Have a small ddick (4.3" in girth so small regardless of length)

have a small ddick (4.3" in girth so small regardless of length)

can't stop thinking about it and looking stuff up about it. i spent 4-5 hours today just searching shit like "size" and "small girth" and going on reddits like bigdickproblems and smalldickproblems searching stuff like "ex" "ruined" "spoiled" on bigdickproblems and "success" "girth" etc on smalldickproblems

pls help, all i can think about is penis

also i don't look at porn or girls because i don't like looking at things i can't have, i don't masturbate either cause my dick turns me off

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also if i have a friend who has a big dick and talks about it or talks about having sex, i straight up avoid them. i secretly don't like them and every 'human' side of them annoying because they lowkey just shit on my whole existence by bragging about their dick

how old are you
just date tiny girls

i'm 20

also body size seems to have nothing to do with vagina size. i read about girls who were 5'6" and couldn't take a larger dick but a 5'3" girl who could take the whole thing. it's really a gamble, i'll have to go through a lot of people to find the right one and that humiliation along the way will suck

it's pretty obvious you're obsessed about this. the reality is that you did get fucked over by life, but it's not like you have a micropenis. you don't have to let it rule your existence, either find a girl who is a virgin or make peace with being alone. stop thinking about it so much, as there's nothing that can be done about it - the more you obsess over it the harder it will be to stop.

>all i can think about is penis
didn't expect to read something like this today.

What is your biggest worry about your penis?
Do you think you won't be able to have a normal sexual life?
be specific.

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sounds like you've never had sex before, these cases are rare and it's almost a guarantee that genital size is scaled appropiately, you can still please a woman, you just have to learn how to use it.

being too thin, being disappointing, getting cheated on, having a sexless relationship, figuratively being a eunuch, etc

i wonder if i got fucked over or it's just standard for my race (south asian)

i'm also 5'7" and pretty thin so I sort of hope people don't expect too much out of me and become disappointed

also i read shit like this, blackpills me hard

part of it also makes me feel better about not having all these accolades and model minority wins like this guy, because he still lost where it mattered the most

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>being too thin, being disappointing, getting cheated on, having a sexless relationship, figuratively being a eunuch, etc
I don't know what's your mindset right now, but reality is that you penis is smaller than the average.
There are things that you can do to improve your image:
>Getting ripped
>Becoming a charismatic person
>Becoming hardworking, relieable, trustworthy, etc

Basically to compensate you need to work harder to become a person that's so valuable that your penis won't matter.


>i wonder if i got fucked over or it's just standard for my race (south asian)
I've seen a lot of thai porn and a lot of those guys have small penises.

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JUST

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i want to blackpill every person in the world. at least 1/5th of guys are my size or less, imagine of that many people became blackpilled/aware and dropped out of society. that'd be fucking sick. more than 2/5ths of asian and indian guys are that size too, so there's more blackpill power

yeah, it sucks cause i'm inherently lazy and feel extra demotivated because there's probably no reward at the end of the tunnel

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every day I thank god I'm a lesbian

>yeah, it sucks cause i'm inherently lazy and feel extra demotivated because there's probably no reward at the end of the tunnel
So, do you have a goal or something?
I mean you could neglect women and mind your own shit.
Everyone faces a different kind of bullshit so they try to get the best out of life, others just commit suicide and at the end of the day it's up to you.

Sometimes I feel like dying even though my whole body works properly and my dick is normal, i'm kinda uggo but probably someone else who had it harder would use my life in a more efficient way.

also i'm wondering if i take shit like ssris i'll be emotionally numb to this constant gut-punch feeling i have due to this and i'll be able to mechanically direct my energy to productive things instead of thinking about bullshit all the time

worrying about your dick won't enlarge it, the best you can do is move on in life.
It sucks but that's it.
Honestly I'm deeply frustrated everyday by all the shit I see people face in their lives whether it is people on internet or people irl.

>worrying about your dick won't enlarge it, the best you can do is move on in life.

yeah, it's pretty much my issue. i tend to aimlessly obsess over things and just being rational doesn't work. i'm not a very rational person, i'm very controlled by my emotions.

>4.3" in girth so small regardless of length
I am 6.5" in length by exactly 4" girth. If you're not 5x4.3, you're fine.

i'm 5.5x4.3, bonepressed 6x4.3

You're fine, m8. If you're fucking a girl, you fuck her up to your pelvis. Couple that with likability, a little roughness, and you're golden.

yeah but girls don't even have penises

the base of my dick is pretty wide, like 5 around but that's like half an inch. i always felt like that might be my saviour, like i could grind against the clit and stretch the opening

Cool your jets, Rambo. You gotta get the girl first. Everyone's different, and the chick you end up with might not like that, but then again she might like it a lot. Just go with the flow. You really won't have a problem if your base is thickish and you're 5.5 in length because if she likes she'll just want to put it in her mouth or want you to just put it in her already.

>because if she likes she'll
Meant to say if she likes you* she'll do all that. That's important, being liked by the girl you're fucking and not just doing it TO fuck.

yeah, that's cool and all. i just don't want to come across someone that expects/wants bigger and them have that embarrassing experience in my history, or have them not feel anything + me not feel anything, or accidentally fall in love with someone who likes bigger dicks. that's why i don't want to fall in love at all, ever

My penis is above 5 inches and the past 3 girls I've taken my pants off for has said, at some point during our relationship, that my dick was small. Either by directly telling me, making small dick jokes, or giving my dick a nickname (fish bait).

Its not worth it, OP.
I don't even approach girls anymore because of this. Been single for 3 years just jerking off and its preferable to a girl looking at my dick and instinctively knowing that they think I'm small and losing my erection completely because of it.

yeah but i bet it has a decent or at least ok girth. pretty much all that matters. the rapper lil dicky has a 5 inch dick but apparently his shit is a cheesewheel in girth

I know a rich man cannot tell a poor person to stop worrying about money, but stop worrying about it.
You can't change it, it is not something you did or didn't do so there is no shame in it.
If a girl likes you enough to want to get naked yet laughs at you, she is a shitty person and you get to calmly get dressed and break up with her while she is naked and ashamed. You can turn a defeat into a win if you want.

>i just don't want to come across someone that expects/wants bigger
Gonna break it to you smooth: Most women worth dating don't give a shit about this. That's why being liked is important. Don't just hop into bed with some rando.
> or have them not feel anything + me not feel anything
You don't have a micropenis, man. It'll be fine.
> or accidentally fall in love with someone who likes bigger dicks.
Thinking like this will be your downfall.
Like this guy. All you had to do was say
>Best five inches of your life
or
>Who screamed my name last night, again?
and then smack her fucking ass after either. C'mon, son.

>I know a rich man cannot tell a poor person to stop worrying about money, but stop worrying about it.

thx for the humble dickbrag mr large dongle

i notice in circles is that one girl starts talking about dicks and how big dicks are objectively good, then all the dudes in the circle with big dicks start talking about how big dicks are great and size matters and all, and like the other half of the room is really quiet

Quit thinking about it so much, man. People can sense insecurity. The guys were posturing, and women who talk about those kinds of things out loud more than likely aren't worth dating.

Mine is just barely 2 inch so feel a bit lucky

At least you can get in there

Have you ever had sex before?

hows your sex life, relationships etc

It's cliche as fuck but unless you have a literal baby dick it shouldn't be an issue if you're utilizing proper positioning to hit the g-spot
Even then there are other ways to please; learn to eat puss like a champ and make her beg you to fuck her with foreplay before you actually do

Newly non virgin. She used dildos before was also a virgin. Said it felt amazing to ride later (anal)

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I know your pain OP, I'm about 5.5 in length but girth is under 5 inches, makes me so sad I'm not girthier

dunno. i wouldn't mind having a 4.6 or 4.8 girth

do girls feel things from anal? without a prostate?

I had also been playing with her nipples, etc right before and ended up giving her a hickey next to her nipple which probably helped her be in the mood

and the b hole itself is sensitive too

women can tighten it up a ton by doing kegel exercises. If she's seriously going to complain about girth which we're born with and can't really do much about then it's on her to get a better grip on you.

Then again that same woman who tightened up for pencil dicks will get with a soda can dick guy and will likely be in utter eye rolling in the back of her head pleasure so there's another unfortunate blackpill.

Ive learned to accept my small dick the day i found out women cannot be "satisfied". A satisfied woman is a mythological creature. Women cannot be satisfied. Womens brains are wired to always be complacent. No matter what. You can be the mosy well hung chad on earth. You marry a woman no doubt she will become complacent about you. Your still the same dude each and every day and its boring to have sex with the same person each day no matter how hot they are. A man may have a big dick but theres always some kink that the big dicked man cant fulfill for a woman. So hell with worrying about wether or not my dick is satisfying to a woman. No woman lives "happily ever after". Women will initiate a divorce with a guy whose got a big cock any day after they felt like they have had enough time jumping on it.

Lol
Muh genetics

You need to compensate by literally being a bigger dick. Bully, threaten and lose your temper over bullshit nothings. Get a big truck and jack it up so you can look down on everyone and drive like you own the road. Use telepathy for signals. If they can't pick it up -too bad for them. Use money or other things to compensate. Only pansy ass cucks try to develop better sex skills or get over it.

Ruined my life too. Self conscious as fuck. Ugly women can whinge all they want, there is nothing worse than an unsatisfying, pitiable man.

Shit like this makes me glad to be gay. Womeme have such fucking high standards

>4.3" in girth
This is barely below average, what the fuck is this thread

Are you sure? I thought 5" girth was average, and the whole "toilet paper roll test" thing is even higher than that. If 5" isn't the average, then I have something to be happy about (not really tho because this dick will likely remain unused lmao)

It's fine user, my boyfriend's dick isn't that big, but it still feels absolutely incredible inside me.

stay away from grills. Thats what i do.

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Go look for a chick who has a fetish for small dicks if you're really insecure about it user

This is why the actual average dick size is much higher than what is measured in studies by the way. Think about it dicklets, in some study they just take a random section of dudes and measure their dicks. But if you were to survey the guys who go out a lot and get with a lot of girls, so basically the average of what a sexually active girl will get to see in her life time, you can bet your ass that average is a lot bigger than the actual average.

So many small dicked guys just stay at home or don't dare talk to girls and don't even try to get sex because they are insecure about their tiny dicks. So it's actually much worse in reality because what is said to be average, is actually on the very low end of what girls fuck on the regular. Think about it, what guy with a 5 inch dick or less is really gonna spend his night chasing girls? But guys with 7 or above will have the confidence and also motivation to go after girls more. They know the sex will be good and they wont be laughed at, so they are much more likely to go out and fuck.

Sorry for the black pill but it's true.

Everyone is different. Every vagina is different. The women that actually have bigger vaginas are probably as rare as the men with giant dicks.
I used to fuck around with a girl who was in an open relationship. My cock is pretty average and one day she let slip how big her boyfriend was. Like, real casually tell me he has a giant cock. My heart sank and i immediately felt insecure. This guy was as big around as her wrist and probably about 9" long. The thing is, she still went nuts when i fucked her, she still constantly told me how much she loved my cock, and she still came constantly. Once during sex she moaned out that i was the best she'd ever had, and she told me later that the really big dick is often uncomfortable and a lot of extra work.

Point is: technique and attitude trumps size in nearly all cases. Pay attention to her body and do what is making her moan and squirm and you'll both have a great time. The best thing you can do is forget yourself in the moment and just be present in the act.

I'm also horribly insecure about my dick in general too if that helps. A little experience goes a long way i guess.

learn to eat pussy well

>tfw every girl you talk to has apparently take some 9-13" behemoth monster as wide as a pringle can.

Fuck. My. Life.

The sad part is that they probably could.

Gross

I fucked this one chick once, and I didn't put my face down there, but I put in 1 figure
then 2
then 3... no resistance yet, no foreplay either

then 4 fingers, just slid right in.

So i fucked for for about 3 minutes, rolled over, said I was done.

Then I walked her back to her boyfriends house while she cried about being a bad person.


Most bitches pussies aren't gaping without foreplay. If they are its because they squat 2L bottles regularly.

I mean I can fist my current gf, but fuck I have to work her up to it, shit doesn't just go in there

I think you're missing the point...

Just because it fits doesn't mean it's the height of pleasure