So I'm pretty sure I love this guy but he just straight up considers me a guy, like he recognizes I'm a girl but treats me like his dude friends.
I'm not sure how to describe him, when we first met I genuinely thought he was the assistant professor bc he looks waaay older than his age (like 20), and he's become sort of the Daddy of our friend group. We live in the same building and I occasionally go to his place to play Smash with him, I'd say in terms of friends we're pretty close.
He treats me 100% like a dude, like I'm not joking. I saw how he talks to some of our female friends and it's completely different. Hell sometimes he'd fucking forget! Like once me and him were playing and he started talking about porn to me, I was like wtf and ask him if guys actually do that and he replies "Only bros, and you're a bro".
I was going to try asking him out or at least coming onto him but hearing those words and putting it together just makes me feel like shit. Like there isn't even the Female-Male base attraction link in here.
Pls help Jow Forums, I don't know how to get to him or have the confidence anymore.
It could just as easily be his way of creating distance between the two of you, and attempting to regard you as a man mentally so that he's able to engage in a strictly platonic manner.
Really, all you have to do is make him see you as a woman.
Cameron Cooper
>a guy clearly doesn't want to see op as a woman >"just make him see you as a woman!" Top lel. OP, you are deep in a friendzone. Don't waste your time and energy on this dude who goes to lengths to establish that he sees you strictly platonically. It's likely he knows how you feel about him and does this whole bro thing to show you that he sees you as a buddy.
Jaxson Powell
>daddy Perverted freak
William Walker
Sounds like a manga plot.
Carter Thomas
I'm about 60% sure this is a shitpost trying to get guys to talk to a girl.
However if you're being real try to pull some minor moves on him and see how he reacts. I'm not saying going whole-hog and shove your hand down his pants. It'll be a slow process, just sit closer to him, inside his personal space where bros wouldn't sit. Like, just see how it works, sit really close to him. He might get nervous at first, but just try that for a few times. When you're talking try to touch him, on his arm, to draw him into a conversation.
Basically what you're trying to do right now is subtle things to put into his head that you're interested in him without saying it. At first he may react by trying to scoot away from you, but try it a few times to establish that your a feminine person that likes non-PC jokes. Don't force it, don't be too aggressive, just every once in a while test the waters and what you can do. After a few times you should be able to figure out if he would ever be interested.
I'll be honest here, maybe he treats you like that because he's simply not into you, or maybe that's the established relationship. So like I said, try to break down some barriers, if he resists on multiple fronts he's being polite and doesn't like you. He could be shy, but if you've tried to move a little closer to him and he moves away all the time he's just not into you.
Jackson Lewis
Just accept it for what it is. I've been in this situation several times throughout my life (32 now), sometimes it leads to something romantic but more often than not it does not.
It sucks that you're in that state with this guy but I wouldn't stress about it, you have to find a guy who likes girls like you. It's not as hard as you might think!
Brandon Robinson
Tear off his pants and give him a blow job.
Cooper Howard
I think you're in a good place to start from with him considering you a bro. Because this allows you to be close to him without it being weird. You can even touch him, and talk about intimate matters in a bro-y way.
Instead of asking him out, just get even more friendly with him. And when you're very close to each other, you can switch on the girliness, like put on nice make-up and wear dresses that show off your figure etc. If done right, this will make him realize that his best friend is also a hot girl. And this will make him think with his pee-pee.
So yeah, don't ask him out directly, that just makes things weird. Amp up the bro relationship and slowly but surely increase your femininity around him at the same time. It sounds maybe a bit difficult but quite hot.
thats awesome. that just means you're actually fun and have a personality.
don't worry this guy is right
Luke Torres
just kiss him that will work for sure
Austin Scott
Tell him you want to play another type of Smash and start touching his crotch. Cheesy porn plot has a 96% of working if you're a girl
Camden Hernandez
bump
Blake Bennett
>males and females can be friends!!1! ahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahah oh god hahahahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahhahahahahahahahahahah
you are probably boyish as fuck too, or ugly idk
>daddy oh my god, society is cancer
you aren't getting nowhere he thought you would be his girl bro friend but we all fucking know that shit never goes well like me and my friend had this whale of a girl as our friend and yeah it was like yeah we all bros yeah yeah then we got drunk the 3 of us and dicked her in all her holes like there is no friendship between man and women until you are some kind of spiritually high person or some shit because regular people are no more than animals you are a perfect example of that you want what you dont have and you feel bad boo hoo i cant have dis guy halp me plz fuck off bitch learn about the true nature of life itself retarded society shitter thinking stupid shit keep convicing yourself you need this you n eed that and if u dont have it booo i feel bad guise fuck off bitch wake the fuck up
Jacob Cox
Woo! The power of paraphrasing!
>Lel that advice is shit >You should just give up OP
You know, as opposed to trying something. Dressing more provocatively, getting more physical, doing things that would draw attention to the fact that one is of the opposite sex.
Yeah no, you're advice is great. Just keep giving up, user.
Brandon Adams
>uses the word Daddy >capitalises Daddy
Maybe he can see what sort of girl you are and wants to keep his distance from that shit.
Charles Howard
She can try to slut it up, but if the guy makes a conscious effort to keep her at distance and threat her as a bro, it's almost given that he doesn't see her as a potential sexual or romantic partner. It's just a matter of keeping her hopes at bay imho.
Wyatt Howard
Yes she should give up the harder she tries the more she will suffer an't you see this bitch is already complaining about muh male-female relationship? She even said >daddy She is literally retarded, like what can you expect from some 16 yo bitch but hey yeah she can keep trying maybe the guy wants a hole to fuck but i will use my premonition powers and i will let you all know that this shit will get messy as fuck just by reading ops post you know she is mental as fuck ( as if there was a girl that is not LOL) so yeah hope you try to fuck him or somethinhg and update us on this matter
Christopher Stewart
treat, not threat
And I will add that from the OP it seems like she is younger than him, maybe even considerably, and probably quite immature. It makes sense why he would want to keep her at arm's length.
Easton Ward
she retarded dude lowkey i fuck with that heheheheh im modern im from this age and year yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssssss i love instagram dude heheahehae desu if i had the chance to eerradicate humanity i fuckiing would and let a bunch of innocent pure minds live to rebuild mankind because it's getting to a point that i cant really hold it any longer people is getting more retarded every fucking hour
Ian Reyes
she is just unnatractive dude they are about the same age he just looks older and OP has dad problems its obvious bitch is mental OP is an unexperienced fuck too but he just aint attracted to her they are young as fuck if she was any atractive to him he would have tried to make a move but he didnt because this bitch is fat or ugly or both stop giving her hope and yes she is also mental/inmature or both too, OP just give up and join the gym and try to grow the fuck up >Daddy lmfao pathetic
Jordan Phillips
are you alright? I have no idea what point you're trying to make.
Mason Ward
point is modern youngfags are the most retarded and deluded people you can ever meet on this planet, specially the dumb ones
Owen Gonzalez
She's on Jow Forums so she is either a landwhale, a raging slut, or a total nutcase. But maybe she is younger than him too, it would make sense why he treats her like that. Why people are stubborn and are trying to find and ignite feelings when it's obvious that the other person doesn't feel shit towards them. She calls you a bro and doesn't even recognize that you're a woman, what makes you think you can make him change his mind and suddenly fall in love with you? Lmao
Daniel King
>I genuinely thought he was the assistant professor bc he looks waaay older than his age (like 20) she could be a little younger than him but people at these ages don't know shit about life my man again if she was just a little bit attractive he would make a move even if it was for the sake of fucking her but he didnt, why is that? she ugly af and/or fat. Case closed, and she wants what she can't have like very fucking single human being in this world because we are rats, animals, that just want and want for the sake of filling the infinite void they will never fill with that animal-like mentality and mindset.
But again she is an underage idiot that has still a lot of shit to learn about in life and one of them is that 4chin can be rought she probably feels like shit reading my comments LOL Jow Forums has become so fucking soft.
OP stop being fat, bitch.
Nicholas Morales
OP here, the fuck happened tonthis thread? It's like a storm of autism came in after the bump thanks nons for the advice, I'll try to work on it that way
>Daddy not sure why your autist ass latched onto that, it wasn't sexual in the context and anyone with any semblance of comprehension would be able to tell take your (you)s and leave
He likely feeds off having a girl interested in him.
Seek new friends.
Ethan Rivera
Who's this qt
Brandon Mitchell
unknown russian apparently
Aiden Peterson
shes not cute at all also OP if you smoke cigarettes you're a autismomachine
Juan Thomas
It was just porn, right? Like he wasnt accidentally inviting you to conjure up images of you or him naked and enjoying that thought, right? Because if so, why not just make sure you two are always alone together for a while and then consider mentioning that? It seems like the perfect way to conclude that the two of you have a way of making yourselves acquireable to the other and also conclude to realize that the other peeson in the room is you or her.
Blake Miller
Are you blind? She is clearly very sweet-looking
Cameron Mitchell
this is the only option. if you just wanna fuck him sure, but there will never be more than that, if even that. He sees you as a guy, so there is no sexual tension or potential between you.
If you get to fuck him, you must know there will never be a relationship because in the presence of someone he sees as a women, they will always get sexual priority over you.
Camden Murphy
question: are you conventionally attractive? don't lie on the internet OP
Ian Baker
Looks like a mutt, sadly.
Owen Hernandez
Tell him. Ask him out. Who cares if he says no? You'll get over it. I promise.
Benjamin King
However "bro" or dudeish you imagine yourself, you aren't.
Jack Martinez
Jesus, if you're close to him like that then it's even easier. Come on to him in ways like casually touching his leg in conversation or making eyes at him, it's literally not that hard. pretty much this
If the genders were reversed I'd say you were friendzoned. But I see it going 3 ways.
1. He just doesn't like you like that. There's nothing really you can do. 2. He's trying to friendzone you first because he thinks you would do the same thing given enough time and he wants to avoid the embarrassment. >To me this is the least likely option because its somewhat childish and just plain unhealthy. 3. He likes you but he's just playing it safe somewhat like option number 2. He might want to see how you react to being treated as just a friend. I've done this before (not the the extent of "one of the bros") to test the waters with a girl, by just respecting our friendship for what it was and looking for signs she was interested and in no time at all we mutually decided to take things further.
Trust me, just tell him how you feel and be willing to accept whatever answer you get. We're not easy to scare off and as long as you go about it the right way I highly doubt you'd do any damage to your friendship.
Jeremiah Lopez
When a girl acts like a dude, it’s kust a fucking turn off sexually, even if she It’s hot, my brain doesn’t see her anymore as a girl, maybe that’s the problem. Some girls try too hard to be non feminine, cuz that’s cool now, but I find it cringy.
