Anons, how do I cure my paraphillic desires? They are fucking tearing me apart. There isn't a day where the thought doesn't cross my mind and it's making me extremely depressed and dysfunctional.
Anons, how do I cure my paraphillic desires? They are fucking tearing me apart...
Ethan Campbell
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Dylan Johnson
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Luke Parker
Para...philic?
So you like disabled people?
I don't know. It's kind of weird to just like people because they're disabled. That said, it does kind of become who the person is in a sense. Hmm.
Chase Sullivan
Just make it into a "lifestyle" like the gays did OP. If you cry long enough you'll change the journals to fit your definition.
Nicholas Martinez
Make a tinder for meeting disabled people idk dude
Anthony Jackson
Is this what it means? If so, why don't you just try to date disabled girls? There's always a few at colleges and churches and they have a hard time getting dates so it doesn't seem hard. Don't really see the issue.
Xavier Carter
Paraphillic doesn't mean disabled girls you retards. It means an unusual sexual interest that results in impairment or significant distress to the person. In my case, I have an obsession with breasts and the idea of fondling a motherly woman's breasts until I fall asleep, because that's what I used to do with my own mom when I was a kid. When we slept together she'd use to let me play with her breasts and she'd never said anything. It is heavily imprinted in my mind.
Gabriel Hughes
So basically you have a kink and lack any form of self control?
Sebastian Ward
"Paraphilia" is basically just scientific jargon for "fetish." Voyeurism, scatophilia, podophilia, even chronophilias like paedophilia and gerontophilia are all paraphilias.
Nathan Price
>So basically you have a kink and lack any form of self control?
No, it means that I legit have what many psychiatrists would consider child abuse and because of this I want to relieve my fantasy and regain memories of my childhood all the time. It has come to a point where my ONLY requirement for having a gf would be for her to roleplay as my mother unironically, and this drastically reduces the pool of available women. I sincerely don't have ANY attraction for any woman at all that doesn't resemble my mother or who isn't willing to roleplay as her, effectively making me a voluntary celibate until the day I either find a gf willing to do that, or fuck a fetish escort.
Yeah, more or less like that. Having a paraphillia, according to the DSM V, doesn't necessarsily mean you are sick in the head, but if it causes "significant distress or impairment", like in my case (I brood over this constantly, all day, everyday) then it's a paraphillic disorder, and it's fucking hell.
Zachary Ward
>Mommy let my touch her boobies so I was abused as a child
Okay? Not trying to downplay your mental condition or anything, but have you considered that you may be aggregating this entire situation yourself by refusing to simply allowing yourself to come to terms with it?
You're not some kind of freak, user.
Ayden Rodriguez
>>Mommy let my touch her boobies so I was abused as a child
That went on until I was 13. Her nipples would often get hard so she was obviously getting some sexual gratification out of it since she wasn't getting any action from my dad. Even when I was going through puberty she enjoyed me fondling her tits, the only reason why I stopped it was because I realized how reminiscent of incestual sexual desire that was and decided to put an end to it, but if it were not from my own action, I'd have kept playing with her tits until now and she'd have said nothing. Because the only sexual gratification (and emotional too) was from me, and because of that I have also grown to become extremely attached to my mother, even as an adult.
Mason Fisher
People with mental conditions do not "let" it overtake them, or dissipate, out of sheer will. If he was able to overcome it, he would've done so by now.
Cooper White
Would seeing a therapist help me get rid of this or is this permanent?
I really really really really want to have sex with a motherly woman. I even fantasize, almost daily, of falling in love with my "mother". It brings great sorrow when the fantasy ends and I see it isn't real.
James Peterson
>Would seeing a therapist help me get rid of this or is this permanent?
It could be permanent, but only in a virtual sense, not a literal one. Therapy would at least reduce to a considerable degree.
>I really really really really want to have sex with a motherly woman.
Mommy g/f's are a thing. Or getting together with one of those girls who are just generally cuddly and affectionate (I have a fuck buddy who's like that).
William Jackson
>Or getting together with one of those girls who are just generally cuddly and affectionate (I have a fuck buddy who's like that).
How can you have a fuck buddy who is cuddly and affectionate? If she's a fuck buddy then it means that she isn't into being affectionate as not to develop feelings, and just wants to fuck. I think you are LARPing user.
Daniel Watson
And by "journals" we mean none of the scientific, peer-reviewed ones, and only soft-science bullshit like social psychology, that has sub-40% reproducibility in its "research", and consumer news-media.
Thomas Gomez
a). Sexual activity with another person releases chemicals and hormones that you affectionate and fond of the other person.
b). Fuck buddies, or friends with benefits, means sexual activity with another person without the romantic commitment relationships often require. That says nothing about how one will feel about the other, nor about attachments. And post-sex in general makes you a more affectionate and flirtatious person.
c). She's just generally an affection person who likes to cuddle with people. Even those whom she's not sexual with. I've had cuddle buddies like her before.
d). Go fuck yourself with a rusted turnpike, you virginal git.
Connor Garcia
Seems like a really bad idea. You say it doesn't need all the romantic bullshit, but who knows how you really feel towards her. These sorts of things are fun at the beginning but never work out. Be careful user and godspeed.
Matthew Collins
Do you have any confirmation of this whole "I was her only source of sexual gratification" theory from her, or is this something you concocted entirely on your own?
Like, women can have orgasms when they are being raped. That doesn't mean they actually enjoyed it. It's possible for men to cum from prostate stimulation, even during rape. That doesn't mean they like it. Nipples get hard when they are touched. Nipples get hard when you're cold, scared, or agitated. Children's nipples can get hard when they are being tickled.
Unless your mother expressly and explicitly stated to you that she received some kind of sexual gratification from the act, you may just be imprinting something onto the situation that wasn't happening.
Jack Nelson
We've been doing this kind of thing on-and-off for several years, and it's still always been a just-friends thing. She's one of the rare breeds I've met who can handle it, though.
Michael Cruz
I bet she's fat, ugly and has an awful personality, otherwise she'd get a real man to take care of her.
William Gray
>Her nipples would often get hard so she was obviously getting some sexual gratification out of it
Nipples get hard when they are interacted with. It is not overtly sexual. You are ruining your own mind. Get some hobbies and discipline.
Landon Kelly
Short, petite, Russian cutie (kind of looks like Rachel Leigh Cook from that "this is your brain on drugs" PSA). Though her openness, and her aggression, with her sexuality has scared people away.
Jaxon Reed
I don't fucking give a shit if you don't post pics, otherwise there's no fucking way to know if you're telling the truth or just bullshitting me.
Jordan Flores
Some people, even women, are fast-and-loose like that with their sex lives, user.
Xavier Peterson
These women end up becoming fat and depressed once they hit the wall at 30s. Fucking promiscuous one end up being the unhappiest of the fucking bunch.
Jason Collins
It's not such a big deal OP. Don't overthink it. If you find yourself attracted to some milktruck mommy milf then go for it. It doesn't matter where your kinks come from, what matters is dealing with them in a mature way.
Besides, a guy being obsessed with boobs isn't gonna be weird to any woman you ever meet. So as long as you don't talk about where it comes from, you'll find acceptance with 99% of women.
Andrew Ross
But I will inevitably want to call her mommy, it will happen, be it a through willingly doing it or by a freudian slip. It has to happen sometime, and I'm really scared that she will be freaked out.
Carson Long
It's really not that weird bro. If you're really worried about this, just ask the girl you're about to have sex with if it's okay to call her "mommy". Probably she'll just find it cute. So many girls like calling guys "daddy" and you don't see us complaining.
Camden Miller
Ok user. I will try.
Thanks
Gavin Howard
Go ask your mom to let you get your fix. Cook her dinner in return.
John Gutierrez
>Go ask your mom to let you get your fix
What fix? What are you talking about?
Alexander James
Your nipple fix. Shes stilll really into it.
Josiah King
I think I'm gonna ask her if there's still some milk left.
"Mommy give me milkies!"
Brayden Murphy
I'm the user who posted right before you; here's my response: don't call me a fucking retard. I have a VERY similar fetish to you and I understand. Why not just flit with women at bars (who fit your fetish) until you get a catch who is satisfactory to you? Older women often heavily drink to get over a recent death or divorce of their husband. Even if it's not just older women you can probably get women your own age with large, motherly breasts if you just approach women (of your type) constantly while (physically/intellectually) improving yourself constantly.
But honestly dude, go fuck yourself. You were intentionally vague, either out of trolling or out of an SJW mindset of "I'm mentally ill: please help me!!!". My first paragraph was out of genuine good will to give you good advice in the case that you accidentally thought your (honestly, common) fetish was a mental illness, but if it's not, I only have this advice: kill yourself for being such a narcissistic manipulator of the good intentions of others. You owe the people above me at least that for being a faggot who wasted their time.
Cooper Gutierrez
Dont even ask, just shake her hand with ine hand, and milk her tits with the other.
Jordan Price
> My first paragraph was out of genuine good will to give you good advice in the case that you accidentally thought your (honestly, common) fetish was a mental illness
What the fuck are you talking about? You gave absolutely no real advice and didn't even bother to make an extremely simple googling of what paraphillia means.
> kill yourself for being such a narcissistic manipulator of the good intentions of others.
I wasn't being a manipulator you faggot, and the thread was made with a real fucking interest in knowing what is up with my current fetish and paraphillic interest. Holy fucking shit, why the fuck did you get all sorts of mad just because I said "retard" in a Jow Forums post? I thought that we were fucking used to this kind of thing and not fucking faggots wanting a "safe space" where we are all nice to each other. Fuck you.
- Sincerely and with love, user
Eli Flores
Wait... if girls yell out "daddy!" all the time during sex and no one bats an eye, then why is it weird for a guy to say "mommy?"
Henry Ramirez
Yeah, it really is a fucking double standard. But there might be some reason to it. It's because women all of their fucking lives are subordinate in a way to their fathers, and by their own nature they never become fully independent (see Bill Burr's quote on women, that they are but adult children, or Schopenhauer's view on the mentality of women, that they mature earlier but not as much as a man on the long-term). So women, in a sense, remain children all of their lives, while men mature and are very much expected to grow out of their dependence from their mothers, to become "real men" and a man-of-house, who are able to take care and provide for others (namely his wife and children), so a man that is a "momma's boy" is seen as childish and immature whilst a "Daddy's Girl" is much more in line with woman's nature.
Jose Garcia
Women remain children that should be "taken care of" all of their lives, while men, who are expected to be dominating, take care of their women, who in turn take care of their children. It's just the way of the World. A woman spends all of her years until adulthood as "Daddy's girl", while a teenage boy matures to independence even during his teenage years, and when the former becomes a proper adult, she finds either a boyfriend that "takes care of her", or a husband that provides for her, while the latter has to become independent and gather enough resources to provide for the former. In this way, every woman remains a "Daddy's girl" for the rest of her life (for women are but children in their mentality, and dependent on men, who may be seen or fetishized as "daddy).
It's just the fucking way of the World user.
Parker Rivera
Does it make somebody less of a woman if they don't have this mindset?
Ian Campbell
>Does it make somebody less of a woman if they don't have this mindset?
No, but unfortunately. It is in somewhat ingrained in their nature to want to be taken care of strong men. That is in turn in touch with their maternal nature, they WANT a man to provide resources and take care of her while she nurses and takes care of her children. It is a biological imperative.
Read on what Schopenhauer, the greatest philosopher of the 19th Century, has to say about it. It would also be very good, if you want to be knowledgeable of the (albeit very depressive) nature of female sexuality, to read the works of Randy Thornhill.
No matter what feminists bullshitters say, these girls ALWAYS want a dominating and strong guys to be "in charge", be in the bedroom or otherwise, reason why so many feminist girls are into the "Choke me daddy" thing.
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Hunter Wilson
I know it seems very depressing, and also a little misogynistic (in case you are a femanon, but I must be sincere and tell the truth) albeit it really is the way of the World and how male and feminine sexuality have evolved to become and differentiate.
If you wanna pick up more on this, you should read The Evolutionary Biology of Human Female Sexuality by Randy Thornhill.
Studies show that women get turned on by signs of manliness and dominance (such as a deep voice, strong muscles, height, status dominance, physical strength etc) and that wealth is really, really attractive to women (one need not look any further than literally EVERY single tale or story of love ever since the beginning of time, starting from the earliest accounts of love, to middle ages tales such as The Prince and the beggar-maid, to "modern" ones like the Little Mermaid, the Beauty and the Beast, to realist 19th century books as Anna Karenina, Madame Bovary, to 20th century such as the Great Gatsby, to post-feminist books such as Twilight or 50 Shades of Grey). It is ALWAYS in a woman's best interest and it has ALWAYS been a turn-on for them to be taken care of by a stronger and richer guy. The only exception I could ever make would be for either bisexual or lesbian women, who tend to have more "masculinized" brains during prenatal development, thus developing a more "dominant" view on sex and sexuality, but that's rather the exception rather than the rule.