Gf has a black ex

>26
>Gf 19 turning 20, we'll call her R
>Still head over heels for her after 2 years dating
>Both eachothers second partners
>My ex is blocked off of everything
>Her ex, with his circle, are her only friends really
>Known him almost as long as I've known her
>Her girlfriends always joke about how he's massive
>Pretty sure he's fucked a good few of them
>Never cared
>Always been super nice to me
>Gf finally tells me he was her first
>They were together longer than he's been with any of her other friends
>He said he loved her etc etc but not to any of her other friends
>Just feel disgusted by the whole thing

In all other ways, she's got her head screwed on straight but this really repulsed me.

Am I overreacting?

She literally fucked a black guy for 1 and for 2 she brags about how he had feelings for her like some kind of psychopath? She wasn't drunk or anything either.

I really don't even know how I'd bring this up. He's literally only one of two black guys she knows and he's pretty "black."

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I love how posters on this board are so skilled at landing chicks who brag about their exes

Something seems sketchy from the fact she brags about how he loved her.

Be careful, I wouldn't trust a girl that got dirty with a black guy

The only time my girlfriend ever brought up her ex was to make fun of him and jerk off my ego. Look out.

Wanna explain why they aren't together?

I never asked, she never said and he never even mentioned having been with her.

When we first got together the only shit she said about past relationships is she didn't want someone with commitment issues and she unsubtly asked whether my parents were together.

"Plot twist" his parents separated at 3 so I'm guessing he cheated or got cold feet.

IMO It's way too strange for her to still be friends with him if he cheated on her so I don't think it's that. If I had to guess maybe his parents did something to force him to stop seeing her and she got all booty blasted at his lack of resolve and gave up on him.

I wouldn't worry much but do break it off if this is something you can't handle. I think you can though and it'll get easier to once she moves away from him which should be happening fairly soon if she's gonna be 20. Bitch has gotta be still living with her parents.

Also I just realized OP at one point in this relationship you were dating a 17 year old while you were 24. Someone needs to call the cops on you.

Would you feel better if she was fucked by a white guy? Don't know why you even care that much that she was with a black man. Does that hurt your masculinity? Regardless she got fucked, get over it

Man white guys really get hung up over this shit huh.

Pathetic honestly.

Yeah user it baffles me these guys cannot find a girl that hasn't fucked someone in their social group or cannot let the ex go or compares them to all the guys they were involved with.

I get being secure enough to not dwell on her past but its not really past with a constant reminder in the same room, a constant discussion about him and how wonderful he is, a constant reminder how special she is in his life compared to all his other ex's, a constant boast of his sexual prowess and actual dates masquerading as coffee with a friend.

Reminder that you are on Jow Forums so OP could just be b8ing.
But taken seriously, it is a little pathetic. Clearly they were close childhood friends so it's no wonder they fucked regardless of race and the same goes with how she seems sort of proud about having an exclusive confession from that same childhood friend,even if it didn't work out, she conquered something.

>26
>gf 20
>hes known her as long as I have
Are you pretending that you have known her a long time or are you a pedophile?
What you mean is that neither of you have known her for long i hope.
Also she is probably just playing games because thats what she grew up with.
People think playing games is an important part of relationships.
She needs to make you jealous so that you try harder or stay around longer.

I met him within 3 months of dating her.

You misread my post.

We're British.

Its her friends, not her, who talk about him a lot.

I've actually hung out with him one on one before when a few of them came to mine for pre drinks and we played vidya.

My gf brought all this up after some drama broke out in her group.

>My gf brought all this up after some drama broke out in her group.
She probably just wanted to explain it to you.

I brought something similar up with my boyfriend because there was drama around a guy I dated. I told my boyfriend that my ex was a bit of a manwhore, but we stayed together for a few months and he truly did care for me and said he loved me.
I wasn't "bragging", I was just explaining context.

Why are you dating a girl who banged a black guy ? Isn’t this the biggest red flag ?

>My gf brought all this up after some drama broke out in her group
They are all part of the same group and think the same and when you aren't there she talks about this guy with them. As I said your gf believes she's the queen bee among all the females and now she's told you this wonderful guy, all the girls either want or had, loved her the most. Bottom line is its in your face daily

What was that drama

>there was drama around a guy I dated
You do know all the drama about your ex could have been avoided without dragging your current bf into your shit and making it his drama. I'm not saying to lie but am saying get rid of your ex once and for all. Then whatever he does you nor your bf knows about it.

I don't talk to my ex at all, I dumped him and I cut him off.

My ex fucked around a lot. One of his friends with benefits fell in love with him, and he told her that after what happened between us he couldn't commit to anybody and he still loved me. The girl started giving me a really hard time. Stalking me, calling me a whore on social media, etc.

I explained it to my bf because I was going through a pretty shit time and I wanted my bf's support, I don't give a shit about my ex.

Ths is some really poor bait.

Honestly if I was dating a girl and I found out she fucked/dated a huge manwhore I would probably be too uncomfortable to stay with her. Seems like you'd have to have pretty low self worth to date someone like that. I'm just some random guy though.

When you're not around they all talk about how "massive" he is and how much they enjoyed riding his cock.

Yeah, sounds fun to be part of that group.

You didn't cut him off completely. There is still a channel (your social media) in which he can keep up with you and you obviously know exactly whats happening with him and exactly what he is saying, verbatim.

You, pulled your unsuspecting bf right into your fucking past with a "he's still in love with me" on top.

All you would have had to do is not reply to the bitch or block her but you wanted to know what was going on and she told you.

And user she's still in the guys orbit. She knows everything about him when she started fighting with the guys fwb. All she would have had to do at the start is block the fwb but she didn't and just had to respond and then the drama unfolded.

If she didn't give a shit the fwb would have got that message when there was no response.

I never had sex with him. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I wasn't aware that he was a manwhore.

He doesn't have any social media, I have just instagram page that I don't use. Unless he has a throwaway and follows me with it, I don't think he can keep up with me.

I contacted him after the drama happened because I went to the police and I needed him to come talk to them.
We never talked again since.

Stop projecting.

I didn't respond. I blocked her. She started calling my phone, coming under my house, mailing my friends and family.

Get rid of her or you will regret it years later as the disgust will never go away.

Chicks are always a little more emotionally attached to their first fuck

The question is was it one black guy or did she exclusively date black guys? If it’s the former your main problem is that she won’t stfu about her ex, if it’s the latter she’s coalburning trash and you should nut all over her face, record it on your phone and dump her

Not really, it’s important to keep your bitches in line, faggot. If a chick won’t be reasonable, you leave. It’s Pavlovian training for all of society

>tfw don't like beastiality
>somehow that's bad
There's nothing wrong with dumping a chick for things of this sort.

No. Get out of there immediately. Burn the coal pay the toll

Agreed, that's doing her a huge favor so she can find someone better

cope

>Am I overreacting?

No.

>He left her
>He fucked her friends
>She obviously still has feelings for him
>Didn't even tell you when you started dating
You are a rebound, run away, at least you get to keep your dignity instead of walking in a black dick piercing through her sphincter and she gets to be the one being dumped twice

I thought about it. Yes, it's normal to think it's disgusting. Wouldn't say a deal breaker depending how you feel bout her, but disgusting nonetheless.

2 year rebound?

Sounds like you're mostly just worried your little needle dick won't make her cum

Black ex = untouchable

Bestiality! XD!

Focus on your class high schooler.

>Gf has a black ex
stopped reading right there

case closed

Honestly I wouldn't give a fuck about the fact that the ex was black, just that he was bigger than me.

I guess it seems insecure but if I'm not a girl's best and biggest and kinkiest sexual partner then I don't stay with her.

I would just find an unrelated reason to break up with her if I were you.

Set her up for a romantic dinner with a violin player and all eyes on her, then lay it out and call her a disgusting whore and walk away.

Then kick the shit out of the nigger for fraternizing with white girls. In case you're wondering, this is an honest reply. I actually advise you do this. Strongly.

remember, user
once you go black, we dont want you back

Get therapy. I actually advise you to do this.

Race-mixing should be admonished desu. The only way to change society for the better is through action.

Sadly for you beating up people is admonished so I strongly advise you to get therapy.

Should be a capital offense. Coalburners are the absolute lowest of the low.

Every girl I've ever dated that had anything to do with niggers always ended badly.

Ok with negro fucking his girl and but bothered by superior negro penis. You have a future in cuck porn.

>Stop race mixing White women!
>Date me because am White and is always right

No, that's not how it works. And you're crying about race-mixing when you're a male who can breed multiple woman and more males date outside of their race then females do? Haha.

They get hung up over Asian men dating their women too and act like Black bulls in reverse.

>our race is getting shitted up but at least we can shit up other races
Retarded.

She fucked a nigger OP, just dump her.

Blacks are only near 13% percent of the U.S. population, Tyrones are nearly 20% of that. White women tend to date inside their race. White men and their features are the most desired out of all the races and are more likely to date outside their race. Stop watching Hollywood movies and pornos for one second and consider how the game works in real life.

My gf has a white ex, should I be worried to?!

I never said anything to the opposite effect. Racemixing is still degenerate, no matter the form.

I was totally fine with my ex having had a 'black ex' until I found out it was a one night stand and he was fresh out of Africa so he could barely speak our language. Did I overreact by almost breaking up with her?