I've a (genuine) question for any femanons here: what do you think you would think or feel if you were to learn that your partner's first sexual experience had been with a prostitute?
I'll post a little context if it's wanted (and the context is not just "hurr 'cos I wanna sex hurr")
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I'd leave him because I don't want to date a guy who uses whores. I don't mind exes from previous relationships but going to a whore reflects certain character traits I don't want in my partner, so au revoir.
My girlfriend was sad when I told her that I had a ONS with a girl from Facebook out of desperation to lose my vcard when I was 20.
That’s not her problem, and she shouldn’t judge you for that.
Black flag, undateable. That's worse than a hookup and I would have asked before it got anywhere serious, people here say that's not normal but whatever like it matters I'm engaged and everyone I know who's similar is engaged too. Its going to differ with ages, where, etc. for any of this to matter. Most are not going to like it at all.
She said she was sad that it was with some random ugly girl. She said I should have done it with a nice girlfriend
A little disgusted desu.
To provide a little context (I'm OP), there's more than one reason I'm asking this, but the biggest reason is that I suffer from something akin to erectile dysfunction; I might be able to become and stay erect for long enough to lose my virginity, but I've no illusions that I'd be any good in bed, so if I were to ever have a relationship it'd likely be non-sexual; but in spite of that, my being a virgin, and my fear of always being a virgin, has had a deleterious affect on my confidence and mood... which is why I'm considering using a prostitute
you seem so sure this is irreversible
go to a doctor.
>She said I should have done it with a nice girlfriend
Girls live on another planet, thinking this is easy for us lmao
We are both 26, and she couldn’t believe that I’ve only had sex 1 time prior to us dating. She couldn’t believe I’ve never had a gf before.
I've seen a doctor; it took me the better part of a year to muster the courage and they were... less than sympathetic or helpful
Dealbreaker. Absolute dealbreaker.
Dumb slut
She prob wouldnt have dated you if you she knew you were a virgin so its a catch 22
Dumb slut
Fuck youand your thread games
That because shes a woman and women have a dating life on easy mode, so easy in fact, they grt to pick and choose from the lot. This isnt their fault really, its just biology.
Dumb slut.
Their world is far different socially. Most of the time if they'll hear about a guys life it'll be from someone socially active that get laids often and they might think thats 90% of guys when in reality its less than 30%
The fact that they have it easy socially as well makes this situation even worse
>She prob wouldnt have dated you if you she knew you were a virgin so its a catch 22
Actually, she said that it wouldn’t have been a problem. I mean, if you think about it I might as well have been a virgin when we met. I had only had sex 1 time, 6 years ago prior to us meeting. What difference does that make?
Either way, she said nice girls wouldn’t mind dating a virgin
Really don't understand why this would be a dealbreaker. Do you really not understand how hard it is for the average guy to find a sexual partner these days?
Fair enough.
Most girls will tell you it's a red flag and all while whoring in clubs is absolutely fine, but truth be told, theyre just upset.
Women hate prostitutes because it lowers the value of their pussy clearly. Honestly, I fucked a prostitute once and I also had a ONS after a date with a girl and while any girl would say these are different situations completely, they both felt the same. Except on a date you waste time and cant be 100% you will get sex.
Also, MANY guys nowadays have a history with hookers and girls have no idea what their boyfriends have done in their past. This applies actually to a lot of shit girls dont know about their men because women are easy to play, they'll believe anything their man will whisper them gently after theyre done fucking.
So at the end of the day it shouldnt matter to you what others think and worst case you can simply hide it like everybody else does.
Key word is nice girls.
Sluts definitely would not like virgins. I think that’s where a lot of guys fuck up. They see these slutty girls and want to appease them. Sluts don’t deserve anything
Consensus is changing. Love is dying and sex is becoming a pleasure and commodity.
23 years old virgin here, I'm going to use this thread to ask to those who do lay with prostitutes: don't you fear you'll acquire an STD? Do you kiss her or not (I've been told absolutely not to)? Don't you fear she might mug you, drug you or stab you? Can you really trust them? What is your income and how much do you pay for one night?
Dont go for prostituted on the street. Go for a nice girl from backpage the escort girlfirend service is as good as it gets
Backpage is dead now lad, yanks shut it down
Fucking figures. Ill never understand america and its fear of sex.
Dont worry another one will come.
Hookers don't do much kissing, certainly no french. Both sides should be taking precautions and being safe. If you have someone who isn't, that is a clue to take a pass or just lower level activity. Control risk and exposure. $300 was good, $800 Las Vegas girl was attractive but bitchy, and not worth it.
I think it would be a bit of a shock because that's quite different. I think it would be fine but I'd be doing the usual making sure they have been screened for STI's as with any partner.
No one really cares