Im a 19 years old virgin feeling worse and worse every day. Most of my weeb friends have gfs for years already...

Im a 19 years old virgin feeling worse and worse every day. Most of my weeb friends have gfs for years already. I just feel like i should give up on living because i cant find a partner. I cant describe how fucking awful Im feeling.

Its gotten to tge point that I cant watch anime because im jealous of all the guys exoeriencing their lovey dovey youth while im here rotting away in my computer chair.

And I know i can just pay some whore or find a golddigger but thats not how I want it to be.I also understand that life is not like a show were the girls are cute, have nice healthy bodies, are loyal, and have great personalities but i just cant lower them.

Help me please.

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>find a golddigger
That involves you actually having money to spend

>I also understand that life is not like a show were the girls are cute, have nice healthy bodies, are loyal, and have great personalities but i just cant lower them.
You're going to have to, because if you can't, you'll have a lonely, sexless life.

Youre 19

Grow a pair of balls and go to places drunk girls are.

>implying pulling drunk bitches fixes crippling self esteem issues
It just ends in no boner city. Ask me how I know.

Tell me your story user.

I'm just saying if you're as bad as OP getting a willing drunk chick doesn't fix your psychological issues. If anything it makes it worse.
There's no bullshit quick fix. OP has to work through not looking down on himself.

It just that a girl having a ugly face puts me off instantly. Im sorry I just cant lower my standards on respect to a girls face.

There is also the fact that Im paranoic of signing up real accounts on tinder and okcupid. And I also dont get how picking up girls in public is an option, since most of them are with their bfs or hanging out with friends.

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Anime is getting pretty realistic these days.

Listen to yourself. Why would any girl be attracted to such an insecure desperate whiner as you?

>OP is an awkward, unattractive loser but wants a cute girl with a great personality and body

Yeah, it's not going to happen, buddy.

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>OP is 19
>Most of my weeb friends have gfs for years already.
Bullshit.
>I cant watch anime because im jealous of all the guys exoeriencing their lovey dovey youth
Pathetic.
>I know i can just pay some whore or find a golddigger
You won't find a gold digger at 19, and paying a whore won't cure your feelings of virginity.
>i just cant lower them.
Lower what, your standards? You think the only options are a perfect anime waifu or a whore? Buddy. Grow the fuck up.

>It just that a girl having a ugly face puts me off instantly. Im sorry I just cant lower my standards on respect to a girls face.
God you're the worst kind of person. You think you have high standards, but all that seems to matter to you is the girl's face. You probably also think you can only fall for a girl after you've become friends with her.
Fact of the matter is that you don't have high standards at all. You're a coward who doesn't know how to get a date, and that's all there is to it.
>paranoic of signing up real accounts on tinder and okcupid
Why?
>I also dont get how picking up girls in public is an option
"Picking up" girls isn't an option, at least not for you. Meeting women in public is what you're supposed to do.
>most of them are with their bfs or hanging out with friends.
Women who are with their friends are much more approachable in a lot of situations. It's not just about your comfort level, but the girl's.

You think anime relationships are anything like real relationships? Holy fuck are you in for an unpleasant surprise.

>paranoic of signing up real accounts on tinder and okcupid
>Why?
Not OP but I'm paranoid about that too. I can't do that because if my friends find out about it will be such an embarrassment for me. I don't know why, but I'm generally scared of being judged by them.

>I can't do that because if my friends find out about it will be such an embarrassment for me.
Extremely unlikely. For them to find your Tinder account it means they have a Tinder themselves and were actually swiping through people of your gender, saw your profile, and took the time to actually look at it. Says a lot more about them being pathetic than you being hilarious.
Pretty similar situation for OKC, though OKC is kinda shit.

For real though user, your friends won't know if you don't tell them. And even if you do, the worst that'll happen is you'll get a little shit for it.

But still. I haven't posted a single picture of myself on FB like most of them do. It's just that I don't find my self attractive and shit, that's why I'd never sign up tinder account or whatever dating/sexing app there is. Even though I heard some girls calling me cute, but I just have a hard time trusting others, that's why I'm still alone. I have a crush, but I perfectly understand that I'm nothing more than a friend.

Fuck sex its nothing
I am virgin at 21 too so fucking what
I take pleasure in drugs and lucid dreaming, in sports and in art creation
Relationships are not even part of my life and I really couldn't care
I mean if the situation is right imma go for it but the world has so much more to offer...

>gotten to tge point that I cant watch anime because im jealous of all the guys exoeriencing their lovey dovey youth
Fucking cringe. this dude has it right.

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>I haven't posted a single picture of myself on FB like most of them do.
>It's just that I don't find my self attractive and shit
Getting over that is just part of growing up. I don't think I'm particularly attractive... but I'm not gay, so that should be kinda normal, don't you think?

In all seriousness, I hate that I was once like you. Being so chicken that you can't just put a random pic of yourself up? Seeing pics of yourself and thinking, "Oh god that's such a bad pic of me?" Shit makes you sound like a woman. You're not supposed to be hot as shit. Just put up a pic of yourself doing something you enjoy. Even if it's studying at the library.

Anyways I doubt that I'll ever do something like this. But still, thanks for advice.

You piece of shit pussy! You were the fastest of the sperm - you beat all the rest to waste your life!
Get over yourself, I didn't lose my virginity until 20, it was aweful she was some scummy smelly bitch I regret it. Find a focus in life, get a mission. Start some self improvement. No one will love you if you can't love yourself. Many people don't lose their virgininty and the fuckers that do are whores that are cheating on each other and trading incurable STI's, or having aweful sex.

>I DONT NEED IT REEEEE
>b-but if i could get it...

the cope is real.

>You piece of shit pussy! You were the fastest of the sperm - you beat all the rest to waste your life!

Factually untrue. It takes more than 1 sperm to break through the outside of the egg. You were the asshole that turned up late then took the credit for everyone elses work.

Just get past your fear of having pics of yourself on social media. It’s not as hard as you think, and it really pushes you past being a child in an adult’s body.

I'm terribly sorry, user, I'll write this as I would tell this to my former 19 years old self: you know nothing about relationship problems at that age, and even if young romance is a nice feeling your main task at that age first and foremost should be to get your shit together and get your life started.

Jow Forums is an amazing place with lots of generals to get you started. Go to fit and make yourself fit. Don't need to be a muscle head just get healthy. It'll make your mood better in general. Go to lit and read, widen your knowledge. Being able to talk about something other than weeb shit is an essential trait you'll need later on. This one is optional, but go to any other board, check the sticky and get into some other hobby. Try drawing or whatever. You have no idea how much freetime you have at that age, but you fuck it up on lamenting on stupid shit and wanking and watching anime. Try out as many things as you can and find what makes you happy. Girls will tag along on the way.

And yes. Anime romances are bullshit. I stopped watching animes when it got annoying how bullshit and unrealistic every character is. There are exceptions, but most of the time I get the feeling they are written by people who have never talked with real people, or just simply try to pander to your dick.

i can't beliiiieve what you're saying user

god dammit you're fucking 19 just wait for fucks sake. so impatient

I'm 21, have never fucked a girl and I know I'm not going to fuck one for years to come. I don't really care. Why do you care so much?

Worst advice ever, I was like op and am now 25 in the same situation but worse

Dude, do you ever meet with girls? Or do you spend your time NEETing?
Also, I'll repeat what an another user said, if you can't love yourself, it will be hard af to get in a relationship. And even if you did, insecurity will eat you and you'll end up fucking up your relationship.

What do you do when lucid dreaming every time I did it I flew like a bird at first and ended up fucking a chick I could think of.

I think you do this youtu.be/xWpEZguQE8E

Romance doesn't actually exist. Having a girlfriend is just like having a friend you can also fuck.

What manga is that? Looks comfy

Romance does exist. You're not wrong about the second part though

I've found it in 5 seconds with reverse image search. I know you can do it user, I believe in you

I'm on mobile! :(

>I'm on mobile! :(
Me too mate, just use Clover. Even if you can't, Google Chrome has the option to do it

I'm on clover, how do you do that from there? Either way I saved the image and Googled it but found nothing

Like this.
And the sauce is "the case of my dark elf wife"

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Thanks. Still can't find it to read though. Shame

You need to stop comparing yourself with others, and go see a shrink about your apparent depression. Try to focus on the things you have instead of the things you don't have - like, you still have your friends. Life's hard right now, but it is worth keep going. Some people find their love well into their 30s, you're 19 and have no rush anywhere yet. There is more to life than just a relationship, even though it is something you're definitely striving for.
You need to try to fix yourself up, because chances are that no one will appear in your life out of nowhere fix you. You have to work towards it yourself.
You can do it, user. I believe in you.

Change your mentality dude. Women fucking suck and having a girlfriend is an awful curse. Don't pretend like your boys don't complain about their gfs and don't pretend like they don't complain about the same things. There's no point in shackling yourself to some chick just because you're not happy with yourself. That's not the answer. Focus on improving your outlook and learning to take care of yourself. Don't go around inflating the egos of women by paying them attention, don't waste your time trying to cultivate anything except your own personal virtue dog.

Women are a fucking meme. Maybe you have to get into a relationship to realize it but they FUCKING SUCK dude. They will eat up your time, energy, money and in the end it's honestly a net negative. It is a curse. You're young and single which means you have endless potential to work for YOURSELF and do things for YOURSELF that YOU enjoy. If you get a GF you'll be working to make HER happy all the time and if you're not happy yourself it's going to be a shitstorm.

You fucken piece of shit. Go to the gym, get a nice car, good hygiene, nice apartment, good job, and see the nightlife. The women will come to you. Even the ones in Anime and Manga. You better fucken believe it!

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I was you two years ago Op

I'll tell you know, if you keep up with your inaction, it NEVER gets better. I sit in my room and jack off all day when I could be out bettering myself financially and physically.

However, it's understandable if you have a mental illness, which is what most of the normans on this board will ignore. People like you and I can't just waltz into a social situation and be successful. For example, I've got 300+ hours in VrChat, yet I've not made a single friend. I stand in the corner with my cool-ass model and say nothing, even though I want to join the conversations people are having. And when someone does approach me, I quickly scramble to my menu to change worlds.

It's terribly depressing, but what are you to do? Live. Don't let your inaction steal your youth away, don't end up like me.

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I can also relate to the anger at seeing couples. I can't even watch male x female porn, because I end up getting jealous of the guy having sex while I sit in my chair and watch like a cuck. The feeling can also be applied to whenever I see couples in public or online, or a group of people having fun. It makes me angry and dejected.

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