So I am a socially isolated sperg but thanks to [A POPULAR DATING APP] I somehow got a date with this cute blonde girl and ended up fucking her. It turned into a fwb arrangement and it was going great for about a month - just fun, no drama, good company.
Then she went on holiday to somewhere in Asia for two weeks. We didn't talk during that time (apart from briefly about an STD test) which is cool. But from looking at her facebook, and the comments the other people she went with left, she fucked one of the locals a few times while she was there.
Now, I really do not give a shit about that. The idea of her fucking other guys while seeing me does not bother me at all. BUT she has now been back in the country several days, and has not contacted me once. She said we'd hook up when she was back, and she always used to initiate the conversations and spontaneously invite me to hers every couple days to have sex all night.
Now she doesn't seem to wanna talk to me. I myself have been looking for other girls to fuck, and I really don't give a shit if she bangs other people, but if her banging other people makes her not wanna see me, then understandably that feels shitty. We had a really chill arrangement and without any jealousy or attachment it would be a shame to lose it.
I'm gonna message her tomorrow and see if she wants to meet up. SHould I prepair for the worst? How should I navigate the question knowing she's got another guy's dick on her mind?
Fuck it dude, put it on the backburner for now. I totally get where you're coming from, it's not about your "feelings" it's about feeling inferior to other guys that she decides to have sex with. Add to that being a sperg and probably not having the greatest of luck with women, your only chance at no strings attached sex just walked out the door, leaving you high and dry, bored and horny. My suggestion is to keep doing what you're doing, talk to other girls, see if you can get another fwb situation lined up. Don't contact this other girl because she's gonna get the wrong idea. You basically have to let her be the stupid fucking woman she is, and let her vapidly go off and float between men until she comes back to you. If you gave her what she wanted, I'm sure she'll come back.
Easton Watson
Yep, unless youre pretty sure youre gonna date a girl you should always be pursuing whatever alternatives arise to keep your options open and have fun.
Mason Gray
Yeah, I have been trying to use Tendurr to find other girls but it's hard fucking work and rarely works. Think i got really lucky with this chick I had up until recently.
Just curious - what would be the harm in contacting her tomorrow? I thought that there's no way it could make things worse - if she doesn't wanna see me anymore she'll tell me, and if she does, she'll respond. I just wondered if it could be some shit test thing where she makes it clear she fucked some other guy and then refuses to initiate conversation, to see if I am still happy to contact her.
It probably isn't that, and it's probably the case that she's just been put off me by this dude. I'm pretty sure if she wanted to see me she'd have said hi by now. But I can't risk it being one of those tests and losing out just because I was too pussy to send a message.
if you want it get it if not bag it its not that hard faggot
Adam Adams
bag it?
Henry Foster
bamp
Austin Edwards
Where are you from?
Evan Martin
Oregon, why?
Chase Cook
>it's about feeling inferior to other guys that she decides to have sex with Not him but is this human nature? I feel like this is the reason why religion tells us to only fuck one person for the rest of our lives.
Jonathan Watson
I thought white women aren’t attracted to asian locals.
Luis Jenkins
Well obviously that's not universally true. I've seen a picture of him, he's pretty handsome so I don't blame her for doing it. Kinda looks like stereotypical street fighter asian chad type.
Chase Gray
It is, kind of. Humans evolved so that when they have sex, a fucking assload of chemicals get released that cause feelings of attachment and love. It's an evolutionary "design" which is used to keep two humans together, because two humans together is the optimal means of raising a child.
Having sex with a shitload of other people naturally fucks with your head and you're biologically hard-wired to be against it.
Blake Bell
>or attachment No you are attached so let it go. Don't give a fuck, thats how this should work.
Cooper Scott
White women will fuck anything, anytime and anywhere
Matthew Davis
>another dick on her mind
1 This isn't how women's minds work because we're not obsessed with penises like men are 2 Your dick and other men's dicks are not in competition because women and their vaginas aren't goods to compete over 3 You can't have your cake and eat it too, this is the nature of casual sex-based relationships
Angel Wright
White 'men' cucks eternally.
Ayden Miller
>Having sex with a shitload of other people naturally fucks with your head and you're biologically hard-wired to be against it.
Then explain why so many people have slept around like prostitutes or pornstars in the age of sexual liberation. Wouldn't you want to fuck as many people as possible, at least as a male, to spread your genes?
Jace Sanchez
>explain why people act against biology Are you disabled? Explain why people jump off buildings knowing that it's dangerous. Explain why people climb up rocks without safety harnesses knowing that it's dangerous. Explain why people go out and hunt wild animals knowing that it's dangerous.
BECAUSE IT FEELS GOOD YOU FUCKING RETARD
Dopamine is fucking addictive. Kill yourself, you utter mongoloid.
Sebastian Price
>Comparing sleeping around to people doing stunts and committing suicide
Why is there a natural biological urge to fuck as many people as possible, that was my question.
Owen Myers
>committing suicide I was talking about base jumping, you fucking retard. Exciting things release dopamine. Dopamine is addictive. Therefore you do exciting things. Sex releases dopamine. Dopamine is addictive. Therefore you have sex.
>natural biological urge to fuck as many people as possible There isn't, you dumb cunt. Your brain is literally wired for you to settle down with one person. That's why it fosters these feelings of attachment and love with an individual that you have sex with. Fucking around is a social construct. Made possible only by actively fighting against the very nature of human beings, through contraceptives.
How fucking stupid are you?
Isaac James
OP here. So she's dumped my ass. Asked her and if she was free and she basically told me chinaman is the reason she doesn't wanna see me. Fucking hurts, especially considering she told me she was absolutely not interested in relationships cos of recently breaking up, but hey ho. Just pissed off as I lost a great deal out of this, a really nice place to stay in the town I wanna live, and some good company, which is a great asset when you're basically a no friends loner.
I for one welcome our Asian city-state crypto financier overlords [spoiler]not actually his job AFAIK[/spoiler]
Sorry m8. Go fix those other problems in the meantime
Christian Nguyen
You say your arrangement was without any jealousy or attatchment, but you sound sort of jealous and attatched
Camden King
>I was her secret bf and she dumped me for real bf and I’m mad
Brody Hill
fucking degenerates
sex is not meant to be done casually, it's biologically and spiritually harmful and wrong
why don't you stop having sex before marriage and buy an onahole, you won't have these problems and you won't waste time with girls who aren't the one you want to marry
Jaxson Green
I'm a lady looking for a fwb type situation as well. But that's a bit far from me
