My boyfriend (25) gives money to his sister (28) and mom and other family members a lot
Whenever something happens my bf takes care of it. He gave his sister his old car for free and when it had problems he gave her $700 for repairs. I got in a car accident and my car needed $500 that I’m picking up an extra job to pay for it. It really bothers me because
A) we have been trying to move in together for a long time . He says he doesn’t have enough money put aside. Yet he has paid for his moms rent for her house that he, his mom, and his 28 year old sister who has only worked minimum wage jobs and never moved out live in. His mom or sister has also stolen money from him (he literally questioned me of taking it which I never would) and his mom just takes hundreds from his room whenever she feels like it.
I’m honestly sick of it. I know we’re not married and don’t share finances, but we are trying to get a place together and I feel like his family shouldn’t be relying on him like that. It’s not like he has excessive money to be helping other people when we don’t even have our
Own place.
I told him it was nice helping his sister, but we’re trying to get a place together and I don’t think he should
Be handing out money. She can get another job ??? He said it’s his money and he can do what he want and yelled at me...
Is he wrong or am I ? I just like wanna have someone to be my partner and it’s not
Gonna work if he’s already supporting a family..