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I tried to self improve and I just keep failing. No matter what I do the feeling of hopelessness just keeps coming back. I wanted to go to college but I'm just not smart enough, I wanted to be an electrician but I cannot even do algebra. My life just keeps going down hill. I know my parents will kick me out soon and I'll be homeless. The only path for me seems to be suicide but for some reason I still have a shred of hope left. What should I do ? I'm an obese NEET who has no place in society

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Just kill yourself right now and save your parents the trouble of kicking you out, you are just too heavy a burden to bear

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The first thing you need to do is have a shift in midset. Nothing will happen overnight. You didn't become obese overnight, so you won't lose weight overnight either (though you can lose weight quite quickly if you're serious about it). Start eating less and cooking all your own food. Only drink water. NO junk food. This includes potato chips, candy, cookies, dessert. Eat whole carbs (rice, sweet potatoes) and cook with extra virgin olive oil. Eat whole proteins like Chicken breast, pork chops, fish, and steak. You will lose weight insanely quickly on this diet. Ride your bike everywhere and begin doing pushups. Arms straight out, chest touches the ground EVERY TIME, and come all the way back up. You may only be able to do 2 at first. That's fine, that's how I started. eventually I could do 50 in a row and not break a sweat.

>Can't do algebra

very easy. This is simply an effort thing. lots of youtube videos online to help.

>family
If you really make a shift in your life your family will take notice. actions speak louder than words.

>NEET
get a job. Dress up for the interview and do your hair. customer service jobs are ALWAYS hiring. Go everywhere and drop off resumes and go in anywhere that is hiring and ask to speak with a manager. Tell them you have no work experience but you will work hard and do whatever they tell you, 'you've got to start somewhere'

your problems aren't so bad as you think. you just need a shift in mindset, I have faith in you. Emotions will come and go, but you must always hold on to what your reason has told you to be true and not let your emotions and feelings effect what reason once dictated. I bet you're more reasonable than you think. Good luck.

Go to a college with dorms and tell your parents to fuck themselves for kicking you out

Thanks for the kind advice user I'll try my hardest

I don't even know what to major in

This is super good advice.

Also what helped me a lot with shifting my mindset was self-talk and gratitude attitude. To me this sounded like bullshit as well at first, but I'm not in your situation. Look this up on net for more information, but basically you should tell yourself and others around you only the good things.
> I'm just not smart enough
is bullshit. If you are white, you are a genius that has yet to develop his potential. Instead of thinking that you are dumb, think ''I need to put in more effort to become great'' and then take this advice: For attitude - just be thankful for everything you have. There are so many people who don't even have a family who can kick them out.

Don't worry user. I am currently a neet and i also have a degree. Even so, Idk what im doing in my life. *hugs* find something you enjoy first and something good will happen to you.

Regarding losing weight try to do 30 minutes exercise everyday and lessen your carbs.

Not to derail OP's thread but what do you do if you are a non white ?

Whatever interests you

Quit living off of white countries and make your home great again

Being non white is irrelevant. What said is just a dishonest way to cope with reality. Statistically, there are many dumb white pople.
The rest of his reply is gold though

>t. non white

>make your home great again
what did he mean by this

I felt this way for a long time. I decided to join the navy but I failed out of it. Enrolled in college just to meet new people and do something. Dind't have any idea what to major in so I just picked being a teacher so I would be back in high school essentially. Those feelings of belonging and friends. But as the teacher, fucked up I know.

Met a wonderful girl who became my gf and encouraged me to do better and allowed me to do really well at school because I didn't have to worry about anything else, to the point I am currently trying to become a doctor. I was that smart all along, I just thought I wasn't. I knew I wouldn't be alone. And I could focus all my attention in school. Well, she dumped me after years and I'm still in school but I've gotten my purpose pretty well, even if the ambition is gone for the time being...My point is just DO something and everything else will fall into place. Nothing will be easy, but you'll get somewhere better eventually.

How did you fail the navy ?

stop watchng porn and stop masturbating
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medical reason

I've been trying to improve myself for the few years. College isnt good enough for me, but l got an opportunity that could give me above minimum wage. However no one in the field is hiring. Not one. Its getting discouraging to suicidal thought. No one cares about my rejections. I'm sick of it.

What field?

Why isn't college good enough? I thought the same before actually going

Physical activity

I got training to be a bartender. It brings in decent amount of money than usual jobs, but despite there being many bars in my area, no one is hiring.

I think college is to time and money consuming. Its really only good for big jobs like doctors or lawyer. Not good if your late 20s

That is usually true. But just being in school for a few years really give you time to think about what you want most of out of life and opportunities you might not have wanted or came across. Not saying TO go, but if I were in your shoes I would.

If not, maybe try and go to school for a trade? Plumbers? You get to make bank and be around lonely housewives a lot? Might be cool?

user God loves you, hold onto that shred of hope. In life there are two infinities, one above you and one below, below it's dark and it's all the things you can't have, above it's light and it's all the things you can have, look towards the light and you'll find balance, strive towards the things that bring you peace, not chaos, I don't know your strengths, neither do you probably but the one thing I do know is you live for a reason. The meaning of life is to love user, to love God with all your heart, mind and soul and to love your neighbour as yourself, with all simplicity, warmth and kindness. The key to happiness is simplicity, the more desires you have, the less happy you are, I suggest trying to only desire things within your reach, a little tip, suffering is not the opposite of happiness, suffering with a cause behind it i.e you deny yourself dinner to feed someone else is a great herald of peace. God bless.