I asked my boyfriend to talk dirty during sex and it hurt my feelings

I asked my boyfriend to talk dirty during sex and it hurt my feelings.

>Fucking whore
>Stupid bitch
>Cumdumpster
>Nympho cunt
>Cheap whore
>You’re ALWAYS in heat, for me bitch
>Ugly fuckmeat
>Toy

And I’m just like “Hey, take it easy.” and he’s like “No worry, just excited” before calling me “Used up worthless thot”. So I stopped and started to cry then he cuddled me.

Am I being too sensitive? He’s an amazing lover and friend but I have no clue what he was thinking. I thought “dirty talk” is supposed to just be talking nasty about each other’s genitals.

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Everything he said is true

Welcome to the future, where daddydom is law

you should have been more specific. HE'S NOT A MIND READER.

Thanks, had a good laugh.
If true, consider quitting porn, and make him do so as well.

dirty talk is about as general as a term can get, what it means is specific to the person. speak to him about it in future.

and yes, you're being too sensitive.

I mean there's different kinds of talking dirty. One is being toxic and another one is being loving.
>Your tits are perfect
>Your pussy tastes so good
Shit like that

Kek.
Technically that is talking dirty but thats like the furthest most extreme examples. Like yeah you can expect to be called a slut or whore or how your his personal fucktoy but it will always be just that: how your ass belongs to him. Him calling you an ugly thot and worthless and all those other adjectives is kinda overboard. Thats the kinda shit you say when fucking a $20 hooker.

Dirty talk is what you want, and what you got was straight up degradation. Id be butthurt too, or not, idk, im a dude.

>You’re ALWAYS in heat, for me bitch
Holy shit I'm stealing that.

>Dirty talk is what you want, and what you got was straight up degradation. Id be butthurt too, or not, idk, im a dude.

I mean you're not wrong but dirty talk means different things to everyone. My dirty talk goes into degradation too because thats fuckin' hot and its what both me and my girl like.

That said, both of them should be aware of what they like unless they're like a week into the relationship, so i dunno whats up there. He clearly has a dom streak and shes clearly sensitive. So he should've known she wouldn't like it and she should've known he's into that shit. Some miscommunication here on both sides I think.

Or he could've just done it knowing she wont like it, cause thats hot as fuck too.

Ask him, OP.

What did you expect? 99% of women love degradation and abuse. Who could've known that you're a special snowflake?

>"Talk dirty to me"
>Gets talked dirty to
>Cries
Women

"Dirty talk" is whatever you want it to be, but you got exactly what you asked for. If the way he does it isn't exactly what you want (or, as you discovered, find it hurtful) you need to talk to him about it and work together toward everyone getting what they want out of the sexual experience.

Communicate, communicate, communicate!!!!

>toxic
tumblr is that way

Lol what did you think would happen?

Every single thing he said is how he actually feels.

You worthless fuckhole, gonna fuck you like the two dollar hooker you are.

Sounds like a typical misunderstanding. My ex was REALLY into dirty talk and it made me pretty uncomfortable so I pretended it was roleplay and pretended I was playing a character. She loved all the terms you spit out with the exception of anything mentioning "stupid" (something she mentioned afterwards and I never did again). He most likely didn't mean any of it and the lesson is just to be extremely specific with your sexual desires and such.

he might have watched too much porn

>Jow Forums thinks dirty talk is degradation play

You dumb stupid fucks OP failed to communicate how intense of dirty talk she wanted and her BF decided it meant leap right into insults

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>treat me like a whore, daddy
>ok
>omg wtf my self esteem

WOMEN

I would say that he doesn't know what dirty talk is and that you should explain to him your definition of what dirty talk is because THAT IS A VAGUE CONCEPT.

So tell him what your idea of dirty talk is, give him some references AND HOPE THAT HE IS SMART ENOUGH OR CARES ENOUGH TO CATCH ON and be patient/understanding about it

So they're both idiots. As usual, the conclusion of this thread is that both parties probably think with just about any other organ besides their brain and have the communication skills of a fucking speak and spell with a dying speaker.

I mean, whoa. What a twist. This never happens. Never in Jow Forums does it come down to both parties being too dumb to talk to each other, and instead talking to us as if we're able to connect to fucking Trapperkeeper, and rewire OP's boyfriend's thoughts. Or that every femanon can come in here and contribute Feels Power to OP so she can be the bitch in heat she wants to be for her man.

Hooray. Jow Forums. It's something new every day. I am alight with enthused passion.

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Normal people just explain what they want and don't want at the time or immediately afterwards and then it is sorted out. Dirty talk is a broad spectrum, but most of what OP writes is just degrading.

"Darling, I meant a little sexy talk during the act, y'know like if you are enjoying what is happening, what you see and feel. I wasn't expecting straight up degradation and put downs".

If you really want to be sneaky don't judge and cause him to become defensive try and figure out if he actually feels this way about women and sex.

My girlfriend likes dirty talk. She likes boring descriptions of what is happening using 'rude' words. "oh my hard cock is going so deep into your spread open cunt" - "oh I can feel how wet and juicy you are".

She also likes mild/moderate amounts of domination, especially with a schoolgirl vibe as she went to an all girls school, clearly jilling herself silly over male teachers throughout her teenage years.

So .. "don't talk back to me, just raise your ass like so, you must let me finish! Be quiet, I've got to come and I'm sick of your interruptions" - "spread yourself, now point to your clit, touch it, what is it? How is it spelled? Now, where does this go? Show me, that is right, well done. Can you spell penis?". She loves weird scheduling, training, teaching play as well, like I put my come in her pussy on her schedule or weekly 'anal training'. That one was fun, different size buttplugs, write reports on wearing them, graded her, fucked her asshole for a 'final exam'.

I find it tiresome to be honest because I've got to put effort in to keep in interesting and she rarely reciprocates, just assumes that sex is reward enough. One time she asked me to be rough and slap her and I got a little into it. I don't mean I beat her, but pretty light full face open slaps, getting tits all red, raising handprints. She took it like a champ though afterwards said it wasn't as good as she thought it'd be. I found it more fun to fight her than sexy.

Jesus Christ that's hilarious

The stupidest thing I ever did was during a brief period spent into rope play. I put a metal ring in the ceiling and threaded a nylon cord through it with a small dumbbell plate tied on one end. I tied knots to retain and threaded clothes pegs (through the eye of the metal spring) along a length of the other end, finally tying it off on a rubber ring (dog toy). I hid this apparatus.

Later on I tied her up, blindfolded her, licked her for about 30 minutes, denying her an orgasm, gradually clipped the pegs all over her pussy lips and made her bite onto the dog toy telling her not to dare let go of it.

I then tried to make her orgasm, but kept edging her while dirty talking her and telling her I was never going to let her come. For a long time I could tell that she wanted to spit out the ring and tell me to let her orgasm. Eventually she reached an orgasm, opened her mouth to shout or scream something and the weight fell and all the pegs got snatched off her as she came.

This is what I mean though about it being tiresome to have to come up with inventive shit to get her off, when in return it is like well I let you do this to me.

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Wow your bf either has no imagination or he truly thinks you are a worthless cheap whore. What he did is not dirty talk, is not hot and nothing but name calling.

This is what I would do. Next time you are in public you call him pencil dick and see how he likes it.

Nice larp, made me laugh. In the off chance you are telling the truth, you were not too sensitive, but almost surely he doesn’t believe anything of what he said (except probably the "you’re always in heat for me, bitch” part that I guess you know it’s true), so don’t think too much about it.