It's her birthday tomorrow. She's the only girl I've ever felt strongly for, but I think she just started seeing a guy...

It's her birthday tomorrow. She's the only girl I've ever felt strongly for, but I think she just started seeing a guy. How do I tell her that she's dear to me without seeming like I'm trying to get her to dump her boyfriend, even though I secretly would love that?

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>"doctor, please, tell me what's wrong with him!"
>"I'm sorry ma'am. Its... Stage 4 Oneitis. Terminal."

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You're right, I know. I've been obsessed with her for at least four years. If she loves someone else I can get over it, but I want her to at least know that I appreciate knowing her.

If she's seeing someone else get that false hope out of your head. It just won't happen. Make it final in your head. Tell her how you feel damn the consequences. How she proceeds from there is up to her.

If she likes this other guy, that's fine. I want her to be happy. I just want her to know that she means a lot to me, whether or not we ever go out together.

You have wasted four years of your life orbiting her? Next time you like a girl ask her out immediately.

Well, the thing is that I'm four years older than her, and she's turning 18 now. She was a freshman when I was a senior, although I've known her longer. Not a huge age difference in the grand scheme of things, but it was a little much for where we were.

This is actually reasonable for orbiting so you don’t get ousted as a pedo

Yeah, but now I feel I've missed out on my one shot.

4 years?! Dude, move the fuck on. Stay her friend if you can handle that but take your heart elsewhere

I know. It's just hard because I can't imagine ever loving anyone else. I've never felt this way about anyone else.

Im telling you my man, the moment you find another girl that you click with, it will be sooo much easier to forget her.

I've just never clicked with anyone besides her, so it's just difficult for me to imagine that it will happen.

Dude just move on you have probably given up several chances for relationships with other women in those 4 years of your obsession with this one girl.

There was one girl in particular who really liked me, but I wasn't attracted to her at all. She started dating someone else, and we're still friends. I think that's it though.

Ok well surround yourself with more girls and you up your chances

Today's the day. I've got to do it. Oh please let it work out.

You’re an idiot.

I did it. I send a happy birthday text. I'm going to throw up.

I had to listen to the Pixie's "Here Comes Your Man" to psych me up for it. I pressed send, and was worried for a while, but she texted back "Thanks buddy!!". I'm satisfied.

Hey man if you're happy and shes happy its all good.

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>It's her birthday tomorrow. She's the only girl I've ever felt strongly for, but I think she just started seeing a guy

it's over

I think that's right. I'd love for us to end up together, but if it doesn't happen, I truly love having her in my life anyway.