So, I've been dating this boy for little over a year and we are really comfortable with each other sexually. We got to a point where we can confess to some of our weirder turn ons to each other, and we've been doing that, gradually... We don't agree on all of them but for a lot of them, one is willing to do it to make the other happy.
Well, the problem is that, most recently, my boyfriend asked me to do an 'ahegao face' while riding him. I thought I knew what that means and while it's a bit of a turn off when he uses japanese words in bed, I tried to put a more exaggerated expression of pleasure and moan in a more over-the-top way. It was still a good fuck but by the end, when we were talking, he said that wasn't quite what he wanted.
I was a bit confused so I asked him to clarify and eventually he pulled his phone and showed me what he meant. >pic related
Now, he mentioned dirtier things to me before, even more degrading things, and I told him I wouldn't do a few of them cause I wasn't okay with it. But for some reason, this one really bugs me. It's been a week, We haven't seem each other because of work all week and he went to a out of town wedding this weekend. But I'm somewhat dreading seeing him again. I can't even tell exactly what bothers me so much about this, but something about it is just revolting. And this comes from someone who's okay with piss-stuff (depending on circumstances).
So my question is...Should i just ask him not to bring it up again? Is the fact that this bothers me so much a red flag for the relationship? or the fact that he likes it?
And is this a common thing among men? At least the more geek/nerd types? Is this sexy? Really?
Strange fetish desu but there are plenty of stranger ones. Maybe it bothers you because that asian shit makes him seem immature. Note how you referred to him as a boy and not a man.
Wyatt Ross
well your friend is a doof for believing that making this face looks good in motion on a real person... it's the same effect as watching people pose for the camera. it looks good on the photo but seeing it in the moment its being taken is goofy as fuck
Anthony Evans
That face looks stupid in pictures too, though...I mean that look at those chicks. I don't think i ever a better chimera between trying too hard to get male nerds attention and daddy issues.
Liam Barnes
>roastie thinks making some dumb face is worse than getting pissed on
Honestly, I'd rather be pissed on than have sex with some manchild who expects real people to act like their chinese cartoons.
Jordan Young
>vaginas that don't look my sister's barbie's are scary sea monsters
kys
Mason Richardson
Lmao, asshurt roastie with a disgusting loose fanny spotted.
Samuel Stewart
>I'd rather be used as a toilet and deal with all the clean up that entails than make a fucking face for my partner
Brandon Walker
Its a little weird but its also harmless.
If you don't like doing it, just tell him such, you've already set precedent by refusing other shit you've shared with each other.
Elijah Gutierrez
>Honestly, I'd rather be pissed on than... No you wouldn’t. That’s messy and disgusting as fuck. Making a face is easy in comparison. Would you be ok if your partner had a fetish for taking a dump on your chest? I mean really, OP talks about being degraded but apparently being used as a toilet isn’t degrading.
If you can’t make a face then ask him for something else you can do.
Henry Wood
I don't know...If it's under a running shower and it's just piss, shouldn't that be a rather straight forward clean up?
But fecal stuff is gross.
Jace Cox
there is no way in hell a roast beef flapjaw pussy can compete with a coinslot innie. It's like comparing a microdick to a 9x7" niggerleg, you lost genetically
Jordan Jackson
ive done piss stuff, its not so bad. if theyre well hydrated its like 90% water. its incomparable to scat imo, that is degenerate and should not be entertained.
Kevin Torres
>And is this a common thing among men? Nope. Haven't heard this one before. I doubt there is even porn of this. >At least the more geek/nerd types? Nerds don't get laid, so we don't really have a sexual culture. >Is this sexy? Really? Not to me, but let me offer some perspective: Sharing all these things is a way of testing each other. You are at a stage where you have done the things you might expect from a couple and there is no were to progress from here (except keep it up for years until you are both too old). So now you are finding what your limits are and that is really fun. I used to enjoy that much more than the sex itself because I got to control someone into whatever I wanted. If that is the case, setting boundaries is a good thing. You must be able to discuss ideas freely without judgement or else you can't trust him to bring anything to you. Shutting certain things down while other things pass is a healthy thing to do. Doing something you aren't both willing to do is not healthy.
Blake Sanchez
All this people who are super grossed out by piss...I bet half of them like 'squirting' and don't even know it's the exact same thing.
Logan Cox
>bottom left MUH
Ian Wood
>be a disgusting whore who literally gets pissed on by men >defend it
Lmao, women are fucking disgusting.
Michael Bailey
Your incel is showing
Hunter Scott
I've pissed on chicks before. My ex used to let me see on her tits and in her mouth. I just drank a lot of water until it came out clear, that way it doesn't stink or taste bad. It's not a big deal really, it's fun and really hot in a degrading and naughty way.
That being said, I would never, ever ask a girl to make a stupid face like this during sex. That looks absolutely goofy as fuck. I'm laughing just thinking about this.
Just tell him that you think that's lame and not to bring it up again, but try not to judge him too harshly I guess. We all have our kinks. I'm sure I'll get called degenerate for peeing on chicks so whatever. To each their own.
Noah Peterson
You should just ask him how his dick would feel if you asked him to make extremely particular silly faces during sex rather than letting things flow. Sounds like this is ultimately just a fetish that requires someone step back in sex and start very deliberately and unnaturally acting rather than simply being and letting the faces, sounds, and actions come to you.
