I got a gf who I've been dating for 8 months now. She's a really nice girl, always supportive and tries to make me a better person, a nursing student and is a virgin, which is surprising in this day and age. She doesn't drink, doesn't party. I didn't expect her to be a virgin, nor did I want one in the first place, but here I am. We fool around but I am getting blue balled all the time, since she does not put out and her oral skills are pretty bad. I can always get her off by eating her out or fingering her (as much as I can given her hymen is intact), but I never cum and she can't give head to save her life. Won't go on any contraception either, even after I asked if she could.
At the same time, there's a girl at the MMA gym I go to who wants to fuck. She's really flirty with me and sexualizes the conversations we have. At work, one of my coworkers is throwing a house party this weekend, and while I was talking to her, I let that slip when she asked me what I was doing this weekend. She said that she would be down to go if I could invite her. Coworker told everyone that they could bring other people if they wanted to.
I really want to fuck her and keep it a physical relationship only, but I also really don't want to cheat on my gf. I'm tired of porn. I wouldn't even think of cheating on her if I was getting sex, but I'm not.
>We fool around >she does not put out Delusional catholic detected. Fuck her, it won't make any difference and she won't be any more of a whore than she already is.
Leo Taylor
You will regret this I feel. Be patient with your gf and teach her to please you
Jordan Cox
She's actually a christfag. Gets sorta mad when I criticize Christianity. Usually after reading the news when some pastor or evangelical moron is diddling kids or being a hypocrite.
Logan Ramirez
Knew it. As I said, she can get fucked both figuratively and literally, I hate deluded whores like her more than bar sluts. At least the bar sluts are honest.
Justin Bell
Haha I reported you at Jow Forums LMAO this threads belong here
Adrian Price
What's your reasoning behind this?
Tyler Smith
>Christfag Holy shit break up with her and fuck the mma girl ASAP
Landon Long
It's very simple. Both are degenerates that have no place in society, but one is firmly convinced that it is behaving in a good and moral fashion. Which is harder to weed out or avoid? The open degenerates, or the delusional ones who insist they're "pure"?
And from this, the level of force necessary to correct the problem is taken to be much higher for the closet whore. Bar sluts get the bullet, closet whores should be flayed in public and covered in salt.
Xavier Rivera
>Bar sluts get the bullet, closet whores should be flayed in public and covered in salt.
Would you PLEASE finally report to a Menatl insitution for treatmen before you actualy hurt anybody? As long as you don't leave your moms Basement everything is coo, but ehwn you do - the last thing this planet needs is yet another knife-wielding psychopath in its back alleys. Although you honsetly seem like thy type to just pick up junkie hookers in his unwashed truck since you're probably to scared to be a proper urban predator.
Jack Gutierrez
So you're supposed to marry this girl without ever having sex? Dude that can't last. Break it off now. What happens if you get married then hate having sex with her because she's a dead fish?
Joseph Robinson
Its kind of scary to think that the bad guys from A Handmaid's Tale exist in real life.
Blake Morris
>she does not put out >Won't go on any contraception either, even after I asked if she could.
Stop asking for her approval and just go for it,faggot. Have a date out doing something and then move on to attempting to sex her. If she refuses your benis in her nagina after a wordless (as in don't be nancy boy and announce what you're doing. She has eyes) attempt or two tell her you need to break up. She's failing you as a girlfriend for not allowing you control and you're failing her as a boyfriend for not having the control.
Yeah. But then again, they're easily recognizable. Dead eyes, weird mannerisms, lack of personal hygiene and all that . I bet my life on that you can recognize this creep from 500m away. I mean it is telling that he apparently has 24/7 to post on here....
Elijah Cox
Hitler unironically has better advice than 40% of the replies here
Connor Miller
>KILL ALL ROASTIES REEEEEE >KILL ALL CHADS REEE >Better advice than everyone
That's okay. But please do play Pumped up Kicks when you go on your shooting spree for style points.
Landon Sanchez
>she does not put out and her oral skills are pretty bad Then you teach her, you idiot.
Grayson Murphy
>40% >everyone Cool
Anyways OP if she doesn't want to have sex before marriage and you aren't willing to wait, then break up. Easy
John Nguyen
Seeing as how 75% of the posts are troll posts any constructive advice he gives is purely incidental. Even a broken clock is right twice a day, isn't that how the saying goes? His sincerity does not count for integrity. The bottom line is that wishing death and torture onto people simply based on the fact that you disagree with their sex lives makes you a morally repugnant hunk of shit that deserves to be put on a trash barge and pushed out to sea. There is no way around that fact. Society has no place for people who believe that their moral ideologies are so pure that they are justified in using violence to impose them onto others.
Jose Butler
You know there's like, 8 of us regulars on this board
Alexander Rodriguez
Not that I was party to this discussion before this post but doesn't you wishing those who hold the specific opinion you explained in your post, "deserves to be put on a trash barge and pushed out to sea." Make you just as bad as whom you are speaking of?
Personally I think no one deserves to be hurt for thinking anything, including you. We should come together and find a common ground. Or you guys should independently seek medical attention for your violent delusions.
William Parker
You can give her a lesson in biblical greek and explain she's already doing the moral equivalent of fucking you according to the bible so she may as well start actually fucking you.
Whats your point? Why do you care so much about some strange, inhuman, cultist ideology?
Luis Cox
>Not that I was party to this discussion before this post but doesn't you wishing those who hold the specific opinion you explained in your post, "deserves to be put on a trash barge and pushed out to sea." Make you just as bad as whom you are speaking of? Absolutely not. Tolerating intolerance is a paradox. Notice I also just used a sarcastic metaphor for separating him from the rest of society, not condoning his public execution. They aren't anywhere near "just as bad". Also, even if I had wished violence upon him (which I didn't), using violence to protect innocent people and using violence to hurt innocent people are not morally equivalent. Two people who utilize violent aren't "just as bad" as each other when one person uses it to protect innocent people and the other person uses it for fear and torture. That is a literal child's interpretation of morality, user.
>Or you guys should independently seek medical attention for your violent delusions. You need to work on your reading comprehension and false equivalence issues.
Jose Butler
>does not offer pussy >gives head instead
I never understood why chicks do this. Are they retarded or something? Giving head should be a fuckload more intimate and reserved than genitals, so what the fuck?
YOUR HEAD IS WHERE YOUR BRAIN LIVES. What the actual fuck.
>. Won't go on any contraception either, even after I asked if she could. Condoms were invented, you know?
Logan Torres
>I never understood why chicks do this Nice to know you understand nothing about your own culture.
Ian Hall
Used to be a christfag myself but I gave up on that shit growing up.
Never been with an actual religiousfag because I know it woudn't work out. So I don't understand their reasoning
>someone fucks your pussy, jesus cries >someone fucks your mouth or butt, it's all good >you will still go to heaven, since your vagoo had a hymen until being married
Can someone please explain to me the logic here?
Colton Howard
I didn't even read his post but the restraints of society are enough to keep him from hurting anybody. It's doubtful the 'beta revolution,' would be fruitful. So matter of fact you wouldn't be protecting anybody from anything by sarcastically placing this individual on a barge out to sea.
Keep in mind I am condeming both of you retards. But you don't have the excuse of being ostracized and not getting pucci.
Kayden Wright
A christfag who sucks dick, but won't do sex. Yeah nah it's time to go. You're not a couple if you aren't fucking.
Austin Bailey
ditch her m8. Jesus cums first for her. Christians are a waste of time unless you want to marry one, have children, and have a loyal God fearing wife. They still won't put out though. Unless you want more little Timmys.
Michael Carter
You need to establish firm boundaries of physical and romantic contact, otherwise you're going to keep pushing and subsequently get blueballed.
If you can't honor her wishes, don't be with her. Don't expect her to trust you again when you try to come back to her though user.
Juan Edwards
Stay mad, degenerate. >implying Let me guess, I remind you of Voldemort too? I only shitpost 20% of the time, max, and it's obvious when I do. I'm not "trolling" when I post something that gets your underwear in a bunch. I've explained my views on fornication previously, and it isn't as cut and dry as I posted above--a better phrasing would be "I wouldn't care if..." rather than straight-up execution, which is impractical and overkill. Put another way, would you care if I got shanked by a minority? Probably not, you'd laugh if anything. Same thing. Adulterers absolutely should be killed, however. Also >Society has no place for people who believe that their moral ideologies are so pure that they are justified in using violence to impose them onto others. First of all, morality isn't an "ideology". But more importantly, this is quite literally how any society, any state, works--it is using the implicit threat of coercive force to ensure certain rules are followed. You're utterly retarded if you think otherwise. >whores >"innocent" Appeals to morality don't work when you don't have morals. In any case, I don't expect you to be able to distinguish literary effect from actual belief, that kind of nuance would be beyond one who thinks insulting the messenger negates the message.
Bentley Jenkins
Tripfags were a mistake.
Owen Miller
Democracy was a mistake.
Christian Fisher
The theory, or the application?
Ian Garcia
Both, although the application is even worse.
Thomas Adams
>I didn't even read his post So you're calling me a retard for my response to a post that you didn't even bother to read? Excellent. You seem like a real intellectual.
Ryder Allen
I filtered that sack of shit like 6 months ago. All of his posts just show up as grey blurs. Its really the only way to browse Jow Forums.
Charles Robinson
I'm literally Hitler. You mad, faggot?
Lincoln Williams
If an autist falls in the woods and no one is there to see his trips does he make a REEEEEE?
>falls in the woods >implying I leave the basement
Adrian Nguyen
This. Don’t break her heart if she’s willing to try and learn
Andrew Campbell
>christfag I'm not an elitist person when it comes to religion, I used to feel superior before because I don't believe in God but now I've come to realise that people just have dofferent spiritual needs, so being friends with them is nothing.
But dating? ohohoh, user, being religious represents a fundamental flaw in her character, you can talk with a hivemind, but you can't live with a hivemind. Run.
Camden Flores
>tfw 80% of people in my country are declared christfags I deal with religious bitches all the time. They are either looking for husband to start a big family (3 kids minimum and obviously no sex until marriage) or they're dumb bitches whose actions contradict their supposed beliefs (kinda like OP's gf)
OP, use your words. Tell your girl what you need, and work it out. Don't say >I'm fucking horny all the time and you're blueballing me Say >I need a more physical relationship with you, I care about you very much, but this isn't something I can live without
If she's willing to work on it, to compromise, to give you what you want, then get it. If she's not, then tell her it's over, you can just be friends, but you're moving on.
Jace Stewart
Just fuck the other girl and get it out of your system. If you GF isn't giving you sex then you deserve it from somewhere else.
Owen Flores
Sex, sex, sex, sex, is what your OP is about, what you do or don't do with the girl you say you like and the gym girl. It makes no rational sense to even be with your gf at this point in your life. Not fair to her. You want a live sex doll and she refuses to be one.
Wyatt Barnes
No sodomy is a sin. No buttsex i'm positive. I think that oral sex is also considered lustful somewhere written. So it's all a sin they're just morons and don't know their own religion.
Kevin Brooks
> i-it's not fair to her! Why should someone break up just because their partner is getting an unfair deal? If you're getting a good deal out of it you should stick around as long as possible. inb4 "morals", as if women don't do the same shit.
Ian Foster
I think you miss my point. This is not a moral issue, good or bad or even a male or female issue but about sex and being young.
OP wants sex, perfectly normal for him, but he picked the wrong female. Thats all.
William Williams
Why does it make sense for him to not be with his gf? He doesn't want to date the gym girl, just fuck her. If he wants a gf he should stay with his gf, and try to fuck the gym girl too.
Adrian Moore
*why does it not make sense for him to be with his gf
Jordan Adams
Do not cheat on her, you'll regret it
Hunter Hernandez
>Society has no place for people who believe that their moral ideologies are so pure that they are justified in using violence to impose them onto others. Imagine being this ignorant Literally open any history book, random page
Eli Adams
I'm wondering how the fact that humans have royally fucked up in the past is somehow justification for continuing to do so? I'm aware of history. Without history we wouldn't have context to understand how dangerous it is to allow someone like that to gain influence. I'm seriously sitting here trying to understand how you managed to come down on the wrong side of the "is it okay to skin and torture someone in public because they had some sex I don't like" argument
I guess regular sex can be worse because there's the chance of pregnancy. It's bad either way but in the end it's still more responsible to have oral or anal sex. At least you are not bringing another life into this world because of your lust.
Jonathan Moore
Sauce
Connor Wright
you said "society has no place," not "society shouldn't have a place."
Levi Ross
You are either trolling or stupid. I have fucked many girls from Poland. They are all sluts. Nobody there believes in keeping their virginity until marriage.
Jeremiah Sanders
doesn't mean you can't/won't bang the gym chick either. at my gym there are mma girls who do the similar. and the fact they care more about their health and have overcome certain things is that much more of a turn on. but you've got a relationship with another girl going right now. you already made potential plans with the gym chick; it is the intent behind your actions which needs to be considered. you are like, borderline cheating right now. you want to keep that gym chick around in your life outside of the gym, because you need to hold onto another path you want to walk on- because you have that ability. what i would do is keep it platonic at most, maybe roll with her more on the mat. but if you make it so it is acceptable you both can be intimate in any way- that's a whole nother story. but cheating is whatever you decide it is i suppose. bottom line though your gf needs to put out. if she doesn't/wouldn't like the idea of you hanging with another girl, don't mention it or don't do it. if she is okay with that, that's a green light which you can either go through or turn away from.
David Bailey
don´t do it you are gonna regret it
James Martinez
>used to feel superior yet in the very same post you put yourself above Christians
>Fundamental flaw in her character guess just about everyone pre modern era had a "fundamental flaw" in their character. Thanks for the insight fag
Jonathan Johnson
faggot detected I bet you think I'm """uneducated""", too.
Angel Sanchez
> I think that oral sex is also considered lustful somewhere written. Well its not in the bible, check your torah and tell us if its in there. > So it's all a sin they're just morons and don't know their own religion You and the person you replied should stop pretending to be or know. Neither of you even brought up this is premarital then go on tangents about some things that are never mentioned. Atheists are garbage.
Gavin Hill
Dont cheat OP it might sound worth it be you might regret it. Well depends on how far you want to be with your gf. Think about how would your gf think about this? Would you want her to cheat on you if she did the same thing you're about to do? See it in her perspective too OP. Good Luck
Hey OP. Just marry her through the church. Not through the law. I married a Christian girl like this, she is an absolute angel. Married 10 years. The Christian hate is bizarre. There are people who truely are trying to better themselves and give back to humanity. I respect her and love her even more for that. There are also bad christians like there are bad anything or anyone. If you love her, just marry her. A Christian girl will make an amazing wife and will serve you with incredible love.
Jaxon Mitchell
You're seriously telling someone to get married to someone right after they have met?
