So there's this co-work of mine and I fell for him really bad. He's 5 years older than me. We've known each other for 8 months, but in the same department for 2 monthts (i get to see him more!)
He's a flirty and a total workaholic guy in the office. And I'm also a victim of his charms, he would compliment me, we would flirt with each other ( he always wins cause my heart can't take it, so I ran) and and we often locked eyes and smile to each other.
We never go out (just the two of us), there's always others and he always pays for our meals, whenever I wanted to pay him back, he would refuse. I even said, you can pay my meal when I'm your gf, but he only laughed and still refused to accept my cash.
a few times he would drive me home, I didn't ask, he insisted. And on the way, we would talk about ourselves. I oftenly started the conversation, discovered how much of an otaku he was, despite the cool and pride. Then I even tested if he was any curious about me at all, and yes, he asked about myself and family (but i think its just to be polite). but I love those moments.
at valentine i gave him chocolates and he was really happy, even asked me if i want to have dinner with him, i said sure whenever you can. (but we never, probably he forgot)
we are different in ethnic and religion, but I have shown how openminded i am and there was a conversation where he told us (other co's) that there's no problem for the differences.
I am a very obvious person and didn't hide how much I liked him, the others knew of my feelings for him, and I think the news had reached him.
there was a new female co's (same ethnic) that he's so close and flirty with, no problem showing their goofness in front of me (ugh), but the good thing is that the female is already married and a year older than him. But still he was so friendly with her.
And finally i think he is married with his career. that's his num 1 and he looked pretty overworked all the time.