Virgin gf

>a reasonable history is expected for anybody over the age of 21
The girl just turned 18 (I'm 24)

I had a similar experience with my girlfriend of eight months. We hit it off right away at a friend's party. At that point, I was a kissless virgin, and it was very exciting to feel wanted by someone that I was so attracted to.

Three months into the relationship, she told me that she's had a lot of sexual partners. I still don't know how many there were, because I said it was probably better for me not to know the gory details. She got really defensive when I told her that it bothered me, and I thought about it for a day or so. In the end, I settled on the fact that those guys had nothing to do with me (i.e. she didn't even know I existed at that point, so it's not like she was trying to hurt me), and I got to reap the benefits of her sexual experience.

This made her feel better, but honestly, it didn't really help me much. I think the logic is sound, but feelings don't give a shit about how well-reasoned your arguments are: pain is pain. I'm slowly learning to accept it, but it's very uncomfortable knowing that your girlfriend is a hoe when she feels single. If it bothers you now, it's probably going to bother you if you decide to date her OP. That said, she could be a great partner, and you really don't stand to lose much. Also, any partner, man or woman, virgin or sexually experienced, could decide to betray you at any time, and there's nothing you can do about it anyway but be the best version of yourself that you possibly can. Even that might scare people into infidelity and degeneracy.

If she turns out to be a fucking hoe, you can just leave with your mind and body intact. Make sure you lead a full life outside of your relationship, and it really won't matter.

Good luck man

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Sounds like you are eager to settle for anyone who pays attention to you.

Keep looking until you find a girl who doesn't prompt you to ask questions like this of internet strangers.

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My gf was raped before we met. I sometimes feel like it was a personal assault towards me, since you know, I'm a jealous cunt, just like you. I never feel regret over fucking a girl before I met my gf though, on the contrary, it feels like a fucking victory.

My point is, we're probably cunts all of us. We have ourselves to live with, not our partners' sexual history, they come and go.

Why are you dating such young girls?

Date her, but don't marry a hoe, end of story. I found my 19 year old virgin gf on tinder, no joke. I'm her first and because of that shes absolutely obsessed with me. Don't sell yourself short man, if you are looking for "the one", then don't settle for less. Keep her casual, and ironically she'll want you more.

She might have told you that, but I sincerely doubt that a virgin would use Tinder. Its well known for being a place you go to fuck, and there are several other dating sites which focus more on long term dating.

It's pretty sad that you believe her tbph, even more so that you brag about it on anonymous forums like you don't realise how unrealistic it sounds, but I hope you're happy.

>Date her, but don't marry a hoe, end of story.
>Keep her casual, and ironically she'll want you more.
That's actually what I've been thinking of, I wouldn't mind at all going on more dates with her and possibly fucking her.

I'm not looking for any specific age, it's purely random. She just turned out to be interested in me (my previous date was as old as me).

hahahaha, okay bud. I can 100% know for a fact that she was a virgin, by what she brag to me about it, and the fact that i took a before and after photo of her vag after i was done. Granted she thought it was strange, but i just said it was hot. So keep believing im lying. But youre right, you have to be VERY lucky to find a virgin on tinder. Try a different dating app.

>you have to be VERY lucky to find a virgin on tinder
How many dates did you go to before finding her?

>Try a different dating app.
Like what? I'm also on Bumble and there is no one there

>100% know for a fact that she was a virgin, by what she brag to me about it, and the fact that i took a before and after photo of her vag after i was done

l m a o that's how I KNOW you're delusional

haha, i love it how you think finding virgins is impossible, kek. Maybe for you it is, with that attitude you fucking incel.
I went on about 7 dates with different girls until i found this conservative, 5'6 white, blue eyes virgin from a small northern california town of only white people.

As someone from NorCal this isn't a thing. Only all x race up here is Mexicans. State of Jefferson represent.

Sounds like your town sucks, lol. Ive seen the gradnight photos, it was legit 99.99% white man, they had 2 American Asians and that was it, both of them are whores. And so were a lot of the women in that highschool.

2000 students in a small town. Interesting.

Oh no, I dont need to use a dating app. This is fucking hilarious though. The photo bit gives it away, for future reference.

Unless she had unprotected sex, there's really no need for you to get concerned about what the hell she's done before you two went on a date.

Jesus Christ man. Get some help.

This guy is right

incel faggots think that virgins are mystical beings that only exist in fariy tales.

You try and give some lonely anons some help, and they're the most distrusting, self hating losers I have ever met. Don't believe me, that's your choice. So sit in your basement and cry on Jow Forums while I get the virgins because I don't give up.

>samefagging this hard to prove something nobody gives a fuck about

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You're an idiot. People fuck. People also bathe. I hope you never find happiness until you accept that people are people, not your mystical princesses.

Watching you guys is saddening... common bro. I could throw a virgin at your face and you'd still think they don't exist. You think every girl out there has been fucking like a porn star with "Chad" since they were 10... go outside and grow up, and learn to accept help friend.

Tinder is a hook up app. Any girl on that site wouldn't meet my standards.

I never said anything about virgins. Stop it with the buzzwords for 10 seconds and maybe go for a walk.

Gee I fuckin'wonder. Maybe because they are like milk?

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she is a whore. Treat her like one! Show her no emotions spit on her every desire, dont take her seriously.

Moderator!!!! Pedo detected!!!!!

So,
>virginity
is very much a meme. Whether a girl is a virgin or not is irrelevant. If my girlfriend and I broke up, the fact that we waited... ooh, two years to have sex proper? Or the fact that we were together for six years now? probably wouldn't paint her to be a slut. And sometimes, shit happens.

Now, giving up sex quickly, this is bad decision making. It shows an appeal to instant gratification, for one, which just screams >cheats on you in 5 months and justifies it.
Another thing that's questionable is that she gave it up as a v-card to some guy she wasn't even remotely interested in staying with. So to her, how important IS sex? Is it even? I've been dating my gal 6 years like I said and sex is still an event, we still both get way into it, and it's still very personal to us both. SO maybe my view is skewed, but I feel like someone who can give that up after one or two dates to someone she doesn't even intend to stay around with-- or rather, doing it so cavalier while also dating around, if you'd prefer that angle-- is probably the same kind of person who makes all their decisions based on impulse.

That's not to say she's a bad person or that you won't get along, but there may be a difference in values here if you're considering something longer-term than a fool-around and quickie.
Just my opinion, though. I could be totally wrong.

>having sex with dudes makes her a whore!
>having sex with me doesn't make her a whore!
the state of incels, absolute madmen

virgins are terrible at sex, and just as immature as you emotionally so she's as likely to fuck up your relationship as you are

just like in life when you apply for a job, you want someone with experience who knows themselves, their skills and what they want to achieve

Having sex is fine, giving up sex on the first date as a virgin seems like you're more concerned with instant results rather than the results of hard work

OP's girl gave it up with what appears to be little second thought and that does not appear to be the type of girl with whom OP wishes to fraternize
At least, that was just my suggestion. Maybe OP wants 'em quick and dirty, who knows

>having sex with me doesn't make her a whore!
I'm not interested in having casual sex with anyone

Bump

>Also I should mention that I'm not by any stretch inexperienced
Then this entire thread is pointless, you have no right to complain at all.

All but one of my sexual partners were prostitutes though

>implying this makes it better

Not OP but I understand how you feel. I think the easiest way to accept it is to acknowledge that it's your first relationship, it probably won't last forever so just enjoy her and use her for experience while it lasts. When it ends she can go back to jumping on dicks and you can move on to another girl and not have to worry so much about this feeling anymore because you already have some experience.

OP here, I have done every sexual thing I could imagine with my ex and here I am making this thread.

wtf than don't go around bragging about it

well some people are just possessive. You have to find someone that works for you.

Its really no big deal op

Yeah, I'm gravitating towards thinking this, since I seem to quite like this girl. Still, it's a confusing situation.

do you expect every girl you like to be a NUN? because like expecting the fat kid to win a marathon it aint happening

That makes you seem like 100 times more unreasonable lmao, that's the real male version of being a slut.

You can tell how experienced girls are. If she doesn't want to fuck until she's official with you, has no clue how to suck a dick, and her pussy is too tight for your average 5 incher to fit, she's probably not lying about her virginity.