This happened a few weeks ago, I’m just posting about it now. But let me give you some context. My ex gf and I broke up after 8 months because she said she can’t handle a relationship, since she’s dealing with personal problems like depression. Fast forward, I’m actually happy we’re not dating anymore. I was such a dumb pussified bf and I realized she wasn’t really a good gf. I’ve changed for the better.
So, she still texts me, since she’s under the impression that we’re gonna “remain friends”. (She has a harem of guy friends, so that’s another reason why I realized she was a bad gf). So, she texts me saying that she misses me and that she can’t listen to her favourite song or play her favourite game since it reminds her of me. She said we had so much in common and that she’s been thinking about me a lot. She also said she feels bad that she was a bad gf. Even today, she still always texts me, like we’re friends. I’m starting to think she wants to come back in my life, but I could be wrong. What do you think?
It doesn't matter what she wants. Do you want to be with her user?
Juan Gomez
Nope. Wouldn’t date her again
Adrian Ortiz
Do you want to be her friend? Talk to her frequently every now and then?
Austin Robinson
No, I don’t want to be her friend. And I don’t talk to her, but she texts me from time to time
Jason Phillips
>don't want to date her >don't want to be her friend
Then what's the issue lad? Tell her to bug off.
Benjamin Fisher
I just wanted to know what her plan is
Joshua Stewart
her plan is to guilt you into relationship
Caleb Johnson
No way for us to tell. If you really want to know, you can always ask her, or someone else close to her. Read between the lines.
I personally agree with .
Alexander Mitchell
i think you just want some good old nostalgia pussy, user. you could get it from her if you wanted, you know that? just be careful where you put your heart in.
Matthew Torres
Tell her it was for the better and that your relationship was a fun thing but you're in other point of your life now.
Jackson Bailey
If she wants to guilt me into a relationship, then why would she break up with me in the first place?
Mason Reyes
I'm no expert, but you mentioned you were a pussified bf, she probably can't get with any other self respecting dude so she thinks you're a safe bet that she can go back to. Just tell her you've moved on, seriously this whole thing can only end in disaster if you pursue it.
Joseph Howard
you're her beta backup
Justin Anderson
Alright, I’m moving on. But how can I be more alpha?
Gavin Gonzalez
Maybe she wants you back, maybe she is just testing the water, maybe she wants you as an orbiter. There really is no way to tell unless you go out with her again but sounds like you dont want to do that
Aaron Turner
Well im not an expert but there are a few important things >men have emotional centers >they are the mountain >the wind (a woman) does not move the mountain (man) >women constantly test to see if you are truly a man >they will try to get you to argue, become emotionally unravelled, or agitated >if they succeed, they will feel unsafe with you. If she can do that then anybody can >women are like cats, they come and go when they please and you have to let them >do not smother women, they need time and space away from you (this is ehy your ex contacted you) >be indifferent
Justin Perez
>she said she can’t handle a relationship, since she’s dealing with personal problems like depression. Bullshit, having a caring partner in your life does wonders against depression. >(She has a harem of guy friends) Beta orbiters you mean, she likes attention from what you described. >What do you think? That you have no reason to over think about it, you said she was a bad gf, and that you're doing better without her, kindly tell her to get lost and keep going with your life.
Wyatt Morris
I think she wants to keep you on arm's length. I highly doubt she's not talking to her guy friends and not flirting/fucking them. If shit hits the fan with whoever she's talking to now, she'll have you as a rebound.
Angel Cox
>beta orbiters So, she's not actually getting romantic with them? Also, why do girls want beta orbiters/guy friends?
Leo Peterson
>why do girls want beta orbiters/guy friends? Validation, the feeling of being desired is addictive.
