jerking
Jacob Long
Tell him to stop being such a faggot and enjoy a good ball tickling
Bentley Foster
Thats actually a good point, I'm gonna ask him to see if he's been lying. We both weren't virgins so we both know the basics.
I think he may be panicking as I think he feels like I'm getting really upset about it during sex, when he should just chill out really...
Well done for you though, having the balls to ask him to stop wanking for you haha
I know right! The two guys I've been with in my entire life have loved it. I guess every guy is different... It sucks because balls feel awesome too
Isaiah Perez
That's a main reason why he needs to be honest with you and stop doing it so constantly
This generation is one that's going to be a complication one in terms of intimacy because porn is so easily accessible.
Men get dopamine highs from having a literal encyclopedia of porn of every porn category imaginable and go to town This obviously becomes a problem (and I'm afraid to say addiction) when it causes troubles in relationships
Basically too much of a good thing is bad and men need to decrease the frequency of porn they watch to a lower amount
Liam Cox
Should I try dressing up for him? (after he's stops beating his fucking meat every minute)
We both are heavily into video games, so maybe dressing up as a character for him may help?
I have the opposite problem. Will masturbating 10 times a day help me last longer?
Luke Edwards
dump him, be me gf and dress up as shantae or misty
Jonathan Walker
I dont really know lad. Every lad is different. I'eve heard having a wank before intercourse helps hold the nut a little longer. I don't know if it's entirely true but its worth the try.
He needs to get a cocksleeve if he's going to fap. Also, cut out porn. Give him some sexy pics of you, or videos of you banging. Have him fill his imagination with you.
>tfw I can't fap to anyone other than gf I want to stick it in her now. RIP N TEAR
I dont wanna force anything on the guy. Taking a guys nut privileges seems a little mean as I watch porn too
Plus im not confident enough to take pics of myself as I dont really like my body and I dont want my pictures to get into the wrong hands. But i understand your point.
Should i just become fucking ripped and be the dominant one?
If he watches a lot of it, it can skew one's mind when it comes to sex. If you become the dominant one, just get him one of those cock cage things and stop him from fapping. Make it a rule that only you can make him feel pleasure.
Go all out.
Gabriel Edwards
This problem has nothing to do with you. Buying lingerie, working out, none of that will fix it. Take it from me, I was in a relationship with a deathgrip man. He couldn't even make it a few days before jerking off. He wouldn't stop watching porn. Trying to reframe this issue as something you can fix will only make you sad, because nothing will work.
Your bf is lying to you about not getting off for a month. That's like someone who smokes 3 packs a day saying they stopped cold turkey.
Austin Ward
Fuck. I guess it will take a lot of time and patience.
I just get frustrated during sex as my natural instincts kick in and I ask him to cum inside me. Afterwards I feel bad as I know this will stress him out even more..
We live together, so fuck knows how he is having cheeky wanks behind my back?! (Maybe in the shower?)
It's a really shitty problem. However, he has to be the one to fix it. If he won't commit to nofap, there's nothing that can be done. I guess you can tell him "from this day on, no fapping. You can fuck me as much as you want, though".
It doesn't matter how numb his dick is now - if he's really not fapping, he'll eventually cum inside you in a week or two. (You're on birth control btw right? lol) If it's been a few weeks and nothing changes, think about breaking up.
Side note, I think it's really sad how porn has ruined guys. It's so common for them to start beating off at 12 to bimbo anal gangbangs. I swear it ruins their circuitry.
Austin Taylor
Yea I have a coil so I'm safe!
I've only been with three people in my entire life so I'm pretty tight down there but since he wanks with a fucking 2 ton dick it makes me feel like i'm looser than a ham sandwich.
But besides this, the relationship is great! Best one I've ever been in!
He's confident, strong and the most attractive guy I've been with!
I wanna try my best to fix this as I dont wanna throw it away cos he watches staged gangbangs online ;-;
Technique matters. Work just the head of his cock with your mouth. Get him real hard. Play with his balls or whatever he's into. When you start to get tired switch to wanking him off JUST THE HEAD. Dont grab the shaft. that's shit technique. Lick your palm and make an OK hand sign. Keep his dick wet and slide over the glans and back to the ridge. Once you feel wank-arm setting in, make him fuck you. Put a pillow under your arse and press your feet behind him. Clench him with a kegel grip rhythmically. He'll blow a sweet load in you in no time.
Carter Long
>start beating off at 12 to bimbo anal gangbangs feelsgoodman. No regrets honestly.
Tyler Williams
>After my boyfriend quit porn he started cumming in 30 seconds...we fixed it
