I have a 6 figure job, I got a house, I dress well, I can cook, I can dance and I'm not overweight.
I've tried Tinder, zero matches
I've tried Dating Sites, zero matches
I've been to two Speed Dating evening (like in House), zero matches.
I do not want to die a virgin, never been married, or never having raised kids.
Or is the meme true and the dating scene is only for Chads and Brads?
>Or is the meme true and the dating scene is only for Chads and Brads?
Uh, no. There are plenty of losers who have far less than you and get laid all the time and have gfs. How old are you and how far have you gotten with any woman?
Unfuck your ugly face i guess. Dont know what else the problem could be
What kind of standards do you have? I mean if you're looking just to fuck it's not hard at all given what you've told us.
Are you unattractive? How attractive do you expect your gf to be?
I'm 33 and a virgin.
Tinder, no matches, so no messaging
Dating site, no matches, so no messaging
Speed dating, I spoke to women and have lovely coversation, I did not get a single "you can call me" cards.
She needs to have UNI diploma
She needs to be smart, witty
She needs to be willing to start a family
I think you do not understand. On those speed dating nights. The men do not get to choose. Only the women get to say "you can call me" with those "there's a match" cards.
What about looks though?
I'm In OP's case I was implying he could pick up some bar trash if he just wanted to get his dick wet. That's not hard if you're scrapping the bottom of the barrel.
Nice humblebrag, faggot.
You're ugly and/or uninteresting
>I do not want to die a virgin
>virgin
That literally negates anything OP said that you might think is good.
I prefer a girl with a natural look and cuteness.
I don't drink, and I've never ever been to bar in my life. I've never gone out, partied or socialised. Been to busy with education or my career.
BRB gonna take a shower, it has been a warm day her and I'm a sweaty and sticky.
>Wealthy
>House
>Car
>Fit
>Skilled
Gosh what a terrible life op lives.
>I've never gone out, partied or socialised. Been to busy with education or my career.
Yep, you're definitely boring
I've got all those things too plus I've gotten laid by more than a dozen girls. How does that make you feel? Seriously though, instead of being bitter and jealous why don't you do something about your life? I worked hard for all of this you faggot. You should try it.
I'm back from the shower. OP here
Are you attacking me or that other dude?
The other dude seems to be jealous of your "terrible life" because you have things most people who aren't complete losers have...
Anyway, this might be a winner You need to get out more and socialize. You probably failed at speed dating because you're not interesting and/or can't socialize.
Going out and partying is something you do in your teen and early 20s.
I want to settle down to a boring life, start a family and start raising kids.
Plus, the older I get results in the quality of my sperm getting worse. With increased chances of producing offspring with genetic or psychological defects.
35 is the cut off point for me.
>Or is the meme true and the dating scene is only for Chads and Brads?
If you are as intelligent as you portray yourself to be then let me pose you a question; what is more likely, that the "dating scene" is this homogenized organization of specific, unspoken standards that specifically discriminates against you or that you, personally, are somehow driving people away. What is the common denominator in this problem of yours, OP? Is it "Chads" or women? Or is it you? If I crash a car every time I drive one is it because the entire automobile industry only makes cars that discriminate against me or do I just suck at driving? Think about it.
Going out doesn't mean you have to party man. Adults go out all the time and have a good time even without drinking. So if you're not into going to a jazz lounge or something at night then go find some outdoor activity. Either way you're going to have to venture out. She's not just going to fall into your lap while you stay at home shuttered up.
I get your point and I've resided to remaining a recluse.
Then I'm doomed and I give up. Thanks gents and ladies for the chat
/thread
>I get your point and I've resided to remaining a recluse.
Oh ok. Take it easy bro.
>Or is the meme true and the dating scene is only for Chads and Brads?
No tit's not. But you do need to have an actual persoanlity beyond "making six figures" and "having a house" I know that you a re most likely an Americuck, and I konw that your coporations love telling you that the same things that please them also please women.
But do know that women literlly don't give a shit. They do care about emotionally and sexually connecting with you however. Do youhave any friends? Social skills? Life outside of work (playing squash with business partners doesnät count)
Charisma? Can you tell a joke, lead a deep conversation, get phyiscally close and make out with a girl? If you can't do these, your six figures won't amount to jack shit unless you're into extremely expensive escort girls (trophy wives, gold diggers)
Do you have a lot of friends?
Oh geez user...I...you...you've broken me. Please leave me alone! Waaaaahhh!!
In actuality you can kill yourself, please. Thank you. You don't impress me at all.
I'm an unemployed attorney that lives with his parents and am obese. I have no money and massive debt. Tried Tinder: Dozens of matches, have had a good handful of dates.
You're doing something very, very wrong if you aren't getting matches.
>I want to settle down to a boring life, start a family and start raising kids.
Hi from an old, boring man raising two kids with his wife of many years!
For most people who aren't totally antisocial/autistic (do you have/have you ever had friends?), some socializing and interaction with the outside world is absolutely essential to surviving a so-called "boring" life at home with kids.
My wife and I devote most of our energies to our family (two small sons, a home we own). But we go out of our way to go out sometimes, and do things, and have fun (date nights [in our case, typically dinner and either a movie, a live show, or sometimes karaoke--we are kind of lame, but it is awesome for us] travel both with and without kids, hobbies, friends who don't live in our house).
This life would be hard to tolerate otherwise, magical and important though it is.
So you're probably out of luck if you're looking for someone who's ready to give up on socializing as soon as she meets you--you need to show someone else a good time before your promise of security and well-supported boring is worth a damn.
If you're no good at anything social/outgoing, develop a hobby that at least a few women like (no robotics/tinkering--my single, amateur engineer older brother has a very hard time meeting chicks at his robotics club or welding classes).
>To paraphrase others above, you have to get out and socialize and attempt to have fun. Everyone else expects that alongside family/security, and most of us exert great effort to keep the fun going as life goes on.
Just out of curiosity - what's the point of reaning all that money then? If all you want to do is stay locked up in a house and never leave it, minimum wage is more than enough.
Is it just the satisfaction of taking money others could put to good use by living a live and/or raising a family that drives you or what is it?
OP here, I killed the thead with
> /thread
No I'm not American.
No I do not have friends.
No I do not have social skills
No I do not have a life outside work
No I do not have charisma
No I do not have a sense of humour
No I do not talk much
No I have never gotten physical with a women
No I have never kissed a girl
Okay. So you want to be a recluse, yet get what you want.
Tell me, did you get your money and success by pouting about how you don't want to work or go out of your way for it?
I do not have friend, never had any
I do not socialise
I do not have hobbies or passions
All I do, is work hard and make sure that my pension pot is sufficient when I retire.
All I do, is work hard and make sure that my pension pot is sufficient when I retire.
While I have no doubt that you will have a very stable and wealthy life...it's so sad.
You are comparing apples and oranges.
I had not choice. My parents forced me to study, my parents foced me to achieve for a good career.
My parents taught me that relationships, loves, socialising and having fun was a waste of time and are persuits that do not generate income.
No! My parents and I are not Asian.
>All I do, is work hard and make sure that my pension pot is sufficient when I retire.
And WHATS THE FUCKING POINT THEN
From a purely economical standpoint, offing yourself would be the best course of action. Seriously - why do you do this if you don't intend to live for even a second?
The unemployed dude with a shitton of debt is enviable in comparison to you.
Debt is a form a shame and failure in the eyes of my parents.
>I had not choice.
Yes you do. You have a chioce right now. In fact, you have every choice in the world avaiable to you right now with the money you make. You do have a coice to fuck that shit, make acomfy savings account, switch to some relaxed job without even compromising your wealth. Finding friend, and girls.
It's all up to you. You parents have jack shit to say about how you live your life now.
The sort of cash you have in your account gives you a freedom may would wish for. Use it.
Not being the best of the best.
Not achieving the highest possible
Is seen a great shame and failure by my parents.
Everyone in my family is either a doctor or laywer
Everyone has a PHD.
I'm the youngest, so the presure to preform is immense.
Oh, and another thing - you seem like one of those people who had the will of another imposed to such a degree they no longer can differentiate it from their own. A literal Zombie if you will.
Some counceling can go along way with that. It gets glossed over a lot , but finding out what YOU really want very often fixes most problems you have.
/thread
>I'm the youngest, so the presure to preform is immense
I'm honestly considering whether you're Mememing about the "Asian Father" thingie.
If you're not - what pressure? You have your own home, your parents can't kick you out any longer. Why not live your own life instead of being aslave to someone else's Ideas?
You are operating under faulty preconceptions; and methodologies.
Read this book; it has the answers you seek.
I am fully serious.
Are we really trying to comfort some richboy user who's done nothing but work for his rich parents approval? Fuck you, op. Count your blessings and shut the fuck up. You want a pat on the back for working hard? Here, there you go. Now fuck off.
>Count your blessings and shut the fuck up.
Not OP, but what blessings exactly? Throwing away your entire life to please your parents?
I may be broke and still in Uni, but I count *my* blessings when I read about OPs life.
I don't think you understand just how much of a blessing it is to come from a wealthy family. It's ok.
Try doing something you actually enjoy. Video games, martial arts, traveling are a few good examples. You seem to dedicate your life to social expectations instead of fallowing what you enjoy.
The one point in common in all your disappointing relationships is you.