Is asociality a negative trait? Why?

Is asociality a negative trait? Why?

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Yes, because people are social animals.

Things are only good or bad once we think of them as such.

They don't have to be though.

I just hate the drama people tend to attempt to force on you.

Depends. Most careers are best advanced trough networking, so in that aspect it's negative. But it might not apply in your specific case

Most do in order to avoid depression

thats why you get a girlfriend

They do. Humans survived thanks to being social and able to create and sustain close-knit communities. We developed in a way that conditioned us to crave social stimuli. Not only because it balances us emotionally and allows intelectual and mental growth, but primarily because it allows us to fullfil our biological imperative. If you don't have this innate mechanism, or for some reason choose to suppress it, "normal", social people will likely judge you negatively, because it's in our nature to dislike abnormalities. Moreover, this dislike for asocial people is deeply rooted in human nature, as in the olden days it extremely asocial people were thought to be cunning, dangerous, unstable or even inhuman - so they posed a threat.

We arent hunter gatherers anymore

Yes.
Lack of opportunity through connections and networking. Useful for work and more mundane things like small favours or life guidance.
Greater risk of developing certain mental disorders.
Lack of access to activities that require more than one person.
Less opportunity to self express or develop sense of self through other people.

Some advantages:
More time dedicated to solitary activities.
Less exposure to toxic people or drama. Less exposure to social stress or embarrassment.
Less likely to make bad decisions due to social pressure.

People have more pressing personal matters to tend to than fixing why they subconsciously don't like asocial people.

most girls who will try to fuck you are actually not a good match, and depending on one person for your social needs is a.) foolish, and b.) not actually asocial.

is this the same poster? these replies show very little insight into life.

be asocial if you want, but please don’t be deluded about it.

No... but we still build communities within we live... And we still have sex drive forces us to socialise, not only with your sexual partner and your offspring, but with your parents, siblings, maybe grandparents. And then, this need to socialise is primary, innate. Like our fear from darkness.

no, i'm the second one. and that is me, OP. just because i said that doesn't mean i know little or too much about life.

hopefully youre really, really good with girls then, because in general id say being codependent on gfs is a bad idea

how is that codependent?

it’s dependent. I used the wrong word.

hypothetically, if you aren’t particularly attached to one girl and can jusy get another one, that’s not dependent, that’s being generaly shitty.

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They don't. I think you heavily misunderstand that we aren't talking completely asociality, because nobody can be that way unless they are locked up alone forever. You can get by having different situational social links. But on th surface, asociality isn't bad.

>on th surface, asociality isn't bad
Whatever helps you sleep at night

It does. Keep following that little script of yours sheepo.

Nigger being a complete fucking recluse and not talking to anyone is entirely unnatural. Sure we aren't hunter gatherers anymore but those base instincts are still there. No one is saying for you to party all the time but just being a hermit autist is not normal and disadvantageous from an evolutionary perspective

If you allow yourself to suffer over it. When you realize the freedom it grants you it's definitely great.

So is being a faggot but i dont chastise you

No becauz humans ar FUCKING SHIT and are nothing but a waste of time

>Yes, because people are social animals.
>animals

What if the same people you learned how to socialize from and with betrayed you?
What if you knew the games people play just to one up you?
Just to get to a step higher in the ladder?
To control you?

Weren't those social behaviors performed consciously? Were they looking out for you?

No, asocial is not negative. Because it was cause by a negative. And negative multiplied by a negative is positive.