How much do men care about saggy/deflated tits from weight loss on young women?

Did they look like this? youtube.com/watch?v=VtG3OGnxnuo

How old are you sweetie? How much weight did you lose? I'm sure its not as bad as you think it is. And even if it's kinda bad just find a guy like me who doesn't care much, as long as you have a butt. We're not that rare.

I’m 25 but I’ve had saggy tits since I was 16. I’ve never had a boyfriend and the person who took my virginity wanted me to keep my bra on.

I want to make more of an effort to find guys so I put myself on dating apps but I’m scared of being laughed at.

Oh, and I lost like 70lbs and I don’t have a butt, even though I lift weights. Because of the shape of my hips my ass is always going to be square shaped and no matter what I do I can’t get it to be round or full

It's probably not as bad as you think. I very much doubt its to the point where somebody who you have just had a really nice date with is going to walk away when your clothes come off, if he does then he wasn't the person who he pretended to be all evening. If someone is just looking to hook up, especially if they are drunk, you could have an ear on your stomach and they would overlook it.

If all else fails you can always bribe guys with kinks.

I'm 24 and my breasts have always been saggy. Like pointing at the floor. It didn't help that I lost weight over the years making them even moreso. I've always been self-conscious about it and have considered getting into a line of work that would allow me to afford reduction surgery before I turn 30, forking over $15,000 that I'm sure insurance will not cover.

Anyway, it's never stopped me from seeking out romantic partners. The first guy I ever dated was with me for 3 years and never had a problem with it. The only guys who said anything said it behind my back because they were cowards and that only happened twice out of many relationships and partners otherwise.

My current boyfriend doesn't mind at all and thinks they're great because they're large enough to accommodate a titfuck. The only reason it's been brought up is because, after our first time having sex, I told him I wanted to have them surgically reshaped. Same thing happened with another guy who was wayyyy out of my league in attractiveness. He told me he was an ass man so it didn't matter.

Most guys will be taken aback, I'm sure, because they're used to perfect tits in porn. But if they're a good guy, they won't really mind because they should be aware that real tits sag and not every pair is perfect. If you bring up your insecurity after the fact, they'll be more likely to comfort you and allow you the confidence to accept that you can still have fun even if your body isn't perfect.

In addition to this, it does help that my boyfriend and I are good together in a relationship and sexually compatible.

I also believe that if you look at other women and can say they're beautiful in spite of perceived flaws, you'll find it easier not to cringe at the thought or sight of your own body.

Kek.
Women should never complain about anything, literally super easy-mode.

Thanks.

I'm sure you're prettier than me though, since you've had many relationships and I've never been asked out by any guy, even though I'm thin and wear makeup.

Maybe I'm just not cut out for sex and relationships.

I would break up immediately, same with if she had a roastie.
That's just me though. I'm shallow.

i'm sure you're very pretty. i was 220lb when i met the guy who was way out of my league and he actually said he was just happy he found somebody who wanted to sleep with him. Everybody has their insecurities.

You also sound pleasant if not a little negative regarding your appearance and personality really does go a long way. After all, we all get old and saggy and wrinkly at some point.

That may be true. I dated 3 guys who had micropenises and it was never a problem for me except that their personalities were bad in that they were aggressive to the point of being harsh and abusive. Not sure if that's common for small penises but I sometimes think of my tits as the micropenis of breasts.

>After all, we all get old and saggy and wrinkly at some point.
We die some point anyway,
so why don't you kys right now?
Or why even stop someone from killing themselves??

It's better to have experienced being beautiful than being old and saggy and wrinkly since the beginning.

micropenis is not that common; very unlikely statistically for you

some of us find more worth in a life being lived regardless of what others see us for physically. hopefully nobody was talking about killing themselves so not sure where that came from : )

it's true, i've seen men and women of varying shapes and sizes and micropenises have for some reason been more or less common for me. I did date for about three years without getting into a relationship for reference.

How do you find guys to date? I haven't had much luck. How do you ask a guy out?

I've tried both online dating and meeting guys in different activity clubs, through friends, etc.

I really like online dating because it gives me the opportunity to get a good read on a person before we meet face to face. That may be good for your insecurities-- to meet a guy and decide that he's kind before you become more serious. OKC has actually been better for me than Tinder in the past but recently it's become a lot like Tinder. You could try Match.com for more serious dating. I actually found my current boyfriend on /soc/ and now he's moving from PA to NY to be closer to me.

I'm a little bit shy so it's been the case more often than not that I get approached. To get approached, I just dressed a combination of cute and sexy to show off my best assets that I hadn't done when I was younger and that worked for me. Otherwise, online is great.

I've never been approached in real life, and I don't have any good assets to show off :( Tits suck, ass sucks even though I lift weights, I don't have curvy hips or a nipped in waist either. And my face is butt ugly.

Guess I'm stuck with online.

Or get them fixed cosmetically .. around here the state will pay for it if it has major impact on life quality, e.g. psychological issue ..

Damn, I wish that was true of cosmetic dentistry...

Only extremely attractive men with a lot of options would care about this.

They do that here as well as long as you're still in primary school .. some other stuff like implants of molars due to having not been formed is covered until you're 26 yrs. You'll have to pay something like 60 USD per tooth yourself. Rest is on the state

You'd think so, and yet boards like these are crawling with entitled neckbeards who think they are owed a 10/10 girlfrendo.

well being physically fit isn't nothing. maybe you have great legs or arms. I think my thighs are my best asset so i wear a lot of skirts. don't like my arms very much cause i hate working out lol so i wear sweaters. anyway you're probably in school or graduated or have some other passion or skill or hobby? online is a great opportunity to find others who share your interests without going through the ringer of dating.

Why are you posting this again?

Men arent picky, they just want some warm soft sticky breasts pressed into their face.

Ive always been curious about the real ratio of normies to neckbeards are active on adv.

I consider myself a former neet neckbeard who was able to fake being a normie until it kinda worked. Occasionally a normie realizes im not like them which makes me sad.

depends, as an extremely open minded male that prefers almost all female body types, on my list of least attractive things a woman can have is boobs that look like deflated balloons. That being said, it isn't a deal breaker.

>I’m scared of being laughed at.
Don't worry too much
Tits are tits.
Men love tits.

Was for

Would worry more about the waist rather than that desu

Hahaha, that's cute.
You're fine just the way you are.

If a man is going to discard you over something so petty, then they were never interested in getting serious in the first place. I wouldn't worry about.

>A guy looking to fuck, or a short term relationship/friends with benefits, ambiguous scenario:
He'll go for women that are sexy but "attainable". Women in his league, but still having preference for women with sexier features (non-saggy breasts).

>A guy looking for a long term relationship:
Things like personality, career, and everything else other than attractiveness are actually taken into account. The baseline minimum attractiveness won't be "sexy" - perhaps it will be more attuned to cuteness.

Solution? Don't date the kind of guy that is okay with flings or hookups, or has ever been okay with them.

>saggy/deflated
>from weight loss

Am encouraged that she cares enough to try to maintain healthy body weight. This is not a negative.

>reveal the issue?

There is no issue to reveal. If you mean when should you show me your tits, feel free to send nudes whenever.

>physical appearances have no effect on attractiveness

You can tell yourself that, but both women and men judge each other on physical appearances usually before anything else.
Sometimes you roll a bad dice in life and end up having an unattractive feature you couldn't really control, saggy breasts being generally seen as an unattractive feature (unless you find that one guy who has that one fetish).

Get a good boob job, then men will have a hard time keeping their hands off of you.

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It might be a slight disappointment but if I went far enough to actually see them it certainly wouldn't be a dealbreaker. If anything the fact you went through with weight loss, therefore are willing to overcome hardships and work towards your goals makes you gf material.

>How much do men care about saggy/deflated tits from weight loss on young women?
A bit, not a lot.
>When should you reveal the issue? On the second date?
The shape of your breasts isn't really something I'd bring up out of nowhere on any date. Let them find out themselves. Unless they hang below your belly button more than 50% of guys will still want to fuck you just because you have tits. If they hang below your belly button there will still be plenty who find you attractive, so stop worrying either way.

Ah, possibility.

You want to talk about possibility? How about 7.6 billion roving possibilities?

Yeah, appearances are significant in first impressions, but you know what you aren't going to be showing somebody the first time you meet them? Your tits. You know what else isn't going to happen? Somebody coming up to you and saying, "Wow, those sure are some perky breasts you've got there. Would you like to go out to a cheap restaurant and maybe fuck later?".

You're putting way too much emphasis on something that is a PREFERENCE.

Literally the only crowd you'd rightfully be excluded from is exclusively men that value perky breasts above all other traits. Not judging if you're trying to appeal to men like that, but I'm just saying, it doesn't matter as much as you seem to think it does.

To your belly button